FabSwingers.com forum: Getting older

By *asual777 OP Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

How do you feel about getting older ?

I feel positive about it. Still have energy but with a bit more wisdom . I wasted so much time worrying when I was younger about nonsense like what others think of me ..

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By *eturn of Sir PumpsMan
over a year ago

outside banbridge

I'm more than happy about it believe I've got better with age and like you say Cas comes with the wisdom too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I only realised at 20 that others peoples opinion of me was none of my business. But as you say wisdom comes with age

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By *UBGUY8Man
over a year ago

Dublin

What's the alternative?????

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

I turner 50 in January and im feeling the best i ever have less fucks given and im doing more things for me than i ever have

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By *teppenwolfMan
over a year ago

Cork

Turned 50 few weeks ago.

Older the fiddle the sweeter the tune.

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By *exesrangerMan
over a year ago

North Cork

Well, I don't know what you boys are smoking, saying that you're OK with getting older cause I'm not one bit happy about it. I'll take my wisdom in other ways please. I'll gladly stay at the age I am now but I'm not going any further. So don't come to me on my birthday and say... here's another number for ya tex, cause I'm not having it.... its ridiculous now at this stage every bloody year they come round and on another number on us. Something needs to be done about it and the government are just sitting on their hands as usual

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

Personally I'm finding im more relaxed about most things,ive learned stressing over things especially the little things is pointless so I just go with the flow and always remain optimistic.

Embracing life ,the ups and the downs and being thankful for all I have especially my health

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

They don't call me Benjamin Button for nothing!

Oh, that almost rhymes

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town

"I turner 50 in January and im feeling the best i ever have less fucks given and im doing more things for me than i ever have

I thought the point of joining fab was to have more fucks given????

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By *ol_ieMan
over a year ago

Dublin west

No point in getting upset about it.

Can't do anything about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Youth is certainly wasted on the young, that's for sure

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

I'm turning 50 next Nov and I can't bloody wait bring it on lol

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Sure look....whats the alternate....death I suppose

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town

Not overly mad about it. Thought I'd have the whole marriage and kid thing done long ago, and feel that that ship has sailed. Always ended up in the wrong relationship

. But where I am is a result of decisions I made so can't complain or blame anyone else. So onwards and upwards. Can't wait to get my bus pass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As we all get that little bit older the shit we worried about when we were younger doesnt seem to matter anymore,saying that its my birthday today and i feel it every morning,roll on the old age pension..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found it to be a double edged sword.

Yes, there are benefits. I certainly worry less about what people think of me. I don't sweat the small stuff and I'm happy with the wisdom and insight that age & life experience has granted me.

Physically aging though is tougher. I don't mean my appearance - I'm still fairly youthful looking and could easily pass for a whole year younger

It's more the aches and pains, the progression of my osteoarthritis, my failing memory, and the physical impact menopause has had. I've found those things more difficult to handle. That in turn has an impact on my mental health which is a daily juggling act.

And while it's great to have the children up and at an age where they're fairly self sufficient, and to enjoy the freedom that brings, there's a whole new set of challenges to help them with - exams, university, their finances, relationships.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"As we all get that little bit older the shit we worried about when we were younger doesnt seem to matter anymore,saying that its my birthday today and i feel it every morning,roll on the old age pension..

Happy Birthday Willie ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To quote the great Clint Eastwood himself, when asked about how he keeps going at his

age he said” Don’t let the old man in”.

When I stop waking up in the morning with a hard on

I’ll know I’ve let him in lol

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By *imdm101Man
over a year ago

Galway

Getting older means I increasingly drop outside the upper age limits on a lot of profiles that I find myself attracted to. That's disappointing but other than that , getting old is inevitable, but I try to lessen the impact by taking action to stay fit and healthy. So far so good.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Happier, healthier and more confident than i've ever been ... and less f*cks given about the small things!

The one bit of advice though is to look after your health as you will reap the benefits tenfold both physically and mentally.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm afraid there are too many ageist people on Irish fab compared to the UK

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"I'm afraid there are too many ageist people on Irish fab compared to the UK

Is it not just a preference rather than ageism

Surely you have to accept that not everyone would want to meet older people on here

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town

"I'm afraid there are too many ageist people on Irish fab compared to the UK

Don't think I've ever seen an ageist comment on fab

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"I'm afraid there are too many ageist people on Irish fab compared to the UK

Don't think I've ever seen an ageist comment on fab "

That's probably because your eyesight is declining as a result of old age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy Birthday Willie x

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

"I'm afraid there are too many ageist people on Irish fab compared to the UK

Have to agree with you

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"Youth is certainly wasted on the young, that's for sure "

Not a wiser word spoken!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am feeling fine with that I need to say that age give me better look like George Clooney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What can anyone do about it ??? Exactly.. nothing...Just don't let the old person in ...do whatever you want ...wear whatever you want ..make no apologies to anyone for enjoying your life...we only have one..... whatever age we are health is THE most important thing ..never forget that.. everything else is only secondary and will fall into place..no regrets..

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By *entleman PoliteMan
over a year ago

Mars

Never felt better. Older you get. Wiser you are about everything.

Not expecting a long life so enjoying every second.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy Birthday Willie ...."
cheers bog man wheres my cake

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Happy Birthday Willie .... cheers bog man wheres my cake

Sure look I don't know where you're working today so I ate it

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

Happy birthday Willie, here’s the cake….

The single candle is a token representation, being tight for space and all…..

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By *he zephyrCouple
over a year ago

The Sol

"Well, I don't know what you boys are smoking, saying that you're OK with getting older cause I'm not one bit happy about it. I'll take my wisdom in other ways please. I'll gladly stay at the age I am now but I'm not going any further. So don't come to me on my birthday and say... here's another number for ya tex, cause I'm not having it.... its ridiculous now at this stage every bloody year they come round and on another number on us. Something needs to be done about it and the government are just sitting on their hands as usual"

Yeah

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By *otownkid1967Man
over a year ago

Portlaoise

I'm loving life here in my mid 50s and wouldn't change a thing. Sex is better than ever,life is good. I feel great .

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By *huCullainMan
over a year ago

Rathowen

Things only got better since turning the big 5-0.

Sex is way better. Don't give a fiddler's what anyone thinks of me anymore. Good job with loads of time off. Nice place on my own in the country. Life is good.

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By *weet soul sisterWoman
over a year ago

City Centre / Lusk

I feel ok about it. I was more concerned in my 30's about aging than I am now in my 40's. My sex drive has definitely increased with age.. Lets hope it stays that way.. I just go with it now..

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By *weet soul sisterWoman
over a year ago

City Centre / Lusk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything tastes better

Everything

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By *lexa coxTV/TS
over a year ago

Strabane

I just dont give a shit about what people think anymore I live life to the full and enjoy every minute

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By *LIVEANDKICKING100Man
over a year ago

DUBLIN

I'm a young man trapped in the body of an older man!

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