FabSwingers.com forum: Anticlimax

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok we all know about the big build up to a meet

What about the let down after a meet is 1.done and dusted

2.cancelled

3.complete disaster

Best ways to anticipate these disasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I'm that disappointed any more if it gets cancelled.

I'm usually quite satisfied and Cheshire Cat like after..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have not been disappointed and than hoping for a re run could have unfinished business to do .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hmmm unfinished business yep I have lots of that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you have to be realistic and have a thick skin.

This is basically a nsa site, expecting repeats is unrealistic. If it happens great, if it doesn't move on.

If that's really what you are looking for try plenty of fish, that's a dating site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think you have to be realistic and have a thick skin.

This is basically a nsa site, expecting repeats is unrealistic. If it happens great, if it doesn't move on.

If that's really what you are looking for try plenty of fish, that's a dating site."

Lol thanks chicken so don't want a date hehehe

It's more of a thought that the anticipation leading up to a meet is a buzz a great buzz

Once meet is done that buzz is gone and it takes a bit of time to find another target if u get my meaning

The lack of a buzz is the anticlimax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you have to be realistic and have a thick skin.

This is basically a nsa site, expecting repeats is unrealistic. If it happens great, if it doesn't move on.

If that's really what you are looking for try plenty of fish, that's a dating site.

Lol thanks chicken so don't want a date hehehe

It's more of a thought that the anticipation leading up to a meet is a buzz a great buzz

Once meet is done that buzz is gone and it takes a bit of time to find another target if u get my meaning

The lack of a buzz is the anticlimax "

well i always get a buzz when youre on :D:D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you have to be realistic and have a thick skin.

This is basically a nsa site, expecting repeats is unrealistic. If it happens great, if it doesn't move on.

If that's really what you are looking for try plenty of fish, that's a dating site."

I disagree. I have had plenty of repeat meets on here and know many others that have had them so to say unrealistic is silly. I have a fuckbuddy because and know many others that have. Yes its not a dating site (although people have treated it like one) but i don't think having a laugh and such during a meet makes it a date.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not saying it doesn't happen. I've had several repeats also.

What I'm saying is you shouldn't go into it expecting that or you open yourself up to disappointment. If it happens, it happens. If it doesn't don't take it as a personal insult.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't this personally but i don't see what your getting at with your orginal post. Sorry just a bit thick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think wat chicken saying the build up to a meet the mailing etc than after the meet, you may or never hear from them again just don't take it personally cause of the nature of the site, and if you expect more maybe this is not the site for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh right thanks for the clear up. Well you'll hear from them if it was a good meet i've always found. Hence why i always think coffee meets are always good before anything else. Maybe its just the way i was introduced to swinging. No judgement of a person unless their lying to you. Too much of that in the vanilla world no point bringing such things on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see where your coming from with the coffee meet, first !!! And if no connection at least get a coffee and maybe a cream cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have had great meets n wen repeated they r not as good but there r a good few we have had n repeated n they r brilliant those great repeats r the reason we wud meet them again at drop of a hat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can see where your coming from with the coffee meet, first !!! And if no connection at least get a coffee and maybe a cream cake

Exactly

what is it with women, coffee meets and cream lately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

C'mon what lady dont like cream with there coffee....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I love cream with anything but sadly seems to be a shortage of cream lately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you have to be realistic and have a thick skin.

This is basically a nsa site, expecting repeats is unrealistic. If it happens great, if it doesn't move on.

If that's really what you are looking for try plenty of fish, that's a dating site."

totally disagree!!!most of the guys i met on here ive met more than once!just cos u meet sumone a few times doesnt mean u want a realationship with them,thts rubbish!just means u have gud sex!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think you have to be realistic and have a thick skin.

This is basically a nsa site, expecting repeats is unrealistic. If it happens great, if it doesn't move on.

If that's really what you are looking for try plenty of fish, that's a dating site.

totally disagree!!!most of the guys i met on here ive met more than once!just cos u meet sumone a few times doesnt mean u want a realationship with them,thts rubbish!just means u have gud sex!"

Exactly sugar thank u for pointing that out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you have to be realistic and have a thick skin.

This is basically a nsa site, expecting repeats is unrealistic. If it happens great, if it doesn't move on.

If that's really what you are looking for try plenty of fish, that's a dating site.

totally disagree!!!most of the guys i met on here ive met more than once!just cos u meet sumone a few times doesnt mean u want a realationship with them,thts rubbish!just means u have gud sex!"

Oh watch it sugar you just disagreed with thatopinion. You might get told the thread doesn't benefit the site. Saying that neither does talking about the fucking weather

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree, the buzz can certainly stay alive with a fuck buddy,

Once ur not meeting too frequently

Can get very tender down there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had some fantastic repeat meets, even better than the first. The anticipation of knowing him and the things he can do to your body.. Shiver.. Mmm

But I do get that the buzz and excitement that you feel coming up to a meet is just addictive! It's like you're permanently horny and I've been told I get a look in my eyes..

I could do with a man to spark up my imagination and engine!

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