FabSwingers.com forum: help from all

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi there, my names Pete and I have been involved in the swinging scene on and off for a few years.

Basically I have started writing a book about Northern Irelands shame towards sex. This is being written from the aspect of a swinger and is trying to show an open mind and remove the negative of anything sex related is swinging, escorts, sex shops, dating sites.

What I am hoping to get help with is peoples personal experiences. I don't mean graphic or intimate details. Simply how you got into it, why you did etc also the pro's and cons of it and how it has impacted in your life and how you would like it to progress.

I am interested in hearing from everyone male, female, couples, tv's, bi, straight, gay it doesn't matter.

Your confidentiality is assured and all participants can proof read it all. I do not need photographs or personal details.

I am sick of the general backwards attitude to sex in this country so would like to present a balanced argument for change as opposed to the media portraying us as some social low lives.

Thanks in advance

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pete I am puggled. You say you want to write a balanced book but you say the title is going to be Northern Irelands Shame towards sex.

Sounds like you are starting the book in one corner rather than in the middle of the road.....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No sorry if that came over confusing. What I meant was the book will try and deal with the negative view the majority have by giving the positives from those actually involved