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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm sorry to say it's lucky to be once a month, never on a school night, always last thing at night....

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

I asked a person a question once, they're answer was, "It's like sex, little & often".

So going by that once a month isn't enough or very often either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depending on which wife I’m with but Tuesday and Thursday oh and Sunday are all very very good too me

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

We just go for it every damm chance we get.. and we do get the chances..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We just go for it every damm chance we get.. and we do get the chances.. "
ah newly weds....we're all jealous

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

"We just go for it every damm chance we get.. and we do get the chances.. ah newly weds....we're all jealous

Ya, true

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

We're not married - hence every chance we get and I ain't planning on ruining that

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

"I'm sorry to say it's lucky to be once a month, never on a school night, always last thing at night...."

Should also have said once a month is better than nothing at all. Like a lot of single people.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

We're married almost 16 years and we still have it usually on a daily basis

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depending on which wife I’m with but Tuesday and Thursday oh and Sunday are all very very good too me"

Oh I wish.....

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

"We're married almost 16 years and we still have it usually on a daily basis "

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Used to be several times a week 3/4. Now that much a year if lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depending on which wife I’m with but Tuesday and Thursday oh and Sunday are all very very good too me

Oh I wish....."

I have fourteen wife’s two camels and one goat I love too eat them all I’m not looking for Pamela any more

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Does it really need to be said on every forum post we make but keep the replies to the forum and not pm as it just annoys

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

"Does it really need to be said on every forum post we make but keep the replies to the forum and not pm as it just annoys "

Are ye getting DM's from people on what ye're putting on the forum?

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

"Depending on which wife I’m with but Tuesday and Thursday oh and Sunday are all very very good too me

Oh I wish.....

I have fourteen wife’s two camels and one goat I love too eat them all I’m not looking for Pamela any more "

You must be the King of the people's republic of Cork, I take it?

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By *ifewantstoplayCouple
over a year ago

somewhere

Lots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depending on which wife I’m with but Tuesday and Thursday oh and Sunday are all very very good too me

Oh I wish.....

I have fourteen wife’s two camels and one goat I love too eat them all I’m not looking for Pamela any more

You must be the King of the people's republic of Cork, I take it?

Yes I eat berry well

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

"Lots

Lucky bustard. Gorgeous wife

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

"Lots

Lucky bastard. Gorgeous wife

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lots

I'm jealous lol

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

"Depending on which wife I’m with but Tuesday and Thursday oh and Sunday are all very very good too me

Oh I wish.....

I have fourteen wife’s two camels and one goat I love too eat them all I’m not looking for Pamela any more

You must be the King of the people's republic of Cork, I take it?

Yes I eat berry well "

I bet you do Boi.

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By *hymanforfunMan
over a year ago

athy

Once so far this

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

"Lots

Lucky bustard. Gorgeous wife"

Isn't that true.

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

"Lots

I'm jealous lol"

Your not the only one,believe me

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By *ixie and dixie2022Couple
over a year ago

villiage

"Depending on which wife I’m with but Tuesday and Thursday oh and Sunday are all very very good too me

Oh I wish.....

I have fourteen wife’s two camels and one goat I love too eat them all I’m not looking for Pamela any more "
have you enough hay for the rest of the year

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By *hymanforfunMan
over a year ago

athy

Once so far this year so not very often ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe twice a year if I’m lucky

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By *appyhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

All the time,any chance we get,

I snuck home from work at lunchtime recently,and we’d a hot session in the kitchen.

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Best lunch hour I've heard about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm it always seems sex is rare after a few years of marriage and never enough fir the guys on the relationship.

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Ours was fine until circumstances stopped it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots

Lucky bustard. Gorgeous wife"

I’m not known if it’s Tuesday or Wednesday you speak of

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Easy going, take either day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm sorry to say it's lucky to be once a month, never on a school night, always last thing at night...."

It's my pet hate .. that's all I'm going to say,hence why I'm om fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've killed 3 threads.. go me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Easy going, take either day."

I shall be going too send Saturday she ugly but horney

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By *rystalsswingCouple
over a year ago

Galway

Are Tuesday Wednesday Thursday even days?!

Monday mornings always good for me for some reason

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

"Easy going, take either day.

I shall be going too send Saturday she ugly but horney "

Sold my good man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots

Lucky bustard. Gorgeous wife"

Very true, she is unreal been looking at there profile this while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex treated it like a reward , it definitely wasn't.

What a waste of a few years

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

The crux of this issue is that the libido of each party in a sexually active relationship has to be roughly equal; which can range on a continuum from never having any form of sexual contact, ever, and being happy with that, to the situation where sex takes place multiple times daily, and being happy to express their rampant libidinousness .

Compatibility is the crux.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're not married - hence every chance we get and I ain't planning on ruining that

Don't ruin it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marital sex ? So many things are in the mix , it all depends on the situation, great sex goes out the window.. fairly fast too... if the proper attention and attitude isn't applied,a female..yes a female... once told me that the 2 highest things a woman holds over a guy are Sex & Money ..." He didn't put the bins out this morning. ..so lm not gonna suck his cock tonight " .. Marital Sex ? ..be careful what you wish for .

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I think average is once a week. However it's not a chore and there's no single answer to it.

Op, you've to ask yourself op where it goes wrong. That includes to have a critical look at yourself starting with your involvement in running the household/kids over changes in looks, behaviour and habits, up to your sexual skills.

There's so many factors that can influence your sex life - communication is key.

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Maybe she thinks you're crap in bed

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By *osyRedLipsWoman
over a year ago

Kildare

God I don't miss marital sex his idea of romance was dipping his dick in the sink beforehand.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"God I don't miss marital sex his idea of romance was dipping his dick in the sink beforehand. "

The big romantic fool....hope he took the dishes out first

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
over a year ago

kinkytown

Average for us is twice a week maybe three times if we aren't wrecked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"God I don't miss marital sex his idea of romance was dipping his dick in the sink beforehand. "

The sink? I won't even ask...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe she thinks you're crap in bed"

Ouch....

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By *overs65Couple
over a year ago

mullingar

Still hot for us after 29yrs married, 5/6 week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once a quarter

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

It matter not how often, unless there is an inbalance.

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By *ltered EgoMan
over a year ago

not a million miles from the airport.

Coming up on 3 years ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Coming up on 3 years ...

Wow

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By *ockney1981Man
over a year ago

Llandysul

Almost a year and a half now

that’s why I’m on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Almost a year and a half now

that’s why I’m on here. "

Why'd she give up on sex....

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By *ockney1981Man
over a year ago

Llandysul

"Almost a year and a half now

that’s why I’m on here.

Why'd she give up on sex.... "

We had a baby girl and she’s blaming it on the fact she has put on weight, which doesn’t bother me at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 years in December!!!!

Got to the stage where I don't even bother looking for it now.

Plus it's too boring with her since I've experienced alternative ideas

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By *heBlowinsCouple
over a year ago

West Cork

"Almost a year and a half now

that’s why I’m on here.

Why'd she give up on sex....

We had a baby girl and she’s blaming it on the fact she has put on weight, which doesn’t bother me at all."

That's a tough one.. you might not be bothered but her libido could have taken a nosedive as a result of post-birth, energy drainage due to mothering, and genuinely not feeling sexy in her own skin (hugely important)

It can be difficult for guys as we often take the stance, "but you look hot to ME!" but it isn't all about us.

Best of luck to ya mate

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West

There is no "correct amount" answer to this question, though.

It very much depends on the relationship and the intimacy between you both outside of the bedroom.

We could have sex once a week, 3 nights in row or maybe not for a fortnight or more. But it's irrelevant to us really.

We live busy lives with work and family, both need to understand each others situation. But intimacy outside the bedroom is key!

Nearly all ladies go through periods of low libido, particularly after birth etc. Some may need medical advice/help for this.

One piece of advice to all Lads: If you're doing fuck all around the house, you can expect to get fuck all in bed!!...Sounds simple but, mop that floor, hoover the house, put a wash on, put away that basket of clothes, make the lunches....Because if she has to do all that, all the time, she won't have the energy or interest for you!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"There is no "correct amount" answer to this question, though.

It very much depends on the relationship and the intimacy between you both outside of the bedroom.

We could have sex once a week, 3 nights in row or maybe not for a fortnight or more. But it's irrelevant to us really.

We live busy lives with work and family, both need to understand each others situation. But intimacy outside the bedroom is key!

Nearly all ladies go through periods of low libido, particularly after birth etc. Some may need medical advice/help for this.

Jaysus, the lazy hoors will have nothing to do if we do all that for them!

My wife is fierce dirty around the house. Every time I go to piss in the sink I find it full of unwashed dishes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Almost a year and a half now

that’s why I’m on here.

Why'd she give up on sex....

We had a baby girl and she’s blaming it on the fact she has put on weight, which doesn’t bother me at all.

It can be difficult for guys as we often take the stance, "but you look hot to ME!" but it isn't all about us.

Best of luck to ya mate

And I'd say it's a story that is more common in society than we'd have thought. Rings true in my situation as well. Difficult to overcome and fab is definitely a useful outlet.

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By *o strings but a G-stringMan
over a year ago

city

I used have it as often as possible with a wife I worked with.... she just wasnt my wife... 7 times on one shift was our record

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By *ereus3Couple
over a year ago

Dundalk

"Still hot for us after 29yrs married, 5/6 week "
yep this pretty much sums us up too but between 3-5 times depending on visitors and work. Not bad after 40 years

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By *apri 555Man
over a year ago

wexford or Dublin

Were married 22 years next month and if im honest it was few and far between when kids were younger and life got in the way, but for the last 2 years its every chance we get ,average 3 times a week and its better than it ever was,

Not so bad for 32 years together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish fab was around in my 20s .. just saying

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By *acd03Man
over a year ago

Naughtyville

"I wish fab was around in my 20s .. just saying

Classic

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By *rishVikingMan
over a year ago

Shankill

"I wish fab was around in my 20s .. just saying

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same ahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish fab was around in my 20s .. just saying

same ahah"

Its the god honest truth .. anyway goodnight all x

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By *acd03Man
over a year ago

Naughtyville

"I wish fab was around in my 20s .. just saying

same ahah

Its the god honest truth .. anyway goodnight all x "

Night Lou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wish fab was around in my 20s .. just saying

same ahah

Its the god honest truth .. anyway goodnight all x

Night Lou

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

"I wish fab was around in my 20s .. just saying

same ahah

Its the god honest truth .. anyway goodnight all x

Night Lou

Good night Lou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So who has used the martial bed with someone else ????

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By *ultry ZaraCouple
over a year ago

dublin

Everyday for us , comes home at lunch & we fuck , then again when he's home & usually at end of night . We married 29yrs n its still Hot Sex like the beginning. Only time its less than that is if either of us are pissed off( normal marital stuff lol) Or if one is sick , the other is gagging by the time the other recovers. Have to say its still like it was when we 1st met but even more fun since joining Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s brilliant you guys are extremely lucky to have each other

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By *ultry ZaraCouple
over a year ago

dublin

"That’s brilliant you guys are extremely lucky to have each other "

Awh tk u, ye we been lucky as to have not lost the spark, guess even b4 Fab we were adventerous & never had just bedroom sex , anywhere & everwhere. And guess when each partner is kind n loving, helping etc ...sex just flows naturally!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I could say the same for us

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By *ultry ZaraCouple
over a year ago

dublin

"Wish I could say the same for us "

Dont get me wrong as someone already said about having kids, when ours were small i now see how the kids got more attention than himself unconsiously but thats been motherly !! So back then it would have been less say 3 times a week...now that kids are grown its like we both found our freedom & lust again for one another. So stick with it , sometimes theres more beneath the surface

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wish I could say the same for us

Happy days , glad you’ve your freedom again and both having fun

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