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By *immy123456888 OP   Man
over a year ago

city

Why do some guys ruin it for others on fab lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cause they dicks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s what we do…

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By *anther PurrrsWoman
over a year ago

the Shadows Purrring or Roaring

Cause they dunno the definition of swing and sure it’s a sex site

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

They don't, they just ruin it for themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their everywhere you go never need bring one with you

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Plenty of women are absolute areseholes to others on here, doesn't ruin it for me

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

I'm on here a fair few years and no fella has ruined it for me...

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

It's a form of inverted white knighting directed at your own gender.

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By *immy123456888 OP   Man
over a year ago

city

I pretty sure I would have lots of fun with the ladies on here if other guys weren't spoiling it for me.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"I pretty sure I would have lots of fun with the ladies on here if other guys weren't spoiling it for me."

You'd be knee deep in fanny and beating them off with a stick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they cant understand the word no thanks.then they get thick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I pretty sure I would have lots of fun with the ladies on here if other guys weren't spoiling it for me."

My sole purpose on here is to prevent you getting a meet!

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Why do some guys ruin it for others on fab lol"

Have you responded yet from your usual account?

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By *immy123456888 OP   Man
over a year ago

city

Not much wonder the ladies don't want anything to do with guys on here. Because the guys have their dicks hanging out and the ladies on fab don't like dicks aren't I right ladies.

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By *immy123456888 OP   Man
over a year ago

city


"Why do some guys ruin it for others on fab lol

Have you responded yet from your usual account?"

?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Bastards!!

Infamy!

Y'all have it infamy.

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By *amsevenMan
over a year ago

cork

I'm only here to ruin it for myself.. and that kerry lot. Fupping backstards ted

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland


"Why do some guys ruin it for others on fab lol"

Its a myth ,they don't!

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By *ohng69Man
over a year ago

athenry


"Why do some guys ruin it for others on fab lol"

It's always someone else's fault

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By *lmo71Man
over a year ago

Southside

Dunno what I'm doing wrong can't even get a reply lol

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town

Guys ruin it for themselves. If you go into a pub with your face covered and whip your lad out at every lady you meet telling them you are horny you would piss a lot of people off. Why would you think it's any different here.

Other guys aren't stopping you from going to socials

Other guys aren't filling in your profile (I'd hope)

Other guys aren't stopping you from making an effort

There was a thread advertising a social for newbies, great idea. Fair play to the OP of that thread for organising that. However there didn't seem to be a lot of interest, at least on the thread, from single guys. Just lads moaning about how far away it was.

MAKE AN EFFORT. It's how to meet people here

If you can't prioritise a social for one night out of your lives, why are you here.

Sorry someone must've p*ssed in my porridge this morning. I'll be back to myself after lunch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys ruin it for themselves. If you go into a pub with your face covered and whip your lad out at every lady you meet telling them you are horny you would piss a lot of people off. Why would you think it's any different here.

Other guys aren't stopping you from going to socials

Other guys aren't filling in your profile (I'd hope)

Other guys aren't stopping you from making an effort

There was a thread advertising a social for newbies, great idea. Fair play to the OP of that thread for organising that. However there didn't seem to be a lot of interest, at least on the thread, from single guys. Just lads moaning about how far away it was.

MAKE AN EFFORT. It's how to meet people here

If you can't prioritise a social for one night out of your lives, why are you here.

Sorry someone must've p*ssed in my porridge this morning. I'll be back to myself after lunch "

It was probably a man

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By *ofistimacatedMan
over a year ago

cavan town


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Sorry someone must've p*ssed in my porridge this morning. I'll be back to myself after lunch

It was probably a man "

Probably sure men ruin everything for other guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys ruin it for themselves. If you go into a pub with your face covered and whip your lad out at every lady you meet telling them you are horny you would piss a lot of people off. Why would you think it's any different here.

Other guys aren't stopping you from going to socials

Other guys aren't filling in your profile (I'd hope)

Other guys aren't stopping you from making an effort

There was a thread advertising a social for newbies, great idea. Fair play to the OP of that thread for organising that. However there didn't seem to be a lot of interest, at least on the thread, from single guys. Just lads moaning about how far away it was.

MAKE AN EFFORT. It's how to meet people here

If you can't prioritise a social for one night out of your lives, why are you here.

Sorry someone must've p*ssed in my porridge this morning. I'll be back to myself after lunch "

Yesss!! Say it louder for the blank profiles in the back

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By *immy123456888 OP   Man
over a year ago

city

I'm just feed up with the carry on from single men here. Making it almost impossible for a good guy like myself to get the ride here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send pics of cake , promise cake , make everything about cake.

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By *immy123456888 OP   Man
over a year ago

city


"Send pics of cake , promise cake , make everything about cake."
Yes but you just can't have your cake and eat it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just feed up with the carry on from single men here. Making it almost impossible for a good guy like myself to get the ride here."

Genuine curiosity here OP, excuse my ignorance, as the female half of a couple who mainly meet women I don’t know the challenges that single men on here face - what behaviours are single guys on here engaging in specifically that is making women not want to meet you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgive me but it seems like it’s veering into virtue signalling territory

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By *immy123456888 OP   Man
over a year ago

city


"I'm just feed up with the carry on from single men here. Making it almost impossible for a good guy like myself to get the ride here.

Genuine curiosity here OP, excuse my ignorance, as the female half of a couple who mainly meet women I don’t know the challenges that single men on here face - what behaviours are single guys on here engaging in specifically that is making women not want to meet you? "

Ah jazus they are flashing dicks all over the place and talking dirty and sex the ladies don't want anything like that here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Send pics of cake , promise cake , make everything about cake. Yes but you just can't have your cake and eat it."

Oh deary me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just feed up with the carry on from single men here. Making it almost impossible for a good guy like myself to get the ride here.

Genuine curiosity here OP, excuse my ignorance, as the female half of a couple who mainly meet women I don’t know the challenges that single men on here face - what behaviours are single guys on here engaging in specifically that is making women not want to meet you? Ah jazus they are flashing dicks all over the place and talking dirty and sex the ladies don't want anything like that here."

What has that got to do with you tho? Surely that would make it so much easier for a lovely lad like urself!

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I'm trying to think

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By *immy123456888 OP   Man
over a year ago

city


"I'm just feed up with the carry on from single men here. Making it almost impossible for a good guy like myself to get the ride here.

Genuine curiosity here OP, excuse my ignorance, as the female half of a couple who mainly meet women I don’t know the challenges that single men on here face - what behaviours are single guys on here engaging in specifically that is making women not want to meet you? Ah jazus they are flashing dicks all over the place and talking dirty and sex the ladies don't want anything like that here.

What has that got to do with you tho? Surely that would make it so much easier for a lovely lad like urself!"

Ah no because the poor wee ladies think that everyman is the same and chasing after them with their dick hanging out.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Forgive me but it seems like it’s veering into virtue signalling territory "

Click the green arrow

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"I'm just feed up with the carry on from single men here. Making it almost impossible for a good guy like myself to get the ride here.

Genuine curiosity here OP, excuse my ignorance, as the female half of a couple who mainly meet women I don’t know the challenges that single men on here face - what behaviours are single guys on here engaging in specifically that is making women not want to meet you? Ah jazus they are flashing dicks all over the place and talking dirty and sex the ladies don't want anything like that here.

What has that got to do with you tho? Surely that would make it so much easier for a lovely lad like urself! Ah no because the poor wee ladies think that everyman is the same and chasing after them with their dick hanging out."

Jeasus you don't seem to think much of ladies being able to think for themselves do you. ?

Your maintaining all woman on here are incapable of sorting the shit from the rest !

Thats a dim view of women tbh

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By *immy123456888 OP   Man
over a year ago

city


"I'm just feed up with the carry on from single men here. Making it almost impossible for a good guy like myself to get the ride here.

Genuine curiosity here OP, excuse my ignorance, as the female half of a couple who mainly meet women I don’t know the challenges that single men on here face - what behaviours are single guys on here engaging in specifically that is making women not want to meet you? Ah jazus they are flashing dicks all over the place and talking dirty and sex the ladies don't want anything like that here.

What has that got to do with you tho? Surely that would make it so much easier for a lovely lad like urself! Ah no because the poor wee ladies think that everyman is the same and chasing after them with their dick hanging out.

Jeasus you don't seem to think much of ladies being able to think for themselves do you. ?

Your maintaining all woman on here are incapable of sorting the shit from the rest !

Thats a dim view of women tbh "

Ah jazus no the ladies are all lovely and innocent and don't want to be looking at dicks dangling all over the place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm just feed up with the carry on from single men here. Making it almost impossible for a good guy like myself to get the ride here."

Calling yourself a good guy is a massive red flag

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

All I do is send them dick pictures and I'm drowning in clunge over here. It is a beautiful dick though, so that probably explains it.

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By *immy123456888 OP   Man
over a year ago

city

But sure you know that the ladies here just don't like dick so why scare the poor little angels with big ugly dicks.

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By *immy123456888 OP   Man
over a year ago

city


"I'm just feed up with the carry on from single men here. Making it almost impossible for a good guy like myself to get the ride here.

Calling yourself a good guy is a massive red flag "

But I am a genuine good guy I don't go flashing my 8 inches in the poor little ladies face's an scaring the bejasus out of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Redder than red square on mayday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some guys ruin it for others on fab lol

Have you responded yet from your usual account?"

caught rotten!

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By *immy123456888 OP   Man
over a year ago

city


"Why do some guys ruin it for others on fab lol

Have you responded yet from your usual account?

caught rotten!"

Please explain

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

What I'm noticing, with being on Fab. It's more to do with luck, than anything else. I'm not saying that what other men, has done or doesn't do, have an effect on other men, on here. It's up to everybody to make an effort men, Women & Couples.

You not having a profile picture, doesn't help you. If your that good at picking up women, another man with there dick out, shouldn't affect your chances.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Why do some guys ruin it for others on fab lol

Have you responded yet from your usual account?

caught rotten! Please explain "

So you can tell the teacher ?

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By *j TruckerMan
over a year ago

monaghan

Too many that can take no for an answer and turn into keyboard Warriors

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By *immy123456888 OP   Man
over a year ago

city


"Why do some guys ruin it for others on fab lol

Have you responded yet from your usual account?

caught rotten! Please explain

So you can tell the teacher ? "

Jazus stop the talking in riddles will ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why ?...it's a great great song...

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By *immy123456888 OP   Man
over a year ago

city


"Why ?...it's a great great song... "
Why me. That would be a great Eurovision song.

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

They don’t ruin it

They make it better

The more dicks there are the more sex is left if you don’t act like one

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"Why do some guys ruin it for others on fab lol"

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I know Op, they give us genuine nice guys looking for romance a bad rap. Feckers the lot of them

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By *immy123456888 OP   Man
over a year ago

city


"Why do some guys ruin it for others on fab lol

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I know Op, they give us genuine nice guys looking for romance a bad rap. Feckers the lot of them "

I know it's just so annoying it really gets makes my blood boil.

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By *xplicitMan
over a year ago

donegal

Down with this sort of thing.

.. and repetition, down with it too

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By *oe Cool xxxMan
over a year ago

South Dublin

Let’s go on strike , no cock for anyone!!

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By *ewCoupl01Couple
over a year ago

South Dublin

I see this sentiment in threads and posts pretty often, I hadn’t really had to deal with it as we normally have filters on but while Paul’s been away for an extended time with work I’ve had my filters off and I’ve honestly been pleasantly surprised.

Although I’ve stated in my posts that I’m not looking for a guy to play with, A lot still came through. (which I’m sure would annoy some people) but 99% of those that have responded to my posts have been nothing but polite and respectful. I was apprehensive about replying and saying that I’m not interested but when I did, I got like 2 shit posts back and the rest were grand.

Have I just been very lucky here or have things calmed down on this front on fab?

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"I see this sentiment in threads and posts pretty often, I hadn’t really had to deal with it as we normally have filters on but while Paul’s been away for an extended time with work I’ve had my filters off and I’ve honestly been pleasantly surprised.

Although I’ve stated in my posts that I’m not looking for a guy to play with, A lot still came through. (which I’m sure would annoy some people) but 99% of those that have responded to my posts have been nothing but polite and respectful. I was apprehensive about replying and saying that I’m not interested but when I did, I got like 2 shit posts back and the rest were grand.

Have I just been very lucky here or have things calmed down on this front on fab?"

Nope, you're not the only one . I've rarely gotten rudeness/abuse when I was on my single's profile (Mrs here). I can't really speak for the couple's profile as we have single men filtered so they can't contact us but in times gone by, when the filters were open, we've never gotten rudeness or abuse from anyone .

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By *apri 555Man
over a year ago

wexford or Dublin

If they are dickheads on here you can be sure they are dickheads off here,ya get them every where,,just make the rest of us look better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's why I don't talk to anyone here plenty of arseholes on here not just men but a lot of women too. I'm an arseholes on here but I can admit it

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"It's why I don't talk to anyone here plenty of arseholes on here not just men but a lot of women too. I'm an arseholes on here but I can admit it"

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Good comment mate and in the words of a wise Sage once said to me at a bar:

"See there are three kinds of people: dicks, pussies and assholes. Pussies think everyone can get along and dicks just want to fuck all the time without thinking it through. But then you got your assholes. And all the assholes want is to shit all over everything. So pussies may get mad at dicks once in a while because, pussies get fucked by dicks. But dicks also fuck assholes! And if they didn't fuck the assholes, you know what you'd get? You'd get your dick and your pussy all covered in shit!"

My name is Gary and what was said to me by a wise old man once, I'm passing onto to you now Grasshopper

Be the flame not the firefly and..

Be the dick not the arsehole

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"It's why I don't talk to anyone here plenty of arseholes on here not just men but a lot of women too. I'm an arseholes on here but I can admit it

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Good comment mate and in the words of a wise Sage once said to me at a bar:

"See there are three kinds of people: dicks, pussies and assholes. Pussies think everyone can get along and dicks just want to fuck all the time without thinking it through. But then you got your assholes. And all the assholes want is to shit all over everything. So pussies may get mad at dicks once in a while because, pussies get fucked by dicks. But dicks also fuck assholes! And if they didn't fuck the assholes, you know what you'd get? You'd get your dick and your pussy all covered in shit!"

My name is Gary and what was said to me by a wise old man once, I'm passing onto to you now Grasshopper

Be the flame not the firefly and..

Be the dick not the arsehole "

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"If they are dickheads on here you can be sure they are dickheads off here,ya get them every where,,just make the rest of us look better "

It really dosnt ... unless you believe the woman on here judge everyone based on shitty experiences.... and it is obvious by most replies to this regurgitated topic that they clearly don't

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By *obshortMan
over a year ago

Cork

Definitely had one or two guy ruin things for me.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Definitely had one or two guy ruin things for me. "

Care to elaborate

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