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By *olverine OP   Man
over a year ago

ennis

So what things in your life that you thought you would have achieved but can't see it happening now..

For me it's getting married thought I would have but can't see it happening now..so off with ye..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing

I've overachieved

I always knew I would never marry or have children, it didn't interest me.

I could die happy tomorrow - there's honestly nothing I haven't done that I wish to do. It's been a wild ride but no regrets

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By *amsevenMan
over a year ago

cork

Good on you Geordie. Go you

Don't write yourself off yet op. Mick o dwyer got married recently for 2nd time. He's in his 80s I think.

Me I thought I'd have kids by now but such is life. I also assumed I'd have a zetor crystal 14145 by now but there's time yet

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

Ballsbridge, City Centre

Home ownership

Worked hard to get a good job so I could set myself up and get a house unfortunately it’s not going to work out that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Home ownership

Worked hard to get a good job so I could set myself up and get a house unfortunately it’s not going to work out that way"
plenty of time to achieve that yet, don't lose hope

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Live forever.

Then again, maybe I have sorted it?

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city

Ive achieved everything i set out to do. Sometimes, i didn't have a plan, but it worked out well anyway. Next step is to teach what I know. I have a vague plan...

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By *oe Cool xxxMan
over a year ago

South Dublin

Get a reply on fab and meet and gal that not up her own arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get a reply on fab and meet and gal that not up her own arse "

Yup! That, and marriage, kids, home ownership.

Not that I particularly wanted those things

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Home ownership

Worked hard to get a good job so I could set myself up and get a house unfortunately it’s not going to work out that way plenty of time to achieve that yet, don't lose hope "

And consider changing the parameters... maybe your looking in the wrong country

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Having a really nice garden with flowers and plants and stuff

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By *olverine OP   Man
over a year ago

ennis


"Home ownership

Worked hard to get a good job so I could set myself up and get a house unfortunately it’s not going to work out that way"
working on my site right now...time yet..

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By *ildGroverMan
over a year ago

rathfarnham

The recession delayed certain milestones but they are still possible.

I am am however never going to play for United

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"The recession delayed certain milestones but they are still possible.

I am am however never going to play for United "

Don't give up...Leeds might need all the help they can get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what things in your life that you thought you would have achieved but can't see it happening now..

For me it's getting married thought I would have but can't see it happening now..so off with ye.."

Thought I'd have a better job than what I have but doesn't seem to have held me back own 2 houses 2 cars have a kid sure what else do you need

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Parallel parking no problems parking two dicks in my vagina but parallel parking not a chance I just keep driving

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By *lue eyesMan
over a year ago

cavan

It's not all about over achieving either sometimes you have to stand back,look and think to yourself their are always people alot worse off and be thankful for what you have especially if you are happy in life

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

The ride. 38 years and counting. Maybe some day though...

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"It's not all about over achieving either sometimes you have to stand back,look and think to yourself their are always people alot worse off and be thankful for what you have especially if you are happy in life "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not all about over achieving either sometimes you have to stand back,look and think to yourself their are always people alot worse off and be thankful for what you have especially if you are happy in life "

Yup. I sometimes look back at things I "should" have done, but I'm in a good place now. Hitting the best years of my life and it's only gonna get better.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Owning my own home.I have always rented since I was 18 and could have bought a couple of houses now with the rent I paid but it looks like renting is my only option especially as I get older.

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By *heBlowinsCouple
over a year ago

West Cork


"Having a really nice garden with flowers and plants and stuff"

This! (Lolsob)

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

Meant to put this up before now.

Anyway's, hell YYEESS, loads.

Some doors are fully locked, NEVER to be opened again. Other's, as every year passes, them door's are slowly closing.

When I was young I wanted to live in Australia for a few years at least, do the a harvest season or 2 in New Zealand & America. Didn't have the money, not enough experience or didn't have the confidence to do them. Them door's are locked now, for good.

Hoping to have a house, be married, have kids, good job, by now. Not giving up on owning a house yet. Even doe as I get older, I know I'm going to have to buy a house, with Cash or a very little mortgage.

Marriage & kid's are a combination package, not giving up on them, just yet either. Highly unlikely they'll happen, as never have had the confidence or believe in myself on the woman front. An other side to that is, I can't see the point in getting married at all, once the option of kid's isn't there anymore, as I get older aswell. If I don't have kid's of my own, I've niece's & nephew's. If I can give them happy childhood memories for the future & they're able to come to me with any problems they have in their lives. I'll be happy with that.

On the "job" front. Still trying to figure that 1 out. As I'm beginning to believe the 9 to 5 job lifestyle isn't for me. As can't seem to find the job that I like or want to do for a living. Also I can't see the financial benefits of having a job, with the job I have now. Even if they're wasn't a cost of living crisis. I live a very simple life. As weird as that may sound to some people.

Them door's are slowly closing, some slower than other's, with each passing year.

For some people life isn't mean't to run simple & easy. Everybody's life is supposed to different. So life throws a few curvy ball's in some people's lives, like me & it's not over throwing them yet either. I know there's people in my vanilla world, that wouldn't be able to cope with some of the thing's in they're live, like I've had to deal with. As thing's has gone the way they wanted, planned & hoped it would go for them.

Hey that's life.

I do believe in a saying "You don't miss, what you've NEVER had", whatever that maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Parallel parking no problems parking two dicks in my vagina but parallel parking not a chance I just keep driving "

This makes me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have everything I ever wanted so she says anyway but on the qt I’d take a Harley if anyone’s offering

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By *amsevenMan
over a year ago

cork


"Meant to put this up before now.

Anyway's, hell YYEESS, loads.

Some doors are fully locked, NEVER to be opened again. Other's, as every year passes, them door's are slowly closing.

When I was young I wanted to live in Australia for a few years at least, do the a harvest season or 2 in New Zealand & America. Didn't have the money, not enough experience or didn't have the confidence to do them. Them door's are locked now, for good.

Hoping to have a house, be married, have kids, good job, by now. Not giving up on owning a house yet. Even doe as I get older, I know I'm going to have to buy a house, with Cash or a very little mortgage.

Marriage & kid's are a combination package, not giving up on them, just yet either. Highly unlikely they'll happen, as never have had the confidence or believe in myself on the woman front. An other side to that is, I can't see the point in getting married at all, once the option of kid's isn't there anymore, as I get older aswell. If I don't have kid's of my own, I've niece's & nephew's. If I can give them happy childhood memories for the future & they're able to come to me with any problems they have in their lives. I'll be happy with that.

On the "job" front. Still trying to figure that 1 out. As I'm beginning to believe the 9 to 5 job lifestyle isn't for me. As can't seem to find the job that I like or want to do for a living. Also I can't see the financial benefits of having a job, with the job I have now. Even if they're wasn't a cost of living crisis. I live a very simple life. As weird as that may sound to some people.

Them door's are slowly closing, some slower than other's, with each passing year.

For some people life isn't mean't to run simple & easy. Everybody's life is supposed to different. So life throws a few curvy ball's in some people's lives, like me & it's not over throwing them yet either. I know there's people in my vanilla world, that wouldn't be able to cope with some of the thing's in they're live, like I've had to deal with. As thing's has gone the way they wanted, planned & hoped it would go for them.

Hey that's life.

I do believe in a saying "You don't miss, what you've NEVER had", whatever that maybe. "

The door on love is never closed sir. Keep the faith. Know a guy who got married this year. He's in his 80s

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford


"I have everything I ever wanted so she says anyway but on the qt I’d take a Harley if anyone’s offering "

Of course she has, as when you don't want or able to play, she can come on here & find someone to help her.

Your better write to Santa or look up Donedeal on that front.

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford


"Meant to put this up before now.

Anyway's, hell YYEESS, loads.

Some doors are fully locked, NEVER to be opened again. Other's, as every year passes, them door's are slowly closing.

When I was young I wanted to live in Australia for a few years at least, do the a harvest season or 2 in New Zealand & America. Didn't have the money, not enough experience or didn't have the confidence to do them. Them door's are locked now, for good.

Hoping to have a house, be married, have kids, good job, by now. Not giving up on owning a house yet. Even doe as I get older, I know I'm going to have to buy a house, with Cash or a very little mortgage.

Marriage & kid's are a combination package, not giving up on them, just yet either. Highly unlikely they'll happen, as never have had the confidence or believe in myself on the woman front. An other side to that is, I can't see the point in getting married at all, once the option of kid's isn't there anymore, as I get older aswell. If I don't have kid's of my own, I've niece's & nephew's. If I can give them happy childhood memories for the future & they're able to come to me with any problems they have in their lives. I'll be happy with that.

On the "job" front. Still trying to figure that 1 out. As I'm beginning to believe the 9 to 5 job lifestyle isn't for me. As can't seem to find the job that I like or want to do for a living. Also I can't see the financial benefits of having a job, with the job I have now. Even if they're wasn't a cost of living crisis. I live a very simple life. As weird as that may sound to some people.

Them door's are slowly closing, some slower than other's, with each passing year.

For some people life isn't mean't to run simple & easy. Everybody's life is supposed to different. So life throws a few curvy ball's in some people's lives, like me & it's not over throwing them yet either. I know there's people in my vanilla world, that wouldn't be able to cope with some of the thing's in they're live, like I've had to deal with. As thing's has gone the way they wanted, planned & hoped it would go for them.

Hey that's life.

I do believe in a saying "You don't miss, what you've NEVER had", whatever that maybe.

The door on love is never closed sir. Keep the faith. Know a guy who got married this year. He's in his 80s"

Congrats & good for him.

Whatever about the love part, can't see meself getting married, when in my 80's, besides I mightn't be alive at that age. No joking. Nobody knows, when they're time is up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meant to put this up before now.

Anyway's, hell YYEESS, loads.

Some doors are fully locked, NEVER to be opened again. Other's, as every year passes, them door's are slowly closing.

When I was young I wanted to live in Australia for a few years at least, do the a harvest season or 2 in New Zealand & America. Didn't have the money, not enough experience or didn't have the confidence to do them. Them door's are locked now, for good.

Hoping to have a house, be married, have kids, good job, by now. Not giving up on owning a house yet. Even doe as I get older, I know I'm going to have to buy a house, with Cash or a very little mortgage.

Marriage & kid's are a combination package, not giving up on them, just yet either. Highly unlikely they'll happen, as never have had the confidence or believe in myself on the woman front. An other side to that is, I can't see the point in getting married at all, once the option of kid's isn't there anymore, as I get older aswell. If I don't have kid's of my own, I've niece's & nephew's. If I can give them happy childhood memories for the future & they're able to come to me with any problems they have in their lives. I'll be happy with that.

On the "job" front. Still trying to figure that 1 out. As I'm beginning to believe the 9 to 5 job lifestyle isn't for me. As can't seem to find the job that I like or want to do for a living. Also I can't see the financial benefits of having a job, with the job I have now. Even if they're wasn't a cost of living crisis. I live a very simple life. As weird as that may sound to some people.

Them door's are slowly closing, some slower than other's, with each passing year.

For some people life isn't mean't to run simple & easy. Everybody's life is supposed to different. So life throws a few curvy ball's in some people's lives, like me & it's not over throwing them yet either. I know there's people in my vanilla world, that wouldn't be able to cope with some of the thing's in they're live, like I've had to deal with. As thing's has gone the way they wanted, planned & hoped it would go for them.

Hey that's life.

I do believe in a saying "You don't miss, what you've NEVER had", whatever that maybe.

The door on love is never closed sir. Keep the faith. Know a guy who got married this year. He's in his 80s

Congrats & good for him.

Whatever about the love part, can't see meself getting married, when in my 80's, besides I mightn't be alive at that age. No joking. Nobody knows, when they're time is up."

Things can change tomorrow and I hope they do for you

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford


"Meant to put this up before now.

Anyway's, hell YYEESS, loads.

Some doors are fully locked, NEVER to be opened again. Other's, as every year passes, them door's are slowly closing.

When I was young I wanted to live in Australia for a few years at least, do the a harvest season or 2 in New Zealand & America. Didn't have the money, not enough experience or didn't have the confidence to do them. Them door's are locked now, for good.

Hoping to have a house, be married, have kids, good job, by now. Not giving up on owning a house yet. Even doe as I get older, I know I'm going to have to buy a house, with Cash or a very little mortgage.

Marriage & kid's are a combination package, not giving up on them, just yet either. Highly unlikely they'll happen, as never have had the confidence or believe in myself on the woman front. An other side to that is, I can't see the point in getting married at all, once the option of kid's isn't there anymore, as I get older aswell. If I don't have kid's of my own, I've niece's & nephew's. If I can give them happy childhood memories for the future & they're able to come to me with any problems they have in their lives. I'll be happy with that.

On the "job" front. Still trying to figure that 1 out. As I'm beginning to believe the 9 to 5 job lifestyle isn't for me. As can't seem to find the job that I like or want to do for a living. Also I can't see the financial benefits of having a job, with the job I have now. Even if they're wasn't a cost of living crisis. I live a very simple life. As weird as that may sound to some people.

Them door's are slowly closing, some slower than other's, with each passing year.

For some people life isn't mean't to run simple & easy. Everybody's life is supposed to different. So life throws a few curvy ball's in some people's lives, like me & it's not over throwing them yet either. I know there's people in my vanilla world, that wouldn't be able to cope with some of the thing's in they're live, like I've had to deal with. As thing's has gone the way they wanted, planned & hoped it would go for them.

Hey that's life.

I do believe in a saying "You don't miss, what you've NEVER had", whatever that maybe.

The door on love is never closed sir. Keep the faith. Know a guy who got married this year. He's in his 80s

Congrats & good for him.

Whatever about the love part, can't see meself getting married, when in my 80's, besides I mightn't be alive at that age. No joking. Nobody knows, when they're time is up.

Things can change tomorrow and I hope they do for you "

True & thank's for that.

I'm not getting my hope's up for that to happen, Boi. That's life for some people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A long time ago, i was visiting my brother, he lived with some housemates, two guys , two girls. I was 16. Anyway,we were all drinking, smoking some green, and watching movies, playing board games. Everyone went to bed except me and one girl, she puts on Betty Blue. We were watching it and smoking some more , very stoned, anyway one scene where the guy is eating out one of the ladies, the girl beside me goes"that looks so nice" , stoned me over-thinks the whole situation and just sits there. I want a time machine, to go back and right all the wrongs and redo all the rights.

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By *ot so needyMan
over a year ago

Galway


"Nothing

I've overachieved

I always knew I would never marry or have children, it didn't interest me.

I could die happy tomorrow - there's honestly nothing I haven't done that I wish to do. It's been a wild ride but no regrets "

Get to meet you xx

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Life takes all kinds of twists and turns, with the occasional blind ally to navigate.

When I feel disappointed at what might have been, I count my blessings, make a long list of all that has gone well (or at least satisfactorily) in life, to date; and plan the day ahead.

I have an awful lot to be thankful for; the other morning I assisted a blind guy to find the shop in the bus station; now THAT really made me think!

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By *ouple4camsCouple
over a year ago

Dundalk(ish)

Mr here- race the road circuits especially NW200 and UGP.

I spent a good few years club racing in England but ran out of money ( and possibly talent, we'll never know) before I made it to an international licence.

I loved every second though and still got to do something many people never get to do. If i close my eyes and recall lining up on the grid it all floods back- a feeling i accept i'll never truly have again.

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