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By *ingerrrr OP   Woman
over a year ago

Meath

So I have to say I am a big fan of a man with talented hands that can find the pleasure spots inside and out. When I was on site before I found a lot really didn’t appreciate the art of fingering, has it become obsolete?

Do you enjoy giving/receiving it?

I had a recent experience that reminded me of how much I love it…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it

Any and all time spent finding patterns or pleasure spots is time well spent, working up from idle to full throttle

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork

Why do thumbs never get a mention.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

The lost art of fingering is a thing I served my time at many years ago. I still enjoy doing it immensely. There's a sense of nostalgia, or dare I say, innocence attached to it. It's from those days in the eighties when getting your hand into a lady's knickers was the most you could hope for.... Back seat of a car on a Saturday night after the disco. Good good times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I have to say I love fingering as Ive had some nice compliments about the size of my hands lol but yeah I do enjoy the art of fingering, but I think some passionate kissing at the some time is just magic

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

It certainly is an art form. Too many pornalike fingerblastings going on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Done well, yes. Someone rummaging about up there like they're trying to find a set of keys in the bottom of a handbag, no thanks

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Done well, yes. Someone rummaging about up there like they're trying to find a set of keys in the bottom of a handbag, no thanks"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely love it as part of the build up and to get them worked up so that they want more, and allows more time kissing

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

The only skill required is in discovering what way she likes it, as we are all different.

Knowing whether to stuff the chicken or call the genie is where the real skill lies

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By *pen minded male 86Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"The only skill required is in discovering what way she likes it, as we are all different.

Knowing whether to stuff the chicken or call the genie is where the real skill lies "

Totally agree with you every woman likes it a different way

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Apparently I've got a particular set of skills.

What that has to do with this thread I haven't a clue. Can't quite put my finger on it......ah shite

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Apparently I've got a particular set of skills.

What that has to do with this thread I haven't a clue. Can't quite put my finger on it......ah shite "

...I will find you and I will fiddle with you!

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By *hilaboutMan
over a year ago

kilkenny

Oh love it and when she actually sucks my fingers dry after it is so erotic

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Apparently I've got a particular set of skills.

What that has to do with this thread I haven't a clue. Can't quite put my finger on it......ah shite

...I will find you and I will fiddle with you! "

Only a few fiddlers get to the sweet tune level, as the op said it's an art.

"The fiddle is widely regarded as one of the most difficult instruments to learn. One of the reasons behind this is that there are no guides on the fiddle for finger placement.

With the fiddle, the lack of frets means that the player must rely on muscle memory to know exactly where to put their fingers. The difficulties don’t just end there. After a while, most people can remember finger placement, much like learning to touch type; however, to produce a beautiful sound, there are a large number of variables."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently I've got a particular set of skills.

What that has to do with this thread I haven't a clue. Can't quite put my finger on it......ah shite

...I will find you and I will fiddle with you!

Only a few fiddlers get to the sweet tune level, as the op said it's an art.

"The fiddle is widely regarded as one of the most difficult instruments to learn. One of the reasons behind this is that there are no guides on the fiddle for finger placement.

With the fiddle, the lack of frets means that the player must rely on muscle memory to know exactly where to put their fingers. The difficulties don’t just end there. After a while, most people can remember finger placement, much like learning to touch type; however, to produce a beautiful sound, there are a large number of variables.""

And like the other thread, the old the fiddle the sweeter the tune

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Apparently I've got a particular set of skills.

What that has to do with this thread I haven't a clue. Can't quite put my finger on it......ah shite

...I will find you and I will fiddle with you!

Only a few fiddlers get to the sweet tune level, as the op said it's an art.

"The fiddle is widely regarded as one of the most difficult instruments to learn. One of the reasons behind this is that there are no guides on the fiddle for finger placement.

With the fiddle, the lack of frets means that the player must rely on muscle memory to know exactly where to put their fingers. The difficulties don’t just end there. After a while, most people can remember finger placement, much like learning to touch type; however, to produce a beautiful sound, there are a large number of variables.""

Mother of God, that's fierce dirty talk for this hour of the morning!

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Apparently I've got a particular set of skills.

What that has to do with this thread I haven't a clue. Can't quite put my finger on it......ah shite

...I will find you and I will fiddle with you!

Only a few fiddlers get to the sweet tune level, as the op said it's an art.

"The fiddle is widely regarded as one of the most difficult instruments to learn. One of the reasons behind this is that there are no guides on the fiddle for finger placement.

With the fiddle, the lack of frets means that the player must rely on muscle memory to know exactly where to put their fingers. The difficulties don’t just end there. After a while, most people can remember finger placement, much like learning to touch type; however, to produce a beautiful sound, there are a large number of variables."

And like the other thread, the old the fiddle the sweeter the tune "

I'll send ya me granny's number. She's 127 and hasn't been fiddled with for a while so she'll be delighted to meet you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh the joy of getting your fingers warm and wet!! Definitely seems to be a lost art!

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"The only skill required is in discovering what way she likes it, as we are all different.

Knowing whether to stuff the chicken or call the genie is where the real skill lies "

This exactly, some people are good at giving signals, some are good at picking up signals, some are good at giving directions, some are good at taking directions but you might as well be scratching the dogs chin if there’s no communication what so ever, verbal or otherwise.

And if she says, yes, just like that, she means just like that, not just like that but harder/faster/deeper…..

Support the arts…..

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Apparently I've got a particular set of skills.

What that has to do with this thread I haven't a clue. Can't quite put my finger on it......ah shite

...I will find you and I will fiddle with you!

Only a few fiddlers get to the sweet tune level, as the op said it's an art.

"The fiddle is widely regarded as one of the most difficult instruments to learn. One of the reasons behind this is that there are no guides on the fiddle for finger placement.

With the fiddle, the lack of frets means that the player must rely on muscle memory to know exactly where to put their fingers. The difficulties don’t just end there. After a while, most people can remember finger placement, much like learning to touch type; however, to produce a beautiful sound, there are a large number of variables."

Mother of God, that's fierce dirty talk for this hour of the morning! "

The early bird catches the worm.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Apparently I've got a particular set of skills.

What that has to do with this thread I haven't a clue. Can't quite put my finger on it......ah shite

...I will find you and I will fiddle with you!

Only a few fiddlers get to the sweet tune level, as the op said it's an art.

"The fiddle is widely regarded as one of the most difficult instruments to learn. One of the reasons behind this is that there are no guides on the fiddle for finger placement.

With the fiddle, the lack of frets means that the player must rely on muscle memory to know exactly where to put their fingers. The difficulties don’t just end there. After a while, most people can remember finger placement, much like learning to touch type; however, to produce a beautiful sound, there are a large number of variables."

Mother of God, that's fierce dirty talk for this hour of the morning!

The early bird catches the worm. "

How dare you refer to my willy as a worm

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By *elle111Woman
over a year ago

NI


"Done well, yes. Someone rummaging about up there like they're trying to find a set of keys in the bottom of a handbag, no thanks"
Pahahaha images conjured.

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"The lost art of fingering is a thing I served my time at many years ago. I still enjoy doing it immensely. There's a sense of nostalgia, or dare I say, innocence attached to it. It's from those days in the eighties when getting your hand into a lady's knickers was the most you could hope for.... Back seat of a car on a Saturday night after the disco. Good good times! "

You're such a romantic

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By *ackieMan
over a year ago

south

I do live a sneaky play with my fingers with a lady and feel that tense sensation they get when ur hitting the right spot. Just nice then when u finish and suck the juices from ur fingers when ur done….

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"The lost art of fingering is a thing I served my time at many years ago. I still enjoy doing it immensely. There's a sense of nostalgia, or dare I say, innocence attached to it. It's from those days in the eighties when getting your hand into a lady's knickers was the most you could hope for.... Back seat of a car on a Saturday night after the disco. Good good times!

You're such a romantic "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I have to say I am a big fan of a man with talented hands that can find the pleasure spots inside and out. When I was on site before I found a lot really didn’t appreciate the art of fingering, has it become obsolete?

Do you enjoy giving/receiving it?

I had a recent experience that reminded me of how much I love it… "

I think it's a given, part of the foreplay, do not do so is a sin

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By *onnrodMan
over a year ago

moira

Fingering, the rock upon which I build my castle!

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By *amsevenMan
over a year ago

cork

Round the back of the hall for the shift and a fingering and half a Benson n hedges. I miss the 90s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I have to say I am a big fan of a man with talented hands that can find the pleasure spots inside and out. When I was on site before I found a lot really didn’t appreciate the art of fingering, has it become

obsolete?

Do you enjoy giving/receiving it?

I had a recent experience that reminded me of how much I love it… "

Have to say enjoying giving my self and looking to the ladies eyes so can control the pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently I've got a particular set of skills.

What that has to do with this thread I haven't a clue. Can't quite put my finger on it......ah shite

...I will find you and I will fiddle with you!

Only a few fiddlers get to the sweet tune level, as the op said it's an art.

"The fiddle is widely regarded as one of the most difficult instruments to learn. One of the reasons behind this is that there are no guides on the fiddle for finger placement.

With the fiddle, the lack of frets means that the player must rely on muscle memory to know exactly where to put their fingers. The difficulties don’t just end there. After a while, most people can remember finger placement, much like learning to touch type; however, to produce a beautiful sound, there are a large number of variables.""

well written young lady. I love the musical reference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently I've got a particular set of skills.

What that has to do with this thread I haven't a clue. Can't quite put my finger on it......ah shite

...I will find you and I will fiddle with you!

Only a few fiddlers get to the sweet tune level, as the op said it's an art.

"The fiddle is widely regarded as one of the most difficult instruments to learn. One of the reasons behind this is that there are no guides on the fiddle for finger placement.

With the fiddle, the lack of frets means that the player must rely on muscle memory to know exactly where to put their fingers. The difficulties don’t just end there. After a while, most people can remember finger placement, much like learning to touch type; however, to produce a beautiful sound, there are a large number of variables."

And like the other thread, the old the fiddle the sweeter the tune

I'll send ya me granny's number. She's 127 and hasn't been fiddled with for a while so she'll be delighted to meet you! "

What's her fab name? Stradivarius?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always love fingering as it’s always the start to a good fun session, and exploring around inside and out ! Not to mention tasteing my fingers everytime they come out !!

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By *oe Cool xxxMan
over a year ago

South Dublin

We’ll practice makes perfect , you got know how to stimulate the g spot , lots of men don’t and think they’re experts when all they’re doing is wriggling fingers around with no affect.

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

Ballsbridge, City Centre

I go for the old “hoking change outta a payphone” technique, if ye find any coins it’s always a bonus

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
over a year ago

kinkytown

I used to love long fingering seesions before the entree as I use to call it. Lack of time unfortunately prevents this being as regular as it was previously.

Jay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go for the old “hoking change outta a payphone” technique, if ye find any coins it’s always a bonus"

Showing yer age now

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By *edro50Man
over a year ago

enniskillen

Absolutely love it I also enjoy using mouth on clit as I finger fuck

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By *inion42Man
over a year ago

minionland

It’s a dying art, I have double jointed fingers, so love it, great for the guitar too,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We’ll practice makes perfect , you got know how to stimulate the g spot , lots of men don’t and think they’re experts when all they’re doing is wriggling fingers around with no affect. "

Never assume that the fingeree wants you to go for the g spot. As has already been said, everyone differs in what they enjoy

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By *lue eyesMan
over a year ago

cavan

I have quite large fingers that seen to help aswell but it is lovely when you find that sweet spot and feel that pulse!and when the woman starts to find her rhythm too.

It gives you a false sense of being in control

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By *essicaRabbit04Woman
over a year ago

Rabbit burrow

I would take decent fingers over decent oral any day of the week hard to find a guy who knows what he's doing in that department though

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I would take decent fingers over decent oral any day of the week hard to find a guy who knows what he's doing in that department though"

Fuck it, challenge accepted!

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City


"The only skill required is in discovering what way she likes it, as we are all different.

Knowing whether to stuff the chicken or call the genie is where the real skill lies "

This I absolutely love it when it is done right.

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West


"The only skill required is in discovering what way she likes it, as we are all different.

Knowing whether to stuff the chicken or call the genie is where the real skill lies "

This is the best analogy.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"I would take decent fingers over decent oral any day of the week hard to find a guy who knows what he's doing in that department though"

This...

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City


"I would take decent fingers over decent oral any day of the week hard to find a guy who knows what he's doing in that department though"

Completely agree.

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By *essicaRabbit04Woman
over a year ago

Rabbit burrow

Nice to see the ladies agree with me Although I'm afraid to use my fingers on a girl cuz my nails are talons lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would take decent fingers over decent oral any day of the week hard to find a guy who knows what he's doing in that department though"

Cannot beat slipping fingers in to a rabbit burrow lol

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

I am more of a marathon thruster than a genie summoner , and often admire others during group meets who are good this art. It certainly requires artistry and can be done badly .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to keep the motor slowly ticking-over post toe-curling orgasm too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I have to say I am a big fan of a man with talented hands that can find the pleasure spots inside and out. When I was on site before I found a lot really didn’t appreciate the art of fingering, has it become obsolete?

Do you enjoy giving/receiving it?

I love giving oral and fingering at same time. Fingering and kissing is definitely hot too

I had a recent experience that reminded me of how much I love it… "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would take decent fingers over decent oral any day of the week hard to find a guy who knows what he's doing in that department though"

I want them to be good at both

Simultaneously

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"I would take decent fingers over decent oral any day of the week hard to find a guy who knows what he's doing in that department though

I want them to be good at both

Simultaneously "

Phwoooaaarrr filthy mare!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finger blasting should be in the Olympics

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford


"I would take decent fingers over decent oral any day of the week hard to find a guy who knows what he's doing in that department though

This... "

Ye might have to teach some of the men, in the art of fingering, sometime. I'm sure there's a few that wouldn't say no pleasuring Ladies(right ready for the slagging over this ).

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By *anandJCouple
over a year ago

Citywest

It’s all about ability to adjust. No such thing as perfect technique as every women is different. I love doing both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many moons ago, I had a female friend who taught me many things which I’ve kept with me for life, one of them was how to finger her and she would tell me how she liked it and also guided my finger and fingers. I was a champion in opening the three buttons on bodysuits, which were a fantastic fashion piece of clothing, while my hand was down a girls jeans. Over the years, the bodysuit has come back in vogue several times and it’s always brought back good memories and made me smile. We were caught by her father one night in a cupboard but that’s a totally different story for another time.

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By *elehotCouple
over a year ago

lisburn

love this brought back so many great memories xx

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"Many moons ago, I had a female friend who taught me many things which I’ve kept with me for life, one of them was how to finger her and she would tell me how she liked it and also guided my finger and fingers. I was a champion in opening the three buttons on bodysuits, which were a fantastic fashion piece of clothing, while my hand was down a girls jeans. Over the years, the bodysuit has come back in vogue several times and it’s always brought back good memories and made me smile. We were caught by her father one night in a cupboard but that’s a totally different story for another time. "

now that story I would love to hear

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

It’s always a pleasure to gradually move the hand closer and closer seeing the reaction and the want for more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Many moons ago, I had a female friend who taught me many things which I’ve kept with me for life, one of them was how to finger her and she would tell me how she liked it and also guided my finger and fingers. I was a champion in opening the three buttons on bodysuits, which were a fantastic fashion piece of clothing, while my hand was down a girls jeans. Over the years, the bodysuit has come back in vogue several times and it’s always brought back good memories and made me smile. We were caught by her father one night in a cupboard but that’s a totally different story for another time.

now that story I would love to hear "

It was all very innocent really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would take decent fingers over decent oral any day of the week hard to find a guy who knows what he's doing in that department though

I want them to be good at both

Simultaneously "

This takes a lot of concentration

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By *thCODubGuyMan
over a year ago

North County


"So I have to say I am a big fan of a man with talented hands that can find the pleasure spots inside and out. When I was on site before I found a lot really didn’t appreciate the art of fingering, has it become obsolete?

Do you enjoy giving/receiving it?

I had a recent experience that reminded me of how much I love it… "

I always try to start off fingering when kissing playing with tits. Warms the lady up before my mouth heads south.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great memories mentioned above from the local disco days.

A girl once told me that my hands should be insured with the way they “fingered” her

She could never squirt as she wasn’t relaxed enough but she did that day & many times after

She said she hates amateurs who go straight in & start digging for oil

She had the discussion with her mates who agreed it was a huge turn off at the start of play

There’s my 2 fingers or bobs worth

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By *amson4DelilahCouple
over a year ago

ballina


"It certainly is an art form. Too many pornalike fingerblastings going on."

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would take decent fingers over decent oral any day of the week hard to find a guy who knows what he's doing in that department though

I want them to be good at both

Simultaneously

This takes a lot of concentration "

Aye ye lads aren't great at the multitasking

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By *ot neuteredMan
over a year ago

Kildare

Fingering is one of those things, where less is often more, small regular movements is what's usually appreciated.

The mention of opening body suits a few posts up brought back great memories, though Cami tops and French knickers were my favourite

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By *electableicecreamMan
over a year ago

The West


"I would take decent fingers over decent oral any day of the week hard to find a guy who knows what he's doing in that department though

I want them to be good at both

Simultaneously

This takes a lot of concentration

Aye ye lads aren't great at the multitasking "

I'll take that challenge

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By *dlucyTV/TS
over a year ago

cork

Finding the right spot and using the other hand and tongue the work the clit,

You’ll no when it’s working as she will be grinding your face, yum yum yummy

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By *panishRebelMan
over a year ago

Alicante Spain, and Cork City Ireland


"So I have to say I am a big fan of a man with talented hands that can find the pleasure spots inside and out. When I was on site before I found a lot really didn’t appreciate the art of fingering, has it become obsolete?

Do you enjoy giving/receiving it?

I always like to ask how you like it. There's an element of fortune to get it right first time, as everyone is different. But if I can give a good finger and turn you on until you are ready to go mad I am a happy man.

I had a recent experience that reminded me of how much I love it… "

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