FabSwingers.com forum: no kissing

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

was just reading another thread about this and curious to know what u all think,well this girl was saying she met a guy and he said he didnt want to kiss her just have sex,she still had sex with him tho,i thought she was mad!if i met a guy and he didnt want to kiss me theres no way id shag him,wud tell him to get lost,its an insult i think!what wud use do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dude prob thought it was too imtimate for nsa. Some consider kissing too emotional involved. Never understand it meself but hey whatever floats your boats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think kissing is important because it adds to the eroticism and as such it can be a big turn on - I haven't that well but I'm sure you'll know what I mean.

While we're on the subject about no kissing. I once had a one night stand with a lady who wanted a rebound shag. Thing was though, she didn't want us to kiss cos it was 'too intimate'. but get this, she said we didn't need use a condom cos she was on the pill!!!!! Needless to say we tried to have safe sex without kissing. In the end I gave up cos I couldn't get into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would tell him where to go and how to get there if he won't kiss me , than he certainly would not have sex with me..... Wtf I am good enough to shag not kiss.. Although some people thinks its intimate to kiss maybe thinks (if playing away from home ) I can shag but not kiss that ok...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would tell him where to go and how to get there if he won't kiss me , than he certainly would not have sex with me..... Wtf I am good enough to shag not kiss.. Although some people thinks its intimate to kiss maybe thinks (if playing away from home ) I can shag but not kiss that ok... "

yea thts what i wud do but this girl met him and she kept forgetting and went to kiss him and he kept turning away,was in the english threads last wk

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhhh lord silly girl that would turn me right off... So basically she was like a slot machine he put it in for his own benefit not considering wat she might want .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohhhh lord silly girl that would turn me right off... So basically she was like a slot machine he put it in for his own benefit not considering wat she might want .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, okay, kissing is intimate. So is shagging. Don't get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have it before chicken I get ya don't get it either, but have heard it before...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some men feel that if they kiss they are cheating, and if they meet they are way passed whats classed as cheating but they dont understand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its different strokes for diffent folks. My first time swinging was in englang. The girl would not kiss either. She said kissing was only for her and her partner. Maybe he had the same rule. I know another time we could not do doggie cos of the same reason. I guess so people want to keep certain things off limits. I like a good kiss do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i couldnt have sex with sumone without kissing,its what gets me going and just wouldnt feel rite without it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i couldnt have sex with sumone without kissing,its what gets me going and just wouldnt feel rite without it!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they won't kiss on the lips, does that mean they don't go down either?

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By *ohn400Man
over a year ago

Dublin or anywhere

how can you have sex without a nice bit of kissing ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's just weird could not have sex without kissing there is nothing like a good kisser hmmmmm

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Have seen this in some cpls profiles (yes some of us read profiles) as its an intimate thing between them not to be shared. Can't see the point in not kissing their willing to share everything else and sometimes a well place well timed kiss that can send U over the edge

or heightene ur pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's just weird could not have sex without kissing there is nothing like a good kisser hmmmmm

I couldn't meet without kissing as its an important part of foreplay. I also agree that there are some good kissers.....but alas some not soo good....opps!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most couples would have that written on their profile if they don't like kissing during play. That's grand cause then it's a choice you make if you'd like to go ahead and meet them or not. It would put me off to be honest.

I'm into the kissing and would be out the door if a guy said we're not kissing but here have a suck on that!

It just makes no sense to me, a bit strange too coming from a 'single' guy, but each to their own I suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm into the kissing and would be out the door if a guy said we're not kissing but here have a suck on that! "

I sniggered at this. Pure charming loike!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only come across this once here myself, and agree it was strange ,... I love kissing, and couldn't progress without it

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast

guys wot another person consider is wrong ,another one out there thinks its rite.i guess its down to personal choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wud,nt have gone ahead with it , that would have been one cold shag lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe the guy was cheating on his wife n didnt want any marks..ie hickies/lovebites/bruises

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"maybe the guy was cheating on his wife n didnt want any marks..ie hickies/lovebites/bruises"
love bites thought that was a teensger thing Hate them

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"maybe the guy was cheating on his wife n didnt want any marks..ie hickies/lovebites/bruises love bites thought that was a teensger thing Hate them

Aww U gota have a little nibble now and again not the kind that leaves a mark of course looks disgusting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First of all safe sex is a must. It is very important..Kissing is a choice for us all..me, i don,t kiss, (Pretty Woman)

great film..I,m up front with any gent i may meet with the do's and don;t of a meet..Works both ways of course.. Have fun..safely!!x

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By *ukkakecoupleukCouple
over a year ago

horsham

kissing for me is the biggest no no kissing is personal would never kiss anyone other than my guy so everyone is different thats what makes us individuals x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still don't understand how kissing is more personal then having someones cock inside you or performing oral sex.

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By *hrisboobymanMan
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

"I still don't understand how kissing is more personal then having someones cock inside you or performing oral sex."

For some people it seems to be, don't understand it either. Kissing is very important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm someones cock in your mouth someones tongue in your mouth which is more intimate? Kissings good cant bate it lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eh, if I'm prepared to suck your man bits, you better be willing to stick your tongue in my gob!

Couldn't do a meet with no kissing!

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By *requent VisitorMan
over a year ago

City Centre

Ha love that comment LadyKink! say it how it is. Personally I can understand why some people don't want to either because of what they might catch or perhaps the person just didn't know of mouthwash, toothpaste or floss lol!. To be honest sounds like visiting a prostitute or a plank of wood as think the whole passion of sex only really works with kissing as otherwise seems a bit cold but hey different strokes for different folks. Kissing is like foreplay needed to enhance the situation unless your into kinky domination etc n then Ladykink we are probably both wrong!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think thats wild you need to kiss to have fun well for me personaly i love to kiss while getting naughty plus thats how i would start it of that guy shes talkin abt needs slappd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe he was worried that she'd steal his gum, or burn herself on his cigarette!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just don't understand that.... Why bother, you may as well have a wank. Kissing is all part of the turn on and with out it would be very cold. I would not be interested in meeting a woman if she said kissing was off the list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't stand kissing yuck! !!!! Who am I kidding I bloody love it and very part of the foreplay leads to so much more. ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't wait to be kissing you wex..... All over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't wait to be kissing you wex..... All over

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ohhhhhhhhhhhhh I cant blooming wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"how can you have sex without a nice bit of kissing ?"

Easy. I don't kiss. It does nothing for me. Never had any complaints

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I still don't understand how kissing is more personal then having someones cock inside you or performing oral sex."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i couldnt have sex with sumone without kissing,its what gets me going and just wouldnt feel rite without it!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i couldnt have sex with sumone without kissing,its what gets me going and just wouldnt feel rite without it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i couldnt have sex with sumone without kissing,its what gets me going and just wouldnt feel rite without it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a nice couple last year n we didn't kiss each others men as it was their rule they only kiss each other mind u if it was just me n a male I'm sorry but kissing is a must for us its what gets thw juices flowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get that alot.married men mostly.sori but its true had forgotten how.much.i.loved kissing until.recently strange but alot dont

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By *itan79Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In the Middle

Kissings a must do for me then again I'm a tatile person like that, I can only imagine he didnt want to be kissing you then going home to his other half afterwards (I dont know the op so not making any personal judgements) Some people try and compartmentalize certain elements of intimacy to make it easier to 'swallow' the fact they are being dishonest to theyre partners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me kissing is a must, you can tell so much by the way people kiss the gentle or not so gentle lip tug and play, and not to mention the fun to be had with the tongues,and that,s certainly leads to amazing love making

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only ever had sex with one lady that didn't kiss, but I should add some context to qualify this.

I had arranged to meet a couple who desired to spice things up a bit with a little role play scenario. The lady had a fantasy of meeting a guy and being treated like a high-class hooker. So we met for a very brief drink in the hotel bar, decided that all parties were "good to go" and headed up for the room. Hubby let the two of us go up first to "get acquainted" so in the lift I moved across the elevator to kiss her. As I nuzzled in to kiss her she put her finger on my lips, shook her head and whispered "I'm a prostitute.. I only ever kiss my man". I have to say it was the most erotic knock-back I ever had! But I got it, it was totally in keeping with her fantasy so I played along. Throughout the night I kept forgetting not to kiss but she just laughed it off.

I have to say that looking back now, handing her money at the end of the night could have gone horribly wrong... But she really hadn't expected it and luckily was totally thrilled by the act of me "paying" her, which she said completed her fantasy brilliantly.

Ordinarily I absolutely adore kissing and it seems all the more erotic to kiss in the lift on the way up to the room. I'm not sure if it's the thrill of getting caught, the anticipation of what's to come, or what it is. But it certainly gets my blood pumping and I can't imagine meeting someone who refused to kiss, it just wouldn't work for me.

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