FabSwingers.com forum: First meet mistakes?

By *ubal1 OP Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

What is he biggest error that you could make on a first (social) meet?

Talking about politics

Taking the other person's food

Lying about your age

Not being able to take a joke

Looking at your phone

Speaking with a full mouth

Being rude to restaurant or pub staff

Talking ony about yourself

Bad table manners

Speaking about an ex or previous meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All of the above lol or just plain old bullshitting about yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a proud Dub I'm guilty of most .. bar been rude my parents would turn in their grave

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By *I TwoCouple
over a year ago

PDI 12-26th Nov 24

Worst first meets

One guy (actually a few) couldnt get an erection

Another guy came in about 30 seconds

Worst is guys that won't shut the fk up talking about how good great they are.

Mrs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was nervous as fuck

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

- Asking personal questions (I sometimes forget the circumstances of the coffee)

- Talking about random stuff instead of gauging compatibility of interests.

- Not doing the kiss test when there is interest (it's kinda important but not always convenient)

Mrs

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
over a year ago

kinkytown

Tried to persuade me to get in his car then drove around area after, passed store I was hiding in several time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is he biggest error that you could make on a first (social) meet?

Talking about politics

Taking the other person's food

Lying about your age

Not being able to take a joke

Looking at your phone

Speaking with a full mouth

Being rude to restaurant or pub staff

Talking ony about yourself

Bad table manners

Speaking about an ex or previous meet!"

Probably all the above however, not putting an effort into what you are wearing and be presentable may be up there too

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

Being late.

Generally, ive had pleasant experiences. Except one meet with a woman. We met in a restaurant , and she ordered a full 3 course meal, with drinks. I had a coffee. I didnt fancy her, so figured I'd pass the time and have a chat. She ate and spoke non stop for an hour. I definitely didnt fancy her after that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is he biggest error that you could make on a first (social) meet?

Talking about politics

Taking the other person's food

Lying about your age

Not being able to take a joke

Looking at your phone

Speaking with a full mouth

Being rude to restaurant or pub staff

Talking ony about yourself

Bad table manners

Speaking about an ex or previous meet!"

Bar being rude none of these would really bother me much. We hoping to have sex not spend our lives together

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Trying to talk with your mouth full isn't the worse thing that can happen on a Fab meet Op

...Not having the verbal eloquence to match the messages, not looking anything like the pic you sent over or being seriously inebriated might rank as bigger errors.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

Ya ffs don't get d*unk without me

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By *oe Cool xxxMan
over a year ago

South Dublin

"What is he biggest error that you could make on a first (social) meet?

Talking about politics

Taking the other person's food

Lying about your age

Not being able to take a joke

Looking at your phone

Speaking with a full mouth

Being rude to restaurant or pub staff

Talking ony about yourself

Bad table manners

Speaking about an ex or previous meet!"

First mistake is going for food , that’s like a date Meet chat, see if get on and then have fun lol

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By *alvin.Man
over a year ago

Cork/Dublin

First meet mistakes!

1. To meet someone you are not attracted to or respect just to get a ride.

2. Try not to fart over coffee. If so, look at the ground sharply and play with the chair a bit and mention what a bloody squeaky cheap chair it is. Motion to the waiter "check please". Make a brave retreat with a kiss on the cheek and scuttle to the bog asap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is he biggest error that you could make on a first (social) meet?

Talking about politics

Taking the other person's food

Not being able to take a joke

Looking at your phone

Speaking with a full mouth

Being rude to restaurant or pub staff

Talking ony about yourself

Bad table manners

Speaking about an ex or previous meet!"

Pretty much sounds like the last meal out I had with my ex (11 years together).

Now, I wonder why she's now an ex

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By *urvyLouLouWoman
over a year ago

Tyrone

Meeting in a secluded place first time. Rookie mistake.

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By *teppenwolfMan
over a year ago

Cork

"Tried to persuade me to get in his car then drove around area after, passed store I was hiding in several time"

Thats just scary

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

Worst first meets

One guy (actually a few) couldnt get an erection

Another guy came in about 30 seconds

Worst is guys that won't shut the fk up talking about how good great they are.

Mrs xx"

This I feel is going to put potential suitors off unless they can perform on demand

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

Worst first meets

One guy (actually a few) couldnt get an erection

Another guy came in about 30 seconds

Worst is guys that won't shut the fk up talking about how good great they are.

Mrs xx"

You need a dildo... not a human

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By *rinibooWoman
over a year ago

clare

Not having a excuse to leave ready

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