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By *ohn MacD OP   Man
over a year ago

cork

Hey All

Have been on this site a few weeks .

Done all the steps

Verification- done

Photos - done

Sliver membership

What’s the hack -

I don’t want to be annoying hounding fecker

And I have trying to treat everyone with respect and not use colorful language

I tried dic pic and no dick pic

Any tips / advice I would be grateful

Thanks for reading this far !

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

Patience and time. Try and get meet verified by someone who's a bit experienced here. Not a meet for sex, just a cuppa and a chat. It shows your serious about being here. Chat on the Forums, go to some socials. If your expecting to get laid straight away your on the wrong site. As I said patience and time

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Patience and time. Try and get meet verified by someone who's a bit experienced here. Not a meet for sex, just a cuppa and a chat. It shows your serious about being here. Chat on the Forums, go to some socials. If your expecting to get laid straight away your on the wrong site. As I said patience and time "

He is meet verified

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By *igglefunWoman
over a year ago

Cork

Must not be getting enough

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

My bad. Rest still applies though to be fair

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Have you tried organised socials?

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By *ohn MacD OP   Man
over a year ago

cork

Thanks Tom , yeah have trying to just chat with people - most don’t even reply !

But I hear ya - I also take it the size of the community

So not a huge amount of people in Cork on the site.

Dublin seems busy

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By *lassy lady 216Woman
over a year ago

Craigavon

There is monthly cork kink club meet up this Thurs evening why not give that ago it's just a social event

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey All

Have been on this site a few weeks .

Done all the steps

Verification- done

Photos - done

Sliver membership

What’s the hack -

I don’t want to be annoying hounding fecker

And I have trying to treat everyone with respect and not use colorful language

I tried dic pic and no dick pic

Any tips / advice I would be grateful

Thanks for reading this far !

"

Try the meet and greet socials they are great for getting to know people.

Another thing your status update for me would be off putting.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

There has got to be a market for gigolos right ?

I mean one that don't charge

Sign me up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There has got to be a market for gigolos right ?

I mean one that don't charge

Sign me up "

You’ll need an agent

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"There has got to be a market for gigolos right ?

I mean one that don't charge

Sign me up

You’ll need an agent

"

I most certainly will my pimp !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There has got to be a market for gigolos right ?

I mean one that don't charge

Sign me up

You’ll need an agent

I most certainly will my pimp ! "

Ah them days are gone your up an all two bookings in already how are ya fixed for 3pm tomorrow and 8pm tomorrow evening

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By *ohn MacD OP   Man
over a year ago

cork

Thanks for the tips all - much appreciated

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By *ohn MacD OP   Man
over a year ago

cork

Hey Ya

Can meet up for coffee in city ?

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By *ohn MacD OP   Man
over a year ago

cork

Thanks am still learning how the site works.

I haven’t been checking the events , but yes will do

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By *rDigglerMan
over a year ago

Dublin 9

Only way to get your fab profile noticed is to attend socials or club events and sharing your profile face to face with experienced fabbers. The ratio of men to women on here is ridiculous, like probably 50 to 1. So sending messages to profiles that look good you need to remember their getting hundreds of messages daily. My main advice is don't be a creep, don't send multiple messages to the same person if you don't get a reply.

Rule number 1, don't be a dick with a dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Must not be getting enough "

I know I'm not!

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"There has got to be a market for gigolos right ?

I mean one that don't charge

Sign me up

You’ll need an agent

I most certainly will my pimp !

Ah them days are gone your up an all two bookings in already how are ya fixed for 3pm tomorrow and 8pm tomorrow evening "

Show me the honey !

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By *ohn MacD OP   Man
over a year ago

cork

Thanks again for the tips, if anything I am bit shy.

If I didn’t hear from anyone - I wouldn’t dare post another.

And the 50 to 1 ratio is balls alright !

I have on the site a few weeks and the only interaction has been on the Fourm!

Fab seems very much couples only!

Or the best way to interact here.

Where I was looking for kinksters in general maybe

Fetlife is way to go !

But I really do appreciate you taking the time to answer, it’s nice to see some nice people here.

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