FabSwingers.com forum: Hard to get a meet of late.

By *MCOUPLE OP Couple
over a year ago

North Coast

Anyone else finding it hard to get meets of late either with both of us of separately.

I know we aren’t everyone’s cuppa but surely we aren’t that off putting? Or is it because we are both totally straight only?

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

You have good pics, and an interesting profile. Perhaps you could edit your first cock pic, there seems to be a something amiss. At this time of year, easter , mid term, planning hols, people are very busy, so maybe arent available.

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By *rishOak12Man
over a year ago

"Anyone else finding it hard to get meets of late either with both of us of separately.

I know we aren’t everyone’s cuppa but surely we aren’t that off putting? Or is it because we are both totally straight only? "

Don’t know why as your profile is very well put together and built up. Maybe just there’s a drought lol

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By *immyK67Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

I reckon its the Christmas Tshirt

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By *rishOak12Man
over a year ago

"I reckon its the Christmas Tshirt"

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Op sometimes life gets in the way for everyone ....it's either a famine or feast

I havent a clue if you go to parties or socials but it does seem to be the way for some couples to widen the circle of friends to help organise more private meets or play on the night

Maybe look into that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I reckon its the Christmas Tshirt"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago

Cork

Profile looks great. Only thing we’d look for is a similar front on body pic for male half that ye have for female half - only a slight complaint as there’s definitely enough there to pique our interest if we were in neighbouring parishes.

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By *MCOUPLE OP Couple
over a year ago

North Coast

"Profile looks great. Only thing we’d look for is a similar front on body pic for male half that ye have for female half - only a slight complaint as there’s definitely enough there to pique our interest if we were in neighbouring parishes."

Not sure that it’s what anyone is after at all but there is one up now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Geography maybe , if you were in Dublin or Cork you might be busier,

Missus looks great x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haven't had 1 yet just joined 2 weeks ago I'm.either ugly or as they say too nice lol but I won't change for anyone so if you don't like me we'll that's your loss!

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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago

Cork

Not sure that it’s what anyone is after at all but there is one up now "

Ye’d both be our type for what it’s worth. Pity about the distance. Ná caill an misneach, we’re sure you’ll have plenty of local interest also.

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By *MCOUPLE OP Couple
over a year ago

North Coast

Not sure that it’s what anyone is after at all but there is one up now

Ye’d both be our type for what it’s worth. Pity about the distance. Ná caill an misneach, we’re sure you’ll have plenty of local interest also."

Thanks for that, not much going as far north as we are bar married guys hiding it from their partners, pic hunters, and general time wasters.

Will preserve for a while yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing we'd say is, it can be quite difficult to get 4 people's diaries to align...2 is tricky enough

And yeah, maybe geography is playing a part too, especially if you're figuring a social meet into the equation as well.

Hang in there, it really can be feast or famine here sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The only thing we'd say is, it can be quite difficult to get 4 people's diaries to align...2 is tricky enough

And yeah, maybe geography is playing a part too, especially if you're figuring a social meet into the equation as well.

Totally agree with all of this

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By *ornywife20Couple
over a year ago

North Cork

Your profile looks great the one thing I would say is alot of couples are very slow to send Facepics now as there has been alot of stories about dodgie things happening with face pics. .

Just my opinion everyone has there reason for and the right to ask for or the right not to send face pics we don't send facepics anymore. It's just something we decided on and to be fair we are getting on fine ..

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

What's (of late) sorri I'd to ask!

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By *MCOUPLE OP Couple
over a year ago

North Coast

"What's (of late) sorri I'd to ask!

Months, like before Christmas

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By *ka ..Agent k ..Man
over a year ago

"What's (of late) sorri I'd to ask!

Months, like before Christmas

a ok just wasn't familiar with the term..

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

"Anyone else finding it hard to get meets of late either with both of us of separately.

I know we aren’t everyone’s cuppa but surely we aren’t that off putting? Or is it because we are both totally straight only? "

We are more or less straight and have no problem getting meets despite not sharing face pics. We get around this by meeting people face to face at socials and parties and we find this the best way to gauge if we want to meet them again for fun.

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By *ardyboy54321Man
over a year ago

Fermanagh

It's a real handling if ya ask me

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By *ifewantstoplayCouple
over a year ago

somewhere

I think Fab can be a real handling as mentioned above

Parties and socials can work brilliantly but these aren’t everyone’s preference either.

Sure who knows

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By *MCOUPLE OP Couple
over a year ago

North Coast

"I think Fab can be a real handling as mentioned above

Parties and socials can work brilliantly but these aren’t everyone’s preference either.

Sure who knows

We like to try and organise on here as we only have time for direct meets etc, just not enough spare time for socials/parties which could be part of the issue

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Some folks won't meet for a session unless they have a social first. It takes some of the shyness etc away and you see if there is any sparks as there's no point if not

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By *akedandhappyCouple
over a year ago

Cork

We’re sure following this post your inbox is full. Probably geography etc… has had an effect but your profile is very enticing. Maybe narrow yourselves down location wise. We’ve a big west coast like. All the best going forward guys.

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By *MCOUPLE OP Couple
over a year ago

North Coast

"We’re sure following this post your inbox is full. Probably geography etc… has had an effect but your profile is very enticing. Maybe narrow yourselves down location wise. We’ve a big west coast like. All the best going forward guys. "

Actually it’s not lol!! We are north coast of the north which isn’t that large in reality. Some things we want to keep to ourselves but appreciate the input

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By *orny unicornsCouple
over a year ago

Tipperary

We are out this weekend if anyone is free

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By *MCOUPLE OP Couple
over a year ago

North Coast

Just wanted to put this out there again but does anyone else agree a meet then immediately get ghosted??

Had a meet arranged with a nice chap from Dublin for this weekend and he’s all but vanished after exchanging multiple messages.

Is really frustrating putting yourself out there to actually meet and spend time to arrange something then it’s taken away at the last second. Beginning to think that the north is a waste of toke.

Any lovely southern folks we are free this Saturday night lol

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

That's very surprising. You're obviously an attractive couple, with a nicely presented profile. What hope for the rest of us if you're struggling to get meets?!

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By *llthewaysMan
over a year ago

City centre/Naas

"Just wanted to put this out there again but does anyone else agree a meet then immediately get ghosted??

Had a meet arranged with a nice chap from Dublin for this weekend and he’s all but vanished after exchanging multiple messages.

Is really frustrating putting yourself out there to actually meet and spend time to arrange something then it’s taken away at the last second. Beginning to think that the north is a waste of toke.

Any lovely southern folks we are free this Saturday night lol"

I've had that happen plenty of times, always sucks.

Hopefully you get some good offers for Saturday and some fun. I checked your profile and don't meet requirements so didn't message you with Cat in the subject

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else finding it hard to get meets of late either with both of us of separately.

I know we aren’t everyone’s cuppa but surely we aren’t that off putting? Or is it because we are both totally straight only? "

Strange to find a couple starting this type of thread even if it was 14 weeks ago.

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
over a year ago

kinkytown

"Just wanted to put this out there again but does anyone else agree a meet then immediately get ghosted??

Had a meet arranged with a nice chap from Dublin for this weekend and he’s all but vanished after exchanging multiple messages.

Is really frustrating putting yourself out there to actually meet and spend time to arrange something then it’s taken away at the last second. Beginning to think that the north is a waste of toke.

Any lovely southern folks we are free this Saturday night lol"

Sounds like he bottled it to us. Probably liked the idea and when the chance becoming a reality came up boom gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re both too good looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just wanted to put this out there again but does anyone else agree a meet then immediately get ghosted??

Had a meet arranged with a nice chap from Dublin for this weekend and he’s all but vanished after exchanging multiple messages.

Is really frustrating putting yourself out there to actually meet and spend time to arrange something then it’s taken away at the last second. Beginning to think that the north is a waste of toke.

Any lovely southern folks we are free this Saturday night lol"

Has he also blocked you both?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All but vanished? Is the profile still active etc? When were you last in contact? Just cos it's only Tuesday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All but vanished? Is the profile still active etc? When were you last in contact? Just cos it's only Tuesday

Was thinking that myself. 3 days to go before you have to worry about anything. That’s how I would be thinking if it was me.

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By *MCOUPLE OP Couple
over a year ago

North Coast

"All but vanished? Is the profile still active etc? When were you last in contact? Just cos it's only Tuesday

We had been talking for days, they still come on but don’t message back. We need to plan as unfortunately don’t have the circumstances for spontaneous meetings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone else finding it hard to get meets of late either with both of us of separately.

I know we aren’t everyone’s cuppa but surely we aren’t that off putting? Or is it because we are both totally straight only? "

It's a mystery ok that you can't get meets of late

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By *an I Kiss youMan
over a year ago

Manchester City Centre

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By *an I Kiss youMan
over a year ago

Manchester City Centre

"Just wanted to put this out there again but does anyone else agree a meet then immediately get ghosted??

Had a meet arranged with a nice chap from Dublin for this weekend and he’s all but vanished after exchanging multiple messages.

Is really frustrating putting yourself out there to actually meet and spend time to arrange something then it’s taken away at the last second. Beginning to think that the north is a waste of toke. .........."

I have never actually experienced a last minute cancellation for an arranged meet.

I don't know if I am just lucky or if I developed the skill of spotting and ing out the time wasters at the early stage of the conversation.

Nevertheless, in your case it could be just off putting to Straight-Only-Couples and Exceptional Men (as per your requirements) to drive up 3 or 4 hours for a meet when they have plenty of local opportunities.

Also, the demand that the meet has to be recorded just "for your pleasure", could be another factor of pushing people away. Ya know, the majority prefer to maintain and safeguard their own privacy.

Along with the far location and the demand for recordong, there is another sentence on your profile that could potentially be a red flag for "exceptional men and straight couples".

Where you say, "We play together or Mr will play solo with very selected women. Mrs does NOT do solo meets", this part could suggest a dynamic of imbalanced and unequal advantage towards one half of the couple.

I can only imagine and hope that most "exceptional men" would love to be in a situation where the lady is at the centre of attention, care and pleasure.

Last but not least, over the years it has been a very clear and reoccurring observation that couples located at the top northern 3 counties of the Republic are very reluctant to meet with other locals, and with the fewer numbers of fab population located up there, it is just another added barrier to finding meets more frequently.

Here is a suggestion, why don't you reach out to the lovely organisers of the camping event up north this weekend and try to secure an invitation for Saturday when you guys are both free.

I think it is not too far from your location and it could be a great opportunity to network and connect with other open minded and a lovely group of people. Best of luck x.

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By *ingerNNutsCouple
over a year ago

dublin

Obviously location isn’t ideal for us. But I’m not sure how keen I’d be on being filmed, not saying that’s the reason but maybe something to think of. Hope you’ve had better luck since, it might just be location…aswell as the weather got everyone a bit down lol

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I read your entire profile a couple of times and I'm struggling to see what you are offering any prospective meet male or female?

It's obviously a list of what you expect from others which is your preference but beyond that very little to entice people.

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By *leasurer77Man
over a year ago

Athlone

"I read your entire profile a couple of times and I'm struggling to see what you are offering any prospective meet male or female?

It's obviously a list of what you expect from others which is your preference but beyond that very little to entice people. "

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By *MCOUPLE OP Couple
over a year ago

North Coast

"I read your entire profile a couple of times and I'm struggling to see what you are offering any prospective meet male or female?

It's obviously a list of what you expect from others which is your preference but beyond that very little to entice people. "

Thank you for your feed back, we have taken this on board and will tweak our profile

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