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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was on fab they other nite and was looking up to see who was on line , seen there was a new lady who join not to far from where I live,so I messaged her and we got chatting and messaged for a few hours got on great and the banter was only mighty ,,so I asked her would she be intrested in meeting up for a coffee and a chat ,she said yeah why not ,and sent me a pic ,when I seen herpic I nearly dropped dead ,she only my football team mates wife ,now what the fuck am I too do , ,I didn't send her a pic ,she's a stunner always knew she had that naughty look,but he's on the team and we get on really well,should I tell him,every time I see her now I can look her in the eyes ,what would u guys do ,????,,,confused.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well she's read this post and now knows that you know. That's where discretion comes into this.

Wouldn't be surprised she leaves over this.

She's here for her own reasons and it's not for you to judge. There are a huge amount here playing away from home but we all know that, it's nothing new. Best not get involved is what I think. Would you like someone telling those nearest and dearest to you that your on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well she's read this post and now knows that you know. That's where discretion comes into this.

Wouldn't be surprised she leaves over this.

She's here for her own reasons and it's not for you to judge. There are a huge amount here playing away from home but we all know that, it's nothing new. Best not get involved is what I think. Would you like someone telling those nearest and dearest to you that your on here? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who amongst us is an angel and totally without fault

Judge not and ye shall not be judged

Its a long way to fall from a high horse so I say leave well alone and mind own beeswax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He may already know she's on here anyway...no one knows what goes on in someone elses marriage.

Either way it's not up to you to "out" someone like that

If you knew someone unattached would you tell their family?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who amongst us is an angel and totally without fault

Judge not and ye shall not be judged

Its a long way to fall from a high horse so I say leave well alone and mind own beeswax "
personally bit like my last thread I would ignore it! !!! Why open a can of worms up like everyone says on here by discreet.... I keep well away from my owe place u never know how ur chatting too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She not the first married person on here and certainly won't be the last!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Indeed, maybe he knows and wouldnt appreciate you telling him anything, you may end up with an even bigger problem on your hands

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Indeed, maybe he knows and wouldnt appreciate you telling him anything, you may end up with an even bigger problem on your hands"
as my mum used to say keep your eyes open and your mouth shut!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah ur right guys ,I shouldn't have posted it on forums was silly of me,he's a mate and if want him to tell me if it was the other way around ,but as ye said who knows what goes on behind closed doors ,

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Jess wount like to be in that position however would it not be wise to drop this lady a message and tell her U know each other and it may not be the best decision to meet as some people may get hurt and reassure her that her being on here is and shall remain her business that decression is assured maybe its her first adventure in to this type of site and she needs to do a bit more research before sending pics to people if she is a newbie a guiding hand may be helpfull

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've just did that mate ,she sent me her pic ,so I sent her mind and wrote her a message explaining ,haven't heard back from here but I see her on a daily basis so we,ll have a chat , just thought id get everybody opionion on here first ,

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By *timulationMan
over a year ago

sexerotica

Oh what a dilemma!!!! Do you approach her and tell her, what if she knows nothing about the site and some creep is using pics of her, then your doing her a favour if you tell her ????

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local

Another Load of bo**ocks,,,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would you not be better to reply to the lady concern, say you know her and her husband.

Don't tell her husband, I'm pretty sure he wont thank you for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or better yet not spread around on the forums

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Jsdd ur so clever ,always the right answer ever time ,such a wise man,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awwww thanks. Anymore kind comments and i might just develop an ego

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Another Load of bo**ocks,,,,, "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps go find a mod to delete this thread as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jsdd ur so clever ,always the right answer ever time ,such a wise man,"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep ur mouth shut ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

every1 is on here for there own reasons,what goes on behind close doors etc,she's only lookn sex not a relation ship say nothing lad youl come out the cunt in the end if you do open ur mouth!

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By *timulationMan
over a year ago

sexerotica

What's a load bo**ocks ????
"Another Load of bo**ocks,,,,, "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ah jeez oooo if the thread isn,t to certain ppl,s likin they go ape shit to they start a row catch urselfs on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do NOT say anything to him.... Ever....

and I mean EVER...

Meet her if you want and assure her you will not say anything....

Believe me, any other way will cause a whole lot of grief, for you included...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do NOT say anything to him.... Ever....

and I mean EVER...

Meet her if you want and assure her you will not say anything....

Believe me, any other way will cause a whole lot of grief, for you included...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whose going ape shit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say nothing yes let her know who u r n that u can assure u will b discreet you never know maybe they have a cockhold relationship her partner might like her going off with others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who amongst us is an angel and totally without fault

Judge not and ye shall not be judged

Its a long way to fall from a high horse so I say leave well alone and mind own beeswax "

Couldn't agree more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now you just have to decide how you will handle meeting her for the first time since this 'revelation,' and I would suggest you try to chat to her 1 to 1 first. If you meet her and she's with her hubby there will be some tension, at best. So I think it's best you let her know her secret's 100% safe and leave it at that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well she's read this post and now knows that you know. That's where discretion comes into this.

Wouldn't be surprised she leaves over this. "

That's a big assumption! The majority of people on here never go anywhere near these forums!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or better yet not spread around on the forums "

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By *un-maleMan
over a year ago

Loughgall

My advice is not to tell your mate this site is difficult for people to come on to without them feeling they can be compromised cos if I saw my mates wife fucking the whole football team I would not tell. She must be petrified now after seeing your post. Reassure her if u can that all is ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you should keep your beak shut Mr Grey, putting this thread on here is seriously stupid!

Discretion my arse. How would you feel if the tables were turned and it was your other half getting found on here by someone she knew.

Two words, cop on!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe you should keep your beak shut Mr Grey, putting this thread on here is seriously stupid!

Discretion my arse. How would you feel if the tables were turned and it was your other half getting found on here by someone she knew.

Two words, cop on!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well she's read this post and now knows that you know. That's where discretion comes into this.

Wouldn't be surprised she leaves over this.

That's a big assumption! The majority of people on here never go anywhere near these forums! "

Ah but thats where your wrong man lots read the forums butjust perfer not to post.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep ur mouth shut ... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should keep your mouth shut.... It's none of you business, if it was not your friends wife but some other guys wife you did not know you would of been mad to meet up with her. If you don't want to meet her then let it go......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dead right we cannot judge anyone were all here for fun after all, so keep quiet and dont message her at all....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me grey how will u face a team mate if it comes out that you knew??? I'd say have a word with him that you were on the site and show him the messages. He can read them and draw what he wants from them. It should be clear that you have only just started chatting. As my good ole father once told me. NEVER SHITE IN URE OWN NEST. You have done nothing wrong here but chat with a girl behind a screen that you didn't know...well until u seen her pic. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok her hubby might know she is here and plays but if he does why not ask her bring him to the coffie meet and see what she has to say about you asking.. if she says she is married and fucking behind her husbands back dont meet this lady shes playing away from home and you dont want to be a helping hand in that shit....

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