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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi Guys and girls….

Ive been in 3 relationships where the women had cheated almost constantly throughout their relationships.

So as a guy who played the field years before, I decided that I would never cheat again and that I needed a partner that I could trust.

So as they had al cheated previously, if it did ever come down to them cheating again, I at least wanted to make them feel comfortable in telling me…. Hence the beginning of my cuckold life….

We had threesomes, sometimes I was made to watch, sometimes we arranged for her to play solo. However the rules weee as follows:

1) we agreed something together

2) it’s was for OUT benefit and the other person was nothing more than a “just a person to fulfil a fantasy”.

3) full transparency and 109% truthful about what happened.

Now the truth is that I was proud to be with these women. They were stunning and most men wanted to be with them…. And I felt great knowing that I was their partner…. I enjoyed watching men please her, knowing that they meant nothing to either of us.

In each instance, they weee able to have the final say on everything….. there were times I’d suggest a scenario that I’d like to happen, and I’d get told “No I can’t do that”, and the. Weeks later they’d do exactly the same thing, but missing out crucial steps that made it about us.

Every one of the women ended up cheating and having certain activities with people and I ether wasn’t told about it, or I was told a certain version of events which made it out to be an accident or someone else’s fault…….

Anyway now I’m single so I’m looking to join another couple or a single woman and want my next relationship to be monogamous

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

If you want monogamous relationship you might have to look other places as non monogamous relationships are kinda the thing here as that is one part of being a swinger imo

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Hi Guys and girls….

Ive been in 3 relationships where the women had cheated almost constantly throughout their relationships.

So as a guy who played the field years before, I decided that I would never cheat again and that I needed a partner that I could trust.

So as they had al cheated previously, if it did ever come down to them cheating again, I at least wanted to make them feel comfortable in telling me…. Hence the beginning of my cuckold life….

We had threesomes, sometimes I was made to watch, sometimes we arranged for her to play solo. However the rules weee as follows:

1) we agreed something together

2) it’s was for OUT benefit and the other person was nothing more than a “just a person to fulfil a fantasy”.

3) full transparency and 109% truthful about what happened.

Now the truth is that I was proud to be with these women. They were stunning and most men wanted to be with them…. And I felt great knowing that I was their partner…. I enjoyed watching men please her, knowing that they meant nothing to either of us.

In each instance, they weee able to have the final say on everything….. there were times I’d suggest a scenario that I’d like to happen, and I’d get told “No I can’t do that”, and the. Weeks later they’d do exactly the same thing, but missing out crucial steps that made it about us.

Every one of the women ended up cheating and having certain activities with people and I ether wasn’t told about it, or I was told a certain version of events which made it out to be an accident or someone else’s fault…….

Anyway now I’m single so I’m looking to join another couple or a single woman and want my next relationship to be monogamous

"

1) If you decided you needed a partner you could trust then why do you keep choosing partners that you know constantly cheated previously.

2) Being a cuckold couple means that you are allowing her to be with other men with your full consent. That's not cheating.

3) Treating a bull as your own personal sex toy and not considering what they are looking for in a mutually beneficial situation is disrespectful towards them

4) You say you expected your partner to be "100% truthful" when you knew that they had cheated before. Past behaviour predicts future behaviour.

5) Why are you making the same mistakes over and over again. Surely you would have learned by now.

If this is indeed true (which i seriously doubt) then you really need to reevaluate your decision making

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did they ever say why they cheated ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you are confusing a cuckold relationship with being with someone who cannot be trusted to respect the boundaries of a relationship. The trust comes first.

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

Ballsbridge, City Centre

Not sure what ye are trying to achieve OP

The last sentence would be enough, a ranty forum post is a bad look particularly when combined with your current status update

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Hi Guys and girls….

Ive been in 3 relationships where the women had cheated almost constantly throughout their relationships.

So as a guy who played the field years before, I decided that I would never cheat again and that I needed a partner that I could trust.

So as they had al cheated previously, if it did ever come down to them cheating again, I at least wanted to make them feel comfortable in telling me…. Hence the beginning of my cuckold life….

We had threesomes, sometimes I was made to watch, sometimes we arranged for her to play solo. However the rules weee as follows:

1) we agreed something together

2) it’s was for OUT benefit and the other person was nothing more than a “just a person to fulfil a fantasy”.

3) full transparency and 109% truthful about what happened.

Now the truth is that I was proud to be with these women. They were stunning and most men wanted to be with them…. And I felt great knowing that I was their partner…. I enjoyed watching men please her, knowing that they meant nothing to either of us.

In each instance, they weee able to have the final say on everything….. there were times I’d suggest a scenario that I’d like to happen, and I’d get told “No I can’t do that”, and the. Weeks later they’d do exactly the same thing, but missing out crucial steps that made it about us.

Every one of the women ended up cheating and having certain activities with people and I ether wasn’t told about it, or I was told a certain version of events which made it out to be an accident or someone else’s fault…….

Anyway now I’m single so I’m looking to join another couple or a single woman and want my next relationship to be monogamous

"

Please lie down on the couch ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join a sport/active lifestyle club. Running/swimming/cycling/boxing/soccer/gaa/hill walking/rowing/golf etc.

The social side of sport is great, exercise is good for you, sporty women are great in bed and most girls who live that lifestyle are not into cucking and cheating.

On a seperate note, focus on yourself, achieving short and medium term goals will make you happy and people will be drawn to you. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could you pm me their contact details. Please

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By *assySinWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Well no, if you agree certain boundaries like sex when we agree on it, and they have sex outside of agreed terms that is cheating.

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By *assySinWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Being a cuckold because you're conceding to the inevitable cheating isn't the right reason to do it in the first place and if the agreement or boundaries weren't respected both ways that was the first red flag.

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By *assySinWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

You can be monogamous and a swinger. Monogamous is just dating one person. Open to sex with other people together isn't non monogamous.

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