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By *ornywife20 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North Cork

The name of this website is Fab Swingers .

Not Fab Hook up for singles. If you look up the definition of a swingers in the dictionary it says couples who like to swap sexual partners.

There is a place for single guys and single ladies. But the Web site is predominantly for couples. There are plenty single dating sites.

So it's beyond me why so many single guys join then bitch and moan about not getting any meets or not getting any action. Go join the singles sites if that's what you are after. Stop

the endless woe is me I can't get any verification no body wants to meet me. Yes because the majority of females on here looking to meet are part of a couple looking to meet other couples or else explore their bi side .

I am not saying all the ladies on here. Yes there are those looking for single guys. As there are couples looking for singles guys . Just that is more a couples orientated site.

And before the backlash starts I never said all couples I never said all the ladies. And I never said all the guys

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin

Love a good rant

Go and get it off your chest, gwaan

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By *ikewantstoplayMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Not all of us own a dictionary

Thanks for clearing all that up!

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

So its not a lifestyle site

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By *adHatMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Nice random mid-week rant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we not just let people use the site as they see fit, I've been called a time waster cause I'm not bi and don't play with couples

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
over a year ago

Cork


"Can we not just let people use the site as they see fit, I've been called a time waster cause I'm not bi and don't play with couples"

Can't believe you'd waste their time! (This is a joke, don't kill me)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can we not just let people use the site as they see fit, I've been called a time waster cause I'm not bi and don't play with couples

Can't believe you'd waste their time! (This is a joke, don't kill me)"

Imagine wasting someone's time

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By *leasurer77Man
over a year ago

Athlone


"Can we not just let people use the site as they see fit, I've been called a time waster cause I'm not bi and don't play with couples"

Yep, nothing worse than moaners except maybe moaning about moaners

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

So someone that is single can't be a swinger?

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By *adHatMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Can we not just let people use the site as they see fit, I've been called a time waster cause I'm not bi and don't play with couples"

PREACH!

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By *ackonthemarketCorkMan
over a year ago

East Cork


"So someone that is single can't be a swinger? "

Of course!!! Have you not looked up the definition of the word “swinger”

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City


"So someone that is single can't be a swinger?

Of course!!! Have you not looked up the definition of the word “swinger” "

I better hand in my swinger membership card so.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Can we not just let people use the site as they see fit, I've been called a time waster cause I'm not bi and don't play with couples"

Yep you pretty much summed it up there in a nutshell.It is amazing how annoyed people get over people using the site a different way to them

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

I've used the site for hookups, I've found relationships, I've attended events and socials.

I've used the site for advice on DIY, solving issues with my phone, received parenting advice and info on recipes and the likes, given opinions and sarcastic comments on all sorts as well as flirting on the forum.

I'll use the site as I please. I don't care what the name of the site is or what this name purports the purpose of the site to be because, guess what, it evolves with every single person who uses the site...differently.

Now, who's got the weather forecast for the weekend?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"I've used the site for hookups, I've found relationships, I've attended events and socials.

I've used the site for advice on DIY, solving issues with my phone, received parenting advice and info on recipes and the likes, given opinions and sarcastic comments on all sorts as well as flirting on the forum.

I'll use the site as I please. I don't care what the name of the site is or what this name purports the purpose of the site to be because, guess what, it evolves with every single person who uses the site...differently.

Now, who's got the weather forecast for the weekend? "

Rain and some sunshine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd think you might send that to site owners rather than here, after all, its they who allow singles to join.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rainbow weather.

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

I'm out of salt for my popcorn, anyone got some?...

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"I'm out of salt for my popcorn, anyone got some?... "

I prefer to add some Maltesers or Minstrels - anyone got some, willing to share?

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"I've used the site for hookups, I've found relationships, I've attended events and socials.

I've used the site for advice on DIY, solving issues with my phone, received parenting advice and info on recipes and the likes, given opinions and sarcastic comments on all sorts as well as flirting on the forum.

I'll use the site as I please. I don't care what the name of the site is or what this name purports the purpose of the site to be because, guess what, it evolves with every single person who uses the site...differently.

Now, who's got the weather forecast for the weekend?

Rain and some sunshine "

Darn rain, need more sunshine!

It's so cold, I've still got the fire going

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin


"The name of this website is Fab Swingers .

Not Fab Hook up for singles. If you look up the definition of a swingers in the dictionary it says couples who like to swap sexual partners.

There is a place for single guys and single ladies. But the Web site is predominantly for couples. There are plenty single dating sites.

So it's beyond me why so many single guys join then bitch and moan about not getting any meets or not getting any action. Go join the singles sites if that's what you are after. Stop

the endless woe is me I can't get any verification no body wants to meet me. Yes because the majority of females on here looking to meet are part of a couple looking to meet other couples or else explore their bi side .

I am not saying all the ladies on here. Yes there are those looking for single guys. As there are couples looking for singles guys . Just that is more a couples orientated site.

And before the backlash starts I never said all couples I never said all the ladies. And I never said all the guys "

So are you/are you not going to leave me a veri?

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"The name of this website is Fab Swingers .

Not Fab Hook up for singles. If you look up the definition of a swingers in the dictionary it says couples who like to swap sexual partners.

There is a place for single guys and single ladies. But the Web site is predominantly for couples. There are plenty single dating sites.

So it's beyond me why so many single guys join then bitch and moan about not getting any meets or not getting any action. Go join the singles sites if that's what you are after. Stop

the endless woe is me I can't get any verification no body wants to meet me. Yes because the majority of females on here looking to meet are part of a couple looking to meet other couples or else explore their bi side .

I am not saying all the ladies on here. Yes there are those looking for single guys. As there are couples looking for singles guys . Just that is more a couples orientated site.

And before the backlash starts I never said all couples I never said all the ladies. And I never said all the guys "

Thats a stoneage definition for dinosaurs

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Proudly use the site for hookups, finding fbs and have in the past been in relationships from here.

Anyone who thinks they can preach to others on here about how to use the site correctly can go fuck themselves (since the ranting is likely to turn a lot of people off them).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Proudly use the site for hookups, finding fbs and have in the past been in relationships from here.

Anyone who thinks they can preach to others on here about how to use the site correctly can go fuck themselves (since the ranting is likely to turn a lot of people off them). "

Amen

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

Arnt there more singles on fab than couples ??

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Proudly use the site for hookups, finding fbs and have in the past been in relationships from here.

Anyone who thinks they can preach to others on here about how to use the site correctly can go fuck themselves (since the ranting is likely to turn a lot of people off them). "

Just in the interest of fairness. That "anyone" group probably has included many of us in some shape or form at one time or another !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see the problem with people using the site however they wish, so long as they show respect for others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple who predominantly meet single males, I'd say away and boil your head.

You use the site how you like, let others do the same, and stop being so narrow-minded

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By *rAndMrsRightCouple
over a year ago

newtownabbey

To be fair...

Most couples prefer meeting with singles as its a lot less complicated.

It is easier to establish attraction and rapport with one individual than a couple.

Personally we find it infinitely harder to find couples who we are both attracted to and who are both attracted to us. Lots of couples we know say the same thing.

Then comes the scheduling problem - to find time where all 4 people are free from work and childcare duties is almost impossible.

While with meeting singles - they're usually either child free or have a child minding schedule with their ex partner that allows them a bit more free time.

Also there are a lot of single people on swinging sites who would like to find a swinging partner to have a swinging relationship with.

Should they stick to tinder and have to explain their goals to every Vanilla dick and Harry?

So yeah in my opinion if we all play "by the book" and start throwing opinions like "swinging is for couples only" there would just be thousands of people showing off their missus on their profile while men are invisible, who never want to meet anyone as they're either not attracted to one of two and won't take one for the team, or someone is always stuck at work or minding children.

So in conclusion - singles should not only be welcome in swinging dynamic, but are also essential to it.

Missus

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By *rAndMrsRightCouple
over a year ago

newtownabbey

P.S. yes, OP, you are also right, singles and couples who come here for a quick come and go fuck, assuming that this is some kind of a dial a ride where everyone is constantly horny are quite irritating

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By *ornywife20 OP   Couple
over a year ago

North Cork

All I said was idont see what single guys have to bitch and moan about not getting meets on a predominantly couples site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've used the site for hookups, I've found relationships, I've attended events and socials.

I've used the site for advice on DIY, solving issues with my phone, received parenting advice and info on recipes and the likes, given opinions and sarcastic comments on all sorts as well as flirting on the forum.

I'll use the site as I please. I don't care what the name of the site is or what this name purports the purpose of the site to be because, guess what, it evolves with every single person who uses the site...differently.

Now, who's got the weather forecast for the weekend? "

I’m Swinging in the rain, Swinging in the rain, what a glorious feeling…. I’m happy again

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway


"All I said was idont see what single guys have to bitch and moan about not getting meets on a predominantly couples site. "

I don’t see why couples have to bitch and moan about what other people use a website for.

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"All I said was idont see what single guys have to bitch and moan about not getting meets on a predominantly couples site. "

Because it's not a predominantly couples site - the ratio of singles to couples would tell you that and Mrs Right has explained it quite well too - singles are a very welcome dynamic with a lot of couples... and there are obviously a lot of frustrated single men so there is a forum where they feel they can vent.

If you don't like the bitching threads by anyone, about anything, you don't actually have to click into them to read them. A lot of us have been graced with the ability to scroll on through with just a compulsory eye roll, nothing more

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Just wondering about the single men and women you've met and played with

How would you feel if someone had a go at you because they shouldn't have happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many single men did you poll for this and can you show us the results

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it matter why people are here we are all adults, who cares if your married attached single separated bi straight .. I'm not well educated don't have the big fancy words .. but each to their own why we are on fab .. we are just horny fuckers lol

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By *tmanMan
over a year ago

newry


"Does it matter why people are here we are all adults, who cares if your married attached single separated bi straight .. I'm not well educated don't have the big fancy words .. but each to their own why we are on fab .. we are just horny fuckers lol "

Well said!!

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By *ohn 94Man
over a year ago

Gorey

I'm single, I'd like to apologise to everyone for this, I'll leave this site immediately, NOT! Surely the main reason we're all here is to have a bit of fun? Life's too short lads, be happy ??

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By *agherafeltmanMan
over a year ago

magherafelt

How monumentally uninteresting

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

When I click to see who is currently online in my area there are 165 couples, 78 women and 300+ men so there are going to be a hell of a lot of disappointed couples if they are only looking for other couples.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

What about MM or FF couples Op

We had a referendum to have equality so are they ok in your opinion

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By *nribanMan
over a year ago

Sligo


"Can we not just let people use the site as they see fit, I've been called a time waster cause I'm not bi and don't play with couples"

That's ridiculous! I can't believe people are so shallow!!

*I'm neither bi, nor a couple

*I'm in your locality also!

*I'm nicer in RL than my profile

- God, loves a trier...I hope!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm out of salt for my popcorn, anyone got some?...

I prefer to add some Maltesers or Minstrels - anyone got some, willing to share? "

Jesus you never learn chocolate=headache

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Ah sure look...

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

A lot of the thing these swinging couples are looking for CAN ONLY be done with the addition of single guys and girls. They are a necessary part of the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it matter why people are here we are all adults, who cares if your married attached single separated bi straight .. I'm not well educated don't have the big fancy words .. but each to their own why we are on fab .. we are just horny fuckers lol

Well said!!

"

Thank you.. knowbody ever agrees with me .. I talk shite but I say how I feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah sure look... "

I'd love Mick to buy me a cuppa

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By *oe Cool xxxMan
over a year ago

South Dublin

There’s loads of single hols up here who don’t swing and just looking for single guys.

There’s no hard and fast rules , people can use the site anyway they wish !

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By *oe Cool xxxMan
over a year ago

South Dublin


"Love a good rant

Go and get it off your chest, gwaan "

Ha ha ha

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By *oe Cool xxxMan
over a year ago

South Dublin


"Not all of us own a dictionary

Thanks for clearing all that up!"

What’s a diktunery?

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By *oe Cool xxxMan
over a year ago

South Dublin


"Can we not just let people use the site as they see fit, I've been called a time waster cause I'm not bi and don't play with couples"

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By *ndqtMan
over a year ago

The Wild West

Im just on here to take the piss out of Lou.... does that make me a bad person...

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By *oe Cool xxxMan
over a year ago

South Dublin


"I'm out of salt for my popcorn, anyone got some?...

I prefer to add some Maltesers or Minstrels - anyone got some, willing to share? "

Huge bag of Malteasers here , come over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im just on here to take the piss out of Lou.... does that make me a bad person... "

Don't mind him .. he wants me under his monks outfit

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By *oe Cool xxxMan
over a year ago

South Dublin


"Proudly use the site for hookups, finding fbs and have in the past been in relationships from here.

Anyone who thinks they can preach to others on here about how to use the site correctly can go fuck themselves (since the ranting is likely to turn a lot of people off them). "

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By *oe Cool xxxMan
over a year ago

South Dublin


"All I said was idont see what single guys have to bitch and moan about not getting meets on a predominantly couples site. "

But ok for a couple to bitch and moan about single guys ???

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By *ndqtMan
over a year ago

The Wild West


"Im just on here to take the piss out of Lou.... does that make me a bad person...

Don't mind him .. he wants me under his monks outfit "

LOL.... and you're too chicken to give it a go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are all here for the Banter and Maybe a Ride.. end off

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By *oe Cool xxxMan
over a year ago

South Dublin

I’ve just started a site called “fabsingles.com”

No couples allowed

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By *ndqtMan
over a year ago

The Wild West


"We are all here for the Banter and Maybe a Ride.. end off "

And the costumes.... dont forget them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look on channel 4 programme starting on swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This site is for everyone to enjoy single male,single ladies,ts/tv,couples and anyone in between

The only thing that anyone should show is respect if you don’t like what is on a profile/bio or what ever don’t go out of your way to abuse them because it’s not for you

As for the single guys as we seen on a thread today,some just looking for notice,not all the single guys on here give the poor me and actually the majority are very or seem very decent people

It’s here too be enjoyed by everyone for whatever they choose post not post perv whatever let he/she/couple/or other and all in between

Enjoy the site for what ever reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site is for everyone to enjoy single male,single ladies,ts/tv,couples and anyone in between

The only thing that anyone should show is respect if you don’t like what is on a profile/bio or what ever don’t go out of your way to abuse them because it’s not for you

As for the single guys as we seen on a thread today,some just looking for notice,not all the single guys on here give the poor me and actually the majority are very or seem very decent people

It’s here too be enjoyed by everyone for whatever they choose post not post perv whatever let he/she/couple/or other and all in between

Enjoy the site for what ever reason

"

That's what I was trying to say .. cheers

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By *oe Cool xxxMan
over a year ago

South Dublin


"This site is for everyone to enjoy single male,single ladies,ts/tv,couples and anyone in between

The only thing that anyone should show is respect if you don’t like what is on a profile/bio or what ever don’t go out of your way to abuse them because it’s not for you

As for the single guys as we seen on a thread today,some just looking for notice,not all the single guys on here give the poor me and actually the majority are very or seem very decent people

It’s here too be enjoyed by everyone for whatever they choose post not post perv whatever let he/she/couple/or other and all in between

Enjoy the site for what ever reason

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it matter why people are here we are all adults, who cares if your married attached single separated bi straight .. I'm not well educated don't have the big fancy words .. but each to their own why we are on fab .. we are just horny fuckers lol

Well said!!

Thank you.. knowbody ever agrees with me .. I talk shite but I say how I feel "

I agree with ya some of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it matter why people are here we are all adults, who cares if your married attached single separated bi straight .. I'm not well educated don't have the big fancy words .. but each to their own why we are on fab .. we are just horny fuckers lol

Well said!!

Thank you.. knowbody ever agrees with me .. I talk shite but I say how I feel

I agree with ya some of the time "

You know better to disagree with me pal lol only joking ..

Goodnight all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This site is for everyone to enjoy single male,single ladies,ts/tv,couples and anyone in between

The only thing that anyone should show is respect if you don’t like what is on a profile/bio or what ever don’t go out of your way to abuse them because it’s not for you

As for the single guys as we seen on a thread today,some just looking for notice,not all the single guys on here give the poor me and actually the majority are very or seem very decent people

It’s here too be enjoyed by everyone for whatever they choose post not post perv whatever let he/she/couple/or other and all in between

Enjoy the site for what ever reason

That's what I was trying to say .. cheers "

Jesus Lou you couldn’t imagine how long it took me

The kids are only gone to bed ffs anyway nite girl

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By *amsevenMan
over a year ago

cork

Aha. I was wondering why there was no swings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I presume in the T& C's we will find fabswingers is for couples only as thats the dictionary definition? Nahh don't think so some are successful, some ain't some like to moan some don't, some do scoials some don't, some do parties some dont if everyone on ere done the exact same thing it would be one boring place, it's a public forum so yeah your entitled to your opinion but because you can post what you want then so can others pheeeeeeewwww my rang over sure feck it any Galway ladies fancy a social while I'm here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Aha. I was wondering why there was no swings"

They are out the back garden empty if that’s what your craving

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does it matter why people are here we are all adults, who cares if your married attached single separated bi straight .. I'm not well educated don't have the big fancy words .. but each to their own why we are on fab .. we are just horny fuckers lol

Well said!!

Thank you.. knowbody ever agrees with me .. I talk shite but I say how I feel

I agree with ya some of the time

You know better to disagree with me pal lol only joking ..

Goodnight all x "

Oh lou lou lou I must disagree more often so night pal

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By *azzaman1970Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"To be fair...

Most couples prefer meeting with singles as its a lot less complicated.

It is easier to establish attraction and rapport with one individual than a couple.

Personally we find it infinitely harder to find couples who we are both attracted to and who are both attracted to us. Lots of couples we know say the same thing.

Then comes the scheduling problem - to find time where all 4 people are free from work and childcare duties is almost impossible.

While with meeting singles - they're usually either child free or have a child minding schedule with their ex partner that allows them a bit more free time.

Also there are a lot of single people on swinging sites who would like to find a swinging partner to have a swinging relationship with.

Should they stick to tinder and have to explain their goals to every Vanilla dick and Harry?

So yeah in my opinion if we all play "by the book" and start throwing opinions like "swinging is for couples only" there would just be thousands of people showing off their missus on their profile while men are invisible, who never want to meet anyone as they're either not attracted to one of two and won't take one for the team, or someone is always stuck at work or minding children.

So in conclusion - singles should not only be welcome in swinging dynamic, but are also essential to it.

Missus "

Preach it sister lol

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By *azzaman1970Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"We are all here for the Banter and Maybe a Ride.. end off "

I’m one of the few who agree with the above person

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By *leasurer77Man
over a year ago

Athlone

It's so reassuring to read through the vast majority of posts with all the open minded, live and let live, opinions. Give yourselves a pat on the back.

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By *umon337Man
over a year ago

Offaly

A lot of single seem to feel this a hook-up site for single people

It is essentially a hook-up site, whether you're defining that narrowly or broadly.

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By *anFromMarsMan
over a year ago

North

The site is what anyone wants it to be for themselves, doubt the owners care what way people choose to use it as long as they get their subscription fee weather its called "fabswingers" or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This post is hilarious, triggered wee man

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By *am74Man
over a year ago

inbetween north west ,sligo ,galway


"Proudly use the site for hookups, finding fbs and have in the past been in relationships from here.

Anyone who thinks they can preach to others on here about how to use the site correctly can go fuck themselves (since the ranting is likely to turn a lot of people off them). "

Well said

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By *on Draper2.0Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

I kind of get where the OP is coming from. They maybe feel like their site has been morphed or hijacked. It makes it less enjoyable for them. The site name does suggest an original intent but that has evolved. I'd love to see a singles side to the site too maybe. A singles forum or something. If the search and contact filters worked properly that might help too so people can ensure only like minded can contact them.

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

Trust pilot gives this thread a 0.5 star rating….

Must try harder….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I kind of get where the OP is coming from. They maybe feel like their site has been morphed or hijacked. It makes it less enjoyable for them. The site name does suggest an original intent but that has evolved. I'd love to see a singles side to the site too maybe. A singles forum or something. If the search and contact filters worked properly that might help too so people can ensure only like minded can contact them."

But how is a filter for singles going to work when half the singles aren't " single"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I kind of get where the OP is coming from. They maybe feel like their site has been morphed or hijacked. It makes it less enjoyable for them. The site name does suggest an original intent but that has evolved. I'd love to see a singles side to the site too maybe. A singles forum or something. If the search and contact filters worked properly that might help too so people can ensure only like minded can contact them.

But how is a filter for singles going to work when half the singles aren't " single" "

Ahh some of us are honest

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin


"I kind of get where the OP is coming from. They maybe feel like their site has been morphed or hijacked. It makes it less enjoyable for them. The site name does suggest an original intent but that has evolved. I'd love to see a singles side to the site too maybe. A singles forum or something. If the search and contact filters worked properly that might help too so people can ensure only like minded can contact them."

As far as I can see, the thread, and subsequent clarification by the OP refers to the forum which as of yet isn’t restricted to coupes and difficult to self filter apparently.

Unless they’re being inundated with PM’s of complaint from single profiles, which should be easy to filter.

Couple’s complaints about singles are still permitted…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plot twist OP how would ye find single ladies ( no single men) on a couples only site or why would they be something you might want when the dictionary says swingers is for couples only

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By *ubenesqueBlondeWoman
over a year ago

lisburn/Quigleys Point


"Can we not just let people use the site as they see fit, I've been called a time waster cause I'm not bi and don't play with couples"

100% agree!

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"I kind of get where the OP is coming from. They maybe feel like their site has been morphed or hijacked. It makes it less enjoyable for them. The site name does suggest an original intent but that has evolved. I'd love to see a singles side to the site too maybe. A singles forum or something. If the search and contact filters worked properly that might help too so people can ensure only like minded can contact them."

It's not 'their' site, it never has been just a site for couples.

It's quite easy to ignore those you aren't interested in on here even in the forums it's easy to not click on threads you know won't interest you.

And the filters do work pretty well on stopping a lot of messages as well from people you don't want. If they don't want men contacting them block them from messaging. It actually does work if used. The search one you can put in who you are looking for and I've always found it worked. But just because you see someone you like and think you would be a perfect match does not mean they will think the same.

I also don't see why single men should be the singled out as though they are unwanted on here because the op thinks a swinger can only be couples but yet think it's okay for single women to be on here. Just because it is what they are looking for. And the theory that most single women on here are here to meet couples or meet other women is not true either from what I have seen. Hence why bi single women who meet couples are called unicorns on here.

Fab is what you make it. And if you spend more time getting annoyed or pointing fingers at what others do you then that's on you, no one else is to blame for that,not even those who moan about having no luck on here.

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
over a year ago

kinkytown

I saw this thread and I knew it would be utter carnage

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

I used this site to find a husband

Worked out well for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used this site to find a husband

Worked out well for me "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The name of this website is Fab Swingers .

Not Fab Hook up for singles. If you look up the definition of a swingers in the dictionary it says couples who like to swap sexual partners.

There is a place for single guys and single ladies. But the Web site is predominantly for couples. There are plenty single dating sites.

So it's beyond me why so many single guys join then bitch and moan about not getting any meets or not getting any action. Go join the singles sites if that's what you are after. Stop

the endless woe is me I can't get any verification no body wants to meet me. Yes because the majority of females on here looking to meet are part of a couple looking to meet other couples or else explore their bi side .

I am not saying all the ladies on here. Yes there are those looking for single guys. As there are couples looking for singles guys . Just that is more a couples orientated site.

And before the backlash starts I never said all couples I never said all the ladies. And I never said all the guys "

So ...if people don't meet that ..or your... criteria..they shouldn't be here ?.. ..l always thought people could join for whatever reason they wanted to. .. anyway ..have a nice weekend.

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre

OP I don't understand your rant when you have been verified by lots of amazing singles!

There are plenty of genuine single swingers on here who embrace the lifestyle just as much as any couple!

Swinging is definitely not just for couples. If you attend any event you will see that

B x

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre


"I used this site to find a husband

Worked out well for me "

Yes it did

B x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I used this site to find a husband

Worked out well for me "

You did what ?? ..you mean to say you were a single on this site ??? ..how could you do that ?? A single at the time ?? ..and on here ??..what is the World coming to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP I don't understand your rant when you have been verified by lots of amazing singles!

There are plenty of genuine single swingers on here who embrace the lifestyle just as much as any couple!

Swinging is definitely not just for couples. If you attend any event you will see that

B x"

Way ta go lady ..way ta go ..well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I saw this thread and I knew it would be utter carnage "

You haven't got tonight's Euro Millions numbers by any chance .. ..or are you keeping them to yourself

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By *errylad75Man
over a year ago

Town

Someone throw a kilo of flour on her to find her wet spot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many Couple's on here look for single guys to f**k their wife while they watch ? .. there's loads of couple profile's that ask that or Women that want a female to f**k their husband .. anyway ..it's each to their own here ..but don't be a hypocrite..don't say it's a couple's only site if you have met/ verified single people.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Ah sure look...

I'd love Mick to buy me a cuppa "

Well I'm liking this thread now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All I said was idont see what single guys have to bitch and moan about not getting meets on a predominantly couples site. "

In fairness you said more than that , read your thread again if you don't think so .

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"All I said to my wife was, 'That piece of halibut was good enough for Jehovah"

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


""All I said to my wife was, 'That piece of halibut was good enough for Jehovah" "

Queue the stoning

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"I used this site to find a husband

Worked out well for me "

In fairness it worked out better for him

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland


"I saw this thread and I knew it would be utter carnage "

You and us both !

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By *rishOak12Man
over a year ago

D

This is great reading with the coffee lol

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City


"All I said was idont see what single guys have to bitch and moan about not getting meets on a predominantly couples site. "

I know that you probably didn't mean to offend anyone but in fairness you as good as said that all the single people (especially men) here are only of use if a couple wants them to join them. That single people having fun with eachother aren't really swingers. I know there is a huge number of people that aren't actually interested in swinging long term but the idea of swinging has changed drastically over the years and the more people checking it out and opening their minds to it is a good thing in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve probably made one previous comment in a thread in my time here, I’m not sure but who cares how many I’ve made. I don’t bother with the threads or the forums as I don’t need to get known or need ‘validating’ as being a great fella or a funny fucker or whatever but occasionally I have a read of them and some are funny, informative, some shouldn’t really be posted here, some are only for a reaction, some looking for advice, some down right stupid however, they all have one thing in common and that’s someone else’s mindset and that’s okay because if we were all the same, it would be a boring life and world.

Maybe it’s just a way to vent, it might stop someone beating the life out of someone or them thinking they can’t face going on. It doesn’t matter but we should value everyone’s opinion and thoughts. We don’t need to reply, we can simply scroll past, we don’t need to give a cutting swipe as some like to do and get a kick out of. We don’t need to be an arsehole just for the sake of being an arsehole.

There’s some on this site who only want to chat in the forums, there’s some who want to fuck everything that moves, some think it’s a dating site, some a swing site, some meet future spouses.

Set your expectations for what you want. Block those you don’t want to converse with or don’t fit their criteria or they don’t fit yours but above all, do as you want on this site, as you see fit personally and keep within the boundaries of the rules of the site and enjoy your time here and on this earth too because it’s short.

Anyway, that’s my input. Be it good, bad, indifferent but we’re all here for the same thing and that’s play, however, we all have different views on how that play goes, who we play with and who we want to play with us and the block button and filters are your true friends, without feelings.

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country


"The name of this website is Fab Swingers .

Not Fab Hook up for singles. If you look up the definition of a swingers in the dictionary it says couples who like to swap sexual partners.

There is a place for single guys and single ladies. But the Web site is predominantly for couples. There are plenty single dating sites.

So it's beyond me why so many single guys join then bitch and moan about not getting any meets or not getting any action. Go join the singles sites if that's what you are after. Stop

the endless woe is me I can't get any verification no body wants to meet me. Yes because the majority of females on here looking to meet are part of a couple looking to meet other couples or else explore their bi side .

I am not saying all the ladies on here. Yes there are those looking for single guys. As there are couples looking for singles guys . Just that is more a couples orientated site.

And before the backlash starts I never said all couples I never said all the ladies. And I never said all the guys "

We will do what we like when we like, cheers though for the rant. Have a nice day

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country


"All I said was idont see what single guys have to bitch and moan about not getting meets on a predominantly couples site.

I know that you probably didn't mean to offend anyone but in fairness you as good as said that all the single people (especially men) here are only of use if a couple wants them to join them. That single people having fun with eachother aren't really swingers. I know there is a huge number of people that aren't actually interested in swinging long term but the idea of swinging has changed drastically over the years and the more people checking it out and opening their minds to it is a good thing in my opinion. "

This

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By *leasurer77Man
over a year ago

Athlone


"The name of this website is Fab Swingers .

Not Fab Hook up for singles. If you look up the definition of a swingers in the dictionary it says couples who like to swap sexual partners.

There is a place for single guys and single ladies. But the Web site is predominantly for couples. There are plenty single dating sites.

So it's beyond me why so many single guys join then bitch and moan about not getting any meets or not getting any action. Go join the singles sites if that's what you are after. Stop

the endless woe is me I can't get any verification no body wants to meet me. Yes because the majority of females on here looking to meet are part of a couple looking to meet other couples or else explore their bi side .

I am not saying all the ladies on here. Yes there are those looking for single guys. As there are couples looking for singles guys . Just that is more a couples orientated site.

And before the backlash starts I never said all couples I never said all the ladies. And I never said all the guys "

Which dictionary did you use by the way? I haven't seen a dictionary definition that excluded anyone!

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By *ohn400Man
over a year ago

Dublin or anywhere

I think we will all have to leave this site soon....its only for cpls /

but you have met a good few men on here ?

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By *ubenesqueBlondeWoman
over a year ago

lisburn/Quigleys Point


"I’ve probably made one previous comment in a thread in my time here, I’m not sure but who cares how many I’ve made. I don’t bother with the threads or the forums as I don’t need to get known or need ‘validating’ as being a great fella or a funny fucker or whatever but occasionally I have a read of them and some are funny, informative, some shouldn’t really be posted here, some are only for a reaction, some looking for advice, some down right stupid however, they all have one thing in common and that’s someone else’s mindset and that’s okay because if we were all the same, it would be a boring life and world.

Maybe it’s just a way to vent, it might stop someone beating the life out of someone or them thinking they can’t face going on. It doesn’t matter but we should value everyone’s opinion and thoughts. We don’t need to reply, we can simply scroll past, we don’t need to give a cutting swipe as some like to do and get a kick out of. We don’t need to be an arsehole just for the sake of being an arsehole.

There’s some on this site who only want to chat in the forums, there’s some who want to fuck everything that moves, some think it’s a dating site, some a swing site, some meet future spouses.

Set your expectations for what you want. Block those you don’t want to converse with or don’t fit their criteria or they don’t fit yours but above all, do as you want on this site, as you see fit personally and keep within the boundaries of the rules of the site and enjoy your time here and on this earth too because it’s short.

Anyway, that’s my input. Be it good, bad, indifferent but we’re all here for the same thing and that’s play, however, we all have different views on how that play goes, who we play with and who we want to play with us and the block button and filters are your true friends, without feelings. "

Very well said!

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By *uanpacMan
over a year ago

Cork/Limerick/Dublin

Anyone in my area

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By *ackonthemarketCorkMan
over a year ago

East Cork


"Anyone in my area "

Do you mean the majority of the country lol

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By *ndqtMan
over a year ago

The Wild West


""All I said to my wife was, 'That piece of halibut was good enough for Jehovah" "

Are there any women here.... LOL...

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"I kind of get where the OP is coming from. They maybe feel like their site has been morphed or hijacked. It makes it less enjoyable for them. The site name does suggest an original intent but that has evolved. I'd love to see a singles side to the site too maybe. A singles forum or something. If the search and contact filters worked properly that might help too so people can ensure only like minded can contact them.

But how is a filter for singles going to work when half the singles aren't " single" "

Have the couples arnt couples either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I kind of get where the OP is coming from. They maybe feel like their site has been morphed or hijacked. It makes it less enjoyable for them. The site name does suggest an original intent but that has evolved. I'd love to see a singles side to the site too maybe. A singles forum or something. If the search and contact filters worked properly that might help too so people can ensure only like minded can contact them.

But how is a filter for singles going to work when half the singles aren't " single"

Have the couples arnt couples either "

Very true, regardless of what you're looking for, there's a lot of filtering and sifting to be done. If anyone is looking to order from a specific menu, they probably need a different type of site altogether.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"I’ve probably made one previous comment in a thread in my time here, I’m not sure but who cares how many I’ve made. I don’t bother with the threads or the forums as I don’t need to get known or need ‘validating’ as being a great fella or a funny fucker or whatever but occasionally I have a read of them and some are funny, informative, some shouldn’t really be posted here, some are only for a reaction, some looking for advice, some down right stupid however, they all have one thing in common and that’s someone else’s mindset and that’s okay because if we were all the same, it would be a boring life and world.

Maybe it’s just a way to vent, it might stop someone beating the life out of someone or them thinking they can’t face going on. It doesn’t matter but we should value everyone’s opinion and thoughts. We don’t need to reply, we can simply scroll past, we don’t need to give a cutting swipe as some like to do and get a kick out of. We don’t need to be an arsehole just for the sake of being an arsehole.

There’s some on this site who only want to chat in the forums, there’s some who want to fuck everything that moves, some think it’s a dating site, some a swing site, some meet future spouses.

Set your expectations for what you want. Block those you don’t want to converse with or don’t fit their criteria or they don’t fit yours but above all, do as you want on this site, as you see fit personally and keep within the boundaries of the rules of the site and enjoy your time here and on this earth too because it’s short.

Anyway, that’s my input. Be it good, bad, indifferent but we’re all here for the same thing and that’s play, however, we all have different views on how that play goes, who we play with and who we want to play with us and the block button and filters are your true friends, without feelings.

Very well said! "

Yes well put .

I'd add to the op, we are all quick to give our opinions, And unfortunately in the world of fab when everybody gives their opinion it can seem like an onslaught. I hope you don't feel attacked as you are as entitled to your opinion as any of us. If you feel the site would be better with only couples, That's your choice and you have a right to express it on the forms in the form of a rant just like anybody else. I guess what I'm trying to say is don't be put out by the amount of negative responses as I don't think people are having a go really!

it's just when we bunch opinions together it can fall heavily.

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By *am74Man
over a year ago

inbetween north west ,sligo ,galway


"I've used the site for hookups, I've found relationships, I've attended events and socials.

I've used the site for advice on DIY, solving issues with my phone, received parenting advice and info on recipes and the likes, given opinions and sarcastic comments on all sorts as well as flirting on the forum.

I'll use the site as I please. I don't care what the name of the site is or what this name purports the purpose of the site to be because, guess what, it evolves with every single person who uses the site...differently.

Now, who's got the weather forecast for the weekend? "

Yep well said ,that rant from the poster clearly is to discriminate against single guys.some of us are genuine so don't be singling all us out,and I happen to pay for the usage of the site to. It's that narrative that dosnt get genuine single guys a chance on here. Everyone uses the site differently each to there own it's not named a couple site either and it's open to anyone that pays there subscription.not only that there's single lady's here to that alot of couples like to meet do you say the same to them that it's mainly a couples site?

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