FabSwingers.com forum: Blocking

By *oe Cool xxx OP Man
over a year ago

South Dublin

So I just go blocked by a girl who took offense cause I wouldnt swap phone numbers ,

Said she wants romance and me saying we don’t need to yet and it’s not a dating site lol.

We had t net yet

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Counter block and move on simples

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

BAMO!

Block and move on

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork

That

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By *oe Cool xxx OP Man
over a year ago

South Dublin

Yeah same view

Girl said she wants romance , eh wrong site love

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By *oe Cool xxx OP Man
over a year ago

South Dublin

Oh and wanted pics fast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So I just go blocked by a girl who took offense cause I wouldnt swap phone numbers ,

Said she wants romance and me saying we don’t need to yet and it’s not a dating site lol.

We had t net yet

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She wanted to go where you didn't so she blocked ...not to waste her time or yours.You weren't what she wanted .Easy really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if she stated she was interested,and you claim that you let her know you weren't ....why did you try to message after that

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

She,like anyone else on here can look for whatever they want. If she wants romance or pics or numbers then she has every right to ask.Just the same as you can ask for whatever it is you want off here,or to not share anything your not comfortable with sharing.

She blocked you and I don't see what the big deal is.Ye are both looking for different things from fab so it saves you both wasting any time interacting any farther. Counter block and move on.

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By *ublinjasonMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I think your point is she blocked you for not a great reason.

If you were rude nasty pushy then yeah, she'd be right. Otherwise the other person can just answer politely or not answer at all.

That being said the women on here will block you even if your behaviour is impeccable.

One learns alot about women on here particularly Irish women.

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By *oe Cool xxx OP Man
over a year ago

South Dublin

"Well if she stated she was interested,and you claim that you let her know you weren't ....why did you try to message after that

Lol there was no message to say not Interested, was blocked I’d conversation

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By *oe Cool xxx OP Man
over a year ago

South Dublin

"She,like anyone else on here can look for whatever they want. If she wants romance or pics or numbers then she has every right to ask.Just the same as you can ask for whatever it is you want off here,or to not share anything your not comfortable with sharing.

She blocked you and I don't see what the big deal is.Ye are both looking for different things from fab so it saves you both wasting any time interacting any farther. Counter block and move on. "

Just say ur not interested and move on not block mid conversation

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By *oe Cool xxx OP Man
over a year ago

South Dublin

"I think your point is she blocked you for not a great reason.

If you were rude nasty pushy then yeah, she'd be right. Otherwise the other person can just answer politely or not answer at all.

That being said the women on here will block you even if your behaviour is impeccable.

One learns alot about women on here particularly Irish women."

She wasn’t Irish but I think I dodged a bullet, also thought it was weird she was looking for exclusive , someone should explain the site to her lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think your point is she blocked you for not a great reason.

If you were rude nasty pushy then yeah, she'd be right. Otherwise the other person can just answer politely or not answer at all.

That being said the women on here will block you even if your behaviour is impeccable.

One learns alot about women on here particularly Irish women."

Why assume she was Irish?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wasnt meant to be lad...let her go

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

She blocked you and I don't see what the big deal is.Ye are both looking for different things from fab so it saves you both wasting any time interacting any farther. Counter block and move on.

Just say ur not interested and move on not block mid conversation "

She obviously decided the conversation was over and she didn't want to chat anymore.It happens on here always has,and probably always will so I don't see any point in getting annoyed over it. Especially when from what you said what you were both looking for is completely different.

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By *oe Cool xxx OP Man
over a year ago

South Dublin

"It wasnt meant to be lad...let her go

Lol we’re only chatting so it really bothered , bothered by the rudeness more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It wasnt meant to be lad...let her go

Lol we’re only chatting so it really bothered , bothered by the rudeness more "

Her rudeness for blocking you? If you consider that rude you need to toughen up

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Probably a scam to be honest if they want your phone number before meeting you

Use the site like you want to as its your life not someone else's

Others do use it for dating or finding people to have a romantic relationship with ....it's liquorice alsorts in here

Block who you want to for whatever reason you want

Be prepared to be blocked for any reason yourself

Once you get its not personal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happened to me! Lady blocked me just for asking… Move on, if they can do that they just been rude.

Frustrating when try make conversation…

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"I think your point is she blocked you for not a great reason.

If you were rude nasty pushy then yeah, she'd be right. Otherwise the other person can just answer politely or not answer at all.

That being said the women on here will block you even if your behaviour is impeccable.

One learns alot about women on here particularly Irish women.

She wasn’t Irish but I think I dodged a bullet, also thought it was weird she was looking for exclusive , someone should explain the site to her lol"

Sorry you felt slighted by being blocked but if you both were not looking for the same thing then what's the problem. Also I think it might be you that needs the site explained. This is a social site for like minded people to connect or not. How people do that is up to them. Also where better for two people to form a swinging relationship than on a swingers site.

Best of luck on your Fab journey.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

One learns alot about women on here particularly Irish women."

So what have you learned about Irish women?

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By *oe Cool xxx OP Man
over a year ago

South Dublin

"It wasnt meant to be lad...let her go

Lol we’re only chatting so it really bothered , bothered by the rudeness more

Her rudeness for blocking you? If you consider that rude you need to toughen up"

No just thought she was rude , it’s pointless and uncalled for

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By *oe Cool xxx OP Man
over a year ago

South Dublin

"Probably a scam to be honest if they want your phone number before meeting you

Use the site like you want to as its your life not someone else's

Others do use it for dating or finding people to have a romantic relationship with ....it's liquorice alsorts in here

Block who you want to for whatever reason you want

Be prepared to be blocked for any reason yourself

Once you get its not personal "

I think it was a scammer , the conv was a bit odd and pics sent were very very blurry

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By *oe Cool xxx OP Man
over a year ago

South Dublin

"I think your point is she blocked you for not a great reason.

If you were rude nasty pushy then yeah, she'd be right. Otherwise the other person can just answer politely or not answer at all.

That being said the women on here will block you even if your behaviour is impeccable.

One learns alot about women on here particularly Irish women.

She wasn’t Irish but I think I dodged a bullet, also thought it was weird she was looking for exclusive , someone should explain the site to her lol

Best of luck on your Fab journey."

I know how the site works , the conversation was odd so shudda known

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

You were both looking for different things. She blocked you because you arent what she's looking for. No biggie. Move on. No need to complain on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Probably a scam to be honest if they want your phone number before meeting you

Use the site like you want to as its your life not someone else's

Others do use it for dating or finding people to have a romantic relationship with ....it's liquorice alsorts in here

Block who you want to for whatever reason you want

Be prepared to be blocked for any reason yourself

Once you get its not personal

I think it was a scammer , the conv was a bit odd and pics sent were very very blurry "

Yep ,if I'm gonna be scammed , they better be polite or I'm not buying it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It wasnt meant to be lad...let her go

Lol we’re only chatting so it really bothered , bothered by the rudeness more

Her rudeness for blocking you? If you consider that rude you need to toughen up

No just thought she was rude , it’s pointless and uncalled for "

But so is a guy sending nasty random messages, it's a kinefueld on here at times but just because you not what she looking for and blocked you I wouldn't call rude. Yes it would have been nice to hear oh I'm sorry your not what I'm looking for etc but sometimes been polite just causes more hassle.

It happens, I'm been blocked by people and i just think off with ya.

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By *oe Cool xxx OP Man
over a year ago

South Dublin

"You were both looking for different things. She blocked you because you arent what she's looking for. No biggie. Move on. No need to complain on the forums."

Not complaining man, just wanted peoples views on it

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

It's not nice to get blocked by an another person. When you haven't been nasty to that person. Sadly it happens, even on social media's. You mightn't even have spoken to them, for it to happen.

Yes it would have been better for them to say "your not what I'm looking for" & move on, even if they blocked you afterwards.

Your implying that she'd be better off on a "Dating app" more so than on here. That maybe true alright, there's nothing to stop her or even a man being on here, that wants the same thing.

When it happens, try not to take it personal & move on ASAP. It's happened to me on here & I didn't do anything bad to them. That I know of anyway, I must have done something they didn't like anyway's.

Like other's saided on here ye're both looking for different things generally.

Just like a man sending abusive messages to a single lady or a couple. Isn't right either, if they do that, they should be blocked over that.

Personally I'd be on my gard, if a "person" is asking for my phone No or want to move to a different type of a communication platform. Especially if we've haven't had a meetup or not very long messaging eachother.

So ya, more than likely it's a scam & you dodged a bullet, big time.

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By *oe Cool xxx OP Man
over a year ago

South Dublin

"It's not nice to get blocked by an another person. When you haven't been nasty to that person. Sadly it happens, even on social media's. You mightn't even have spoken to them, for it to happen.

Yes it would have been better for them to say "your not what I'm looking for" & move on, even if they blocked you afterwards.

Your implying that she'd be better off on a "Dating app" more so than on here. That maybe true alright, there's nothing to stop her or even a man being on here, that wants the same thing.

Like other's saided on here ye're both looking for different things generally.

Just like a man sending abusive messages to a single lady or a couple. Isn't right either, if they do that, they should be blocked over that.

So ya, more than likely it's a scam & you dodged a bullet, big time.

Yeah think so

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford

"It's not nice to get blocked by an another person. When you haven't been nasty to that person. Sadly it happens, even on social media's. You mightn't even have spoken to them, for it to happen.

Yes it would have been better for them to say "your not what I'm looking for" & move on, even if they blocked you afterwards.

Your implying that she'd be better off on a "Dating app" more so than on here. That maybe true alright, there's nothing to stop her or even a man being on here, that wants the same thing.

Like other's saided on here ye're both looking for different things generally.

Just like a man sending abusive messages to a single lady or a couple. Isn't right either, if they do that, they should be blocked over that.

So ya, more than likely it's a scam & you dodged a bullet, big time.

Yeah think so "

Yeah, so do I

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

My view is that it's nobody's loss.

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Efficient, clear and to the point. Fair play to her, she didn't leave you with any doubt as what the lay of the land was and what she felt about what the the future potential might be for the two of you.

Sounds to me like a good result and one I'd have no problem being on the receiving end of.

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By *morefor3Man
over a year ago

City

From past experience I find if you get blocked and all you've been is nice/normal then you've dodged a bullet... irrespective of nationality. On any dating/ riding

site girls usually are the ones in control...move on and find the next one to potentially block you until you run out and are only left with the TVs

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By *oe Cool xxx OP Man
over a year ago

South Dublin

"From past experience I find if you get blocked and all you've been is nice/normal then you've dodged a bullet... irrespective of nationality. On any dating/ riding

site girls usually are the ones in control...move on and find the next one to potentially block you until you run out and are only left with the TVs"

Agreed

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By *oe Cool xxx OP Man
over a year ago

South Dublin

"Efficient, clear and to the point. Fair play to her, she didn't leave you with any doubt as what the lay of the land was and what she felt about what the the future potential might be for the two of you.

Sounds to me like a good result and one I'd have no problem being on the receiving end of. "

I dissagree , she was weird

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

"From past experience I find if you get blocked and all you've been is nice/normal then you've dodged a bullet... irrespective of nationality. On any dating/ riding

site girls usually are the ones in control...move on and find the next one to potentially block you until you run out and are only left with the TVs"

Only left with the TV’s?

Can you elaborate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why keep this up scratching my head here and the dogs even she can’t see the point

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