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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do people need a few drinks before they meet or do they need to be dr*nk even?

I had a social on Saturday morning in a hotel with a lady and she was hammered dr*nk, it was on short notice and unplanned but hey at least I got a free breakfast out of it,

Do you ever encounter people intoxicated at meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if I turned up for a breakfast social and the other person was d*unk, I'd make my excuses and leave.

I rarely drink, only when I'm out out and even then not much, and I prefer Fab meets to be sober

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

If someone was d*unk when I met them for a social I would leave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a good drink but I'd rather go through the drinks with someone rather than turn up d*unk or for them to, although i can understand that a stiff drink can calm your nerves , but so can a deep breath.

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By *igglefunWoman
over a year ago

Cork

Had a guy turn up d*unk and high to a daytime meet

That was that for me... cudnt get away fast enough...

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By *ildGroverMan
over a year ago

rathfarnham

I’ve gone to parties and driven even though I’d probably have preferred a few drinks.

Some People get hammered at socials for some reason

It’s been YEARS since a I had d*unk sex tbh….. few glasses of wine sex more recently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe a personality drink or two but I wouldn't want to get d*unk

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By *andytownMan
over a year ago

Gods Own Country


"If someone was d*unk when I met them for a social I would leave. "

Definitely this, I find it abit disrespectful tbh. Different if I have arranged to be the taxi driver for the night, I'd expect them to be a little worse for wear... But a social I'd definitely hit the exit door.

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

I dont drink and obviously dont mind if a person had one or two but if someone showed up pissed id be leaving.

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By *ammerandthongsCouple
over a year ago

Limerick and London

I prefer to ride sober tbh it's better in my opinion

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By *ome_wild_girlWoman
over a year ago

Antrim Town

I dont mind if someone has a couple of drinks but if they become too d*unk they dont have the capacity for consent never mind being able to perform.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One or two is fine during a social meet/preamble to play, we prefer people who don't need dutch courage

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

Galway

I never drink at a meet, I much prefer sober sex. If someone is d*unk, there's lots of red flags, mainly the issue around consent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the drinks go beyond one or two, any potential play gets postponed.

Just not for us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My bad guess I should have walked out, didn't want a wasted journey or appear to be rude either

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

I dont mind a drink to calm the nerves and act as an opener to be sure we are all on the same page. Consent is paramount and contiunal reassessment while playing is most important

I prefer long play sessions so can u imagine the hang over kicking in mid ride hell no thanks

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"My bad guess I should have walked out, didn't want a wasted journey or appear to be rude either "

Why was it your bad at least she got a breakfast in her i bet she was glad of it after

Thats presuming u didnt did u

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My bad guess I should have walked out, didn't want a wasted journey or appear to be rude either

Why was it your bad at least she got a breakfast in her i bet she was glad of it after

Thats presuming u didnt did u "

She bought me a breakfast she was feeling merry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would only ever meet sober, disrespectful to the other woman/couple if Ur d*unk...

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"My bad guess I should have walked out, didn't want a wasted journey or appear to be rude either

Why was it your bad at least she got a breakfast in her i bet she was glad of it after

Thats presuming u didnt did u

She bought me a breakfast she was feeling merry "

So as a gentle man u enjoyed breakfast and a slurred convo and went on your way nothing wrong with that mate

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By *otownkid1967Man
over a year ago

Portlaoise


"Would only ever meet sober, disrespectful to the other woman/couple if Ur d*unk..."

This 100%

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

There are so many reasons to stay sober especially if it’s more than a 1 on 1. Communicating coherently , working out boundaries , negotiating hotel rules , having safe sex , not leaving the room in a state , maintaining an erection ….

The list goes on and on

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

On a meet we both like to take our time and have a drink or two with the person we are meeting. I don't NEED a drink, and wouldn't get d*unk, but enjoy a couple of drinks as part of an evening. Someone who is very d*unk is very unattractive and raises consent issues.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Also... being hammered d*unk in the morning? That's a red flag right there.

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By *urvyLouLouWoman
over a year ago

Dungannon/Belfast

I have had a few drinks in the past but never ever intoxicated and I certainly would never turn up to a social intoxicated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't drink alcohol but if another person did that's completely up to themselves but if l thought they were intoxicated at a meet then it's a total no no from me , I'll just shoot the breeze and head off into the sunset so to speak.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

If someone turned up dr*nk or got pissed while we were meeting I would walk away completely.

Regardless of how it's going to affect the quality of the sex there's also the issue of consent to consider.

Even if it's just a social I'd still walk away if they need that crutch just to chat.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Maybe the woman in question was staying in the hotel from Friday night and still d*unk hence the unexpected social so it might not be a regular occurrence.....

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Met a FWB who was very dr%nk when I arrived at hers. There was no way I was going to make a move (she could barely walk), so tucked her into bed and went home. Anyway, she apologised the next day that her friends had given her extra drinks just after we'd texted to organised the meet that night.

So, 1 or 2 drinks fine but there is a low limit when it comes to sex as well as first dates

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne


"I dont mind a drink to calm the nerves and act as an opener to be sure we are all on the same page. Consent is paramount and contiunal reassessment while playing is most important

I prefer long play sessions so can u imagine the hang over kicking in mid ride hell no thanks "

A CJ have you not heard of the old crushing an Aspirin and sprinkling it on your helmet, then offering it to the lady to cure her headache?

I jest ladies

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By *s SingletWoman
over a year ago

Kilkenny

I know a couple and the guy needed a few before hand but got d*unk and it didn't end well now she meets solo unless he is sober

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