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By *affacakes123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Belfast

Hi Guys, hope all is well. Decided to share these experience. Womdering has anybody else got a mad story too tell. These are condenced but youll get the picture.

1 - Chatted to a couple for 3 weeks very keen in a meet, with the wife wanting to video and send to hubby with his permission. Give general arre of where meet was gonna happen whichh wasnt to far from where I lived. Turned out it was someone very close to my house acting a couple but truly was the male which then went on to stalk me for 3 months. What i didnt get was 97% of the 150 pics and videos was female.

2 - Decided after first time to meet someone at a Bar in a town next to me, in a hotel bar. Agreed time and set date. I showed up early got a drink to calm the nerves but realised I left my wallet in the car. Went outside to fetch it and noticed 2 girls and 2 guys. 1 was absolutely the girl i was duw to meet. I watched intently as they were only a few feet away and they had actually been overheard saying about the meet and they were gonna do me in and mug my belongings and take a beating for being a twat. Im glad I forgot my wallet and away to fuck I went

Anybody else have stories like these? Fast forward 1 yr on and Im so so so picky as to who I talk with

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
over a year ago

Cork

Jesus, I'm sorry you had to put up with either of those situations.

I don't have much in the way of scary stories, I've been stood up a few times however. I've been surprising lucky on this and anywhere else when it came to not meeting someone dangerous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Guys, hope all is well. Decided to share these experience. Womdering has anybody else got a mad story too tell. These are condenced but youll get the picture.

1 - Chatted to a couple for 3 weeks very keen in a meet, with the wife wanting to video and send to hubby with his permission. Give general arre of where meet was gonna happen whichh wasnt to far from where I lived. Turned out it was someone very close to my house acting a couple but truly was the male which then went on to stalk me for 3 months. What i didnt get was 97% of the 150 pics and videos was female.

2 - Decided after first time to meet someone at a Bar in a town next to me, in a hotel bar. Agreed time and set date. I showed up early got a drink to calm the nerves but realised I left my wallet in the car. Went outside to fetch it and noticed 2 girls and 2 guys. 1 was absolutely the girl i was duw to meet. I watched intently as they were only a few feet away and they had actually been overheard saying about the meet and they were gonna do me in and mug my belongings and take a beating for being a twat. Im glad I forgot my wallet and away to fuck I went

Anybody else have stories like these? Fast forward 1 yr on and Im so so so picky as to who I talk with "

Just wondering op did this happen on this site or on another

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By *affacakes123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Belfast

This Happened on here. It was on my old profile which I decided to shut down.

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By *affacakes123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"Jesus, I'm sorry you had to put up with either of those situations.

I don't have much in the way of scary stories, I've been stood up a few times however. I've been surprising lucky on this and anywhere else when it came to not meeting someone dangerous.

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Cheers mate, took me a full year to kinda wrap my head around it.

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By *arriedcurious400Couple
over a year ago

South County Dublin


"Hi Guys, hope all is well. Decided to share these experience. Womdering has anybody else got a mad story too tell. These are condenced but youll get the picture.

1 - Chatted to a couple for 3 weeks very keen in a meet, with the wife wanting to video and send to hubby with his permission. Give general arre of where meet was gonna happen whichh wasnt to far from where I lived. Turned out it was someone very close to my house acting a couple but truly was the male which then went on to stalk me for 3 months. What i didnt get was 97% of the 150 pics and videos was female.

2 - Decided after first time to meet someone at a Bar in a town next to me, in a hotel bar. Agreed time and set date. I showed up early got a drink to calm the nerves but realised I left my wallet in the car. Went outside to fetch it and noticed 2 girls and 2 guys. 1 was absolutely the girl i was duw to meet. I watched intently as they were only a few feet away and they had actually been overheard saying about the meet and they were gonna do me in and mug my belongings and take a beating for being a twat. Im glad I forgot my wallet and away to fuck I went

Anybody else have stories like these? Fast forward 1 yr on and Im so so so picky as to who I talk with "

Hey OP. Nothing so scary as your 2nd encounter but we have had some strange goings on with getting loads of pictures and they seem fake. They have asked to chat on kik which we are happy to do. I started to notice the camera type in the selfie and if its different in the pictures I then ask to see a selfie holding up so many fingers and that puts an end to it. I don't know why it's done but there is some weidos out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are so right to be picky, there are some proper mentalists on here. They are scary situations and I'm glad you forgot your wallet.

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By *affacakes123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"You are so right to be picky, there are some proper mentalists on here. They are scary situations and I'm glad you forgot your wallet."

So am I, some absolute strange individuals. Specially whwn your just looking for the banter and craic.

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By *affacakes123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"Hi Guys, hope all is well. Decided to share these experience. Womdering has anybody else got a mad story too tell. These are condenced but youll get the picture.

1 - Chatted to a couple for 3 weeks very keen in a meet, with the wife wanting to video and send to hubby with his permission. Give general arre of where meet was gonna happen whichh wasnt to far from where I lived. Turned out it was someone very close to my house acting a couple but truly was the male which then went on to stalk me for 3 months. What i didnt get was 97% of the 150 pics and videos was female.

2 - Decided after first time to meet someone at a Bar in a town next to me, in a hotel bar. Agreed time and set date. I showed up early got a drink to calm the nerves but realised I left my wallet in the car. Went outside to fetch it and noticed 2 girls and 2 guys. 1 was absolutely the girl i was duw to meet. I watched intently as they were only a few feet away and they had actually been overheard saying about the meet and they were gonna do me in and mug my belongings and take a beating for being a twat. Im glad I forgot my wallet and away to fuck I went

Anybody else have stories like these? Fast forward 1 yr on and Im so so so picky as to who I talk with

Hey OP. Nothing so scary as your 2nd encounter but we have had some strange goings on with getting loads of pictures and they seem fake. They have asked to chat on kik which we are happy to do. I started to notice the camera type in the selfie and if its different in the pictures I then ask to see a selfie holding up so many fingers and that puts an end to it. I don't know why it's done but there is some weidos out there"

Thats also a very thing ive started keeping a keen eye on. You soon realise now whos fake and whos not. Was quite scary i had a few days of panicing about the what ifs. Have to be so so picky these days. Shame cause it does ruin ut for the genuine articals

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By *hyeyesMan
over a year ago

meath


"Hi Guys, hope all is well. Decided to share these experience. Womdering has anybody else got a mad story too tell. These are condenced but youll get the picture.

1 - Chatted to a couple for 3 weeks very keen in a meet, with the wife wanting to video and send to hubby with his permission. Give general arre of where meet was gonna happen whichh wasnt to far from where I lived. Turned out it was someone very close to my house acting a couple but truly was the male which then went on to stalk me for 3 months. What i didnt get was 97% of the 150 pics and videos was female.

2 - Decided after first time to meet someone at a Bar in a town next to me, in a hotel bar. Agreed time and set date. I showed up early got a drink to calm the nerves but realised I left my wallet in the car. Went outside to fetch it and noticed 2 girls and 2 guys. 1 was absolutely the girl i was duw to meet. I watched intently as they were only a few feet away and they had actually been overheard saying about the meet and they were gonna do me in and mug my belongings and take a beating for being a twat. Im glad I forgot my wallet and away to fuck I went

Anybody else have stories like these? Fast forward 1 yr on and Im so so so picky as to who I talk with "

So they were gonna attack u at a hotel bar ?

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By *affacakes123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Belfast

Can for certain tell you it wasnt a pleasant visit. Even briefy descriptive of what id be wearing

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By *oodgreen25Man
over a year ago

Wexford

They are mad, you're right. Unlucky how two meets both turned out to be crazy people out to get you. Most fabbers I've chatted or met with have been sound, can't say have had anything near your experience

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I was chatting to this one . She made a fool out of me . Went to meet her 3 time I must have been a gobshite to go after the first time being let down . What do they get out of it . They are horrible people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was chatting to this one . She made a fool out of me . Went to meet her 3 time I must have been a gobshite to go after the first time being let down . What do they get out of it . They are horrible people "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was chatting to this one . She made a fool out of me . Went to meet her 3 time I must have been a gobshite to go after the first time being let down . What do they get out of it . They are horrible people "

Cause we live in hope

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By *ngloirishcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Dundalk

That's terrible, surprised it hasn't put you off. If you are ever unsure about photos ask them for a selfie with a shoe on their head, usually works

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

My first meet went wrong because she wasn't honest and didn't understand the word consent but I learned from my mistakes.

There have been moments of drama and lunacy in the 6 years since which didn't involve me directly but I was daft enough to commiserate with their stories until I realised they were reaping what they had sowed.

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By *eeingWhatsHere21Man
over a year ago

Northside

Have had one similar instance to your first story. Was chatting with a couple who were interested but it would be just the guy 1:1 first - then if that went well I would be meeting both of them.

I'd made sure to clearly explain what I was comfortable with doing for that meet and that I didn't want anything more. It was going to be outside and late at night (which I will never agree to again) and as a result we both drove there separately.

The meet went from perfectly fine to scary in less than 2 minutes when all of a sudden he started suggesting things I hadn't agreed to. I declined and he proceeded to ignore what I'd said and then aggressively tried to grab me. I wanted to get out of there as I felt endangered and barely managed to get away, even having to stand my ground when he tried to follow me back to my car.

He stalked me for years after & I've always had to have my guard up as a result. He's tried to replicate the same scenario dozens of times with different accounts where he uses his "wife's" pictures as bait. Since then I've been much more picky with who I talk to as I don't want to ever go though that experience again.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Years ago on a previous profile I got a message from a couple who didn't live together.

They had 40 or 50 veries but he wanted to meet me in a city centre carpark late at night and drive me to her house.

She would be waiting bent over the sofa and I was to fuck her and he would take me straight back to my car.

Way too many red flags so I refused but they continued to message every 6 weeks or so until I just blocked them.

A few years later someone from a similar area told this exact story on the forums.He went through with it but either had to have a wank in the car with the male half first or had to wank him off. Can't remember which.

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By *atriceWoman
over a year ago

ballymena northern ireland not donegal

Scary someone was looking over you hunny x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a couple that were into drugs eh no thanks.. I politely left

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By *affacakes123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Belfast

Def someone looking out for me. Was a rather weird few weeks after x

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By *affacakes123 OP   Man
over a year ago

Belfast

Nah to the drugs also. Dont need them to have good fun

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