FabSwingers.com forum: People you have told

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How many people outside of the fabswingers world have you told your on it?

And what was there reaction ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We haven't told anyone

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Absolutely Zero know it's no one's business only mine

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Tell anyone from the Vanilla world and how long do you think it would take for them to tell someone else? Like milliseconds

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I total agree , the vanilla world couldn’t not cope but I have seen some people tell me they have told there mates and see some profiles saying “ a friend told me about this site “

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Nearly everyone. Our friends, our parents etc.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

My safety backup and thats it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My safety backup and thats it "

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody, I've never seen my sex life as anyone's business unless they're involved.

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By *ergalMan
over a year ago

East Cork

Nobody

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By *ukeM8519Man
over a year ago

South Dublin

Told nobody. It’s the secret of FAB that gives people a kick.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It’s still surprising the amount of people that know your on but your unaware of it

I know lots of people on here as I would or recognised something

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

Could do without the 'Chinese whispers'.

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

My 2 closest friends know because they were my safety calls when I started out and didn't know anyone else on the scene. They don't really care what I do as long as I'm safe.

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By *rish In DubaiMan
over a year ago

Carlow

Nobody

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By *ildAtlanticSecretCouple
over a year ago

around Clare, Galway, Limerick

Nobody

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noone

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By *ANG8LOOSEMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Only a married woman ive met lots before joining fab

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By *inxnmasterCouple
over a year ago

naughty valley

A few trusted friends ….most live abroad

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm not in the habit of discussing my sex life with anyone outside the site or even with the vast majority of people on the site.

That's between me and those I meet just as I wouldn't discuss someone else's sex life either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could do without the 'Chinese whispers'. "

And that's just on fab!!

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

"Could do without the 'Chinese whispers'.

And that's just on fab!!"

I choose to limit it to just here at least, more control that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My son knows he thinks it's hilarious.

My mum knows too and as long as I'm careful she just things enjoy my life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My son knows he thinks it's hilarious.

My mum knows too and as long as I'm careful she just things enjoy my life."

Lol how did that come up in covo with your son lol

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By *rAndMrsRightCouple
over a year ago

newtownabbey

Through no choice of our own we were put in a shitty spot where we had to tell pretty much the whole country that we belong to the swinging community.

Only very few Vanilla friends know that we are specifically on fab.

Even less people know about who we have sex with.

Missus

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By *urvyLouLouWoman
over a year ago

Tyrone

I don't kiss and tell so certainly don't share this information with anyone. Fab is my escape and somewhere I can simply be me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some time I have an amazing sex with a fab guy and I would love to tell husband , but then I realised that I have to keep it to my own

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork

"Some time I have an amazing sex with a fab guy and I would love to tell husband , but then I realised that I have to keep it to my own

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By *tarboy300Man
over a year ago

DUBLIN/KILDARE

Nobody. This part of my life is completly private. When people ask for a face pic or have that in the bio it gives me the ick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My son knows he thinks it's hilarious.

My mum knows too and as long as I'm careful she just things enjoy my life.

Lol how did that come up in covo with your son lol"

He overheard a phone conversation, (he's in his 20s) and thinks it's hilarious as I can't even get a coffee meet

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"My son knows he thinks it's hilarious.

My mum knows too and as long as I'm careful she just things enjoy my life.

Lol how did that come up in covo with your son lol

He overheard a phone conversation, (he's in his 20s) and thinks it's hilarious as I can't even get a coffee meet "

I enjoyed my social drink with your mother in fairness

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Occasionally, I have been tempted to tell friends about my alternative life, but have drawn back at the last minute, principally because it's the only aspect of my life that not a single other person in my normal everyday life knows anything about!

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By *un chickWoman
over a year ago

Fermanagh

I’ve encouraged a cpl of my friends to join the site and they have. My daughter knows I’ve dabbled in the lifestyle but not the exact site.

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By *ammerandthongsCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

"Tell anyone from the Vanilla world and how long do you think it would take for them to tell someone else? Like milliseconds

So very true we would think also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many people outside of the fabswingers world have you told your on it?

And what was there reaction ? "

Absolutely none , it's not their business.. simple really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tell anyone from the Vanilla world and how long do you think it would take for them to tell someone else? Like milliseconds

So very true we would think also"

Agreed, if you can't keep your private business to yourself, how can you expect others to?

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By *ildarekinkstersCouple
over a year ago

kinkytown

My close friends know, when was a single lady here before they were my safe calls same as if was doing kink meets. They weren't surprised as they know that I always enjoyed variety and new experiences in play. Once I'm safe and happy they are supportive

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By *s SingletWoman
over a year ago

Kilkenny

My adult daughters know and the reaction was as long as I'm being safe and having fun they are happy for me

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By *ixie and dixie2022Couple
over a year ago

villiage

We have told nobody but someone from he has so few people have mentioned it and got told to jog on

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By *apri 555Man
over a year ago

wexford or Dublin

Nobody ,my wife and i are the only ones that need to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% nobody, except for the ppl we've met on fab, some ppl see it as a taboo, and some ppl would throw judgement if they knew you were into swinging, so we keep it as private as possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Told my married mate.... He thinks I'm having sex every night

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By *ookingfun82Man
over a year ago

Enniskillen

No-one who isn't on fab, and only people who were already on fab

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By *aiseanagusspraoiMan
over a year ago

city

"How many people outside of the fabswingers world have you told your on it?

And what was there reaction ? "

Haven't told a soul and that's how I like it. I'm skilled at keeping secrets

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By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

We wouldn't tell any one about our private business same as we wouldn't tell anyone about our financial affairs etc

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