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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was chatting with a lad on here earlier and brought up some of the really rude messages I get off some men here. He said it's because they watch too much porn!

I thought, damn, that's it! These guys don't know how to relate to real women because they're used to porn stars.

Any thoughts, comments?

PS I don't mean every guy on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was chatting with a lad on here earlier and brought up some of the really rude messages I get off some men here. He said it's because they watch too much porn!

I thought, damn, that's it! These guys don't know how to relate to real women because they're used to porn stars.

Any thoughts, comments?

PS I don't mean every guy on here."

Yea i defo agree. some fellas watch to much porn. some the things in porn i wouldnt entertain trying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was chatting with a lad on here earlier and brought up some of the really rude messages I get off some men here. He said it's because they watch too much porn!

I thought, damn, that's it! These guys don't know how to relate to real women because they're used to porn stars.

Any thoughts, comments?

PS I don't mean every guy on here."

Yes I would totally agree, I watched a programme about this type of problem , the younger generation are being exposed to more extreme types of porn at an early age and this can lead to a distorted view of sex and expectations of what should happen. It is scary that pre-teen children have access to hardcore imagery of god knows what now thanks to the internet. However it is therefore down to the parents to make sure they know what their kids are looking at online.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno if I would give them that excuse. I think it's just a misinterpretation of the MAJORITY of women on the site, in that it's advertised as a 'sex' site, so some men think they can be blunt and disrespectful. I like porn, but would never consider using profanity in any message unless that's the direction the series of messages were going.

Bottom line is that some people are just rude, ignorant and disrespectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I dunno if I would give them that excuse. I think it's just a misinterpretation of the MAJORITY of women on the site, in that it's advertised as a 'sex' site, so some men think they can be blunt and disrespectful. I like porn, but would never consider using profanity in any message unless that's the direction the series of messages were going.

Bottom line is that some people are just rude, ignorant and disrespectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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I dunno if I would give them that excuse. I think it's just a misinterpretation of the MAJORITY of women on the site, in that it's advertised as a 'sex' site, so some men think they can be blunt and disrespectful. I like porn, but would never consider using profanity in any message unless that's the direction the series of messages were going.

Bottom line is that some people are just rude, ignorant and disrespectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

too right porn has a lot to be answered for like this slappin the cock off the side of your face whats that all about lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"too right porn has a lot to be answered for like this slappin the cock off the side of your face whats that all about lol "

Lmao I quite like that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"too right porn has a lot to be answered for like this slappin the cock off the side of your face whats that all about lol "

Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not sure i would say i'm addicted to porn, but lets face it i would not be human if i did not excited and erect by watching porn.

one part of swinging for me is the idea of watching sex while watching sex, be that porn or another couple in the same room. if no couple, i guess porn is next best thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"too right porn has a lot to be answered for like this slappin the cock off the side of your face whats that all about lol "

True, but if a person is an idiot, then no matter what they see, they'll want to try it. Just look at all the 'fail' videos on youtube.

As for trying to recreate porn 'moves' well, if you see something you never thought of and it tickles your fancy, so to speak, then it's up to you to find a suitable, willing partner to try it on. As I said, I don't mind a bit of porn now and again, but it's just for titillation.

Cock slapping, well it's no different to how some guys into BDSM behave. It's a form of degrading behaviour, at least that's how I interpret it, and if you have a sub fem who's excitement is increased by being treated that way, then good luck to her. I can't find any excitement in doing it, have never tried it and wouldn't want to, unless the fem wanted me to act or behave in a certain way for her. Wouldn't do anything for me normally.

Basically, anyone who believes porn in any way represents reality is a eejit.

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By *avedublinMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Ahh the old dick slap

noun, verb, slapped, slap·ping, adverb.

To ejaculate upon your partner while slapping your junk against the side of their face.

Derived from: "Dick Slap" and "Skeet"

Person A: Dude, why's your face all red and hair all gelled up?

Person B: Fred totally dick skapped me last night. He ruined my hair and my headboard.

Person A: What's Fred's number again?

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By *avedublinMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Not to be mistaken with Slap Dick

A game where two or more men put honey or other adhesives on their hands and take turns slapping each other's wangs.

The game goes on until someone's hand gets stuck on another's penis. He is then declared the loser.

The penalty must be decided before the game and could be anything from streaking in public to giving hand jobs to homeless people.

For the rules it is suggested that pube shots are not allowed.

Person A: K, guy, lets play Slap Dick, no pube shots!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What the frig does that have to do with anything?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What the frig does that have to do with anything?"

Thats what i was thinking lol.

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By *ornyAndHung4FunMan
over a year ago

Lisburn

I don't know what you girls are complaining about, the plumber comes around and has a 36inch cock, a sexy French accent and is an expert at making you and your twin sisters squirt all over the kitchen table before your husbands get home lol.

Seriously though, I used to watch ALOT of porn when I was younger, and still occassionly do. So I can't blame porn for the rudeness of men, it's just down to them simply being ignorant idiots. However maybe porn makes us think you should be grateful of abit of anal and a facefull of spunk lol. Alot of men don't realise that when that happens in a porno that it's NOT because she likes it, it's because she's getting a SHITLOAD of money for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"too right porn has a lot to be answered for like this slappin the cock off the side of your face whats that all about lol

Lmao I quite like that "

hahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"too right porn has a lot to be answered for like this slappin the cock off the side of your face whats that all about lol

Lmao I quite like that "

might be ok if you were reay for it but when it comes at ya unawares its not good lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and also the hard nipple pullin u,d think they were makin something outta playdough or tryin to stretch them to the bottom of the bed and then theres the odd slap on the foo foo too don,t get that does nothin for me , i wonder how they would like it if we started hittin mr winky a slap lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I beg to differ bout the whole dick slapping and nipple pulling. I have found that while not all there are a lot of women into it. As mentioned above its a form of degrading play many submissive women find a turn on!

As for men too much porn and gence being rude or ignorant to people i think it's more the mindset that because your on here you'll ride anything with a pulse so take it as a blow to the ego when you tell them no. That or they simply don't know what good manners actually are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and also the hard nipple pullin u,d think they were makin something outta playdough or tryin to stretch them to the bottom of the bed and then theres the odd slap on the foo foo too don,t get that does nothin for me , i wonder how they would like it if we started hittin mr winky a slap lol "
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and also the hard nipple pullin u,d think they were makin something outta playdough or tryin to stretch them to the bottom of the bed and then theres the odd slap on the foo foo too don,t get that does nothin for me , i wonder how they would like it if we started hittin mr winky a slap lol "

lmao

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Have to agree with a lot of the male responses to this topic Wylie I too watched a lot of porn in my younger days I still give the people I am talking to here respect they deserve its not a licence to be rude just because its a sex site those who cannot distinguish reality from fiction as for nipple pulling some women like this and have requested it but again its down to respect and setting boundaries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have to agree with a lot of the male responses to this topic Wylie I too watched a lot of porn in my younger days I still give the people I am talking to here respect they deserve its not a licence to be rude just because its a sex site those who cannot distinguish reality from fiction as for nipple pulling some women like this and have requested it but again its down to respect and setting boundaries "

Always treat others as you like to be treated yourself and you won't go far wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't think it's an all or nothing thing. Don't think that every man that watches porn is a jackass. I myself have been known to enjoy a film or two.

What I'm saying is that for a lot of young people without much experience with the opposite sex, do they see porn as an educational tool?

And before anybody decides to say, "Well, this is a sex site", it's a swingers site. Sex is the goal, but must we skip the game? Women like and need foreplay and stimulating a woman's mind will get you more quickly to your goal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nipple pulling has got to be in my top five

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I don't think it's an all or nothing thing. Don't think that every man that watches porn is a jackass. I myself have been known to enjoy a film or two.

What I'm saying is that for a lot of young people without much experience with the opposite sex, do they see porn as an educational tool?

And before anybody decides to say, "Well, this is a sex site", it's a swingers site. Sex is the goal, but must we skip the game? Women like and need foreplay and stimulating a woman's mind will get you more quickly to your goal."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it's an all or nothing thing. Don't think that every man that watches porn is a jackass. I myself have been known to enjoy a film or two.

What I'm saying is that for a lot of young people without much experience with the opposite sex, do they see porn as an educational tool?

And before anybody decides to say, "Well, this is a sex site", it's a swingers site. Sex is the goal, but must we skip the game? Women like and need foreplay and stimulating a woman's mind will get you more quickly to your goal."

Yes, ma'am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do all women not enjoy being penetrated by a robotic cock from behind while wearing nipple clamps and being roughly taken in the mouth by 5 men who, from what I can tell, have been genetically engineered for the job?! That's like telling me there's no Santa!

Seriously though I watch a lot of porn (cue gasps of shock) and I'd like to think I'm fairly respectful to women. If they enjoy some of the kinkier aspects of porn then great but if not, well you can enjoy it anyway can't you? I think it's more society in general is losing its manners and without getting into a sociological debate (word of the day loo paper!)I find a lot of kids now just don't have some of the basic manners and courtesies I would have been belted for ignoring 'back in the good old days'

Oh, and CoA- didn't you mean twin LESBIAN sisters?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right!!! Porn is the sex industry its can be false and some of it a little degrading. I myself have watched porn sometimes I have even laughed as it is sooo bad as in (fake) ... I imagine porn is to everyone's taste people enjoy it and people don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was chatting with a lad on here earlier and brought up some of the really rude messages I get off some men here. He said it's because they watch too much porn!

I thought, damn, that's it! These guys don't know how to relate to real women because they're used to porn stars.

Any thoughts, comments?

PS I don't mean every guy on here."

I disagree! I was raised to have manners and treat other people with respect. I have watched porn and it has had an influence on the type of sex that I have, but never the way I treat people! No excuse for someone being a dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My taste in porn has definitely changed over the years, prefer the amateur stuff now, if its too polished looking im not interested. Also has to have a bit of kink about it too, straight sex where the guy gives oral, girl gives oral , then dick goes in fanny, 3/4 positions then cumshot is a total snoozefest, but mad how much porn like that there is about, sex by numbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My taste in porn has definitely changed over the years, prefer the amateur stuff now, if its too polished looking im not interested. Also has to have a bit of kink about it too, straight sex where the guy gives oral, girl gives oral , then dick goes in fanny, 3/4 positions then cumshot is a total snoozefest, but mad how much porn like that there is about, sex by numbers."

It's actually surprising how by-the-numbers porn is.

I think people associate sex with porn too much, it's just not reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My taste in porn has definitely changed over the years, prefer the amateur stuff now, if its too polished looking im not interested. Also has to have a bit of kink about it too, straight sex where the guy gives oral, girl gives oral , then dick goes in fanny, 3/4 positions then cumshot is a total snoozefest, but mad how much porn like that there is about, sex by numbers.

It's actually surprising how by-the-numbers porn is.

I think people associate sex with porn too much, it's just not reality."

That's why I prefer porn with a bit of kink to it, close-ups of dicks in fannies for ten minutes bore me to death, no imagination.

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