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By *oursexyass OP   Woman
over a year ago

Westmeath/rosscommon

How does one get over been disguraded by a so call best friend .

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By *sopon86Man
over a year ago

louth dublin

Take it as a valuable life lesson and move on wiser,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life lesson, it's shite and horrible but sometimes friendships we think are real are a one sided friendship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As above. Process the pain. Feel shitty about. Accept that they've let you down and move on.

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By *oursexyass OP   Woman
over a year ago

Westmeath/rosscommon

Thanks everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You want us to call round and rough them up a bit for you?

Seriously though, it's tough but move on and consider yourself better off without them in your life x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don’t blame yourself and try to come up with excuses either. Parted ways with my best mate of 30 years last year and it wasn’t easy

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By *amson4DelilahCouple
over a year ago

ballina

Maybe your expectation of them was too high?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You want us to call round and rough them up a bit for you?

Seriously though, it's tough but move on and consider yourself better off without them in your life x"

I was going to say tamper with the breaks on their car!!

Agree with the above though. It's tough and you feel horrible but you're better off without them. It's their loss is the way I would look at it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People let us down, most of the time it's not about us at all, it's their own shit.

Forgive them for being human and move on, life is too short for bitterness.

Best of luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And sometimes friendships just aren't what they used to be, people change

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By *sopon86Man
over a year ago

louth dublin

Its hard now but as times goes on the pain will ease but the lesson will be more valuable..we have all been burned at some stage in life.but its how you conduct yourself now which will reflect your character and other people will notice that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I echo the above, the ones who let you down the most are those you believe closest to you sometimes.

It's a cliche but it's not you, it's them, and whatever shit they have got going on.

True friends are fare more rare than we think.

Lee

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By *ixedAestheticMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"How does one get over been disguraded by a so call best friend ."

Personally, I think it depends on why you feel you were 'discarded'

Sometimes we don't do our fair share in maintaining friendships and you drift apart. Sadly, sometimes you might realise that they befriended you for their own convenience.

If they flat out aren't talking to you then you'll never know why and you just kinda have to move on. Same with any break-up really

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
over a year ago

Cork

I sometimes question if I'm a good friend to my closest friends.

Truth is, life gets in the way. If they were truly a great friend, they'll make things right. If not, you're better off.

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By *astelloWoman
over a year ago

Far far away

Often say friends can be for a season, a year or a lifetime.

People often outgrow each other or diverge or change by life's events. Don't bereat yourself, it's their issue not yours.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've had plenty of one sided friendships over the years so it doesn't bother me now if someone who doesn't put the same effort into our friendship decides to wander off.

If it's not a two way street I'd be inclined to ask if they were really friends in the first place?

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