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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Has anyone else noticed the amount of profiles with bareback pictures on them? It's quite worrying as most of these profiles have "safe sex" listed in their interests.

Safe sex should be paramount! (my opinion!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep people must be bonkers if we see it on profile we avoid

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By *rchippyMan
over a year ago

omagh

Yolo, that's exactly right. I would never meet anyone from here that have bareback pics, unless they a married couple. Def important to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a new make of invisible condom

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's a new make of invisible condom"

Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All you can do is make sure you look after yourself..regardless of what anyone says regarding safe sex I'm sure the majority have had unprotected sex at some point in their lives be it with a long term partner or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yolo, that's exactly right. I would never meet anyone from here that have bareback pics, unless they a married couple. Def important to me!"

what make a married couple any safer than a single person ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yolo, that's exactly right. I would never meet anyone from here that have bareback pics, unless they a married couple. Def important to me!

what make a married couple any safer than a single person ?"

Valid point TY!

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By *rchippyMan
over a year ago

omagh


"Yolo, that's exactly right. I would never meet anyone from here that have bareback pics, unless they a married couple. Def important to me!

what make a married couple any safer than a single person ?"

I'm not saying I wouldn't protect myself with a married couple, but I'm saying is I'm sure married couples all over world go bareback from time to time, so seeing pics of them bareback would not put me off them. I would always cover anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yolo, that's exactly right. I would never meet anyone from here that have bareback pics, unless they a married couple. Def important to me!

what make a married couple any safer than a single person ?

I'm not saying I wouldn't protect myself with a married couple, but I'm saying is I'm sure married couples all over world go bareback from time to time, so seeing pics of them bareback would not put me off them. I would always cover anyway!"

maybe you need to read the first post you wrote your not making any sense to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe I'm picking him up wrong but I thought he was saying he wouldn't be put off by a pic of a married couple going bareback with each other. He would still use a condom with them.

I'm sure married couple do as well. That's how they get children

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By *rchippyMan
over a year ago

omagh

That's exactly what I was saying sexy chicken! Only you phrased it better than me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never meet anyone from here that have bareback pics!

maybe i,m the one tha tsnot gettin it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen plenty of peeps bareback sex on here ,also use condoms with any one I meet

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By *rchippyMan
over a year ago

omagh


"I would never meet anyone from here that have bareback pics!

maybe i,m the one tha tsnot gettin it lol "

Does that mean you would never meet a married couple that had kids? Because they have kids makes me pretty sure they have done it bareback, wouldn't you think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would never meet anyone from here that have bareback pics!

maybe i,m the one tha tsnot gettin it lol

Does that mean you would never meet a married couple that had kids? Because they have kids makes me pretty sure they have done it bareback, wouldn't you think?"

dear jesus i was quoting what you said lol

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By *illbillMan
over a year ago

dublin

yeah thats what i thought, if a married or long term couple wanted kids they have to have unprotected sex...but i dont bother with condoms personaly...my dad swears to me that they dont work

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By *ick and sexyCouple
over a year ago

any

Have had loads of requests for bareback (even offered cash once!)

Always the same answer, 'no glove, no love'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also the amount of people who consider unprotected oral sex safe is shocking in this day and age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So married couples won't go bareback unless their looking to have kids hmmmmm i thought it was 2013 not 1950s.

Last i checked pill was easily availbe north and south of the border.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So married couples won't go bareback unless their looking to have kids hmmmmm i thought it was 2013 not 1950s.

Last i checked pill was easily availbe north and south of the border. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never meet anyone here that had bare back pics and always practice safe sex....but what about oral.......is that not risky too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So married couples won't go bareback unless their looking to have kids hmmmmm i thought it was 2013 not 1950s.

Last i checked pill was easily availbe north and south of the border. "

Nobody said they only go bareback to reproduce. The point was being made that they do go bareback so all the people saying they wouldn't meet people who bareback have cut out most of the couples on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So married couples won't go bareback unless their looking to have kids hmmmmm i thought it was 2013 not 1950s.

Last i checked pill was easily availbe north and south of the border. "

Since when does he pill protect from std's?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasn't refering to stds. I was reffering the fact that committed use the pill as a form of birth control over condoms. I never stated that the pill stops sti's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What a load of balls see for all the men here saying they wouldn't go bareback with a woman ur all full of shit if a good looking girl offered yous a fuck condoms would be the last think on ur mind getting sick of fellas posting things on here they think the women wanna read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a load of balls see for all the men here saying they wouldn't go bareback with a woman ur all full of shit if a good looking girl offered yous a fuck condoms would be the last think on ur mind getting sick of fellas posting things on here they think the women wanna read "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of devils advocate. What if they both where tested before it as part of that meet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bit of devils advocate. What if they both where tested before it as part of that meet?"
then you would be placing a lot of trust in that other person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a load of balls see for all the men here saying they wouldn't go bareback with a woman ur all full of shit if a good looking girl offered yous a fuck condoms would be the last think on ur mind getting sick of fellas posting things on here they think the women wanna read "

Well, you might think that, but it's not true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a load of balls see for all the men here saying they wouldn't go bareback with a woman ur all full of shit if a good looking girl offered yous a fuck condoms would be the last think on ur mind getting sick of fellas posting things on here they think the women wanna read "

here fkin here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a load of balls see for all the men here saying they wouldn't go bareback with a woman ur all full of shit if a good looking girl offered yous a fuck condoms would be the last think on ur mind getting sick of fellas posting things on here they think the women wanna read "

This will depend greatly on the age of the male. And as much as this will show my age, a lot has to do with the kind of sex education and religious doctrine you are exposed to. I don't think there are many young people (for me, that can be sub 30 years) who have such a cavalier attitude towards unprotected sex. Add to that the various religious pressures, and you could very easily end up with a guy of a certain age & background who would consider it second nature to EXPECT to wear a condom during sex. Think about the introduction of seatbelts over the years. I'd never consider driving without one now, yet it was unheard of 20 or so years ago.

But, I will not deny that condoms diminish sensation and enjoyment, especially if you are part of a long term married (or otherwise) couple, who go bareback when together and then glove up when swinging. I don't like condoms, but I'd never consider not using one when meeting people under these circumstances.

So, the truth is, in my opinion, if you want to swing or even have casual sex as in the normal Saturday night pick up, you HAVE to glove up, whether you want to or not. To consider otherwise is just crazy. And that's not just telling women what they want to hear. Really! It's crazy to play fast and loose with you own health, never mind any subsequent partner. It's a no brainer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spoof lol

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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Consenting adults can do what they like in the swinging scene. Some people happen to go bareback and I don't think anyone should judge them for that.

Luckily we've all got the same choices and free will as anyone else. If you insist on safe sex always, then it doesn't matter what your playmates have been doing, you will be safe. Well at least to the full measure of safety that condoms provide.

So for me, I don't lose any sleep over pics of swingers playing bareback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went on a meet shortly after I joined Fab with a guy who was part of a couple but also met solo and also had a good reputation on here at the time. He had some condoms with him but he thought nothing of 'trying' to continue when the condoms ran out......he was told to either go to the gents and get more condoms or 'f*ck off' and go home......The point of this story is to wonder how many times guys have run out of condoms and continued or for that matter told to continue by the female as responsibilty is 2 sided.......!

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local


"I went on a meet shortly after I joined Fab with a guy who was part of a couple but also met solo and also had a good reputation on here at the time. He had some condoms with him but he thought nothing of 'trying' to continue when the condoms ran out......he was told to either go to the gents and get more condoms or 'f*ck off' and go home......The point of this story is to wonder how many times guys have run out of condoms and continued or for that matter told to continue by the female as responsibilty is 2 sided.......!

"

Just as well you were in a pub,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went on a meet shortly after I joined Fab with a guy who was part of a couple but also met solo and also had a good reputation on here at the time. He had some condoms with him but he thought nothing of 'trying' to continue when the condoms ran out......he was told to either go to the gents and get more condoms or 'f*ck off' and go home......The point of this story is to wonder how many times guys have run out of condoms and continued or for that matter told to continue by the female as responsibilty is 2 sided.......!

Just as well you were in a pub,"

hahaha....hotel actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went on a meet shortly after I joined Fab with a guy who was part of a couple but also met solo and also had a good reputation on here at the time. He had some condoms with him but he thought nothing of 'trying' to continue when the condoms ran out......he was told to either go to the gents and get more condoms or 'f*ck off' and go home......The point of this story is to wonder how many times guys have run out of condoms and continued or for that matter told to continue by the female as responsibilty is 2 sided.......!

"

I always bring my 'party pack' with me!!

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went on a meet shortly after I joined Fab with a guy who was part of a couple but also met solo and also had a good reputation on here at the time. He had some condoms with him but he thought nothing of 'trying' to continue when the condoms ran out......he was told to either go to the gents and get more condoms or 'f*ck off' and go home......The point of this story is to wonder how many times guys have run out of condoms and continued or for that matter told to continue by the female as responsibilty is 2 sided.......!

I always bring my 'party pack' with me!!

Lol

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Luv a man who is always prepared...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You wouldn't find me running out eh Ali ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

definately not Dave, i think you were a boy scout.....always prepared! mmmm x

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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It a matter of choice and I feel there is no need to judge people who do. I look at it as their decision their lives!!!

I stated on my profile that I do practice safe sex and believe me I do, nothing as worrying as going home after a nice fuck session thinking that you might have caught something going bareback....

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By *rish coupleCouple
over a year ago

waterford

condoms ya can reduce your risk of contacting an STD providing you.

Don't have oral sex,

wear gloves or wash hands after touching their bits, and even don't kiss

ya kind of takes the good out of it!!

STD's can be transmitted by oral sex alone!! so wearing your condom and giving oral sex you could have just picked up an STD.

condoms are the best against getting pregnant simple as that. yes we do bare back with a select few we trust, as do a load of others and some ya we get them to wear condoms

thats our input into this topic

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By *arveygirthycockMan
over a year ago

town


"What a load of balls see for all the men here saying they wouldn't go bareback with a woman ur all full of shit if a good looking girl offered yous a fuck condoms would be the last think on ur mind getting sick of fellas posting things on here they think the women wanna read "
Well said. Totally agree, some shite talkers here, say anything but the truth..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just remembered on my birthday a few years ago when I went out for a few drinks with some friends including one female I barely knew but the rest of my friends did. I ended up walking her home and she invited me in. We get down to it and she sneaks a condom into my hand as eating her out. As it was my birthday I had a lot to drink and fumbling in the dark I must have started putting it on inside out because I was having trouble getting it on. Meanwhile she had her feet rubbing on my chest and she eventually got impatient. She then hooked her feet behind my back, pulled me down towards her, ripped the hanging condom out off and guided me in.

Would any man here honestly stop it at that moment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just remembered on my birthday a

Would any man here honestly stop it at that moment?"

Not a chance of me stopping anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how many peeps on here rant and rave about bb,and yet when it comes to the push and they are in the moment,they dont stop?pleaseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What a load of balls see for all the men here saying they wouldn't go bareback with a woman ur all full of shit if a good looking girl offered yous a fuck condoms would be the last think on ur mind getting sick of fellas posting things on here they think the women wanna read "

TOTALLY disagree with this one guys I'm sorry !! "No glove no love" I'm here for fun not a death sentence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have met 2 or 3 guys from here and they didnt bring a condom!!shown then the door str8 away,involved in this lifestyle its gotto be safe sex everytime and this only with a trusted few ffs guys wise up!!!

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