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By *adger Broc OP   Man
over a year ago

Co. Cork

If an older woman plays with a much younger man, and from the many posts on here, she will have lots of willing partners, the Cougar gets lots of admiration for capturing her prey.

However if an older man even attempts to play with a much younger woman, and it is a very rare occurrence, the Manther is seen as creepy and some kind of pervert.

Proof, if needed, that it is indeed a woman's world...at least in the realm of Fab.

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
over a year ago

Cork

Utterly false. Younger women aren't just as plentiful here.

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

Shortage of women to men on here overall

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By *adger Broc OP   Man
over a year ago

Co. Cork

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By *adger Broc OP   Man
over a year ago

Co. Cork


"Utterly false. Younger women aren't just as plentiful here."

I don't believe I suggested that. In fact I think my post postulated the opposite....more younger men than younger women on here.

But that was not the point of my post which was simply to suggest a different attitude towards Manthers versus Cougars.

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
over a year ago

Cork

Apologies, I do believe however that both are considered very normal on here. I would nearly argue women are less keen for younger men for very valid reasons while younger women are sought after by almost everyone on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If an older woman plays with a much younger man, and from the many posts on here, she will have lots of willing partners, the Cougar gets lots of admiration for capturing her prey.

However if an older man even attempts to play with a much younger woman, and it is a very rare occurrence, the Manther is seen as creepy and some kind of pervert.

Proof, if needed, that it is indeed a woman's world...at least in the realm of Fab.

"

Op if an attraction is there does it really matter what age both parties are obviously all consenting Adults

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If an older woman plays with a much younger man, and from the many posts on here, she will have lots of willing partners, the Cougar gets lots of admiration for capturing her prey.

However if an older man even attempts to play with a much younger woman, and it is a very rare occurrence, the Manther is seen as creepy and some kind of pervert.

Proof, if needed, that it is indeed a woman's world...at least in the realm of Fab.

Op if an attraction is there does it really matter what age both parties are obviously all consenting Adults "

I agree once both parties are agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think that attitude is confined to Fab though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think that attitude is confined to Fab though"

Not sure what you mean but if you’d like to explain we can read it tomorrow

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Apologies, I do believe however that both are considered very normal on here. I would nearly argue women are less keen for younger men for very valid reasons while younger women are sought after by almost everyone on here"

I don't believe the latter statement is necessarily true or accurate, given the threads on age preferences. There are a lot of couples and men in and around my age who wouldn't go near a "young" woman - we could argue the definition of young and obviously the definition of "almost everyone".

Personally I'd have to admit that I would have a more negative attitude towards the older man/(much) younger woman scenario - especially if we're talking women aged 18 to early 20s. (I respect others preferences and choices as long as they're legal). In my defence, I was exposed to grooming, paedophilia...by older men as a teenager and have lived the pain and destruction caused in my family.

It's not the same, I know - but it has left its mark and a certain bias.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think that attitude is confined to Fab though

Not sure what you mean but if you’d like to explain we can read it tomorrow "

I mean the attitude where a younger woman with a much older man is seen as less acceptable than the younger man/much older woman scenario outside of Fab also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apologies, I do believe however that both are considered very normal on here. I would nearly argue women are less keen for younger men for very valid reasons while younger women are sought after by almost everyone on here

I don't believe the latter statement is necessarily true or accurate, given the threads on age preferences. There are a lot of couples and men in and around my age who wouldn't go near a "young" woman - we could argue the definition of young and obviously the definition of "almost everyone".

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I'd agree. I think, for the most part, for those who aren't interested in meeting younger folk whether the person is male or female is irrelevant

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By *REEPALESTINEMan
over a year ago

derby

Agreed

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Apologies, I do believe however that both are considered very normal on here. I would nearly argue women are less keen for younger men for very valid reasons while younger women are sought after by almost everyone on here"

I have zero interest in young women.

I have daughters in their 20s and 30s and as such women in that age category hold no attraction.

The funny thing about fab though is that despite numerous comments over the years from women and couples saying exactly the same, no one has ever challenged their preference on these forums.

I have been challenged quite a few times when I've said it and always by other men.

I usually get the "but what if she was stunning?" or "you wouldn't turn them down if they chatted you up!" shite.

Guess what lads. I would and I have done.

I've also been accused of being ageist because I exclude all women below 41(always 10 years above my eldest and increases each year) simply because of their age.

That's not a judgement on anyone elses preferences either. It just reinforces my own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How about the "Munters" ?, a few of them on here too , but they wouldn't get a kick in a stampede, I'll light a candle

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By *olves at bayCouple
over a year ago

cork

My owner gets looks of admiration from men his own age but almost disgust from women in general when we are out and about holding hands. Once in home base. The woman at the register gave my owner the senior discount out of spite. Omg I still laugh about it. As does he. But it does go to show there is a double standard in the world outside of fab. Look at the hullabaloo in recent weeks of di caprio and his tendancies towards the younger ladies.

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By *olves at bayCouple
over a year ago

cork


"My owner gets looks of admiration from men his own age but almost disgust from women in general when we are out and about holding hands. Once in home base. The woman at the register gave my owner the senior discount out of spite. Omg I still laugh about it. As does he. But it does go to show there is a double standard in the world outside of fab. Look at the hullabaloo in recent weeks of di caprio and his tendancies towards the younger ladies. "

Ps...though I have heard some men say under their breath. Along the lines of. Oh he must be earning a bit.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

The older woman, youger guy to me always seems to be about sex

The older man , younger woman to me seems to be about money with a promise of you look after me and I'll look after you from the messages I receive from young women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If an older woman plays with a much younger man, and from the many posts on here, she will have lots of willing partners, the Cougar gets lots of admiration for capturing her prey.

However if an older man even attempts to play with a much younger woman, and it is a very rare occurrence, the Manther is seen as creepy and some kind of pervert.

Proof, if needed, that it is indeed a woman's world...at least in the realm of Fab.

"

Personally, I struggle with any kind of dynamic where the young person is barely of legal age up to early/mid twenties, while the other party is 20 years older, irrespective of gender.

While I know that the younger person is considered of legal age to give consent, I simply don't like the potential imbalance between that person and somebody 20 years their senior. It is also highly unlikely that the younger party has had time to develop their own boundaries, etc., and there simply wouldn't be the same dynamic as there might be with a peer of similar age.

I geneinely don't understand anybody who seeks people of this age out and I would go as far to say that I find it unattractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Utterly false. Younger women aren't just as plentiful here."

Not sure, majority are younger than me

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

I have the rule of 15, which means 15 years older or younger than myself.

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By *adger Broc OP   Man
over a year ago

Co. Cork


"Shortage of women to men on here overall "

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By *adger Broc OP   Man
over a year ago

Co. Cork


"If an older woman plays with a much younger man, and from the many posts on here, she will have lots of willing partners, the Cougar gets lots of admiration for capturing her prey.

However if an older man even attempts to play with a much younger woman, and it is a very rare occurrence, the Manther is seen as creepy and some kind of pervert.

Proof, if needed, that it is indeed a woman's world...at least in the realm of Fab.

Op if an attraction is there does it really matter what age both parties are obviously all consenting Adults "

My thread is not actually about "age difference" per se, it is about how people differently look upon Manters and Cougars and that women get an easier ride in that situation.....pun obviously intended.

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

I’m not interested in much younger women but I’m still a pervert

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By *adger Broc OP   Man
over a year ago

Co. Cork


"I don't think that attitude is confined to Fab though"

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By *adger Broc OP   Man
over a year ago

Co. Cork


"How about the "Munters" ?, a few of them on here too , but they wouldn't get a kick in a stampede, I'll light a candle "

A different topic.

You should start a thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If an older woman plays with a much younger man, and from the many posts on here, she will have lots of willing partners, the Cougar gets lots of admiration for capturing her prey.

However if an older man even attempts to play with a much younger woman, and it is a very rare occurrence, the Manther is seen as creepy and some kind of pervert.

Proof, if needed, that it is indeed a woman's world...at least in the realm of Fab.

Op if an attraction is there does it really matter what age both parties are obviously all consenting Adults

My thread is not actually about "age difference" per se, it is about how people differently look upon Manters and Cougars and that women get an easier ride in that situation.....pun obviously intended."

I'm not sure they get an easier ride per se, more that it is less frowned upon. In the reverse scenario I think both parties tend to be frowned upon...he's either a durty 'oul perve or she's a gold digger only after his money.

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By *adger Broc OP   Man
over a year ago

Co. Cork


"If an older woman plays with a much younger man, and from the many posts on here, she will have lots of willing partners, the Cougar gets lots of admiration for capturing her prey.

However if an older man even attempts to play with a much younger woman, and it is a very rare occurrence, the Manther is seen as creepy and some kind of pervert.

Proof, if needed, that it is indeed a woman's world...at least in the realm of Fab.

Op if an attraction is there does it really matter what age both parties are obviously all consenting Adults

My thread is not actually about "age difference" per se, it is about how people differently look upon Manters and Cougars and that women get an easier ride in that situation.....pun obviously intended.

I'm not sure they get an easier ride per se, more that it is less frowned upon. In the reverse scenario I think both parties tend to be frowned upon...he's either a durty 'oul perve or she's a gold digger only after his money. "

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Yes I'd say it's less frowned upon not only here but in general.

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By *adger Broc OP   Man
over a year ago

Co. Cork


"Yes I'd say it's less frowned upon not only here but in general."

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By *onster-ManMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Ave difference doesn't have to be a big deal if everyone involved is an adult. That said, there's something off about an older man who *exclusively* pursues much younger women, particularly those just out of their teens.

You have to wonder if they're just looking for someone who doesn't have the experience to see through their bullshit.

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By *adger Broc OP   Man
over a year ago

Co. Cork


"Ave difference doesn't have to be a big deal if everyone involved is an adult. That said, there's something off about an older man who *exclusively* pursues much younger women, particularly those just out of their teens.

You have to wonder if they're just looking for someone who doesn't have the experience to see through their bullshit."

But is there something equally "off" about a Cougar, who by definition, exclusively pursues significantly younger guys or is it looked on differently.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Ave difference doesn't have to be a big deal if everyone involved is an adult. That said, there's something off about an older man who *exclusively* pursues much younger women, particularly those just out of their teens.

You have to wonder if they're just looking for someone who doesn't have the experience to see through their bullshit."

Leonardo Di Caprio anyone

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By *onster-ManMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Ave difference doesn't have to be a big deal if everyone involved is an adult. That said, there's something off about an older man who *exclusively* pursues much younger women, particularly those just out of their teens.

You have to wonder if they're just looking for someone who doesn't have the experience to see through their bullshit.

But is there something equally "off" about a Cougar, who by definition, exclusively pursues significantly younger guys or is it looked on differently."

Similarly off, yes. Equally off, no. Predatory behaviour can come from any gender or sex but cis men are still the vanguard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh age play fetishism isn't really for me I get the ick as much as a dude acting like he is still a teen in American pie as a girl looking for a daddy.

One slight difference or at least variance I see is that women looking for younger men on here are in general still looking for mid twenties up. Whereas the example of men being creeps would usually be looking for 18-21 year olds.

There are alot of variable factors when people decide what's they find creepy or not, one however is undoubtedly the gender of each party

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin

Treating people fairly and equally isn’t the same thing so this “but it’s ok for the women to do it” argument is a non starter

Simply put the cost of things going wrong for young men is a lot less than young women.

Plus men are creepy as fuck, I remember the thread a few weeks ago where a young girl couldn’t get meets and the amount of “put your age preferences up and I’ll meet ye” responses were mad

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

This is an area I find difficult to have a definitive view point on. I've always been a stronger believer in what consenting adults do is their own business.

Also, I do find the narrative that a that a young women who is 23, as an example, is being taken advantage by a creepy older man is a pretty disprectful and condescending narrative about the young women. As if she is too immature to make her own decisions on what she wants and enjoys sexually. That question woukd never be asked about a 23 year old guy.

On the flip side, there are definitely some creep as fuck guys out the who seek out young women to take advantage of them.

I don't really know what the right or wrong answer is, or if there even is one. At the end of the day, its none of my business either.

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Treating people fairly and equally isn’t the same thing so this “but it’s ok for the women to do it” argument is a non starter

Simply put the cost of things going wrong for young men is a lot less than young women.

Plus men are creepy as fuck, I remember the thread a few weeks ago where a young girl couldn’t get meets and the amount of “put your age preferences up and I’ll meet ye” responses were mad"

Why do you think the cost of things going wrong with young women is higher than for young men? On what basis? Emotional, professional, personal...or do you mean that the likelihood it goes wrong is higher for young women than young men?

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin


"Treating people fairly and equally isn’t the same thing so this “but it’s ok for the women to do it” argument is a non starter

Simply put the cost of things going wrong for young men is a lot less than young women.

Plus men are creepy as fuck, I remember the thread a few weeks ago where a young girl couldn’t get meets and the amount of “put your age preferences up and I’ll meet ye” responses were mad

Why do you think the cost of things going wrong with young women is higher than for young men? On what basis? Emotional, professional, personal...or do you mean that the likelihood it goes wrong is higher for young women than young men?

"

Much more danger if a fella physically imposing themselves on a young woman than a cougar on a young pup

If things go wrong then they can go very wrong

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Treating people fairly and equally isn’t the same thing so this “but it’s ok for the women to do it” argument is a non starter

Simply put the cost of things going wrong for young men is a lot less than young women.

Plus men are creepy as fuck, I remember the thread a few weeks ago where a young girl couldn’t get meets and the amount of “put your age preferences up and I’ll meet ye” responses were mad

Why do you think the cost of things going wrong with young women is higher than for young men? On what basis? Emotional, professional, personal...or do you mean that the likelihood it goes wrong is higher for young women than young men?

Much more danger if a fella physically imposing themselves on a young woman than a cougar on a young pup

If things go wrong then they can go very wrong"

Ok, gotcha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is an area I find difficult to have a definitive view point on. I've always been a stronger believer in what consenting adults do is their own business.

Also, I do find the narrative that a that a young women who is 23, as an example, is being taken advantage by a creepy older man is a pretty disprectful and condescending narrative about the young women. As if she is too immature to make her own decisions on what she wants and enjoys sexually. That question woukd never be asked about a 23 year old guy.

On the flip side, there are definitely some creep as fuck guys out the who seek out young women to take advantage of them.

I don't really know what the right or wrong answer is, or if there even is one. At the end of the day, its none of my business either. "

I actually take the view that, whomever is the older party, man or woman, is much more likely to have had time to develop their own boundaries, etc., while the younger party may not have had that time. Most of us evolve as we age and tend to have clearer ideas on what we want/don't want. I struggle with the imbalance of somebody who had that time, against somebody who has not.

I do think the argument can be made for the 1/100 case, where that imbalance might be evened out from the get go, through open, honest communication around consent, boundaries and the like, as well as mutual awareness of how to navigate the dynamic where there is such a large age difference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Treating people fairly and equally isn’t the same thing so this “but it’s ok for the women to do it” argument is a non starter

Simply put the cost of things going wrong for young men is a lot less than young women.

Plus men are creepy as fuck, I remember the thread a few weeks ago where a young girl couldn’t get meets and the amount of “put your age preferences up and I’ll meet ye” responses were mad"

That was particularly disturbing.

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By *adforsexMan
over a year ago

Santry


"If an older woman plays with a much younger man, and from the many posts on here, she will have lots of willing partners, the Cougar gets lots of admiration for capturing her prey.

However if an older man even attempts to play with a much younger woman, and it is a very rare occurrence, the Manther is seen as creepy and some kind of pervert.

Proof, if needed, that it is indeed a woman's world...at least in the realm of Fab.

"

from what I've seen on forum the younger guys have very slim pickings from older ladies lmao

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Treating people fairly and equally isn’t the same thing so this “but it’s ok for the women to do it” argument is a non starter

Simply put the cost of things going wrong for young men is a lot less than young women.

Plus men are creepy as fuck, I remember the thread a few weeks ago where a young girl couldn’t get meets and the amount of “put your age preferences up and I’ll meet ye” responses were mad

Why do you think the cost of things going wrong with young women is higher than for young men? On what basis? Emotional, professional, personal...or do you mean that the likelihood it goes wrong is higher for young women than young men?

Much more danger if a fella physically imposing themselves on a young woman than a cougar on a young pup

If things go wrong then they can go very wrong"

Things have already gone wrong if either party is imposing themselves!!! To say its more dangerous if the imposer is male seems very stereotypical. I get that in many cases the physical advantage mag fall in the males favor, however I would say anyone who is intending imposing themselves on another should be seen in exactly the same way , regardless of there gender. This thing of saying men can be creepy as fuck and connecting it to being more dangerous,sounds a bit like saying " well because older woman imposing themselves isn't as creepy it isn't the same" ?

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By *onster-ManMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"This thing of saying men can be creepy as fuck and connecting it to being more dangerous,sounds a bit like saying " well because older woman imposing themselves isn't as creepy it isn't the same" ?"

That men are generally more dangerous isn't a stereotype or just a "thing people say", it's an established fact. And it is inherently connected to the perception of some men as "creepy". The danger is an essential element of the creepiness.

And nobody at any point has said or implied that a woman "imposing themselves" is less creepy, so you can stop pretending they did.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"This thing of saying men can be creepy as fuck and connecting it to being more dangerous,sounds a bit like saying " well because older woman imposing themselves isn't as creepy it isn't the same" ?

That men are generally more dangerous isn't a stereotype or just a "thing people say", it's an established fact. And it is inherently connected to the perception of some men as "creepy". The danger is an essential element of the creepiness.

And nobody at any point has said or implied that a woman "imposing themselves" is less creepy, so you can stop pretending they did."

You were so cought up in having a dig that you ,as usual missed the point to further your own opinion as fact .

Thats on you bud

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By *onster-ManMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"This thing of saying men can be creepy as fuck and connecting it to being more dangerous,sounds a bit like saying " well because older woman imposing themselves isn't as creepy it isn't the same" ?

That men are generally more dangerous isn't a stereotype or just a "thing people say", it's an established fact. And it is inherently connected to the perception of some men as "creepy". The danger is an essential element of the creepiness.

And nobody at any point has said or implied that a woman "imposing themselves" is less creepy, so you can stop pretending they did.

You were so cought up in having a dig that you ,as usual missed the point to further your own opinion as fact .

Thats on you bud "

I assume by "further your own opinion as fact" you mean "state your own opinion as fact" (given that "further your own opinion" is a nonsensical phrase), so how exactly have I done that and what point have I missed?

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"This thing of saying men can be creepy as fuck and connecting it to being more dangerous,sounds a bit like saying " well because older woman imposing themselves isn't as creepy it isn't the same" ?

That men are generally more dangerous isn't a stereotype or just a "thing people say", it's an established fact. And it is inherently connected to the perception of some men as "creepy". The danger is an essential element of the creepiness.

And nobody at any point has said or implied that a woman "imposing themselves" is less creepy, so you can stop pretending they did.

You were so cought up in having a dig that you ,as usual missed the point to further your own opinion as fact .

Thats on you bud

I assume by "further your own opinion as fact" you mean "state your own opinion as fact" (given that "further your own opinion" is a nonsensical phrase), so how exactly have I done that and what point have I missed?"

Lmao

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"This thing of saying men can be creepy as fuck and connecting it to being more dangerous,sounds a bit like saying " well because older woman imposing themselves isn't as creepy it isn't the same" ?

That men are generally more dangerous isn't a stereotype or just a "thing people say", it's an established fact. And it is inherently connected to the perception of some men as "creepy". The danger is an essential element of the creepiness.

And nobody at any point has said or implied that a woman "imposing themselves" is less creepy, so you can stop pretending they did.

You were so cought up in having a dig that you ,as usual missed the point to further your own opinion as fact .

Thats on you bud

I assume by "further your own opinion as fact" you mean "state your own opinion as fact" (given that "further your own opinion" is a nonsensical phrase), so how exactly have I done that and what point have I missed?"

You take the low rd and ill take the high rd ... isn't that how that song goes?

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

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By *onster-ManMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"This thing of saying men can be creepy as fuck and connecting it to being more dangerous,sounds a bit like saying " well because older woman imposing themselves isn't as creepy it isn't the same" ?

That men are generally more dangerous isn't a stereotype or just a "thing people say", it's an established fact. And it is inherently connected to the perception of some men as "creepy". The danger is an essential element of the creepiness.

And nobody at any point has said or implied that a woman "imposing themselves" is less creepy, so you can stop pretending they did.

You were so cought up in having a dig that you ,as usual missed the point to further your own opinion as fact .

Thats on you bud

I assume by "further your own opinion as fact" you mean "state your own opinion as fact" (given that "further your own opinion" is a nonsensical phrase), so how exactly have I done that and what point have I missed?

You take the low rd and ill take the high rd ... isn't that how that song goes? "

The song usually has full words and you've flipped the order of the lines, so no. Also you're dodging the question because you don't know how to answer it, which is an answer in itself.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"This thing of saying men can be creepy as fuck and connecting it to being more dangerous,sounds a bit like saying " well because older woman imposing themselves isn't as creepy it isn't the same" ?

That men are generally more dangerous isn't a stereotype or just a "thing people say", it's an established fact. And it is inherently connected to the perception of some men as "creepy". The danger is an essential element of the creepiness.

And nobody at any point has said or implied that a woman "imposing themselves" is less creepy, so you can stop pretending they did.

You were so cought up in having a dig that you ,as usual missed the point to further your own opinion as fact .

Thats on you bud

I assume by "further your own opinion as fact" you mean "state your own opinion as fact" (given that "further your own opinion" is a nonsensical phrase), so how exactly have I done that and what point have I missed?

You take the low rd and ill take the high rd ... isn't that how that song goes?

The song usually has full words and you've flipped the order of the lines, so no. Also you're dodging the question because you don't know how to answer it, which is an answer in itself."

On the contrary... the underlying agenda to your questioning is being answered by yourself, and your doing a fine job of it i must say

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By *onster-ManMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"This thing of saying men can be creepy as fuck and connecting it to being more dangerous,sounds a bit like saying " well because older woman imposing themselves isn't as creepy it isn't the same" ?

That men are generally more dangerous isn't a stereotype or just a "thing people say", it's an established fact. And it is inherently connected to the perception of some men as "creepy". The danger is an essential element of the creepiness.

And nobody at any point has said or implied that a woman "imposing themselves" is less creepy, so you can stop pretending they did.

You were so cought up in having a dig that you ,as usual missed the point to further your own opinion as fact .

Thats on you bud

I assume by "further your own opinion as fact" you mean "state your own opinion as fact" (given that "further your own opinion" is a nonsensical phrase), so how exactly have I done that and what point have I missed?

You take the low rd and ill take the high rd ... isn't that how that song goes?

The song usually has full words and you've flipped the order of the lines, so no. Also you're dodging the question because you don't know how to answer it, which is an answer in itself.

On the contrary... the underlying agenda to your questioning is being answered by yourself, and your doing a fine job of it i must say "

Absolute gibberish.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"This thing of saying men can be creepy as fuck and connecting it to being more dangerous,sounds a bit like saying " well because older woman imposing themselves isn't as creepy it isn't the same" ?

That men are generally more dangerous isn't a stereotype or just a "thing people say", it's an established fact. And it is inherently connected to the perception of some men as "creepy". The danger is an essential element of the creepiness.

And nobody at any point has said or implied that a woman "imposing themselves" is less creepy, so you can stop pretending they did.

You were so cought up in having a dig that you ,as usual missed the point to further your own opinion as fact .

Thats on you bud

I assume by "further your own opinion as fact" you mean "state your own opinion as fact" (given that "further your own opinion" is a nonsensical phrase), so how exactly have I done that and what point have I missed?

You take the low rd and ill take the high rd ... isn't that how that song goes?

The song usually has full words and you've flipped the order of the lines, so no. Also you're dodging the question because you don't know how to answer it, which is an answer in itself.

On the contrary... the underlying agenda to your questioning is being answered by yourself, and your doing a fine job of it i must say

Absolute gibberish."

We know what they say about opinions don't we

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Get a room, you two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get a room, you two "

You can get a room with me whenever you want

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Get a room, you two

You can get a room with me whenever you want "

Me ahhh thats very sweet of you

I'll have to decline unfortunately.

Maybe monster will indulge you

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By *on Draper2.0Man
over a year ago

Maynooth


"Utterly false. Younger women aren't just as plentiful here.

I don't believe I suggested that. In fact I think my post postulated the opposite....more younger men than younger women on here.

But that was not the point of my post which was simply to suggest a different attitude towards Manthers versus Cougars."

Well,

where do we draw the line between young and old? Is it relative to our own age? Is it a percentage of our own age?

I'm at best middle aged and I think I would agree that there are more ladies around my own age on here than there are girls 20+ yrs younger.

My take on it is that women can stay sexy looking much longer than men can. A middle aged guy looks his age 9 times out of 10 but Jesus, some of the hot, older ladies on here!!! If I was in my 20's I'd be like a little terrier trying to get up on them. Lets be honest, all that attention from young, good looking guys must feel good, even if they can't actually satisfy you when you get hold of them. Men are often like a fine wine, improving with age but sometimes a woman just wants a glass of Bucks Fizz

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By *onster-ManMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"This thing of saying men can be creepy as fuck and connecting it to being more dangerous,sounds a bit like saying " well because older woman imposing themselves isn't as creepy it isn't the same" ?

That men are generally more dangerous isn't a stereotype or just a "thing people say", it's an established fact. And it is inherently connected to the perception of some men as "creepy". The danger is an essential element of the creepiness.

And nobody at any point has said or implied that a woman "imposing themselves" is less creepy, so you can stop pretending they did.

You were so cought up in having a dig that you ,as usual missed the point to further your own opinion as fact .

Thats on you bud

I assume by "further your own opinion as fact" you mean "state your own opinion as fact" (given that "further your own opinion" is a nonsensical phrase), so how exactly have I done that and what point have I missed?

You take the low rd and ill take the high rd ... isn't that how that song goes?

The song usually has full words and you've flipped the order of the lines, so no. Also you're dodging the question because you don't know how to answer it, which is an answer in itself.

On the contrary... the underlying agenda to your questioning is being answered by yourself, and your doing a fine job of it i must say

Absolute gibberish.

We know what they say about opinions don't we "

I dare you to make an actual point.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"This thing of saying men can be creepy as fuck and connecting it to being more dangerous,sounds a bit like saying " well because older woman imposing themselves isn't as creepy it isn't the same" ?

That men are generally more dangerous isn't a stereotype or just a "thing people say", it's an established fact. And it is inherently connected to the perception of some men as "creepy". The danger is an essential element of the creepiness.

And nobody at any point has said or implied that a woman "imposing themselves" is less creepy, so you can stop pretending they did.

You were so cought up in having a dig that you ,as usual missed the point to further your own opinion as fact .

Thats on you bud

I assume by "further your own opinion as fact" you mean "state your own opinion as fact" (given that "further your own opinion" is a nonsensical phrase), so how exactly have I done that and what point have I missed?

You take the low rd and ill take the high rd ... isn't that how that song goes?

The song usually has full words and you've flipped the order of the lines, so no. Also you're dodging the question because you don't know how to answer it, which is an answer in itself.

On the contrary... the underlying agenda to your questioning is being answered by yourself, and your doing a fine job of it i must say

Absolute gibberish.

We know what they say about opinions don't we

I dare you to make an actual point."

Your making plenty that speak volumes

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin

Whoa the sexual tension on this thread is electric

Ye two should meet and wrestle “women in love” style

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Whoa the sexual tension on this thread is electric

Ye two should meet and wrestle “women in love” style"

You know you just said your fantasy out loud don't you ?

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By *onster-ManMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"This thing of saying men can be creepy as fuck and connecting it to being more dangerous,sounds a bit like saying " well because older woman imposing themselves isn't as creepy it isn't the same" ?

That men are generally more dangerous isn't a stereotype or just a "thing people say", it's an established fact. And it is inherently connected to the perception of some men as "creepy". The danger is an essential element of the creepiness.

And nobody at any point has said or implied that a woman "imposing themselves" is less creepy, so you can stop pretending they did.

You were so cought up in having a dig that you ,as usual missed the point to further your own opinion as fact .

Thats on you bud

I assume by "further your own opinion as fact" you mean "state your own opinion as fact" (given that "further your own opinion" is a nonsensical phrase), so how exactly have I done that and what point have I missed?

You take the low rd and ill take the high rd ... isn't that how that song goes?

The song usually has full words and you've flipped the order of the lines, so no. Also you're dodging the question because you don't know how to answer it, which is an answer in itself.

On the contrary... the underlying agenda to your questioning is being answered by yourself, and your doing a fine job of it i must say

Absolute gibberish.

We know what they say about opinions don't we

I dare you to make an actual point.

Your making plenty that speak volumes "

You're.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"This thing of saying men can be creepy as fuck and connecting it to being more dangerous,sounds a bit like saying " well because older woman imposing themselves isn't as creepy it isn't the same" ?

That men are generally more dangerous isn't a stereotype or just a "thing people say", it's an established fact. And it is inherently connected to the perception of some men as "creepy". The danger is an essential element of the creepiness.

And nobody at any point has said or implied that a woman "imposing themselves" is less creepy, so you can stop pretending they did.

You were so cought up in having a dig that you ,as usual missed the point to further your own opinion as fact .

Thats on you bud

I assume by "further your own opinion as fact" you mean "state your own opinion as fact" (given that "further your own opinion" is a nonsensical phrase), so how exactly have I done that and what point have I missed?

You take the low rd and ill take the high rd ... isn't that how that song goes?

The song usually has full words and you've flipped the order of the lines, so no. Also you're dodging the question because you don't know how to answer it, which is an answer in itself.

On the contrary... the underlying agenda to your questioning is being answered by yourself, and your doing a fine job of it i must say

Absolute gibberish.

We know what they say about opinions don't we

I dare you to make an actual point.

Your making plenty that speak volumes

You're. "

Volumes

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"This thing of saying men can be creepy as fuck and connecting it to being more dangerous,sounds a bit like saying " well because older woman imposing themselves isn't as creepy it isn't the same" ?

That men are generally more dangerous isn't a stereotype or just a "thing people say", it's an established fact. And it is inherently connected to the perception of some men as "creepy". The danger is an essential element of the creepiness.

And nobody at any point has said or implied that a woman "imposing themselves" is less creepy, so you can stop pretending they did.

You were so cought up in having a dig that you ,as usual missed the point to further your own opinion as fact .

Thats on you bud

I assume by "further your own opinion as fact" you mean "state your own opinion as fact" (given that "further your own opinion" is a nonsensical phrase), so how exactly have I done that and what point have I missed?

You take the low rd and ill take the high rd ... isn't that how that song goes?

The song usually has full words and you've flipped the order of the lines, so no. Also you're dodging the question because you don't know how to answer it, which is an answer in itself.

On the contrary... the underlying agenda to your questioning is being answered by yourself, and your doing a fine job of it i must say

Absolute gibberish.

We know what they say about opinions don't we

I dare you to make an actual point.

Your making plenty that speak volumes

You're. "

short and petite.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"This thing of saying men can be creepy as fuck and connecting it to being more dangerous,sounds a bit like saying " well because older woman imposing themselves isn't as creepy it isn't the same" ?

That men are generally more dangerous isn't a stereotype or just a "thing people say", it's an established fact. And it is inherently connected to the perception of some men as "creepy". The danger is an essential element of the creepiness.

And nobody at any point has said or implied that a woman "imposing themselves" is less creepy, so you can stop pretending they did.

You were so cought up in having a dig that you ,as usual missed the point to further your own opinion as fact .

Thats on you bud

I assume by "further your own opinion as fact" you mean "state your own opinion as fact" (given that "further your own opinion" is a nonsensical phrase), so how exactly have I done that and what point have I missed?

You take the low rd and ill take the high rd ... isn't that how that song goes?

The song usually has full words and you've flipped the order of the lines, so no. Also you're dodging the question because you don't know how to answer it, which is an answer in itself.

On the contrary... the underlying agenda to your questioning is being answered by yourself, and your doing a fine job of it i must say

Absolute gibberish.

We know what they say about opinions don't we

I dare you to make an actual point.

Your making plenty that speak volumes

You're. short and petite. "

Sorry sorry I ment sweet ......

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By *onster-ManMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"This thing of saying men can be creepy as fuck and connecting it to being more dangerous,sounds a bit like saying " well because older woman imposing themselves isn't as creepy it isn't the same" ?

That men are generally more dangerous isn't a stereotype or just a "thing people say", it's an established fact. And it is inherently connected to the perception of some men as "creepy". The danger is an essential element of the creepiness.

And nobody at any point has said or implied that a woman "imposing themselves" is less creepy, so you can stop pretending they did.

You were so cought up in having a dig that you ,as usual missed the point to further your own opinion as fact .

Thats on you bud

I assume by "further your own opinion as fact" you mean "state your own opinion as fact" (given that "further your own opinion" is a nonsensical phrase), so how exactly have I done that and what point have I missed?

You take the low rd and ill take the high rd ... isn't that how that song goes?

The song usually has full words and you've flipped the order of the lines, so no. Also you're dodging the question because you don't know how to answer it, which is an answer in itself.

On the contrary... the underlying agenda to your questioning is being answered by yourself, and your doing a fine job of it i must say

Absolute gibberish.

We know what they say about opinions don't we

I dare you to make an actual point.

Your making plenty that speak volumes

You're. short and petite.

Sorry sorry I ment sweet ...... "

Only took you three goes, you must be very proud.

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By *atriceWoman
over a year ago

ballymena northern ireland not donegal

What age is to young well for me below 35 I never chase but if out he's my nephew lol but yes people do judge I say good on yous live life to the full xpx

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By *adger Broc OP   Man
over a year ago

Co. Cork


"What age is to young well for me below 35 I never chase but if out he's my nephew lol but yes people do judge I say good on yous live life to the full xpx "

The question is if you were a Manther, late 50's, and your female companion was 35ish would it be looked on differently to a Cougar / 30's guy scenario.

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