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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Getting sick of women on here saying there is no decent fellas when they won't even talk when a decent bloke tries to connect with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single women and couples can get bombarded with messages but not all of them are compatible....so hang on in there OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting sick of women on here saying there is no decent fellas when they won't even talk when a decent bloke tries to connect with them."

Your dead right brother they don’t care about us

No man should contact women on here anymore no more cock pics for ye ha now that will sort ye

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By *razySexyCoolCorkWoman
over a year ago

Cork

Is this deja vu?

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

Ah... look who it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP let me know who they are.. I like a challenge.

Also though ita a vwey small minority of women that say such things

Also Also having seen some of your previous work on here are you including yourself in the category of decent guy?

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By *ixenforfunWoman
over a year ago

banes mask

This will end well

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Maybe their definition of 'decent' is different to yours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This will end well"

Only when the wolves wake

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

Ballsbridge, City Centre

You might have more luck on fabincels.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You might have more luck on fabincels.com"

Ah sure god love him he’s only trying and all he wants is contact

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

Ballsbridge, City Centre


"You might have more luck on fabincels.com

Ah sure god love him he’s only trying and all he wants is contact "

Sure would ye not drop him an aul dirty DM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You might have more luck on fabincels.com

Ah sure god love him he’s only trying and all he wants is contact

Sure would ye not drop him an aul dirty DM"

Ta be fair I don’t think that is what he is looking for

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

Ballsbridge, City Centre


"You might have more luck on fabincels.com

Ah sure god love him he’s only trying and all he wants is contact

Sure would ye not drop him an aul dirty DM

Ta be fair I don’t think that is what he is looking for "

Any port in a storm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just saw a female profile status looking who wants to see her under wear while she's on her period .. maybe some are into that, but less is more, try have some standards

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Getting sick of women on here saying there is no decent fellas when they won't even talk when a decent bloke tries to connect with them."

So leave the site if you're getting sick of it ....just like your last 2 profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting sick of women on here saying there is no decent fellas when they won't even talk when a decent bloke tries to connect with them.

So leave the site if you're getting sick of it ....just like your last 2 profiles "

How did the overlap go was it any good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ping!! popcorn is ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its not working maybe take some of the advice you have gotten previously. Or just take a break completely.

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By *ack the lad777Man
over a year ago

Dublin

ah poor fella, if it's not the housing crisis, it's the women on fab. He just can't catch a break.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Getting sick of women on here saying there is no decent fellas when they won't even talk when a decent bloke tries to connect with them.

So leave the site if you're getting sick of it ....just like your last 2 profiles

How did the overlap go was it any good "

Fantastic......great bit of craic with the lads but biggest cheer of the night and 10,000 people gave a standing ovation when Paul McGrath came on as a guest

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By *rinny4321Couple
over a year ago

LISBURN

You have to understand that women get 1000s of messages and can't answer them all. It's not dial a ride...you're not waiting your turn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting sick of women on here saying there is no decent fellas when they won't even talk when a decent bloke tries to connect with them.

So leave the site if you're getting sick of it ....just like your last 2 profiles

How did the overlap go was it any good

Fantastic......great bit of craic with the lads but biggest cheer of the night and 10,000 people gave a standing ovation when Paul McGrath came on as a guest "

Was tempted too drive up this morning with my oldest don’t know why we didn’t

But anyway night delighted you enjoyed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting sick of women on here saying there is no decent fellas when they won't even talk when a decent bloke tries to connect with them."

Don't let it annoy you it's actually quite laughable or the ones who say they have been stood up for the last time bla bla bla

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home


"Getting sick of women on here saying there is no decent fellas when they won't even talk when a decent bloke tries to connect with them."
you are wasting your time having a rant on here all you'll get is abuse from most of the people on here but thankfully they're some sound people who will help. Best of luck OP hope things go well for you.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

The pile on inspector will be along shortly. Please have your certificates ready.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

[Removed by poster at 24/03/23 07:02:01]

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Getting sick of women on here saying there is no decent fellas when they won't even talk when a decent bloke tries to connect with them."

How are they supposed to know who the "decent" guys are?

Do you have a list or something?

Will the non-decent men tell them know who they are also?

How do they know the difference between those who claim to be decent vs the ones who qctually are?

Are the girls ACTAULLY looking for decent men?

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham


"Getting sick of women on here saying there is no decent fellas when they won't even talk when a decent bloke tries to connect with them.you are wasting your time having a rant on here all you'll get is abuse from most of the people on here but thankfully they're some sound people who will help. Best of luck OP hope things go well for you. "

But he's made this same thread 4 or 5 times at this stage under different profile names, and he did get plenty of sound advice which he's ignored. He's also said some very horrible stuff about women on here through the forums and on status updates. So at this stage, maybe some of the ridicule is deserved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If no one replies it’s because they have no interest simple as that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting sick of women on here saying there is no decent fellas when they won't even talk when a decent bloke tries to connect with them.you are wasting your time having a rant on here all you'll get is abuse from most of the people on here but thankfully they're some sound people who will help. Best of luck OP hope things go well for you.

But he's made this same thread 4 or 5 times at this stage under different profile names, and he did get plenty of sound advice which he's ignored. He's also said some very horrible stuff about women on here through the forums and on status updates. So at this stage, maybe some of the ridicule is deserved."

This 100%

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By *onster-ManMan
over a year ago

Dublin

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By *onster-ManMan
over a year ago

Dublin

OP, in absolute seriousness what result are you looking for from this post? Do you think women will read it and think "he seems cool, I'll get in touch"?

Also where are you seeing these women lamenting the absence of decent men so frequently that you've gotten sick of it? It's not on this forum, unless I've missed a lot.

Not trying to have a go, just trying to see where you're coming from.

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By *on Draper2.0Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

The women who complain that there are no decent guys are wrong but there is no obligation on them to talk to every guy who says hello.

Some ladies put notes in their profile urging guys to be entertaining and stand out when they send a message. It really is next to impossible gauge what's right in that scenario. I think that the so called decent guys have a tendency to be a little quieter and less vocal about how great they can be.

This place is like the lotto. Keep playing and you might beat the odds but if you're not in, you can't win.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"You might have more luck on fabincels.com

Ah sure god love him he’s only trying and all he wants is contact

Sure would ye not drop him an aul dirty DM"

But if its what your into , try it , he might get back to you

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"ah poor fella, if it's not the housing crisis, it's the women on fab. He just can't catch a break.

"

To be fair there both over priced under stocked markets

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Getting sick of women on here saying there is no decent fellas when they won't even talk when a decent bloke tries to connect with them.you are wasting your time having a rant on here all you'll get is abuse from most of the people on here but thankfully they're some sound people who will help. Best of luck OP hope things go well for you.

But he's made this same thread 4 or 5 times at this stage under different profile names, and he did get plenty of sound advice which he's ignored. He's also said some very horrible stuff about women on here through the forums and on status updates. So at this stage, maybe some of the ridicule is deserved."

Glass houses ... maybe don't assume people can't change !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just because they're looking for a decent fella it doesn't necessarily mean ANY decent fella will do. The normal rules of attraction etc still apply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting sick of women on here saying there is no decent fellas when they won't even talk when a decent bloke tries to connect with them.you are wasting your time having a rant on here all you'll get is abuse from most of the people on here but thankfully they're some sound people who will help. Best of luck OP hope things go well for you.

But he's made this same thread 4 or 5 times at this stage under different profile names, and he did get plenty of sound advice which he's ignored. He's also said some very horrible stuff about women on here through the forums and on status updates. So at this stage, maybe some of the ridicule is deserved.

Glass houses ... maybe don't assume people can't change !"

People change but some choose not to. A very nasty thread was started by the op on a previous profile calling women all sorts.

If something isn't working for you you make changes so it does work..

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham


"Getting sick of women on here saying there is no decent fellas when they won't even talk when a decent bloke tries to connect with them.you are wasting your time having a rant on here all you'll get is abuse from most of the people on here but thankfully they're some sound people who will help. Best of luck OP hope things go well for you.

But he's made this same thread 4 or 5 times at this stage under different profile names, and he did get plenty of sound advice which he's ignored. He's also said some very horrible stuff about women on here through the forums and on status updates. So at this stage, maybe some of the ridicule is deserved.

Glass houses ... maybe don't assume people can't change !"

Glass houses:

"This means that you should not criticize other people for bad qualities in their character that you have yourself."

Hmm... nah

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By *YKObabesCouple
over a year ago

knickerville

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By *ikewantstoplayMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I think the op is making the rest of us look very Alluring

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Getting sick of women on here saying there is no decent fellas when they won't even talk when a decent bloke tries to connect with them.you are wasting your time having a rant on here all you'll get is abuse from most of the people on here but thankfully they're some sound people who will help. Best of luck OP hope things go well for you.

But he's made this same thread 4 or 5 times at this stage under different profile names, and he did get plenty of sound advice which he's ignored. He's also said some very horrible stuff about women on here through the forums and on status updates. So at this stage, maybe some of the ridicule is deserved.

Glass houses ... maybe don't assume people can't change !

People change but some choose not to. A very nasty thread was started by the op on a previous profile calling women all sorts.

If something isn't working for you you make changes so it does work.."

Have you never said anything nasty on the forums?

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Getting sick of women on here saying there is no decent fellas when they won't even talk when a decent bloke tries to connect with them.you are wasting your time having a rant on here all you'll get is abuse from most of the people on here but thankfully they're some sound people who will help. Best of luck OP hope things go well for you.

But he's made this same thread 4 or 5 times at this stage under different profile names, and he did get plenty of sound advice which he's ignored. He's also said some very horrible stuff about women on here through the forums and on status updates. So at this stage, maybe some of the ridicule is deserved.

Glass houses ... maybe don't assume people can't change !

Glass houses:

"This means that you should not criticize other people for bad qualities in their character that you have yourself."

Hmm... nah"

It means be careful where you throw your stones Unless you can fully guarantee you have no flaws yourself.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Getting sick of women on here saying there is no decent fellas when they won't even talk when a decent bloke tries to connect with them."

In all serious mate it might not be in your interest to keep posting such negative posts. I can understand why some people are getting a bit annoyed with it. Is humor me. Post a post on some of the good things that have happened to you on fab are some of the good conversations you've had

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"Getting sick of women on here saying there is no decent fellas when they won't even talk when a decent bloke tries to connect with them."

Amen!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting sick of women on here saying there is no decent fellas when they won't even talk when a decent bloke tries to connect with them.you are wasting your time having a rant on here all you'll get is abuse from most of the people on here but thankfully they're some sound people who will help. Best of luck OP hope things go well for you.

But he's made this same thread 4 or 5 times at this stage under different profile names, and he did get plenty of sound advice which he's ignored. He's also said some very horrible stuff about women on here through the forums and on status updates. So at this stage, maybe some of the ridicule is deserved.

Glass houses ... maybe don't assume people can't change !

People change but some choose not to. A very nasty thread was started by the op on a previous profile calling women all sorts.

If something isn't working for you you make changes so it does work..

Have you never said anything nasty on the forums?"

Nope I haven't

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By *1n_eaterMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

There's not a decent one amongst us

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

OP, you've been given great advice on numerous threads. Your negative attitude will not do you any favours - particularly with regular forum users/readers (including plenty of silent ones, you can rest assured). Plenty of those ladies chat amongst themselves with regards to profiles they might see as red flags because the swinging community generally looks out for others safety (the exception confirms the rule).

If you want to stand out on Fab - for the right reasons and with more positive response from the ladies (if that is what you're actually looking for) - then you might need to turn inwards a little for some introspection (a lot of us do look for attributes like kindness, common courtesy and general respect and manners, even if we don't answer every message and state "must be hung like a horse" on our profile).

Also, you only ever get one chance at making a first impression.

I wish you the best of luck in your endeavours on Fab because frankly, given your contribution history, I do think you'll need it.

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

Ballsbridge, City Centre


"OP, you've been given great advice on numerous threads. Your negative attitude will not do you any favours - particularly with regular forum users/readers (including plenty of silent ones, you can rest assured). Plenty of those ladies chat amongst themselves with regards to profiles they might see as red flags because the swinging community generally looks out for others safety (the exception confirms the rule).

If you want to stand out on Fab - for the right reasons and with more positive response from the ladies (if that is what you're actually looking for) - then you might need to turn inwards a little for some introspection (a lot of us do look for attributes like kindness, common courtesy and general respect and manners, even if we don't answer every message and state "must be hung like a horse" on our profile).

Also, you only ever get one chance at making a first impression.

I wish you the best of luck in your endeavours on Fab because frankly, given your contribution history, I do think you'll need it."

Articulate, honest yet savage

Fantastic response

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

I try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting sick of women on here saying there is no decent fellas when they won't even talk when a decent bloke tries to connect with them."
unless ye have 6 pack there not interested lol

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Getting sick of women on here saying there is no decent fellas when they won't even talk when a decent bloke tries to connect with them. unless ye have 6 pack there not interested lol "

Or a naggin

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Getting sick of women on here saying there is no decent fellas when they won't even talk when a decent bloke tries to connect with them. unless ye have 6 pack there not interested lol

Or a naggin "

They're always naggin those bloody women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP, you've been given great advice on numerous threads. Your negative attitude will not do you any favours - particularly with regular forum users/readers (including plenty of silent ones, you can rest assured). Plenty of those ladies chat amongst themselves with regards to profiles they might see as red flags because the swinging community generally looks out for others safety (the exception confirms the rule).

If you want to stand out on Fab - for the right reasons and with more positive response from the ladies (if that is what you're actually looking for) - then you might need to turn inwards a little for some introspection (a lot of us do look for attributes like kindness, common courtesy and general respect and manners, even if we don't answer every message and state "must be hung like a horse" on our profile).

Also, you only ever get one chance at making a first impression.

I wish you the best of luck in your endeavours on Fab because frankly, given your contribution history, I do think you'll need it."

How nicely put

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By *aptainpuffinMan
over a year ago

Ballincollig

Never mind that , where you getting those great pints ?

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