FabSwingers.com forum: Dominant or Submissive

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just interested in knowing what some think about some people either being dominant or submissive. For example, if a girl likes to be submissive and dominated by a man. Is it kinky that she likes her hair pulled and slapped. What about the other way around. Whats the excitement of a woman who is dominating a man. What does a submissive man look for in a dominant woman; i.e. what does he want done to her and vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just interested in knowing what some think about some people either being dominant or submissive. For example, if a girl likes to be submissive and dominated by a man. Is it kinky that she likes her hair pulled and slapped. What about the other way around. Whats the excitement of a woman who is dominating a man. What does a submissive man look for in a dominant woman; i.e. what does he want done to her and vice versa."

There are many different aspects to being either submissive or dominant, it does not just all fall under one category.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

such as ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"kinky" is subjective

What's kinky to one person can be everyday for another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""kinky" is subjective

What's kinky to one person can be everyday for another"

Very true, and then there are those of us who can switch dependant on the people involved, scenario etc, it's not as simple as labelling sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""kinky" is subjective

What's kinky to one person can be everyday for another"

and also, ppl should not be judged just because of his/her "strange" fetish.

ignorance is a big killer. find it often here I am afraid...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""kinky" is subjective

What's kinky to one person can be everyday for another

and also, ppl should not be judged just because of his/her "strange" fetish.

ignorance is a big killer. find it often here I am afraid..."

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By *ick and sexyCouple
over a year ago

any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dominant and submissive are such wide labels. I'm very dom but find some (not all) are put off by it. Again i should say i wouldn't be everyones cup of tea as a dom. It varies a lot more then people think. (i'm too soft or too hard for some)

Agree with above statements about peoples ignorance when it comes to "strange" fetishes and think people get mad judgemental over them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""kinky" is subjective

What's kinky to one person can be everyday for another

Very true, and then there are those of us who can switch dependant on the people involved, scenario etc, it's not as simple as labelling sometimes."
. Would be more chance me being sub than dom. But loads off differet situations to being sub and dom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dominant and submissive are such wide labels. I'm very dom but find some (not all) are put off by it. Again i should say i wouldn't be everyones cup of tea as a dom. It varies a lot more then people think. (i'm too soft or too hard for some)

Agree with above statements about peoples ignorance when it comes to "strange" fetishes and think people get mad judgemental over them. "

People are very judgemental on here, seeming not to realise the fact they are even on here wanting to swing to others may seem just as peverse. Makes me laugh the hypocrisy of loads on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are very judgemental on here, seeming not to realise the fact they are even on here wanting to swing to others may seem just as peverse. Makes me laugh the hypocrisy of loads on here. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""kinky" is subjective

What's kinky to one person can be everyday for another"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

one slap deserves one back lol

wud,nt be into it i doubt if i could keep a straight face no pun intended but each to their own diff strokes for diff folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't call a bit of hair pulling and occasional slap on the ass as being kinky. Nor would it be a 'must do' event each time. Depends on the mood.

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