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"What do Fabbers regard as a complete no-go on someone's profile? Now I know there is no one answer for everyone but I think it could be interesting. For me the moment I see they are have 'No single guys' I back out of the profile. Best not to waste either of our time." No single guys ain’t really a red flag, thats just a woman/couple saying that they’re not here for single guys. Red flag to me is if a profile is over a few months old and has no verifications whatsoever ( everyone should at least be able to get photo verified ) Other red flag would be “couples” profile where it says the lady is taking a break for a while….. but quite a few of them are just single guys keeping a couples profile to increase chances of a meet | |||
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"Wouldn't consider that a red flag more of a preference in my option...." Yes I get that. I think it is more of an issue with how I phrased it. More a reason why you wouldn't contact a profile? Does that make more sense. | |||
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"Short stubby fingers " Does that mean you like a deep fingering? | |||
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"Short stubby fingers Does that mean you like a deep fingering? " Na just someone who can hold a couple of bottles in one hand and a couple of dinner plates in the other | |||
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" For me the moment I see they have 'No single guys' I back out of the profile. Best not to waste either of our time." Are you referring to that automated line "Not looking for single guys"? If you are, it shows on a profile when they have blocked single guys from messaging. It doesn't mean they're not looking for single guys, it means they don't want the usual crappy messages. It's a misleading setting and I wish they'd change it to what it actually means. | |||
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" For me the moment I see they have 'No single guys' I back out of the profile. Best not to waste either of our time. Are you referring to that automated line "Not looking for single guys"? If you are, it shows on a profile when they have blocked single guys from messaging. It doesn't mean they're not looking for single guys, it means they don't want the usual crappy messages. It's a misleading setting and I wish they'd change it to what it actually means." Do what your saying is ignore it and message them anyway? Got it ... | |||
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"Bareback pics on a singles account or multiple cocks bareback on a couples account. " That's the biggest NO for us. If you ain't safe, you ain't for us. | |||
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" For me the moment I see they have 'No single guys' I back out of the profile. Best not to waste either of our time. Are you referring to that automated line "Not looking for single guys"? If you are, it shows on a profile when they have blocked single guys from messaging. It doesn't mean they're not looking for single guys, it means they don't want the usual crappy messages. It's a misleading setting and I wish they'd change it to what it actually means. Do what your saying is ignore it and message them anyway? Got it ... " Try it on our profile and see what happens | |||
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"- The obvious, no photo verification etc. - People asking to talk on Kik. - no clear pics, messy room in background ?? - Overly combative feel to the profile description." "Combative" | |||
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" For me the moment I see they have 'No single guys' I back out of the profile. Best not to waste either of our time. Are you referring to that automated line "Not looking for single guys"? If you are, it shows on a profile when they have blocked single guys from messaging. It doesn't mean they're not looking for single guys, it means they don't want the usual crappy messages. It's a misleading setting and I wish they'd change it to what it actually means." Exactly that line. If I cannot message them, which is totally fine, I just move on. If someone is looking to be contacted by a single guy I will leave it until they want to contact me instead. | |||
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" For me the moment I see they have 'No single guys' I back out of the profile. Best not to waste either of our time. Are you referring to that automated line "Not looking for single guys"? If you are, it shows on a profile when they have blocked single guys from messaging. It doesn't mean they're not looking for single guys, it means they don't want the usual crappy messages. It's a misleading setting and I wish they'd change it to what it actually means. Exactly that line. If I cannot message them, which is totally fine, I just move on. If someone is looking to be contacted by a single guy I will leave it until they want to contact me instead." So who do you contact then ? | |||
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"Veri rabbit holes that have a group of hidden profiles all verifying each other. A lack or tits. Condescending attitude to the people you are apparently trying to fuck. Lack of boobs. Photos that look like they were taken with a 1990 disposable camera. No titties on sight " Man boobs sufficient? | |||
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"Veri rabbit holes that have a group of hidden profiles all verifying each other. A lack or tits. Condescending attitude to the people you are apparently trying to fuck. Lack of boobs. Photos that look like they were taken with a 1990 disposable camera. No titties on sight Man boobs sufficient? " There is a flag on the play | |||
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"Veri rabbit holes that have a group of hidden profiles all verifying each other. A lack or tits. Condescending attitude to the people you are apparently trying to fuck. Lack of boobs. Photos that look like they were taken with a 1990 disposable camera. No titties on sight Man boobs sufficient? There is a flag on the play" What ? | |||
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"A truckload of verifications! " So what ratio of veris to time on Fab would qualify as 'a truckload'? Or are we talking pure numbers? For example, would a profile 10 years old with 300 veris be worse than a profile a year old with 100 veris? What about coffee veris? Would all coffee veris be a red flag? Would all meet veris be a red flag? Would 20 veris from a Meet n' Greet after a week on the site be a red flag or a green one? Your point raises many questions, my head hurts | |||
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"A truckload of verifications! " If a person doesn’t show their veri summary (like me) you have no idea how many veris they have. It’s who the veris are from and the type of veris they leave others that would be a red flag for me. | |||
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"What do Fabbers regard as a complete no-go on someone's profile? Now I know there is no one answer for everyone but I think it could be interesting. For me the moment I see they are have 'No single guys' I back out of the profile. Best not to waste either of our time." when don't have many pics lol | |||
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"What do Fabbers regard as a complete no-go on someone's profile? Now I know there is no one answer for everyone but I think it could be interesting. For me the moment I see they are have 'No single guys' I back out of the profile. Best not to waste either of our time." when profile like a novel lol | |||
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"Profiles who describe themselves as 'good looking' or 'attractive' you know they are probably an ahole lol." Not sure if they're an asshole or not but considering that looks are very much subjective, they are possibly setting themselves up for a major fall | |||
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"Any mention of narcotics or abusive status updates. Certain comments on the forums would be also a red flag especially political comments that would be the opposite of ours. Also any mention of how intelligent they are (9 times out of 10 the opposite is true)" 10% of people know that's 90% | |||
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"People with their face in their profile pic and mention how discreet they are in their bio The redflag in this case is flagging their stupidity" Maybe it's not their own face? | |||
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"People with their face in their profile pic and mention how discreet they are in their bio The redflag in this case is flagging their stupidity Maybe it's not their own face? " Ah jeez, if ye had to pick a face surely you’d pick one that was good looking | |||
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"Bareback pics on a singles account or multiple cocks bareback on a couples account. That's the biggest NO for us. If you ain't safe, you ain't for us." Same | |||
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"A truckload of verifications! " Those who are bitter and jealous of the success of others. | |||
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"A truckload of verifications! Those who are bitter and jealous of the success of others." Why assume it's from bitterness or jealousy? It depends on what you consider 'success' and if their goals match your goals. As numbers go up attraction can go down. And that's as common on fab as much as off fab. There have been recent threads in the Lounge on this and many many posts on being selective in partner choice or poly or ENM or other non-mono lifestyles that don't result in a high or frequent turnover of partners. | |||
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"What do Fabbers regard as a complete no-go on someone's profile? Now I know there is no one answer for everyone but I think it could be interesting. For me the moment I see they are have 'No single guys' I back out of the profile. Best not to waste either of our time. No single guys ain’t really a red flag, thats just a woman/couple saying that they’re not here for single guys. Red flag to me is if a profile is over a few months old and has no verifications whatsoever ( everyone should at least be able to get photo verified ) Other red flag would be “couples” profile where it says the lady is taking a break for a while….. but quite a few of them are just single guys keeping a couples profile to increase chances of a meet" Yea Exactly this, Strange you never see the male half of the couple taking a “break” | |||
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"Veri rabbit holes that have a group of hidden profiles all verifying each other. A lack or tits. Condescending attitude to the people you are apparently trying to fuck. Lack of boobs. Photos that look like they were taken with a 1990 disposable camera. No titties on sight " This made me lol | |||
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"Anyone calling themselves any variation of Mr Grey is a pretty big red flag for me - wannabe doms can be dangerous. Snap chat filtered photos (especially face photos) is another red flag - likely a catfish. Lots of bj photos with different people- that person likes pulling out their phone during sex. Big no no. I'm here to enjoy a moment, not for a photoshoot. Missus " Ahh yes I have that photoshoot thing too. Any profile that wants photos or video would be a red flag. | |||
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"Red flags for me...if I spot any of the following in their photos or Bio text. Wheelbarrows. Gaa jerseys. Air fryers. Dog shit. Wheelie bins. Messy kitchens. Firearms. Lava lamps. Plastic coverings on the sofa. Balaclava's. Bus passes. Toenail clippings. There's others but that's the highlights. However, if there's loads of Titties in the photos I tend not to see the other stuff in the Back round. Blind spot " Have to admit, the GAA jersey is one for me also | |||
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"Red flags for me...if I spot any of the following in their photos or Bio text. Wheelbarrows. Gaa jerseys. Air fryers. Dog shit. Wheelie bins. Messy kitchens. Firearms. Lava lamps. Plastic coverings on the sofa. Balaclava's. Bus passes. Toenail clippings. There's others but that's the highlights. However, if there's loads of Titties in the photos I tend not to see the other stuff in the Back round. Blind spot " Ah now, that's wheelbarrowist! #Wheelbarrowshavefeelings too! | |||
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"Red flags for me...if I spot any of the following in their photos or Bio text. Wheelbarrows. Gaa jerseys. Air fryers. Dog shit. Wheelie bins. Messy kitchens. Firearms. Lava lamps. Plastic coverings on the sofa. Balaclava's. Bus passes. Toenail clippings. There's others but that's the highlights. However, if there's loads of Titties in the photos I tend not to see the other stuff in the Back round. Blind spot " Must organise a "spot the above items" photo | |||
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"Red flags for me...if I spot any of the following in their photos or Bio text. Wheelbarrows. Gaa jerseys. Air fryers. Dog shit. Wheelie bins. Messy kitchens. Firearms. Lava lamps. Plastic coverings on the sofa. Balaclava's. Bus passes. Toenail clippings. There's others but that's the highlights. However, if there's loads of Titties in the photos I tend not to see the other stuff in the Back round. Blind spot " What if there was a naked woman with pink shoes in the wheelbarrow? | |||
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"Red flags for me...if I spot any of the following in their photos or Bio text. Wheelbarrows. Gaa jerseys. Air fryers. Dog shit. Wheelie bins. Messy kitchens. Firearms. Lava lamps. Plastic coverings on the sofa. Balaclava's. Bus passes. Toenail clippings. There's others but that's the highlights. However, if there's loads of Titties in the photos I tend not to see the other stuff in the Back round. Blind spot What if there was a naked woman with pink shoes in the wheelbarrow? " Titties trumps wheelbarrows. Blind spot. | |||
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"Red flags for me...if I spot any of the following in their photos or Bio text. Wheelbarrows. Gaa jerseys. Air fryers. Dog shit. Wheelie bins. Messy kitchens. Firearms. Lava lamps. Plastic coverings on the sofa. Balaclava's. Bus passes. Toenail clippings. There's others but that's the highlights. However, if there's loads of Titties in the photos I tend not to see the other stuff in the Back round. Blind spot What if there was a naked woman with pink shoes in the wheelbarrow? " Love it I was going to dare you but something told me to double check your profile | |||
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"Anyone waving a red flag in their profile pictures." Red flag added to shopping list | |||
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"Red flags for me...if I spot any of the following in their photos or Bio text. Wheelbarrows. Gaa jerseys. Air fryers. Dog shit. Wheelie bins. Messy kitchens. Firearms. Lava lamps. Plastic coverings on the sofa. Balaclava's. Bus passes. Toenail clippings. There's others but that's the highlights. However, if there's loads of Titties in the photos I tend not to see the other stuff in the Back round. Blind spot What if there was a naked woman with pink shoes in the wheelbarrow? Love it I was going to dare you but something told me to double check your profile " Lockdown boredom that was! Grass in every orifice but it was fun | |||
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"Red flags for me...if I spot any of the following in their photos or Bio text. Wheelbarrows. Gaa jerseys. Air fryers. Dog shit. Wheelie bins. Messy kitchens. Firearms. Lava lamps. Plastic coverings on the sofa. Balaclava's. Bus passes. Toenail clippings. There's others but that's the highlights. However, if there's loads of Titties in the photos I tend not to see the other stuff in the Back round. Blind spot What if there was a naked woman with pink shoes in the wheelbarrow? Love it I was going to dare you but something told me to double check your profile Lockdown boredom that was! Grass in every orifice but it was fun " Haha I thought of you guys (and Geralt) when wheelbarrows were mentioned. Great pic | |||
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"Red flags for me...if I spot any of the following in their photos or Bio text. Wheelbarrows. Gaa jerseys. Air fryers. Dog shit. Wheelie bins. Messy kitchens. Firearms. Lava lamps. Plastic coverings on the sofa. Balaclava's. Bus passes. Toenail clippings. There's others but that's the highlights. However, if there's loads of Titties in the photos I tend not to see the other stuff in the Back round. Blind spot What if there was a naked woman with pink shoes in the wheelbarrow? Love it I was going to dare you but something told me to double check your profile Lockdown boredom that was! Grass in every orifice but it was fun Haha I thought of you guys (and Geralt) when wheelbarrows were mentioned. Great pic " (Runs to check out Ger's wheelbarrow) | |||
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"Requesting a specific word be used as the title of the message to prove you've read their profile. Notions. " Jesus with some you’d be up until next Thursday reading | |||
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"Red flags for me...if I spot any of the following in their photos or Bio text. Wheelbarrows. Gaa jerseys. Air fryers. Dog shit. Wheelie bins. Messy kitchens. Firearms. Lava lamps. Plastic coverings on the sofa. Balaclava's. Bus passes. Toenail clippings. There's others but that's the highlights. However, if there's loads of Titties in the photos I tend not to see the other stuff in the Back round. Blind spot What if there was a naked woman with pink shoes in the wheelbarrow? Love it I was going to dare you but something told me to double check your profile Lockdown boredom that was! Grass in every orifice but it was fun " I had to go check that was real and fair play to you both. | |||
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"Very explicit pics, bareback pics, open face pics, pics of just one of a couple. What we want to see is pics that show you can be discreet but still give a sense of who you are. References to things like pounding all night, can fuck for hours etc. Maybe I'm getting old but give me a few play sessions of 30-40 minutes each with nice glasses of wine in between any day lol " Haha I’m one who actually likes to fuck all night and those who say they can never acutely can | |||
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"Very explicit pics, bareback pics, open face pics, pics of just one of a couple. What we want to see is pics that show you can be discreet but still give a sense of who you are. References to things like pounding all night, can fuck for hours etc. Maybe I'm getting old but give me a few play sessions of 30-40 minutes each with nice glasses of wine in between any day lol " The one thing I’d take from porn (well maybe back in the day porn) was that everything could be done in about 25-40 minutes Red flags? Close up pussy pics Send a face pic first (with NO pics at all) | |||
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"Very explicit pics, bareback pics, open face pics, pics of just one of a couple. What we want to see is pics that show you can be discreet but still give a sense of who you are. References to things like pounding all night, can fuck for hours etc. Maybe I'm getting old but give me a few play sessions of 30-40 minutes each with nice glasses of wine in between any day lol Haha I’m one who actually likes to fuck all night and those who say they can never acutely can " But by the time you discover they can’t, they probably don’t care…. But I’m a great little trier…… | |||
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