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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I wonder how many women out there are happy to be single and don’t want to be part of a couple. Life has changed and we don’t need to be reliant on men anymore. I wonder has this changed us and has it made us happier and more comfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's definitely me now

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By *ibbw2022Woman
over a year ago

Co.Kildare

Happily single and don’t see that changing for the foreseeable!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Happily single here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am happy single here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wonderful to see so many Not dissing couples at all but interested to see how many women are content with no partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather no partner than the wrong one. That's about it.

I have no thought beyond how it'd be nice to share life's burdens and have someone that had my back or cheered me on through tough days.

Friends and family can do that to a point. It's different with an intimate partner though.

My exhusband made everything harder so am glad to be rid.

Recent events have killed my faith in the basic kindness and goodness in folk so I am no longer looking.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Apparently the happiest people are single, childless women in their 40's. Can't remember where I read or heard it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently the happiest people are single, childless women in their 40's. Can't remember where I read or heard it."

I'm hoping it's going to be my 50's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've heard that it's 67

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always been single so I'm happy out, yes every now and than i think I'd like to be in a relationship.

I just need one or two fwbs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've heard that it's 67 "

I hope I'm pushing up daisies by then, I think I'll have had enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Apparently the happiest people are single, childless women in their 40's. Can't remember where I read or heard it."

I can totally understand that. I have raised my kids now and even so you always are a mom. I couldn’t imagine living with a male partner ever again after having my kids. Maybe it’s just me but I love my alone time and freedom to decide what I want and when

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Apparently the happiest people are single, childless women in their 40's. Can't remember where I read or heard it.

I can totally understand that. I have raised my kids now and even so you always are a mom. I couldn’t imagine living with a male partner ever again after having my kids. Maybe it’s just me but I love my alone time and freedom to decide what I want and when"

I've got the best of both worlds, in a happy relationship but we have never lived together, we have companionship and support but still have our independence

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork

It's not who you are with.......

it's who you are.

Happiness comes from within.

But every now and then it's who is within you or who you are within.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

I was married and couldn't keep it in my pants so obviously that wasn't for me......

Id probably be the same in a relationship or dating so for the foreseeable future im happy as fuck single

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Apparently the happiest people are single, childless women in their 40's. Can't remember where I read or heard it.

I'm hoping it's going to be my 50's "

Better again in the 50's, I have no doubt about that

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"I'd rather no partner than the wrong one. That's about it.

I have no thought beyond how it'd be nice to share life's burdens and have someone that had my back or cheered me on through tough days.

Friends and family can do that to a point. It's different with an intimate partner though.

My exhusband made everything harder so am glad to be rid.

Recent events have killed my faith in the basic kindness and goodness in folk so I am no longer looking."

Don't worry ... the world will restore it , when your ready

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Apparently the happiest people are single, childless women in their 40's. Can't remember where I read or heard it."

Except for the ones who wanted kids and a relationship

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Apparently the happiest people are single, childless women in their 40's. Can't remember where I read or heard it.

I can totally understand that. I have raised my kids now and even so you always are a mom. I couldn’t imagine living with a male partner ever again after having my kids. Maybe it’s just me but I love my alone time and freedom to decide what I want and when

I've got the best of both worlds, in a happy relationship but we have never lived together, we have companionship and support but still have our independence "

I know a fair amount of people enjoying a relationship like this. I think it's important to give each other space and freedom rather than do everything together until you suffocate the last bit of passion like you see in many 'traditional relationships'.

It can also be achieved living under the same roof

In general I think it needs a certain maturity to live a 'generous relationship'.

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By *erri KellyCouple
over a year ago

mayo

Mr here, this is a general question out of interest, including the original poster a few single ladies on their profile either have Bi curious or Bisexual, yet they say they could never see themselves settling down or living with a man again, what is ruling out doing the same with another lady, is it a societal thing, I'm just thinking of a female couple I know, who in their mid 40s have gotten together and are very happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr here, this is a general question out of interest, including the original poster a few single ladies on their profile either have Bi curious or Bisexual, yet they say they could never see themselves settling down or living with a man again, what is ruling out doing the same with another lady, is it a societal thing, I'm just thinking of a female couple I know, who in their mid 40s have gotten together and are very happy "

I have had crushes and attraction sexually but never had a sexual attraction for a female become a romantic interest/relationship so far.

Some females would tempt me though so I'll never say never. But I am monogamous and could not swear off of men for all my days.

I had bi-curious here for a while but I dislike that as curiosity is temporary and you need to say yay or nay imho not just hover.

I do think more options would suit those who are het-flex or situationally bi-playful.

I did change to bisexual for a while but my profile is currently set to straight as I am not seeking female solo play at present and it saves any unnecessary bother to others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah stop kidding yerselves we are all fucking miserable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah stop kidding yerselves we are all fucking miserable "

Shhhh don't burst their bubble

Fab is going to answer all problems

Kumbayah mf!!!!!

(Thank you Samuel, inside voice please)

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By *XlalaXXWoman
over a year ago

tipperary


"So I wonder how many women out there are happy to be single and don’t want to be part of a couple. Life has changed and we don’t need to be reliant on men anymore. I wonder has this changed us and has it made us happier and more comfortable. "

Babe I’m here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah stop kidding yerselves we are all fucking miserable

Shhhh don't burst their bubble

Fab is going to answer all problems

Kumbayah mf!!!!!

(Thank you Samuel, inside voice please)

"

Jesus but you truely are miserable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ah stop kidding yerselves we are all fucking miserable

Shhhh don't burst their bubble

Fab is going to answer all problems

Kumbayah mf!!!!!

(Thank you Samuel, inside voice please)

Jesus but you truely are miserable "

Nope

I'm laughing at the self-delusion is all

But thank you for your kind words

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By *erri KellyCouple
over a year ago

mayo


"Mr here, this is a general question out of interest, including the original poster a few single ladies on their profile either have Bi curious or Bisexual, yet they say they could never see themselves settling down or living with a man again, what is ruling out doing the same with another lady, is it a societal thing, I'm just thinking of a female couple I know, who in their mid 40s have gotten together and are very happy

I have had crushes and attraction sexually but never had a sexual attraction for a female become a romantic interest/relationship so far.

Some females would tempt me though so I'll never say never. But I am monogamous and could not swear off of men for all my days.

I had bi-curious here for a while but I dislike that as curiosity is temporary and you need to say yay or nay imho not just hover.

I do think more options would suit those who are het-flex or situationally bi-playful.

I did change to bisexual for a while but my profile is currently set to straight as I am not seeking female solo play at present and it saves any unnecessary bother to others."

That is a very honest reply

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

When I was younger I needed a relationship thought it was what I needed. As I've got older I don’t need one I might want one atm I don't. I'm enjoying my life do my own thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr here, this is a general question out of interest, including the original poster a few single ladies on their profile either have Bi curious or Bisexual, yet they say they could never see themselves settling down or living with a man again, what is ruling out doing the same with another lady, is it a societal thing, I'm just thinking of a female couple I know, who in their mid 40s have gotten together and are very happy

I have had crushes and attraction sexually but never had a sexual attraction for a female become a romantic interest/relationship so far.

Some females would tempt me though so I'll never say never. But I am monogamous and could not swear off of men for all my days.

I had bi-curious here for a while but I dislike that as curiosity is temporary and you need to say yay or nay imho not just hover.

I do think more options would suit those who are het-flex or situationally bi-playful.

I did change to bisexual for a while but my profile is currently set to straight as I am not seeking female solo play at present and it saves any unnecessary bother to others.

That is a very honest reply "

Thank you xxx

It's how I roll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr here, this is a general question out of interest, including the original poster a few single ladies on their profile either have Bi curious or Bisexual, yet they say they could never see themselves settling down or living with a man again, what is ruling out doing the same with another lady, is it a societal thing, I'm just thinking of a female couple I know, who in their mid 40s have gotten together and are very happy "

If you know any more looking, send them my way

Seriously though, it is something I find myself pondering more as i get older....could I have had a happy, fulfilling relationship with a woman

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By *allyWally19Woman
over a year ago

The Road to Nowhere

Quite content here. Would rather be on the shelf than in the wrong press

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary

How many are on other dating apps...t###er pof..bu##le

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

Relationships never suited me. So while I would never say never I can't see myself in a relationship in the future. I am happily single and I much prefer to have really good mates that I happen to have great sex with.

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By *olves at bayCouple
over a year ago

cork

Single ladies. I'm glad you all feel this way. As we are starting to out number men. Not on fab. But in the western world and when you also take out the percentage for gay men even less options. so its less competition for the good ones.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Quite content here. Would rather be on the shelf than in the wrong press"

This reminds me of Toy Story

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mr here, this is a general question out of interest, including the original poster a few single ladies on their profile either have Bi curious or Bisexual, yet they say they could never see themselves settling down or living with a man again, what is ruling out doing the same with another lady, is it a societal thing, I'm just thinking of a female couple I know, who in their mid 40s have gotten together and are very happy "

I had a girlfriend for a while years ago and also didn’t live with her, I would find it easier to live with a woman though right now. And yeah society has made it more acceptable now to be LGBTQ + so we can all partner up with whomever we desire within legal boundaries of course

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Single ladies. I'm glad you all feel this way. As we are starting to out number men. Not on fab. But in the western world and when you also take out the percentage for gay men even less options. so its less competition for the good ones.

"

Absolutely

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By *ild WomanWoman
over a year ago

Carlow

I enjoy being single, relationship on my terms maybe but definitely not monogamous.

It would be both sides of the fence with me.

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

The honesty on this thread is truly refreshing. It's one of the gems that reminds me how the forums used to be and still can be if we use it for these open and honest conversations. Obviously including a few baby's ones along the way for the craic like.

However, the open and honest discussion above is very intriguing and interesting and I just wanted to say Thank You to those who have shared those insights

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

Not baby's, funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

quite content being single for the most part, not looking for the conventional "relationship" happy enough in my own home, couldnt share but someone to share fun times and experiences and the odd sleepover with would be nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite content here. Would rather be on the shelf than in the wrong press"

Love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite content here. Would rather be on the shelf than in the wrong press"

Fact!!

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

Ah yer all waiting for a guy to hand you a shirt and tell ya to iron it for him

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne


"Ah yer all waiting for a guy to hand you a shirt and tell ya to iron it for him "

It's only then you can properly sing Shania Twains Man, I Feel like a Woman really

I'm joking ladies

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Very happy and content being single. But I enjoy being in a relationship also and my happiness does not depend on being part of a couple.

I started on Fab as a couple and I would like to have a partner again but no rush.

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By *issMollyXXXWoman
over a year ago

Limerick


"Quite content here. Would rather be on the shelf than in the wrong press

Love this "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So content being single!!

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By *rish_GuyMan
over a year ago

Foxford


"Quite content here. Would rather be on the shelf than in the wrong press"

FACT

I know this tread is for women.

As a single guy that's NEVER been in a relationship(yet anyway). At time's over the year's I'd think, I want to be in 1, other times I'm 100% glad that I'm not in 1.

Not ruling it out in the future. If it happens, it happens. As I get older can't see it happening. Preferably with someone that I meet on here or at least in the lifestyle

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By *rad25irlMan
over a year ago

Carrigaline

Well who needs a guy when you have a decent wine bottle, eh!? sexy vid!!!

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

I’m happily single (and so is my hubby)

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By *mmmm300Woman
over a year ago

cork

I'm happy being single, but not completely closed off to a relationship, can't ever see myself living with someone again though. Value my space and my own time far to much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a lady who told me she would never be in a relationship again, she enjoyed her own freedom in every way .

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I’m happily single (and so is my hubby) "

Euthopia

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I've heard that it's 67 "

Definetly 69 best of both worlds

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By *rish CougarWoman
over a year ago

Bray

I am happy being single.

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