FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Ireland

I know you

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dear people of Fab if you think you recognise people on Fab please don't feel obliged to message said person with creepy I know you messages. I've had a few over the years claiming to know me even had one last night it just creeps me the fuck out. It usually results in you finding yourself quickly added to the block list instead of getting into my knickers. The oddest was the guy who recognised my ass in Supervalu in a particular pair of leggings and felt the need to tell me. The only thing that resulted in that message was me shopping in Lidl and him finding himself added to the block list. I recognise people all the time out in the real world but I respect people's privacy I don't feel the need to message saying I saw you eyeing up the cucumbers in Lidl the other evening.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another fabber told me this week that they would be outed by someone who claims to know them.

Pathetic really.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

They need to understand that knowing you doesn't mean they are more likely to get sex off you. Same as being "in your area" or just that your interests match. They need to understand that it takes more than that.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I've been "spotted in supervalu" numerous times and none of them never thought it creepy that they messaged me to tell me.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You def get strange ones on here… we all here for the same reason and if you see someone you know just let them get on and not creep them out !!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to bloody start shopping in super value

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Yup the “I saw you in xyz” messages are creepy as fuck and when you tell them that they get all defensive.

It’s simple, unless agreed before, don’t acknowledge someone you recognise from fab when you see them out in the big bad world and don’t message them after telling them that they happened to be in the same place as you.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rAndMrsRightCouple
over a year ago

newtownabbey

I personally love the ones who claim to know me then add "I wish I knew you were a swinger before you moved jobs/cities etc." As if that knowledge somehow would have made me magically attracted to them...

Missus

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"I need to bloody start shopping in super value "

..but you realise that wouldn't help you in any way, because approaching a girl in public who you saw here is creepy as fuck.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eathernsilkMan
over a year ago

armagh

I would consider them messages in the same frame of mind as stalking. The sense that your probably being watched can be unnerving.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need to bloody start shopping in super value

..but you realise that wouldn't help you in any way, because approaching a girl in public who you saw here is creepy as fuck."

I just like their deli

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I personally love the ones who claim to know me then add "I wish I knew you were a swinger before you moved jobs/cities etc." As if that knowledge somehow would have made me magically attracted to them...

Missus "

This, was chatting a guy he was all chat etc when I replied oh we've been in each other's company a few times and you have blanked me completely now that you know I'm kink it's a different story. Sorry mate jog the fuxk on

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"...I recognise people all the time out in the real world but I respect people's privacy I don't feel the need to message saying I saw you eyeing up the cucumbers in Lidl the other evening. "

They must have been out of tomatoes

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *onster-ManMan
over a year ago

Dublin

A few years ago a guy started a thread in the BDSM community subreddit about a woman he'd seen on the bus, asking for advice because he thought he'd found "the perfect slut".

We figured from the description he gave and the route and times he mentioned that he was referring to my partner.

Fucking creepy.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Had that before only we had been seen out walking with our kids. Apparently your man thought it was great ice breaker.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently had a message asking if I'm (X) from (name of a certain part of town. Apparently he used to deliver stuff to me on his moped.

For a hot moment I was really unnerved because I am indeed X and I am from the area he named. Then I realised no-one has ever delivered anything to me on a moped, not to my knowledge anyway. A quick Google later and a brief grilling, and I realised he meant another town that has an area with the same name

But for an awful second all I could think was not only does this random person know who I am, but they know the very house I live in. It made me feel sick to the pit of my stomach

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had it happen….feel left out

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *nd_then_sheWoman
over a year ago

cork

I've had this twice where they got a great kick out hiding who they were. I figured out who they were in the end but they honestly believed it was all in good fun, one was a guy a knew through a friend and another was someone I used to work with.

Both ended up blocked and absolutely shocked at my reaction to "just a laugh" and "a bit of fun"

They genuinely believed I should have been flattered and obvs I was over reacting

Not the worst, but the thought process behind it is mind boggling

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ealmc1973Man
over a year ago

Limerick, Clare, Tipperary

never happened to me, not sure if I should be delighted or feel sad. I suppose, I haven't missed much...unless it is hot girl looking to rip my trousers off.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need to bloody start shopping in super value

..but you realise that wouldn't help you in any way, because approaching a girl in public who you saw here is creepy as fuck."

Its another level of creepy.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I had guy who claimed he knew me and claimed we went to school together he wouldn't say who he was of course it was one of those I know you but I'm not telling who I am.I am not the person he thought I was though as I'm not even from up the north so I definitely didn't go to school in Belfast. He was adamant I was lying though and the next time he saw 'me' he was doing to approach me in public.The creep just ended up on my block list.

I've had a few say it other times but they were just chancing their arms when I questioned them it was a way they thought would be good to start a chat Now I just delete messages like that if I get them.

How people do not realise it just comes across as creepy as fuck when they do it is beyond me.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I recently had a message asking if I'm (X) from (name of a certain part of town. Apparently he used to deliver stuff to me on his moped.

For a hot moment I was really unnerved because I am indeed X and I am from the area he named. Then I realised no-one has ever delivered anything to me on a moped, not to my knowledge anyway. A quick Google later and a brief grilling, and I realised he meant another town that has an area with the same name

But for an awful second all I could think was not only does this random person know who I am, but they know the very house I live in. It made me feel sick to the pit of my stomach"

A similar thing happened to me. He/she kept opening profiles and messaging me with personal details about me. Then they would block me so I blocked them, and they would reopen a new profile and message me again saying other things, that they knew where I lived and what would my family/children think about me being on this site.

After 4th time I closed my profile.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre

Ah Rosy so sorry that happened to you again!!

People are just WEIRD...they really think by behaving like that they will meet people

B xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eepixieWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Dear people of Fab if you think you recognise people on Fab please don't feel obliged to message said person with creepy I know you messages. I've had a few over the years claiming to know me even had one last night it just creeps me the fuck out. It usually results in you finding yourself quickly added to the block list instead of getting into my knickers. The oddest was the guy who recognised my ass in Supervalu in a particular pair of leggings and felt the need to tell me. The only thing that resulted in that message was me shopping in Lidl and him finding himself added to the block list. I recognise people all the time out in the real world but I respect people's privacy I don't feel the need to message saying I saw you eyeing up the cucumbers in Lidl the other evening. "

I’m sorry Rosy but I laughed reading that entire post!

Although I do agree with you, it’s creepy & uncalled for!! But you still made my day

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just remembered a guy messaged saying he thought he might know my son, I asked from Castlerea prison? Know a few ladies got the same nessage was a funny one

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *otfun100Man
over a year ago

coleraine

Yip. I’ve had this. A girl told me where I worked. And she’d saw me the previous sat night. I asked why she didn’t come introduce herself Then I got blocked. Hmmm

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast


"...I recognise people all the time out in the real world but I respect people's privacy I don't feel the need to message saying I saw you eyeing up the cucumbers in Lidl the other evening.

They must have been out of tomatoes "

I’m generally looking at the peaches (peach)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin

Didn’t realise supermarkets were so full of hotties

Must swap nightclubs for the fruit and veg section

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Didn’t realise supermarkets were so full of hotties

Must swap nightclubs for the fruit and veg section"

Did I see you in the middle aisle of a well known German supermarket looking wistfully at chainsaws. You were looking a Lidl bit turned on

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *anandJCouple
over a year ago

Citywest

It might be naive but I like to think there are good people out there.

Let say if we went out to the pub and someone would recognise us- come join- let’s have a drink. If he she can’t be cordial and keep up the high standard then feck off. If they know how to behave- no bother.

The lifestyle will never get out from underground if we ourselves hide it in there.

Statistically we are meeting Lifestyle people everyday - we just don’t know about them. It’s important to understand that we can coexist and meet and have laugh without sex being mentioned. Like in the normal coffee afternoon with friends one doesn’t brag about his last fuck…

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin


"Didn’t realise supermarkets were so full of hotties

Must swap nightclubs for the fruit and veg section

Did I see you in the middle aisle of a well known German supermarket looking wistfully at chainsaws. You were looking a Lidl bit turned on "

Great purchase but unfortunately that chainsaw has been in more bush than I have….

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I've been approached by people that have met me previously at socials to say hello after we both sorta check around to make sure its ok to talk privately as I'm usually in work.

Its different for a man Id imagine

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been approached by people that have met me previously at socials to say hello after we both sorta check around to make sure its ok to talk privately as I'm usually in work.

Its different for a man Id imagine

"

Yeah I've no issue with people I've previously met and chatted with and I know they're cool. Sure DD nearly met my mum last week

Random strangers not so much though

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been approached by people that have met me previously at socials to say hello after we both sorta check around to make sure its ok to talk privately as I'm usually in work.

Its different for a man Id imagine

Yeah I've no issue with people I've previously met and chatted with and I know they're cool. Sure DD nearly met my mum last week

Random strangers not so much though"

I have no issue if was chatting to someone and someone I'd previously met at a social said hello etc.

Its the blank profiles thar think it's OK to message oh seem you in the shop, or you looked well heading to work. It's just creepy.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I was at a wedding and while waiting to go into reception the wedding party was in the hotel bar. Following day I got a message saying saw you named the hotel told me what I was wearing. Was gonna approach you but you was with your husband thought it be awkward.... I found it very creepy he got everything right except the husband bit it was my dad

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

I wouldn’t do it to a guy either…you don’t know whether their family/friends/people from work are around. The only time I’d stop or acknowledge someone is if it’s been ok’d previously.

That includes people I know well from the site, a nod is plenty unless we’re both sure it’s ok to stop and chat.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"I wouldn’t do it to a guy either…you don’t know whether their family/friends/people from work are around. The only time I’d stop or acknowledge someone is if it’s been ok’d previously.

That includes people I know well from the site, a nod is plenty unless we’re both sure it’s ok to stop and chat. "

Yep this is how I feel as well.I would never just approach someone or in fact message on here saying I know them outside of here. If I do ever recognise them I'm more likely to block them than contact them .Everyone deserves their privacy.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Discretion, hey...it's a pity not all on a website such as this, get it.

I've actually had a previous meet (thankfully not in a creepy way!) message me to tell me he bumped into my sister in a certain place/town - and it was obvious from the description that he was, in fact, right (and no, we weren't acquainted in such a manner that I would have been introducing him to family or showing him photos of them )

And I have a couple of other stories like that but discretion is/was respected to date.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"I wouldn’t do it to a guy either…you don’t know whether their family/friends/people from work are around. The only time I’d stop or acknowledge someone is if it’s been ok’d previously.

That includes people I know well from the site, a nod is plenty unless we’re both sure it’s ok to stop and chat. "

Same. Who knows maybe their kids are there with them around the corner... or maybe a previously undisclosed husband/wife. It's not worth it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

We've had the messages from guys asking us question after question trying to narrow down where we live followed by are you this one or that one. We don't reply and block once it becomes tedious.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West

Have many single men had women or couples contact them like this? Seems that men are the main culprits on this.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Have many single men had women or couples contact them like this? Seems that men are the main culprits on this."

I've had a well verified woman message me on a previous profile who was convinced that she knew me.

She argued that we were work colleagues and kept dropping hints and nicknames of other colleagues.

She said my pics proved who I was and she knew from the way my profile was written and how I replied that she was right and she said I knew exactly who she was and was just on a wind up pretending otherwise.

She referred to green trousers a few times.

None of it made any sense to me at all and I hadn't a clue what she was on about.

Turned out she was in the PSNI. Obviously not a detective though

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Yeah, I'm sick of people confusing me for Jamie Oliver Seriously, have had the "You work in X and I'm one of your clients" type messages and it's a horrible message to read. Anyway, turned out to be an ex Boss so when I discovered that, I had the last word

Anyway, lesson here is that if a fellow Fabber is your neighbour, colleague, etc carry yourself with a bit of class and give them some discretion

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ancy38Woman
over a year ago

galway

Has never happened to me but it would really freak me out if it did. I'm very cautious now about my fab life whereas before I was very naive!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eeingWhatsHere21Man
over a year ago

Northside


"Dear people of Fab if you think you recognise people on Fab please don't feel obliged to message said person with creepy I know you messages. I've had a few over the years claiming to know me even had one last night it just creeps me the fuck out. It usually results in you finding yourself quickly added to the block list instead of getting into my knickers. The oddest was the guy who recognised my ass in Supervalu in a particular pair of leggings and felt the need to tell me. The only thing that resulted in that message was me shopping in Lidl and him finding himself added to the block list. I recognise people all the time out in the real world but I respect people's privacy I don't feel the need to message saying I saw you eyeing up the cucumbers in Lidl the other evening. "

Christ I feel this as I'm still dealing with one of these kinds of guys where I'm originally from and it's excruciatingly creepy each time it resurfaces.

I even have to be extra careful not to broadcast my location if I'm ever home - otherwise a message from a "couple" arrives in where the male half meets guys first 1:1 and just so happens to suggest somewhere a 10 minute drive away from where I am

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *208numeWoman
over a year ago

Navan

Sorry to hear this has happened OP. Hope you are okay.

I’ve unfortunately had experiences of this and it’s one of the reasons I hide my profile.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *riends firstMan
over a year ago

Naas


"Dear people of Fab if you think you recognise people on Fab please don't feel obliged to message said person with creepy I know you messages. I've had a few over the years claiming to know me even had one last night it just creeps me the fuck out. It usually results in you finding yourself quickly added to the block list instead of getting into my knickers. The oddest was the guy who recognised my ass in Supervalu in a particular pair of leggings and felt the need to tell me. The only thing that resulted in that message was me shopping in Lidl and him finding himself added to the block list. I recognise people all the time out in the real world but I respect people's privacy I don't feel the need to message saying I saw you eyeing up the cucumbers in Lidl the other evening. "
Which Lidl do you go to?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *riends firstMan
over a year ago

Naas


"Dear people of Fab if you think you recognise people on Fab please don't feel obliged to message said person with creepy I know you messages. I've had a few over the years claiming to know me even had one last night it just creeps me the fuck out. It usually results in you finding yourself quickly added to the block list instead of getting into my knickers. The oddest was the guy who recognised my ass in Supervalu in a particular pair of leggings and felt the need to tell me. The only thing that resulted in that message was me shopping in Lidl and him finding himself added to the block list. I recognise people all the time out in the real world but I respect people's privacy I don't feel the need to message saying I saw you eyeing up the cucumbers in Lidl the other evening. "

Only joking

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dear people of Fab if you think you recognise people on Fab please don't feel obliged to message said person with creepy I know you messages. I've had a few over the years claiming to know me even had one last night it just creeps me the fuck out. It usually results in you finding yourself quickly added to the block list instead of getting into my knickers. The oddest was the guy who recognised my ass in Supervalu in a particular pair of leggings and felt the need to tell me. The only thing that resulted in that message was me shopping in Lidl and him finding himself added to the block list. I recognise people all the time out in the real world but I respect people's privacy I don't feel the need to message saying I saw you eyeing up the cucumbers in Lidl the other evening. "

I've never had that experience thank god.

Though I've had a guy I was chatting to recently, telling me I'm surprised I didn't recognise him as we'd slept together and how couldn't I not remember him.

I've never met him before in my life or know him.

Was told we did, when he was told I don't meet anyone local and know who I've met dressed, I was told ok maybe I'm confusing you with someone else

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ymbunny2016Man
over a year ago

Bangor

I’m feeling left out- I am yet to be recognised

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ickyAthleticMan
over a year ago

Galway

Jesus, there are some messed up people on here, going on these stories. It's like its not just a few people messing fab up for everyone else.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male half here.

So last summer we were messaging with a couple from our town, just usual chit chat and shite talk, had no intention of meeting them because they were too close to home and had stated that from the off, hadn't swapped face pics or anything like that either.

Another week passed and I was spread across social media for a sporting achievement, next message from them was along the lines of "oh are you abc involved in...?From the xyz club? " they had me bang to rights, god only knows how they worked it out. I denied it, then soon worked out who she was when they posted new public pics and her face was half visable. Let a couple of weeks pass and just blocked them.

Even asking the question felt out of order to us and totally inappropriate.

A.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dear people of Fab if you think you recognise people on Fab please don't feel obliged to message said person with creepy I know you messages. I've had a few over the years claiming to know me even had one last night it just creeps me the fuck out. It usually results in you finding yourself quickly added to the block list instead of getting into my knickers. The oddest was the guy who recognised my ass in Supervalu in a particular pair of leggings and felt the need to tell me. The only thing that resulted in that message was me shopping in Lidl and him finding himself added to the block list. I recognise people all the time out in the real world but I respect people's privacy I don't feel the need to message saying I saw you eyeing up the cucumbers in Lidl the other evening. "

Could not agree more. The worst is when they really go in on you in a threatening way. We are all adults so I would expect ppl to act like that

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You have to be so careful in pictures to not to give too many clues away who you are. I know one friend was outed for being here just on one photo on her distinct stairs. A guy messaged me during lockdown telling me exactly where I lived the only clue he had was he saw a bell tent and I had taken one picture inside on months before. He thought it was a game of Where's Rosy where he could claim his prize and come over and shag me in my tent because he knew where my home was. I ended up deleting my profile over that creepy message. So I urge people if you know someone don't be that fucking creep and slide in with your I know you message it's not going to end with you getting your dick wet!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything about it is sad tbh , R E S P E C T is everything , here or in the real World , everyone is where they are for a reason that they want to be there, wherever that is and the fun and enjoyment they enjoy should never be taken from them.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Best way to protect yourself is to be open about this hobby of ours. It completely takes away the power that anyone else thinks they have over you.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best way to protect yourself is to be open about this hobby of ours. It completely takes away the power that anyone else thinks they have over you."

Not always the case. People have specific jobs etc. People should learn to respect other ppls privacy. No? I get where you are coming from and wish we could all be so open and others not to judge, but unfortunately not the case for most of us

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dear people of Fab if you think you recognise people on Fab please don't feel obliged to message said person with creepy I know you messages. I've had a few over the years claiming to know me even had one last night it just creeps me the fuck out. It usually results in you finding yourself quickly added to the block list instead of getting into my knickers. The oddest was the guy who recognised my ass in Supervalu in a particular pair of leggings and felt the need to tell me. The only thing that resulted in that message was me shopping in Lidl and him finding himself added to the block list. I recognise people all the time out in the real world but I respect people's privacy I don't feel the need to message saying I saw you eyeing up the cucumbers in Lidl the other evening. "

Completely agree. I wish all fab users had this mentality but unfortunately they don’t. The shit I’ve had to deal with from someone/group of people last year on here. I’ve had to delete my old profile because my pictures were being shared around my town and people naming me. (I’ve denied it’s me as I’ve no face pics) And to this day I still don’t know who’s behind it and it’s so unfair. I feel I can’t post what I want as this person / people are out there watching. Please just take peoples private lives into consideration for gods sake. I’ve since learned to be very bland with my pics!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *unkildareguyMan
over a year ago

maynooth


"Dear people of Fab if you think you recognise people on Fab please don't feel obliged to message said person with creepy I know you messages. I've had a few over the years claiming to know me even had one last night it just creeps me the fuck out. It usually results in you finding yourself quickly added to the block list instead of getting into my knickers. The oddest was the guy who recognised my ass in Supervalu in a particular pair of leggings and felt the need to tell me. The only thing that resulted in that message was me shopping in Lidl and him finding himself added to the block list. I recognise people all the time out in the real world but I respect people's privacy I don't feel the need to message saying I saw you eyeing up the cucumbers in Lidl the other evening.

Completely agree. I wish all fab users had this mentality but unfortunately they don’t. The shit I’ve had to deal with from someone/group of people last year on here. I’ve had to delete my old profile because my pictures were being shared around my town and people naming me. (I’ve denied it’s me as I’ve no face pics) And to this day I still don’t know who’s behind it and it’s so unfair. I feel I can’t post what I want as this person / people are out there watching. Please just take peoples private lives into consideration for gods sake. I’ve since learned to be very bland with my pics! "

Jesus Christ , that's so shit...what the hell is wrong with some people

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had someone in the past make reference to my job in their message. Immediately blocked and very creepy

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ysticalWoman
over a year ago

north wexford

Have a guy keep messaging me saying my real name I still haven't a clue who he is.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

There is a variation of this which is :

I know you’re meeting x near me

Which implies that I should invite the person and feel guilt for not doing so

Entitled and creepy

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *j TruckerMan
over a year ago

monaghan

I'm off the opinion off what happens here stays here regardless who are where you are from

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West


"Have many single men had women or couples contact them like this? Seems that men are the main culprits on this.

I've had a well verified woman message me on a previous profile who was convinced that she knew me.

She argued that we were work colleagues and kept dropping hints and nicknames of other colleagues.

She said my pics proved who I was and she knew from the way my profile was written and how I replied that she was right and she said I knew exactly who she was and was just on a wind up pretending otherwise.

She referred to green trousers a few times.

None of it made any sense to me at all and I hadn't a clue what she was on about.

Turned out she was in the PSNI. Obviously not a detective though "

The entry level must be low!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *j TruckerMan
over a year ago

monaghan

Lmfao

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *j TruckerMan
over a year ago

monaghan


"Have a guy keep messaging me saying my real name I still haven't a clue who he is."

That b******* is really not acceptable and really doesn't help the rest of us

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Have a guy keep messaging me saying my real name I still haven't a clue who he is."

Why dont you block him

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ixie and dixie2022Couple
over a year ago

villiage

We had a couple tell us who we are but decided to keep their own identity private found out a single guy in next town was naming local people he met at m&g

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Have a guy keep messaging me saying my real name I still haven't a clue who he is.

That b******* is really not acceptable and really doesn't help the rest of us"

Doesn't affect the rest of us men if thats what you mean .....nothing to do with other men

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ysticalWoman
over a year ago

north wexford


"Have a guy keep messaging me saying my real name I still haven't a clue who he is.

Why dont you block him "
his been block few times now but comes back with new profile so I just block him again

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

We've recognised a few people but there's no chance we would even mention it, we block and move on

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Have a guy keep messaging me saying my real name I still haven't a clue who he is.

Why dont you block him his been block few times now but comes back with new profile so I just block him again "

Creepy fucker alright with new profile ....gobshite

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

I've seen people I know very well from the scene out in the wild and I wouldn't approach them because I keep "real" life and the scene separate.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *auren DevineTV/TS
over a year ago

Portadown


"Dear people of Fab if you think you recognise people on Fab please don't feel obliged to message said person with creepy I know you messages. I've had a few over the years claiming to know me even had one last night it just creeps me the fuck out. It usually results in you finding yourself quickly added to the block list instead of getting into my knickers. The oddest was the guy who recognised my ass in Supervalu in a particular pair of leggings and felt the need to tell me. The only thing that resulted in that message was me shopping in Lidl and him finding himself added to the block list. I recognise people all the time out in the real world but I respect people's privacy I don't feel the need to message saying I saw you eyeing up the cucumbers in Lidl the other evening.

I've never had that experience thank god.

Though I've had a guy I was chatting to recently, telling me I'm surprised I didn't recognise him as we'd slept together and how couldn't I not remember him.

I've never met him before in my life or know him.

Was told we did, when he was told I don't meet anyone local and know who I've met dressed, I was told ok maybe I'm confusing you with someone else

"

How creepy is that. I'd absolutely panic of someone approached my in public claiming to recognise me.

I'd run away I think

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *razySexyCoolCorkWoman
over a year ago

Cork


"How creepy is that. I'd absolutely panic of someone approached my in public claiming to recognise me.

I'd run away I think "

I actually know someone called Lauren Devine lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *auren DevineTV/TS
over a year ago

Portadown


"How creepy is that. I'd absolutely panic of someone approached my in public claiming to recognise me.

I'd run away I think

I actually know someone called Lauren Devine lol "

Lol definitely someone else as I'm not in Cork much haha

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ingMan
over a year ago

Dundalk

Is it bot like the kettle calling the pot black lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uittopMan
over a year ago

South County Dublin

Sat next to a guy on the train to Wexford. His opening line was " You wear a red and black leather kilt, don't you". Was the mist enjoyable chat and the train ride just flew by.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ild WomanWoman
over a year ago

Carlow

I have to hold my hand up and say I did it once.

Asked a guy if he had another profile on here under certain name. Told him what he use to say if saw me in the chat room in camera. Told him what my username was at the time. also told him that we met. In saying this it was 1O or more years since met. But he reminded me of a actor from TV show that I watched.

We laughed about it and then I left him alone. It was just nice to find out that I took his 3some virginity.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are so careless here, if you share face pics anywhere you will run the risk of being recognised thats just a fact.. I recognised a women here before just from a body pic, she had a similar pic on a dating site I was on which also stated her first name and what kind of work she did, quick Google search revealed her Facebook her workplace family you name it.. I didn't message her kept it to myself but was surprised how easy it was to find out about her life so easily, a more pertinent question is does discretion really exist in a small country like Ireland where everyone knows each others business

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *irdyxWoman
over a year ago

dublin/ Birmingham

Had one the other week telling he's going to out me he's knows who I am told him get the fuck on with it then

Haven't heard off him since .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin


"People are so careless here, if you share face pics anywhere you will run the risk of being recognised thats just a fact.. I recognised a women here before just from a body pic, she had a similar pic on a dating site I was on which also stated her first name and what kind of work she did, quick Google search revealed her Facebook her workplace family you name it.. I didn't message her kept it to myself but was surprised how easy it was to find out about her life so easily, a more pertinent question is does discretion really exist in a small country like Ireland where everyone knows each others business"

Sound of you to explain in a public forum how to do it…

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"People are so careless here, if you share face pics anywhere you will run the risk of being recognised thats just a fact.. I recognised a women here before just from a body pic, she had a similar pic on a dating site I was on which also stated her first name and what kind of work she did, quick Google search revealed her Facebook her workplace family you name it.. I didn't message her kept it to myself but was surprised how easy it was to find out about her life so easily, a more pertinent question is does discretion really exist in a small country like Ireland where everyone knows each others business"

Its only careless if someone is genuinely trying to protect their identity. While I won't ever use a face photo here I really wouldn't give a shit if someone recognised me from my none face photos either.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People are so careless here, if you share face pics anywhere you will run the risk of being recognised thats just a fact.. I recognised a women here before just from a body pic, she had a similar pic on a dating site I was on which also stated her first name and what kind of work she did, quick Google search revealed her Facebook her workplace family you name it.. I didn't message her kept it to myself but was surprised how easy it was to find out about her life so easily, a more pertinent question is does discretion really exist in a small country like Ireland where everyone knows each others business

Sound of you to explain in a public forum how to do it…"

To be fair, it's not difficult to work out that if people put up all their personal information on the internet, everyone can see it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"People are so careless here, if you share face pics anywhere you will run the risk of being recognised thats just a fact.. I recognised a women here before just from a body pic, she had a similar pic on a dating site I was on which also stated her first name and what kind of work she did, quick Google search revealed her Facebook her workplace family you name it.. I didn't message her kept it to myself but was surprised how easy it was to find out about her life so easily, a more pertinent question is does discretion really exist in a small country like Ireland where everyone knows each others business"

Not careless for those who dont care who knows. Also - good job creeping around the Internet trying to find personal info in a girl you saw.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top