FabSwingers.com forum: Here and dating apps

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As the title goes, who’s here and on the apps? Honest replies only! This should be interesting!

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"As the title goes, who’s here and on the apps? Honest replies only! This should be interesting!"

Yes ... in what way do you anticipate this being interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean on other apps also ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think you know what I mean!

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"I think you know what I mean!"

I'd imagine lots of people

I'm getting the sence you think it should be one or the other ?

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By *ineapple_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

in the waves

There's a lot of users here and on the apps. Plenty use the same face pics here and there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Don’t judge me if you don’t know me!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's a lot of users here and on the apps. Plenty use the same face pics here and there.

They do indeed.

Not sure if it's naive or brave or what

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

There was a brief cross over period when I joined Fab where I was on both dating apps and here but pretty soon I left the dating sites.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm not on any other apps so if anyone sees "me" on any other apps can you please tell "me" that he's a very naughty boy and that he'll never live up to the legend?

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined a few, one after the other, but found them pretty lacking as far as meeting my needs. Annnnnd here I am....

I keep meaning to delete them but they've all gone to sleep on my phone due to me not using them

and I haven't been arsed to dig out my logins to get back in to kill them off. Height of laziness.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"I'm not on any other apps so if anyone sees "me" on any other apps can you please tell "me" that he's a very naughty boy and that he'll never live up to the legend?

Thanks

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By *oy.2022Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Which one is the best dating app these days?

Asking for a friend...

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West

Neither of us had ever used a dating app/site. A year ago, on a night away, we joined a "dating app" for the craic.

We hadn't a clue how it worked!

We messed around on it for a little while, and for a reason unknown to us, we're now banned!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Neither of us had ever used a dating app/site. A year ago, on a night away, we joined a "dating app" for the craic.

We hadn't a clue how it worked!

We messed around on it for a little while, and for a reason unknown to us, we're now banned!!

We would probably end up in the same situation,but we never had a reason to try one,only found fab after a night away and a conversation that we had with each other and here we are

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

Nope I use here and here only.

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne

Only here and Kik.

Wouldn't have a clue how to use the others

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By *he MickMan
over a year ago

southside

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Neither of us had ever used a dating app/site. A year ago, on a night away, we joined a "dating app" for the craic.

We hadn't a clue how it worked!

We messed around on it for a little while, and for a reason unknown to us, we're now banned!!

I invited someone from here to join me for a for a few days in Italy, while I was away with work. I used my profile on a popular dating app, we added some new pics of us, and mentioned, in the bio, that we looking for another guy or possibly more to join us, I got banned, rather quickly too.

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By *tagmeupMan
over a year ago

wirral

I have hust decided to start dating again and am on the apps but the issue is i dont think i can date vanilla. My last ex was a swinger .

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By *ewcouple200Couple
over a year ago

dublin

We've been together over 20 years this is the closest thing to a dating app either one of us has ever used

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin

I’m in here and the apps as well

Apps are awful, countless bland profiles, everyone has the same photos, same likes and same jokes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus POF was pretty awful

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Jesus POF was pretty awful

It still is!

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

We're also on Fet, just for the events. 2ofus-plus if you want to find us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only on here, tinder is awful and pof is worse

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

I’m old enough to remember a time when pof wasn’t too bad

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Just wondering how they work as I'm not on anything

Do you have completely different profiles with no overlap between fab and any Vanilla apps in case you're seen as an easy ride

What do you do if other profiles tell you they've seen you on fab while on pof chatting to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

I've give up on the dating scene a very longtime ago its just not for me am not currently looking anything just friends...as to why am here..I however do need a physical attraction to someone but definitely no strings attached fun...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on tinder too,

I get as many interesting chats and eventual meets off there as I do here

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By *arper8000Man
over a year ago

cork

I have used dating sites as well as here,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you think people on here are fragile, the other apps are an eye opener.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am on here and pof.....never done tinder or any others

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By *oy.2022Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Which one are the more used dating apps besides tinder?

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By *eeisbackMan
over a year ago

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Im on here bumble tinder and hinge. Pof i found the worst. Bumble is ok tinder is dated I find. I think It’s hard to meet on most of them to be honest or maybe my standards are too high

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By *ildGroverMan
over a year ago

rathfarnham

What about other sites?

I can think of three or four others which were good to me over the years. Not dating sites though.

I was on PoF before it was an app

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By *eeisbackMan
over a year ago

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What other ones r good ?

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By *ildGroverMan
over a year ago

rathfarnham

"What other ones r good ? "

I’d imagine I found them using this website that begins with a g and ends in oogle

Can’t be promoting the competition on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah if I here one more time about pineapple going on pizza I think I’ll vomit!!

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By *irabella0608Woman
over a year ago

Wexford

I am only here and fet

But on fet I much more just catching up with friends and keep eye on events.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am only here and fet

But on fet I much more just catching up with friends and keep eye on events."

I don't like the user experience on that site. It's very clunky.

The people on it were weird af also. Definite stranger danger vibes. I barely used it before I landed on fab like a sex junkie finding their stash, and that's all she wrote....

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By *indenMan
over a year ago

Naas which is South West of Dublin

Never been on any, and if someone could tell me where I can and can’t post dick pics before I join and get banned, that would be great.

Thanks…..

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By *tslife222Man
over a year ago

by the sea louth

Been on the others since mid May and I find the others as easy to get meets as here.

Once your upfront and read between the lines of profiles-it’s all good

I like to keep all options open.

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By *huCullainMan
over a year ago

Rathowen

I did use other apps before and a pretty decent success rate. You just have to be careful of bunny boilers and husband hunters and make sure you're meeting someone that's looking for the same thing as yourself.

Ive only been using fab for a good while, mostly for fab friends and the forums.

That's not saying I haven't met anyone from fab or won't in the future.

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By *adforsexMan
over a year ago

Santry

"As the title goes, who’s here and on the apps? Honest replies only! This should be interesting!"
this is like dating app going by some females profiles lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I did use other apps before and a pretty decent success rate. You just have to be careful of bunny boilers and husband hunters and make sure you're meeting someone that's looking for the same thing as yourself.

Ive only been using fab for a good while, mostly for fab friends and the forums.

That's not saying I haven't met anyone from fab or won't in the future.

I don't think it is all that fair to suggest that those looking for relationships on dating apps are "husband hunters". They are on dating apps, at the end of the day. You are free to use them as you so please, as long as you make the other person aware. Just because they may be looking for something more long-term, it doesn't mean they will settle for any so called husband. As to the use of the bunny boiler term, I know its origins, but I still feel it is misused 80% of the time and usually by men. Women regularly get labelled "crazy" by men and, more often than not, they are being gaslit. However, I don't know you, so I am just going to hope that you have come across an inordinate amount of so called bunny boilers and husband hunters in your time...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As the title goes, who’s here and on the apps? Honest replies only! This should be interesting! this is like dating app going by some females profiles lol "

And? Is this something which bothers you?

I believe each person is free to choose on here, so you can always just avoid any profile you consider incompatible with yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am active and have verified profiles on three different swinger sites. Fab, a french one and a world wide one for when I travel. I was told a few years ago by friends, within the lifestyle, of a dating app which caters for non monogamous couples, swingers, BDSM and kink lovers, but it's only now becoming popular.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"I'm on tinder too,

I get as many interesting chats and eventual meets off there as I do here"

:-true dat

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By *huCullainMan
over a year ago

Rathowen

Ive only been using fab for a good while, mostly for fab friends and the forums.

That's not saying I haven't met anyone from fab or won't in the future.

That's a pretty hefty response to what I wrote as my experience on dating apps. And as their title suggests, I was on them to date.

And just to clarify, I've ALWAYS made it clear what I was looking for but there are women on there that will tell you they're looking for the same but it doesn't take long for them to prove differently .And I'm sure the same applies to men on the apps.

And I wasn't saying that anyone looking for a relationship is a husband hunter or anything else. They are the ones that have the decency to be honest about what they want and I respect that. I don't know what kind of number is classed as inordinate but for the most part I have met them through dating apps. Hence I now stick to fab where at least I know here is a non committal site.

After all that I would like to apologize to you that you read my post wrong and hope you now understand what I meant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive only been using fab for a good while, mostly for fab friends and the forums.

That's not saying I haven't met anyone from fab or won't in the future.

That's a pretty hefty response to what I wrote as my experience on dating apps. And as their title suggests, I was on them to date.

After all that I would like to apologize to you that you read my post wrong and hope you now understand what I meant "

Yes, I suppose it is. I was struck by the use of both of those terms, hence the reply.

I am not a man, so my experience of the apps/other will obviously vary to yours. I accept the points you have made and I understand better, so thank you.

I still feel that women are too easily labelled as some form of crazy, whereas this doesn't seem to happen to men as much. Maybe your experience is different? My own opinion is informed by my own experience, in particular what I have witnessed. So many male seeking female profiles state that they want absolutely "no drama", as though drama is exclusive to women. Invariably, it often means that they want NSA sex, free of any responsibility towards the other person, which is fine, if it suits the other person. Drama is not a person having boundaries and requirements around how that encounter is fulfilled.

Anyway, those are just my thoughts. All the best with the dating/other!

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By *huCullainMan
over a year ago

Rathowen

I agree with you about the crazy label but I'm sure there are as many if not more men that are crazy too. There's evidence in the forums on here for example.

People are different and individual in many ways and a bit of the right kind of crazy can be fun too. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree with you about the crazy label but I'm sure there are as many if not more men that are crazy too. There's evidence in the forums on here for example.

People are different and individual in many ways and a bit of the right kind of crazy can be fun too. Lol."

Yes, but I don't believe that men get gaslit as regularly, and described as crazy for expressing what they want, as often as women do... I highly doubt that bunny boiling falls under the category of the right kind of crazy, either.

Other than that, agree that everybody has a bit of crazy in them.

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By *tagmeupMan
over a year ago

wirral

Tell me what sites you are on ladies, i am ready to right swipe xx

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