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"For me, it would be somebody unkind, intolerant and purposely ignorant. I am simply not attracted to people who aren't decent humans, so not a huge issue, but curious to know. " cheating on me would be a big one for me | |||
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"Lying I hate being lied too and then finding out. The feeling is awful. Id rather be told, no matter how painful the truth is. " Exactly, give me all the details, all the nasty, all the hurtful and leave nothing out. Then I can deal and know there's nothing worse lurking to take me out at the knees. Being betrayed / stabbed in the back is much harder to come back from. | |||
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"A lack of integrity. It informs a lot of other things.... honesty, fidelity, loyalty, respect, accountability. They all have personal integrity as their foundation." Exactly this.... | |||
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"Aligned Values. Your stuff = My stuff...Deadly stuff." Ohh balls. I read the topic to be what do you want in a partner Anyway I hope you catch my drift OP. | |||
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"Aligned Values. Your stuff = My stuff...Deadly stuff. Ohh balls. I read the topic to be what do you want in a partner Anyway I hope you catch my drift OP. " What if they steal your stuff.... like your fav stuff... | |||
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"A penis" Beat me to it | |||
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"Aligned Values. Your stuff = My stuff...Deadly stuff. Ohh balls. I read the topic to be what do you want in a partner Anyway I hope you catch my drift OP. What if they steal your stuff.... like your fav stuff..." The bikes are under lock and key as is Hobbes. The strapon is replaceable, Lovehoney is but a cart basket away.. But if they knicked my Stretch Arm Strong than that's a red line. Place pissed off emoji here. | |||
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"Never initiating sex Being a poor communicator around emotions Frumpiness A bad d*unk Drug use A lack of curiosity in other cultures and travel Someone who’s very neurotic " Understand a lot of what you mean, except the drugs/drink elements, that's where my marriage is | |||
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"A lack of integrity. It informs a lot of other things.... honesty, fidelity, loyalty, respect, accountability. They all have personal integrity as their foundation." On a serious note... This 100 per cent | |||
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"Someone above mentioned a lack of integrity. That covers it mostly for us " If integrity is code for vagina then that for me as well! | |||
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"Aligned Values. Your stuff = My stuff...Deadly stuff. Ohh balls. I read the topic to be what do you want in a partner Anyway I hope you catch my drift OP. What if they steal your stuff.... like your fav stuff... The bikes are under lock and key as is Hobbes. The strapon is replaceable, Lovehoney is but a cart basket away.. But if they knicked my Stretch Arm Strong than that's a red line. Place pissed off emoji here." What if Stretch came willingly Would you follow? Hunt him down with your particular set of skills? | |||
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"A penis Beat me to it " Have you tried one though? | |||
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"For me, it would be somebody unkind, intolerant and purposely ignorant. I am simply not attracted to people who aren't decent humans, so not a huge issue, but curious to know. " The vaccinated! | |||
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"For me, it would be somebody unkind, intolerant and purposely ignorant. I am simply not attracted to people who aren't decent humans, so not a huge issue, but curious to know. The vaccinated! " Just kidding lol | |||
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"Racism, xenophobia, transphobia, homophobia, extreme political views that are opposed to mine, religious fervour, cruelty, drug taking. And a dislike of cats " Cats are evil though. It's no coincidence that the word "cats" contains many of the letters in the word "cunts" | |||
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"Someone above mentioned a lack of integrity. That covers it mostly for us If integrity is code for vagina then that for me as well! " You can keep all the vaginas. Mrs (for clarity) | |||
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"Racism, xenophobia, transphobia, homophobia, extreme political views that are opposed to mine, religious fervour, cruelty, drug taking. And a dislike of cats Cats are evil though. It's no coincidence that the word "cats" contains many of the letters in the word "cunts" " Ah sure look... Mick, I swear, half an hour stroking my pussies would soon change your mind | |||
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"Racism, xenophobia, transphobia, homophobia, extreme political views that are opposed to mine, religious fervour, cruelty, drug taking. And a dislike of cats Cats are evil though. It's no coincidence that the word "cats" contains many of the letters in the word "cunts" Ah sure look... Mick, I swear, half an hour stroking my pussies would soon change your mind " Cats are evil though.... I mean I admire their absolute shithousery and aspire to their not giving a fuck attitude but anyone denying their pure and utterly evilness is living in denial | |||
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"Racism, xenophobia, transphobia, homophobia, extreme political views that are opposed to mine, religious fervour, cruelty, drug taking. And a dislike of cats Cats are evil though. It's no coincidence that the word "cats" contains many of the letters in the word "cunts" Ah sure look... Mick, I swear, half an hour stroking my pussies would soon change your mind Cats are evil though.... I mean I admire their absolute shithousery and aspire to their not giving a fuck attitude but anyone denying their pure and utterly evilness is living in denial" Mine are sweethearts! Well, mostly. Maybe 70% of the time. Kinda... | |||
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"Racism, xenophobia, transphobia, homophobia, extreme political views that are opposed to mine, religious fervour, cruelty, drug taking. And a dislike of cats Cats are evil though. It's no coincidence that the word "cats" contains many of the letters in the word "cunts" Ah sure look... Mick, I swear, half an hour stroking my pussies would soon change your mind " Here kitty kitty... | |||
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"The Clap " Fuck it, I live for the applause myself! | |||
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"For me, it would be somebody unkind, intolerant and purposely ignorant. I am simply not attracted to people who aren't decent humans, so not a huge issue, but curious to know. " Bad breath Could cope with all that | |||
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"Not responding in kind such as phoning, buying dinner or coffees, not reciprocating and making same efforts in maintaining the relationship." A little story... When I started going out with my current husband, we were out one night with his friends and their girlfriends. I noticed that one of them paid for everything for himself and the girlfriend and hubby confirmed that she never ever paid for anything (despite having a full time job) and from what he had seen, never put much effort into the relationship. Roll on a few hours and my tongue is loosening up. I ask the friend why he pays for everything, that it's unacceptable as far as I'm concerned. He was pretty speechless and I woke up the following morning thinking he'd never speak to me again. A week later and we hear he has dumped the girlfriend. Roll on a few weeks and he has a lovely new girlfriend who he goes on to marry, have kids with, and they're still very happy (as far as I'm aware). Maybe I was wrong to speak up, but I still take full credit for that happy marriage | |||
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"Not responding in kind such as phoning, buying dinner or coffees, not reciprocating and making same efforts in maintaining the relationship. A little story... When I started going out with my current husband, we were out one night with his friends and their girlfriends. I noticed that one of them paid for everything for himself and the girlfriend and hubby confirmed that she never ever paid for anything (despite having a full time job) and from what he had seen, never put much effort into the relationship. Roll on a few hours and my tongue is loosening up. I ask the friend why he pays for everything, that it's unacceptable as far as I'm concerned. He was pretty speechless and I woke up the following morning thinking he'd never speak to me again. A week later and we hear he has dumped the girlfriend. Roll on a few weeks and he has a lovely new girlfriend who he goes on to marry, have kids with, and they're still very happy (as far as I'm aware). Maybe I was wrong to speak up, but I still take full credit for that happy marriage " I see you're also keeping himself on his toes by calling him your current husband | |||
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"Not responding in kind such as phoning, buying dinner or coffees, not reciprocating and making same efforts in maintaining the relationship. A little story... When I started going out with my current husband, we were out one night with his friends and their girlfriends. I noticed that one of them paid for everything for himself and the girlfriend and hubby confirmed that she never ever paid for anything (despite having a full time job) and from what he had seen, never put much effort into the relationship. Roll on a few hours and my tongue is loosening up. I ask the friend why he pays for everything, that it's unacceptable as far as I'm concerned. He was pretty speechless and I woke up the following morning thinking he'd never speak to me again. A week later and we hear he has dumped the girlfriend. Roll on a few weeks and he has a lovely new girlfriend who he goes on to marry, have kids with, and they're still very happy (as far as I'm aware). Maybe I was wrong to speak up, but I still take full credit for that happy marriage I see you're also keeping himself on his toes by calling him your current husband " Yes he is often reminded of it | |||
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"Not responding in kind such as phoning, buying dinner or coffees, not reciprocating and making same efforts in maintaining the relationship. A little story... When I started going out with my current husband, we were out one night with his friends and their girlfriends. I noticed that one of them paid for everything for himself and the girlfriend and hubby confirmed that she never ever paid for anything (despite having a full time job) and from what he had seen, never put much effort into the relationship. Roll on a few hours and my tongue is loosening up. I ask the friend why he pays for everything, that it's unacceptable as far as I'm concerned. He was pretty speechless and I woke up the following morning thinking he'd never speak to me again. A week later and we hear he has dumped the girlfriend. Roll on a few weeks and he has a lovely new girlfriend who he goes on to marry, have kids with, and they're still very happy (as far as I'm aware). Maybe I was wrong to speak up, but I still take full credit for that happy marriage " Is the ex still single? Asking for a friend | |||
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"Not responding in kind such as phoning, buying dinner or coffees, not reciprocating and making same efforts in maintaining the relationship. A little story... When I started going out with my current husband, we were out one night with his friends and their girlfriends. I noticed that one of them paid for everything for himself and the girlfriend and hubby confirmed that she never ever paid for anything (despite having a full time job) and from what he had seen, never put much effort into the relationship. Roll on a few hours and my tongue is loosening up. I ask the friend why he pays for everything, that it's unacceptable as far as I'm concerned. He was pretty speechless and I woke up the following morning thinking he'd never speak to me again. A week later and we hear he has dumped the girlfriend. Roll on a few weeks and he has a lovely new girlfriend who he goes on to marry, have kids with, and they're still very happy (as far as I'm aware). Maybe I was wrong to speak up, but I still take full credit for that happy marriage Is the ex still single? Asking for a friend " My superior matchmaking skills tell me you shouldn't go there | |||
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"A lack of integrity. It informs a lot of other things.... honesty, fidelity, loyalty, respect, accountability. They all have personal integrity as their foundation." This | |||
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"Someone who blames ex partners for everything that went wrong, doesn't speak of an ability to take responsibility for their own actions " Ok fine... I'll just blame you instead | |||
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"Someone who blames ex partners for everything that went wrong, doesn't speak of an ability to take responsibility for their own actions Ok fine... I'll just blame you instead" Seems fair | |||
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"A penis Beat me to it Have you tried one though?" I try one on a near daily basis, and it's fantastic one as well. But I still couldn't accept one in a romantic partner. | |||
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"Someone who digs down into the margarine instead of taking it off the top! " Who in the name of good fuck uses margarine, these days. Hey mutha, have you any lard for me bread! Nah sun, only beef drippin. | |||
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"A person who acts like they are better than anyone else. That only their opinion matter, that they need to be the only one heard and that they need to be treated better than everyone else. " | |||
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"For me, it would be somebody unkind, intolerant and purposely ignorant. I am simply not attracted to people who aren't decent humans, so not a huge issue, but curious to know. Hahahahaha The vaccinated! Just kidding lol" | |||
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"Racism, xenophobia, transphobia, homophobia, extreme political views that are opposed to mine, religious fervour, cruelty, drug taking. And a dislike of cats Cats are evil though. It's no coincidence that the word "cats" contains many of the letters in the word "cunts" Ah sure look... Mick, I swear, half an hour stroking my pussies would soon change your mind Cats are evil though.... I mean I admire their absolute shithousery and aspire to their not giving a fuck attitude but anyone denying their pure and utterly evilness is living in denial Mine are sweethearts! Well, mostly. Maybe 70% of the time. Kinda..." I'm convinced | |||
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"Lying I hate being lied too and then finding out. The feeling is awful. Id rather be told, no matter how painful the truth is. Exactly, give me all the details, all the nasty, all the hurtful and leave nothing out. Then I can deal and know there's nothing worse lurking to take me out at the knees. Being betrayed / stabbed in the back is much harder to come back from." Exactly this! | |||
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