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By *un.times.. OP   Man
over a year ago

Belfast

Is it just me or is it real hard to get a reply on here. Even if its just " not interested ".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i replay to most messages but some stupid mail i just ignore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never had a problem with replys!

I just don't message anyone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never had a problem with replys!

I just don't message anyone!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

almost always answer even if it is a rejection mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"almost always answer even if it is a rejection mail"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or is it real hard to get a reply on here. Even if its just " not interested ". "

Agree 100%. I put it down to ignorance!

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By *un.times.. OP   Man
over a year ago

Belfast

So what would u guys call a stupid post or one not worth replying to ??

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By *ockster69Man
over a year ago

Leven

I think mate that as a single bloke we are at a massive disadvantage, whether verified or not! I usually message people requesting a reply even if its just a no thanks,...........And I reckon 10% bother. I personally always reply to anyone, but perhapos Im living in the past with my manners eh?

Jock

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local


"So what would u guys call a stupid post or one not worth replying to ??"

If you were to get a message from a 'single fem' looking for a mfff with u and her two girlfriends that might be a waste of time replying,,,,

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By *un.times.. OP   Man
over a year ago

Belfast


"So what would u guys call a stupid post or one not worth replying to ??

If you were to get a message from a 'single fem' looking for a mfff with u and her two girlfriends that might be a waste of time replying,,,,"

Obviously would be nice tho. But u picked me up wrong. I meant what is a stupid oping MSG that I would send. That's there not gonna reply to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or is it real hard to get a reply on here. Even if its just " not interested ". "
chillax bro, I send out loads of messages on here, 9 times out of 10 they get read and then deleted without a reply! It used to piss me off at first, but now I just move on, there are loads of ignorant people on here, but there also some nice ones who actually reply to messages, even if its a 'thanks, but no thanks'!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the

"Hi"

messages very hard to bother replying to.

Just a quick hello and something about yourself works for me.

The big long essay ones about what you're going to do to me don't work either... They're copy paste..

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By *ougarbelfastWoman
over a year ago

belfast


"Is it just me or is it real hard to get a reply on here. Even if its just " not interested ". "
How many times will this subject be brought up in these forums zzzzzzzzz

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local


"Is it just me or is it real hard to get a reply on here. Even if its just " not interested ". How many times will this subject be brought up in these forums zzzzzzzzz"

Perhaps you should do up a list for us ?

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By *ougarbelfastWoman
over a year ago

belfast


"Is it just me or is it real hard to get a reply on here. Even if its just " not interested ". How many times will this subject be brought up in these forums zzzzzzzzz

Perhaps you should do up a list for us ? "
A list of what exactly? If you mean a list of subjects that have been brought up before and should not be brought up again, who do you think I am go waste your own time lol

But it's not hard to see the same subject repeating itself evry few days lol

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local


"Is it just me or is it real hard to get a reply on here. Even if its just " not interested ". How many times will this subject be brought up in these forums zzzzzzzzz

Perhaps you should do up a list for us ? A list of what exactly? If you mean a list of subjects that have been brought up before and should not be brought up again, who do you think I am go waste your own time lol

But it's not hard to see the same subject repeating itself evry few days lol"

Exactly buddy,,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. It's really frustrating when you put in loads of effort and you think you have loads in common with the woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or is it real hard to get a reply on here. Even if its just " not interested ". How many times will this subject be brought up in these forums zzzzzzzzz

Perhaps you should do up a list for us ? A list of what exactly? If you mean a list of subjects that have been brought up before and should not be brought up again, who do you think I am go waste your own time lol

But it's not hard to see the same subject repeating itself evry few days lol"

Now cougar only a guess on my part but maybe it because when it comes up people talk about it . Maybe it's because it's a topic that interests folk . Course the way not to bring it up would be to ignore the posts that bore you and not encourage them by posting on them .

But hey what would I know

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By *ougarbelfastWoman
over a year ago

belfast


"Is it just me or is it real hard to get a reply on here. Even if its just " not interested ". How many times will this subject be brought up in these forums zzzzzzzzz

Perhaps you should do up a list for us ? A list of what exactly? If you mean a list of subjects that have been brought up before and should not be brought up again, who do you think I am go waste your own time lol

But it's not hard to see the same subject repeating itself evry few days lol

Now cougar only a guess on my part but maybe it because when it comes up people talk about it . Maybe it's because it's a topic that interests folk . Course the way not to bring it up would be to ignore the posts that bore you and not encourage them by posting on them .

But hey what would I know "
Or maybe people (mostly men) bring it up to try and gain interest in their profile (most of which are boring at the best of times) but then again what would I know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There goes the non judgemental cougar again, assuming men are posting for attention and saying what should and shouldn't be in forum.

What would we do without your enlightenment? Hmmm, survive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

But hey what would I know Or maybe people (mostly men) bring it up to try and gain interest in their profile (most of which are boring at the best of times) but then again what would I know."

meeeeoooowwwww!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I Reply to people who have written more than a 1 liner and fit the criteria,if they don't meet it then means they can't be bothered to read it properly so why would I be bothered to reply???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I Reply to people who have written more than a 1 liner and fit the criteria,if they don't meet it then means they can't be bothered to read it properly so why would I be bothered to reply???"

Exactly!!

If they haven't made an effort, than why should you!?

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By *ougarbelfastWoman
over a year ago

belfast


"There goes the non judgemental cougar again, assuming men are posting for attention and saying what should and shouldn't be in forum.

What would we do without your enlightenment? Hmmm, survive!"

Where did I judge anybody Look at my words very carefully

1. I asked a question

2. Then I said "Maybe" they bring it up to get attention to their profiles.

But then again being a chicken what would you know LOL (note the "LOL")

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a chicken, I do have a short attention span and limited memory. You've got me there!

But the sexy chicken always gets the sexy cock!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or is it real hard to get a reply on here. Even if its just " not interested ". How many times will this subject be brought up in these forums zzzzzzzzz

Perhaps you should do up a list for us ? A list of what exactly? If you mean a list of subjects that have been brought up before and should not be brought up again, who do you think I am go waste your own time lol

But it's not hard to see the same subject repeating itself evry few days lol

Now cougar only a guess on my part but maybe it because when it comes up people talk about it . Maybe it's because it's a topic that interests folk . Course the way not to bring it up would be to ignore the posts that bore you and not encourage them by posting on them .

But hey what would I know Or maybe people (mostly men) bring it up to try and gain interest in their profile (most of which are boring at the best of times) but then again what would I know."

I agree totally!!

Of course it's for attention.

I'd do the same if I was that bothered by it all!

Most of the guys who put up these threads are usually verified already, so it's mostly an attention seeking ploy.

As I've said earlier in this thread, I don't have any problems getting replys, because I'm a replier. LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being a chicken, I do have a short attention span and limited memory. You've got me there!

But the sexy chicken always gets the sexy cock!"

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By *ougarbelfastWoman
over a year ago

belfast


"Being a chicken, I do have a short attention span and limited memory. You've got me there!

But the sexy chicken always gets the sexy cock!"
Farmers have always known that over time roosters grow less interested in mating repeatedly with same hen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this going to turn into another bitter thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ya know what cougar! I don't give a shite if I get banned from forum for this.

You are a narky, nasty, bitter, twisted old bitch. You come on these forums and bait the young ones so you can run them down. You say you're interested on younger men as sexual partners but I think it's more to do with you needing to feel older and superior.

The more mature men recognize you for the bitter bitch you are.

And don't bother writing back about the name calling cause I'm well aware!

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By *ougarbelfastWoman
over a year ago

belfast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think not replying is completely ignorant would you ignore someone u didnt find attractive in the street. Manners are seldom found on here. I totally get the nature of the site but a simple sorry not my type isnt gonna influence suicide seriously.if u dont wanna speak to men newbies use your filters ffs instead of allowing wat u dont want. Some of the women on here come across as arrogant as if owed something and some men are practically hanging out of them just in the hope of a fuck yes mam please mam 3 bags full mam .... Vommit just reply use filters and be yourself .....

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By *ougarbelfastWoman
over a year ago

belfast


"Ya know what cougar! I don't give a shite if I get banned from forum for this.

You are a narky, nasty, bitter, twisted old bitch. You come on these forums and bait the young ones so you can run them down. You say you're interested on younger men as sexual partners but I think it's more to do with you needing to feel older and superior.

The more mature men recognize you for the bitter bitch you are.

And don't bother writing back about the name calling cause I'm well aware!

"

Firstly: let me say I stated a well known fact in the animal kingdom.

Secondly: I very rarely bait anybody on this site it is up to a man's own free will if he wants to reply to my profile same as if he wanted to reply to your profile (I could say you are baiting men as well if I really wanted to get into it)

Thirdly where have I run down any guys I have met on here and to be very honest I very rarely meet men from this site despite what a lot of people think they know or "assume"

Fourthly (is that a word lol): I don't need to feel older I am older that's a given fact. I don't think I am better than anybody else I state my views on things, I don't ask people to like them or dislike them that's up to each individual person.

As for the more mature men I reject them on here not the other way around.

I find it amazing that you are making a judgement on somebody you don't know (me) if that's how you treat people you don't know I would not like to see how you treat people you do know.

Now as I said calm down as you seem to be getting your feathers in a bit of a ruffle and understand that we are all allowed to express our views at times even though we may not agree with others views.

And remember everybody loves Chicken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

U did have a go at me before cougar not to bring up the past but do u enjoy confrontation or just opinionated. Does this happen often or pure coincidence.

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By *ougarbelfastWoman
over a year ago

belfast

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By *ougarbelfastWoman
over a year ago

belfast

"U did have a go at me before cougar not to bring up the past but do u enjoy confrontation or just opinionated. Does this happen often or pure coincidence."

Well you call it having a go I call it being allowed to express my views as you are also allowed to do. If you think about it really it's just a play on words we can all say things in different ways and we can all also read them in different ways, would you not agree on this also.

I would of course defend myself and would feel I am allowed the right to reply, now I call it a "right to reply" you call it "Confrontation" see what I mean about how we use words that may influence how others think and may perhaps respond to. And if I am not wrong you did make a post called "an olive branch to Cougar" after your thread was deleted for calling people (me) names and I understood. But you have not seen me calling anybody names as I don't know you or the other person on this forum who seems to be having a go at me (and on more than one occasion). I never judged you or her if I can remember correctly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chicken dont worry bout it people that know u will understand your not confrontational u speak your mind in a forum if people are bored with peoples thread than why comment knowing probably it wll lead to a a confrontation..... as for your feathers being ruffled whoop whoop sexy chicken....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay cougar. If we all have a right to our say then why are you continually giving out about the threads that people choose to post or their motives. When it's YOU it's having your say, but everybody else should know better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are never wrong cougar just for the record this is my opinion that your stubborn dogmatic and are seldom nice to people. Granted you are the most straight talking person on here however very insensitive to peoples feelings and very quick to pass judgement / opinion idont dislike u just think u could be more considerate

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By *ougarbelfastWoman
over a year ago

belfast


"Okay cougar. If we all have a right to our say then why are you continually giving out about the threads that people choose to post or their motives. When it's YOU it's having your say, but everybody else should know better?"
Well in this post it started off by me asking a question and looked what it turned into.

When it gets to motives as women we all know how many nonsense emails we all get I am sure you as well as I have had tons of emails and when we have knocked guys back we get abusive emails (not all the time as there are some real nice guys) but it is always the nice guys that end up getting the hard time.

Now the person who made the post that started this has had a recent meet so it's not like nobody ever answered his emails or liked him (the person liked him enough to have more than one meet) he is verified, but then he says "Is it just me or is it real hard to get a reply on here" and according to his last verification he met somebody on December 19th so somebody did reply to him and sorry but there are guys on this site 6 months who are still trying yet the OP has only been a member 3 months and it is almost like if "some guys" (note the "some" feck I always have to spell this out lol)don't meet a woman within a certain period of time they come into the forum make a post as is the title of this one.

It almost stinks of desperation and I know as well as you know that since the person posted it he has most likely had more views on his profile. Don't you just get a little bit fed up with "some" guys behaving like they have a right to get a meet because after all they are on a "sex site" as we are always being reminded. So I do get fed up looking at guys moaning about things and replying if they go to a club they are competing with all the other guys to grab a girls attention but I bet they don't go the the manager and complain there was too many other guys making a play for a girl they wanted. The guys who do it know full well what will happen when they make posts like this in the forums (they get more views and perhaps an email, so it done it's job) hence why I "Asked a question"

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By *ougarbelfastWoman
over a year ago

belfast

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By *ougarbelfastWoman
over a year ago

belfast


"You are never wrong cougar just for the record this is my opinion that your stubborn dogmatic and are seldom nice to people. Granted you are the most straight talking person on here however very insensitive to peoples feelings and very quick to pass judgement / opinion idont dislike u just think u could be more considerate"
And I am allowed to be Stubborn and dogmatic if I so choose to be, and I would beg to differ but won't fall out with you or name call you about my niceness, remember you only ever see my replies to people in these forums and most times I say something and somebody "Takes it" or "reads it" the wrong way and hence nonsense starts.

You may think I am to put it in your words "insensitive to peoples feelings" but I have on many occasions on these forums and in the chat rooms stood up for people I have NEVER known personally but only through this site but felt they were being bullied or treated badly but you don't see that side of me.

When you say "Granted you are the most straight talking person on here" I take that as a compliment because sometimes people need to know the truth and sometimes the truth hurts (more so when we really don't want to hear it)I am not perfect I know that and have never said I was but have you worked out yet that if people stop replying to this thread it will die of it's own accord, and while I say that in the other breath I will say I will not stand by and say nothing if people are addressing me I will of course have my say as you know from your deleted thread.

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By *oxysCouple
over a year ago

c

my opinion on this is that its just fellas looking for attention, i always write back to my messages but when i c threads like this it screams LOOK AT ME! I have to say we are lucky and havnt had an abusive message back from any single fellas yet we have had a few from a few couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just try not to always be seen as the dark cloud

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What the fuck, this thread is ridiculous, hahahaha

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By *ougarbelfastWoman
over a year ago

belfast


"What the fuck, this thread is ridiculous, hahahaha "
Most threads are lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What the fuck, this thread is ridiculous, hahahaha "

It's not really, try being a single guy in here. Fairly smug attitude, no offence!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to d*unk to comments except this is hilarious

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By *ougarbelfastWoman
over a year ago

belfast


"to d*unk to comments except this is hilarious "
As I said Most threads are lol

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By *harlie-29Man
over a year ago

nottingham


"Is it just me or is it real hard to get a reply on here. Even if its just " not interested ". "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or is it real hard to get a reply on here. Even if its just " not interested ". "

I'll give you my perspective on this. My profile us currently hidden as I'm not meeting new people just now, and it seems the easiest way to stop guys messaging me. When it wasn't hidden it clearly said, twice, that I wasn't looking for new people yet I still got a constant barrage of messages from guys every time I logged on. Why should I reply to those messages when it was clear I wasn't looking for new guys?

Alternatively, when I was meeting new guys my profile is very specific as to what I'm looking for. I get messages from guys that clearly haven't read my profile fully, or they'd not be messaging me, as they're not what I'm looking for in a man. Again, why should I reply when they've wasted both our times in messaging me?

Lastly, when I came back to fab after some time away I would reply to all messages but I'd often get replies back that were offensive, mostly along the lines of 'your loss', ' I was doing you a favour you fat bitch', and my favourite, 'you're just average anyway, I didn't really want to shag you', so why fucking ask in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What the fuck, this thread is ridiculous, hahahaha

It's not really, try being a single guy in here. Fairly smug attitude, no offence!"

Excuse me , smug?? How the hell am I being smug, I was referring to the descent into the slagging march it turned into, not the original question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slagging match not march!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or is it real hard to get a reply on here. Even if its just " not interested ". "

I'm confused as to why a "not interested" reply might be wanted, but perhaps that is just me Saying that, it can be demoralising if sending mail and seemingly being ignored all the time....

It can seem a tough world on here for us single guys, but the odds are stacked against us, so one has to ask whether the mails being sent are relevant/polite/respectful.

Do they show that you have read the profile? Do you, as a few of the lasses here say, even match what they are looking for? Are they cut and paste and so clearly so? Is your own profile interesting and matching what you say about yourself in your mails ?

But there is no "perfect" e-mail which is guaranteed a response for we are all different.....

So chill out, take a bit of time over the mail you are writing and to whom you are writing it and you might find a better response

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one is owed a reply. There are simply too many mails sometimes to reply to each individually. If it's one line or one word I just don't bother. If they're too young or too old for my preferences I don't bother. If they're rude again I don't bother.

Why should I if it's clear someone isn't what I'm after.

You need a thick skin on here...but you will get replies if you mail people that are suitable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You do need a thick skin, I always try to reply even if it is a no , unless its those silly ones like hi or how's u, they just get deleted, had a guy msg the other day and cos I didn't reply straight away he sent another one ten minutes later saying how rude I was lol. He was a newbie as well, doubt he'll last long!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A bit of courtesy and manners goes a long way some i reiterate some women on here believe they are a law unto themselves. Yes they are in a position to be as here love im looking to smash your back doors in hope u have home insurance doesnt always work. If its the ignorance of a non reply doesnt annoy me its the ass licking men who grovel and skip to the pied pipers tunes in hope of a jump or being accepted by the cool kids boke.... If u dont wanna hear from men or newbies use the fecking filters thats what there for so dont moan if u are messaged by the undesirables if u dont have filters in place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A bit of courtesy and manners goes a long way some i reiterate some women on here believe they are a law unto themselves. Yes they are in a position to be as here love im looking to smash your back doors in hope u have home insurance doesnt always work. If its the ignorance of a non reply doesnt annoy me its the ass licking men who grovel and skip to the pied pipers tunes in hope of a jump or being accepted by the cool kids boke.... If u dont wanna hear from men or newbies use the fecking filters thats what there for so dont moan if u are messaged by the undesirables if u dont have filters in place"

Excuse me I never said I don't want to be messaged by newbies, my point is if that's his attitude when he jus joined he isn't going to have much luck, and filters are all well and good but unfortunately there isn't a filter option for assholes. If you find the site so terrible then why are you even here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never directed my post at u nor mention any user in particular jj wat i simply meant is that people moaning about certain disciplines messaging them shud have a filter in place to prevent it then we can all skip merrilly around the garden simples

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local

How the f**k did I miss this row,,,why didnt somebody tell me there was a fight I could have helped calm things down.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This fight disagreement load of shite could be avoided if people either replied to messages even a no thanks or used filters or made the first move themselves simple unfortunately some see themselves as elders not age ways but that is true also in some cases

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How the f**k did I miss this row,,,why didnt somebody tell me there was a fight I could have helped calm things down..... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, lot of ignorant women over there!

Just my humble opinion!

It's a pity, as the rest of the people I come across over there are the salt of the earth!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never directed my post at u nor mention any user in particular jj wat i simply meant is that people moaning about certain disciplines messaging them shud have a filter in place to prevent it then we can all skip merrilly around the garden simples"

That's it you've cracked it! Why didn't we all think of that in the first place!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anytime jj next case is global warming lmbo

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local


"Yep, lot of ignorant women over there!

Just my humble opinion!

It's a pity, as the rest of the people I come across over there are the salt of the earth!"

You insulting our women ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rest my case tom catty is one of those men

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local


"I rest my case tom catty is one of those men"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, away back to your own forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rest my case tom catty is one of those men"

Eh? One of what men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok,

Why can't we all chill out!?

I'm sorry guys but this is bullshit.

The girls have a point in why they should/shouldn't reply to messages.

(ie safety reasons, idiots, stalkers)

The guys (Heff) need to have a thicker skin and accept that those people do exist out there and yes, have ruined it for the majority!

But get this, it's a swing site AND a certain lifestyle,

After all, If you can't handle the basics, which includes being turned down, passed over or ignored, then maybe it's not for you.

I read somewhere here that guys in a club wouldn't go crying to management if a girl they liked was chatting to someone else and not them, I think that's a valid point!

Heff mate, sorry but I'm not trying to get at you dude, but it says you're only here 6 weeks.

That, in my book is still new. Maybe you still have much to learn, my young apprentice LOL.

As for filters, yes they're there, and I'm sure we all use them. But either way, there are still a certain few that get through because Admin haven't yet created the arsehole filter!

And I'm pretty sure we'd all select that option if we could!! LOL.

Anyway, lets keep these threads alive, healthy and helpful!

Fooey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That wants to be every girl on heres best friend laughs his balls of at stuff that aint funny just to get in with the cool kids in hope of a ride

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No offence taken fooey your not wrong i was here before and have been for over a year profile got lost so i know wat im talking about yes stalkers shop our meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No offence taken fooey your not wrong i was here before and have been for over a year profile got lost so i know wat im talking about yes stalkers shop our meeting"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hung has a point the way some men talk to females on here is a disgrace, and wonder why there not getting any were.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the record i have been rejected and leave it at that i dont look answers or consider suicide

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

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"That wants to be every girl on heres best friend laughs his balls of at stuff that aint funny just to get in with the cool kids in hope of a ride "

Hugh you need to calm down,you need to accept not everyone wants to meet u,,in fact nobody may want to meet u,chillax or your not goin to last 8 weeks here bud.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im ok dude apologies for rant at u just sum ass lickers on here and im on here over a year

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

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"Im ok dude apologies for rant at u just sum ass lickers on here and im on here over a year"

I hear your pain buddy and remember uve a shoulder to cry on right here,,,love ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Np mate so obviously diffrent strokes for different folks thats life but a reply is manners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look, there is a valid case for both sides of the argument.

We've all been ignored at some point, we've all had our fair share of weird abusive messages! LOL (yes even guys!).

But where does it get us? Nowhere.

Maybe I'm just getting old or my 'couldn't give a fuck' gene has grown back, but I think if we spent less time griping about our issues on here then we'd all be having a laugh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look, there is a valid case for both sides of the argument.

We've all been ignored at some point, we've all had our fair share of weird abusive messages! LOL (yes even guys!).

But where does it get us? Nowhere.

Maybe I'm just getting old or my 'couldn't give a fuck' gene has grown back, but I think if we spent less time griping about our issues on here then we'd all be having a laugh!

"
. Mon and I will help you feel young again

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local

I say we all shake dicks and get on with it,,,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Offer u cant refuse right there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a firm believer in 'what goes around, comes around'.

What do you young people call it? Karma!! LOL

In the last few weeks I've had sudden messages from couples/fems that I messaged (which were deleted) over a year ago!!! WTF! LOL.

I replied with simply "If I wasn't good enough then, what makes you think I am now? But thanks for your interest!"

LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a firm believer in 'what goes around, comes around'.

What do you young people call it? Karma!! LOL

In the last few weeks I've had sudden messages from couples/fems that I messaged (which were deleted) over a year ago!!! WTF! LOL.

I replied with simply "If I wasn't good enough then, what makes you think I am now? But thanks for your interest!"

LOL

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noooooo, everyones being too nice to each other now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Horayyyyyy!!!!! fab has its own debating team yeaaaaa lol awk guys u lot say us women r the sensitive ones I beg to differ lol peoples choice if they reply or not. So just read peoples profiles before messaging and if they dnt reply bk just move on or jog on no point fretting over people ya dnt know. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a related topic....

Was in correspondence back and forward with a local couple. All seemed to be going well. They asked for face pic, I obliged. Asked for same in return, reply was "no can do"

I asked if it was cos they weren't interested, or because I was too close, or because they knew me? As I said... Purely for my own curiousity, and fair enough question I thought.

They blocked me.

Have couples or singles any idea how unnerving something like that is, when you disclose yourself, lay your cards on the table, then next thing blocked?

It's hugely frustrating, but I suppose it's back to the fact that couples rule the roost on here and the rest of us can do little more than suck it up and get on with it!

I shall move on, pride dented but not destroyed! Those other sexual deviants can play with their block button all they like!

Those who left me positive verifications must have saw something that wasn't all bad!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah lads whinging bout it ain't going to help and i agree the hi how are you mails aren't going to get you far. If you put time into the mail and don't get a reply take the dent to your pride and move on. It's frustrating but thats life. Remember some on here get 100s of mails a day (not me sadly) can't reply to all. Try and stand out. Work on your profile and above remember respect! Appoach women and couples on this like you would in a pub.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Horayyyyyy!!!!! fab has its own debating team yeaaaaa lol awk guys u lot say us women r the sensitive ones I beg to differ lol peoples choice if they reply or not. So just read peoples profiles before messaging and if they dnt reply bk just move on or jog on no point fretting over people ya dnt know. Lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The problem is that women are totally outnumbered. Guy's, girls, couples and fake accounts all mostly looking for females which are the minority.

I've read profiles, took the time to think of appropriate opening message that is friendly and still got no reply. Which I assume means that they are just not interested and have too many messages to reply to them all. No doubt some are just holier than thou with all the attention pumping up their ego's.

Those people who will just message anyone and everyone are not helping the issue at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or is it real hard to get a reply on here. Even if its just " not interested ". "

women can get about 300 messages a day,impossible to reply yo them all!!!

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