FabSwingers.com forum: Views on this ?

By *lderiregent OP Man
over a year ago

fermoy

Okay this has me confused a little I'm posting on behalf of some friends here quite known in the scene in a good way anyway moving on the couple in question do meet alone like single meets an what not.

Before they got together one of them had a fuk buddy they both didn't want a relationship literally a fuk an go basically.

This female now has gotten back into texting this couples male again looking for for a fuck. His wife genuinely said yeh go for it have with her etc.

But in his eyes he's like I'm going back to an ex fuk buddy are you sure now let me stress they never even wanted a relationship at the beginning.

Plus she knows he's married with to a girl now and it's still okay between them both.

but she doesn't know the couple are actually on here in the swinging community the guy in the couple kinda feels like he's cheating or something because his fuck buddy was actually before he met his now wife.

So 1 he had a fuck buddy .

2 he's married now happily a swinger with consent.

3 the girl knows hes married

There's 2 problems

1 he doesn't wanna be feeling like he's going back to an ex for say.

2 the girl doesn't know he has consent by his wife and how would you say that or her actually believing him and that's not including he's into swinging now with his wife.

Should he just not say anything and go for his ride or just leave it be and tell her it can't happen anymore or come clean about it and still hope he has a chance what's your views on it ?

My opinion i said come clean on the swinging hope says yes an there you ago we could possibly have another female on board and in the scene with us all ya never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only they can decide for themselves

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm struggling to understand the point of this thread.

I'm not sure how any of it is related to how well known the people are and also why you are asking the question on their behalf?

Will anyone involved actually be swayed by what random people on here say?

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By *exesrangerMan
over a year ago

city

My eyes hurt after reading that. My brain can't compute. So my answer is yes, definitely maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eh, not my circus, not my monkeys

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By *huCullainMan
over a year ago

Rathowen

I'd be 100% sure that 60% of the time I'd be undecided

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By *lderiregent OP Man
over a year ago

fermoy

"I'm struggling to understand the point of this thread.

I'm not sure how any of it is related to how well known the people are and also why you are asking the question on their behalf?

Will anyone involved actually be swayed by what random people on here say? "
yep probably the male in a shorter sentence he feels like he might be cheating by going back to his ex fuk bud. Secondly his ex fuk bud doesn't know he's a swinger on here with his now wife even though wife has consented to it.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Id say don't tell the fuk buddy anything about swinging or permission as it's none of her business so just ignore her and say no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *itnessFitnessMan
over a year ago

Wicklow

Go over and assert your dominance, maybe even try it on with the husband to send the msg home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm struggling to understand the point of this thread.

I'm not sure how any of it is related to how well known the people are and also why you are asking the question on their behalf?

Will anyone involved actually be swayed by what random people on here say? yep probably the male in a shorter sentence he feels like he might be cheating by going back to his ex fuk bud. Secondly his ex fuk bud doesn't know he's a swinger on here with his now wife even though wife has consented to it. "

If he's uncomfortable with the idea then I'd say he has his answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbh the whole episode went over my head, l got lost somewhere along the line ..ah well ..l don't think my opinion would have mattered one way or the other anyway...come to think of it ..they never do anyway cause lm just a complete stranger on the internet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't read all, it sounds very messy,, I'd move on

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By *ackandsashaCouple
over a year ago

West Dublin

"Eh, not my circus, not my monkeys "

I like that

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By *lderiregent OP Man
over a year ago

fermoy

"Eh, not my circus, not my monkeys "
well that's a strong view on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like he is uncomfortable with situation, and the ex fuck buddy is being sneaky one thinking shes going to have affair with him behind wifes back (even though thats not true).

I wouldnt tell FB about the swinging and i wouldnt go near her either. Sounds like a whole lot of drama in the making. Leave the past in the past

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Read twice. Still don't understand.

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By *ome_wild_girlWoman
over a year ago

Antrim Town

"Sounds like he is uncomfortable with situation, and the ex fuck buddy is being sneaky one thinking shes going to have affair with him behind wifes back (even though thats not true).

I wouldnt tell FB about the swinging and i wouldnt go near her either. Sounds like a whole lot of drama in the making. Leave the past in the past "

This

Move on and tell her to do same.

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By *lderiregent OP Man
over a year ago

fermoy

"Read twice. Still don't understand. "
wow okay

1 a couple who are on who are married (easy)

2 before they where just a couple the male had a fuck buddy the male stop seeing the fuck buddy because he's with his now wife (easy)

3 the both of them meet others on here as singles with consent (easy)

4 the male in this couple his ex fuck buddy that he use to fuck before he met his now wife that is on here with him has consented him to fuck his ex fuck buddy (easy)

5 the ex fuck buddy of the male in this couple texted him and asked him for a ride she knows he's married but she doesn't know the couple are swingers (easy)

6 the guy in this couple feels like he might be cheating on his now swinging wife because his ex fuck buddy wants a ride.

This male doesn't know weather to come clean and say he's a swinger with his wife on here and has permission to ride anyone he likes without any hassle or strings. Or skip it and delete numbers bla bla (easy)

it's not rocket science! He had a girl before he met his now wife that he use to fuck and now

she texted him looking for a fuck and now he's a swinger an has permission and so on.

Should he or shouldn't he go for it pretty simple yes or no

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By *lderiregent OP Man
over a year ago

fermoy

"Sounds like he is uncomfortable with situation, and the ex fuck buddy is being sneaky one thinking shes going to have affair with him behind wifes back (even though thats not true).

I wouldnt tell FB about the swinging and i wouldnt go near her either. Sounds like a whole lot of drama in the making. Leave the past in the past "
good advice and at least you get it unlike the above

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By *alvin.Man
over a year ago

Cork/Dublin

My Beano just broke

I'm 100% behind the freedom of people to be confused. As am I.

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By *ltered EgoMan
over a year ago

not a million miles from the airport.

"Okay this has me confused a little I'm posting on behalf of some friends here quite known in the scene in a good way anyway moving on the couple in question do meet alone like single meets an what not.

Before they got together one of them had a fuk buddy they both didn't want a relationship literally a fuk an go basically.

This female now has gotten back into texting this couples male again looking for for a fuck. His wife genuinely said yeh go for it have with her etc.

But in his eyes he's like I'm going back to an ex fuk buddy are you sure now let me stress they never even wanted a relationship at the beginning.

Plus she knows he's married with to a girl now and it's still okay between them both.

So 1 he had a fuck buddy .

2 he's married now happily a swinger with consent.

3 the girl knows hes married

There's 2 problems

1 he doesn't wanna be feeling like he's going back to an ex for say.

2 the girl doesn't know he has consent by his wife and how would you say that or her actually believing him and that's not including he's into swinging now with his wife.

Should he just not say anything and go for his ride or just leave it be and tell her it can't happen anymore or come clean about it and still hope he has a chance what's your views on it ?

My opinion i said come clean on the swinging hope says yes an there you ago we could possibly have another female on board and in the scene with us all ya never know

Throw a few of these in, and I'll come back and try to understand it.

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By *atdieonMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I still don’t know what a tracker mortgage is ,

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

But where does love come into it? If he loves her, he should leave the wife, and run away with the quare wan.

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