FabSwingers.com forum: Young man's question to older women

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What has put you off meeting younger guys in the past?

Minimum age requirement seems to be a big thing which automatically filters me out, feeling like we all tarred with the same brush :/

Who/what ruined it for us?

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

I meet younger lads all the time nothing as happened to make me question it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You're an outlier, but I'm impressed x

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Not put off per sé but you can't beat experience. With that comes the confidence to not pretend you know it all, which can be prevalent with younger guys

There are exceptions of course

The influence of porn can be obvious with some younger guys as well. It's like they don't realiae that most female porn stars are just acting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Interesting, knew there was a crowd that thought like that but couldn't believe it was prevalent.

It's a shame

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm obviously not an older woman but it could be a simple case of not wanting to meet anyone a similar age to their kids.

That's why I have everyone under 40 blocked because I have a daughter almost 32 and it doesn't matter to me how experienced they are or what they look like.

It may have nothing to do with bad experiences and everything to do with excluding due to age only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing or no-one ruined it. Not for us anyway. We prefer not to meet those who are in or around the age of our children. There are also elements of wanting someone experienced...showing someone the ropes holds no appeal for us. And for me, the female half, the idea of being something someone wants to try gives me the ick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's just sexual preference. I am attracted to men 30+

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Nothing or no-one ruined it. Not for us anyway. We prefer not to meet those who are in or around the age of our children. There are also elements of wanting someone experienced...showing someone the ropes holds no appeal for us. And for me, the female half, the idea of being something someone wants to try give me the lick. "

Fixed that for ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My son is 28 so would just find it strange meeting someone his age is younger and I find any younger guy that messages it comes across I'm the message as been with an older woman is something they want to tick off their bucket list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fixed that for ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm seen as a conquest not a person.

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By *razySexyCoolCorkWoman
over a year ago

Cork

Have always been attracted to older men so that must be my type.

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork

While there's life there's hope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not put off per sé but you can't beat experience. With that comes the confidence to not pretend you know it all, which can be prevalent with younger guys

There are exceptions of course

The influence of porn can be obvious with some younger guys as well. It's like they don't realiae that most female porn stars are just acting."

Female porn stars are only acting ??? Oh nooo !!! ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me it's just sexual preference. I am attracted to men 30+

Really ??? WOW !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've kids in their 20s.. I've met younger in the help a fabber thread just for a cuppa and get them a verification,

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork

"I've kids in their 20s.. I've met younger in the help a fabber thread just for a cuppa and get them a verification, "

You are a Fab angel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've kids in their 20s.. I've met younger in the help a fabber thread just for a cuppa and get them a verification,

You are a Fab angel.

Aww thank you .. I'm still not moving to Cork lol

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By *ig_specsWoman
over a year ago

Kilbarrack

In general older men just know how to treat a lady, where the clitoris is and how to touch it, are interested in our pleasure and many get turned on by they way we react to their touch. Young men have amazing stamina but are pretty much self-centred.

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By *ild WomanWoman
over a year ago

Carlow

I do like younger guys but I don't meet people female or male under 30.

I'm of a age when on here it for adult interaction, so anything that would remind me of my off line life (mother, sister) I don't want to know. I have been called mammy by someone random guy, or do I do breastfeeding

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

Our eldest kid is early 20s so we don't want to end up possibly talking to some of her friends or uni friends on the site which is why the min age limit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This for us also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many sixpence was there in a shilling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many sixpence was there in a shilling"

Sixpence? We were going around barefoot in the good old days. Money was for the townies

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Some prefer green bananas, I like mine yellow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How many sixpence was there in a shilling

Sixpence? We were going around barefoot in the good old days. Money was for the townies"

Uphill both ways to work at cutting turf.

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By *ixenforfunWoman
over a year ago

banes mask

Im not put off its just finding one im interested in

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork

"Some prefer green bananas, I like mine yellow.

My fav colour....

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork

"I've kids in their 20s.. I've met younger in the help a fabber thread just for a cuppa and get them a verification,

You are a Fab angel.

Aww thank you .. I'm still not moving to Cork lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Very interesting reply's. General concensus is basically with age=experience, and that younger guys tend to be more self centered / looking for a new conquest.

But still kind of proves my point, have had a hand fuk of encounters now with older women, always goes very well and constantly getting the "you are very mature" line ??

Can't win ???????. Seems to be a very select few that are sexually diverse enough to give it a chance and experience a different type of connection than what they normally filter for ??

All in all great responses, picked up a few pointers ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

By the way '???' = phone emoji's that don't register lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very interesting reply's. General concensus is basically with age=experience, and that younger guys tend to be more self centered / looking for a new conquest.

But still kind of proves my point, have had a hand fuk of encounters now with older women, always goes very well and constantly getting the "you are very mature" line ??

Can't win ???????. Seems to be a very select few that are sexually diverse enough to give it a chance and experience a different type of connection than what they normally filter for ??

All in all great responses, picked up a few pointers ??"

Tbh lad saying someone isn't sexually diverse enough because they choose not to meet your particular demographic doesn't come across as very mature.

But tbf that's not a trait that's exclusive to younger men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very interesting reply's. General concensus is basically with age=experience, and that younger guys tend to be more self centered / looking for a new conquest.

But still kind of proves my point, have had a hand fuk of encounters now with older women, always goes very well and constantly getting the "you are very mature" line ??

Can't win ???????. Seems to be a very select few that are sexually diverse enough to give it a chance and experience a different type of connection than what they normally filter for ??

All in all great responses, picked up a few pointers ??"

This is the kind of response that puts many off. Sexual diversity comes in many forms and it doesn't mean that people should let go of their preferences just to suit a certain demographic. Throwing shade at people because you fall outside those preferences - whatever they may be - is immature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very interesting reply's. General concensus is basically with age=experience, and that younger guys tend to be more self centered / looking for a new conquest.

But still kind of proves my point, have had a hand fuk of encounters now with older women, always goes very well and constantly getting the "you are very mature" line ??

Can't win ???????. Seems to be a very select few that are sexually diverse enough to give it a chance and experience a different type of connection than what they normally filter for ??

All in all great responses, picked up a few pointers ??

Tbh lad saying someone isn't sexually diverse enough because they choose not to meet your particular demographic doesn't come across as very mature.

But tbf that's not a trait that's exclusive to younger men."

Of course, it’s everyone else is the problem not you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's not about who's right and who's wrong. It's obviously preference, nothing I said is fact and I never claimed it to be so take it with a pinch of salt.

My point was I've only come accross a few who ( despite all the reasons mentioned above - kids of similar age etc) are willing to forget about pre-assumptions and take a leap of faith regardless.

In my opinion that is the definition of diversity when it comes to this topic, it doesn't make anyone better or worse than others

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I see there's a fair bit of virtue signalling to be gotten here

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"It's not about who's right and who's wrong. It's obviously preference, nothing I said is fact and I never claimed it to be so take it with a pinch of salt.

My point was I've only come accross a few who ( despite all the reasons mentioned above - kids of similar age etc) are willing to forget about pre-assumptions and take a leap of faith regardless.

In my opinion that is the definition of diversity when it comes to this topic, it doesn't make anyone better or worse than others "

You're assuming that everyone has pre-assumptions. As I already said above for many people it has absolutely nothing to do with an individual or their maturity and experience or lack of.

More often than not there is an age cut off point beyond which many people do not feel comfortable engaging with for numerous reasons including having kids that age. The flip side also applies when younger people don't want to meet people who are a similar age to their parents.

Therefore the individual and their skillset is irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Plenty of "shade" and generalisations about my demographic here, but rather than take it to heart I put myself in their shoes and assume they've come to learn these generalisations through experience or past encounters.

I'm not here to change minds or downtrod anyone, the question posed is exactly that: a question because I value your inputs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If you not I used language like 'I find' and 'tend to', to show that I know it's not everyone, but I can tell you that it's a vast majority. Mentioned nothing about skillset, and the diversity quip, maybe Ill-worded so apologies for that

Hell there's even one or two in this thread that go against the consensus so that alone proves that it's not everyone with pre-assumptions, just find it interesting that it's a majority that agree on the same principle that at the end of the day boils down to age

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Anyone that has tried it to get out of their comfort zone?

How did it pan out, suspicions confirmed or nice surprise?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have somewhat of an interest in psychology and the likes.

Find it very interesting that from what I've heard many younger folks both men/women I've spoken to, have much less of a reservation to meeting the opposite end of the age scale

And a fair bit of mommy/daddy issues going on, like one of you said ' don't want to have to show them the ropes" makes perfect sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problem meeting younger guys who are respectful and can hold a conversation. I've met some wonderful younger guys from here. The thing that irks me is when they message and they are treating you like something to tick off the fuck it list you get the distinct feeling you're just a set of holes when you get .... " you into younger guys I'd love to bang a Milf" messages

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

My filters on here are set more to cut down on messages than anything else.

But in saying that I don't have a lot of interest sexually in men a lot younger than me.That is my preference and I'm happy with it and I don't care if it annoys anyone outside of it or if they think it makes me not sexually diverse or not willing to outside my comfort zone for them. Why would I,to put it bluntly fuck someone just to prove otherwise when I don't want to.

I don't understand why age preferences,or any preferences for that matter that others have are such a big issue for people on here. There is a wide array of people on here looking for different things and plenty that match what others want and look for.So why not just concentrate on those people rather than knocking those whose parameters you fall outside of.

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By *rish In DubaiMan
over a year ago

Carlow

How younger is younger?

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By *rish In DubaiMan
over a year ago

Carlow

"I have no problem meeting younger guys who are respectful and can hold a conversation. I've met some wonderful younger guys from here. The thing that irks me is when they message and they are treating you like something to tick off the fuck it list you get the distinct feeling you're just a set of holes when you get .... " you into younger guys I'd love to bang a Milf" messages "

Guys like this give everyone a bad name.

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By *NawtyCplCouple
over a year ago

Around and about

I think you answered your own question with your own thread and profile. Why are you looking for older women. Yoir thread title and age preference on bio is over 30? Whats wrong with 23 year old hotties

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

"I think you answered your own question with your own thread and profile. Why are you looking for older women. Yoir thread title and age preference on bio is over 30? Whats wrong with 23 year old hotties

He's not sexually diverse enough to shag a 23 year old hottie

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By *NawtyCplCouple
over a year ago

Around and about

He's not sexually diverse enough to shag a 23 year old hottie

more fool him!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the same preference on the opposite end of the age scale too. I don't want to fuck people who are older than my parents.

I don't really care if that means I'm lacking in diversity or someone thinks that I'm stuck in my comfort zone. Because at the end of the day it's my body and I decide who I share it with. As a couple, we do things that others may be uncomfortable with. Others will do things we're uncomfortable with. And that's ok. It doesn't make one of us less adventurous than the other. It's not a competition.

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By *ingMan
over a year ago

Dundalk

I mailed a women who's age range was 36 I had just turned 34 never do I kill opening txts but I decided to have a wee joke with thos women her reason was her son was 32 so two years above his age was normal made no sense at all anyway we chat every once in a while. I personally love older women so sophisticated and no drama. Straight to point aswell lol

Any olde women like what they see..... Pm me

Not gonna happen lol profile is terrible

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By *ingMan
over a year ago

Dundalk

Also just realized Im 34 not young anymore lol

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
over a year ago

Cork

What an interesting conversation.

I totally understand all the issues women have brought up here, but honestly, there is plenty of women on here interested in a younger man, you just have to be respectful and mature, and go to socials!

A preference is a preference at the end of the day.

Also, Swing please come to cork, it's the real capital sure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have somewhat of an interest in psychology and the likes.

Find it very interesting that from what I've heard many younger folks both men/women I've spoken to, have much less of a reservation to meeting the opposite end of the age scale

And a fair bit of mommy/daddy issues going on, like one of you said ' don't want to have to show them the ropes" makes perfect sense"

I should point out, my unwillingness to show someone the ropes has nothing to do with mommy/daddy issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a guy who's been told I fuck way too well for my age, I do feel like people are limiting themselves with age things but I understand why they are there. Like it's not for everyone and every young person is going to claim this. I just feel extra glad when someone gives me a chance because of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally , I’ve no desire to be a teacher and find anyone under 40 to be brain dead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have somewhat of an interest in psychology and the likes.

Find it very interesting that from what I've heard many younger folks both men/women I've spoken to, have much less of a reservation to meeting the opposite end of the age scale

And a fair bit of mommy/daddy issues going on, like one of you said ' don't want to have to show them the ropes" makes perfect sense

I should point out, my unwillingness to show someone the ropes has nothing to do with mommy/daddy issues

Oh Gawd I get the immediate ick when I get messages saying "I bet you could teach me a thing or two" I suppose I could show you how to foot turf correctly..

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By *astelloWoman
over a year ago

Far far away

It's a preference thing. Personally I'm not interested in twenty somethings unless they're extraordinarily mature. Likewise I'm not attracted to those 10 years older than me. Appreciate it's completely generalised. Age=maturity is not a direct correlation but it's a helpful guide.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have somewhat of an interest in psychology and the likes.

Find it very interesting that from what I've heard many younger folks both men/women I've spoken to, have much less of a reservation to meeting the opposite end of the age scale

And a fair bit of mommy/daddy issues going on, like one of you said ' don't want to have to show them the ropes" makes perfect sense

I should point out, my unwillingness to show someone the ropes has nothing to do with mommy/daddy issues

Oh Gawd I get the immediate ick when I get messages saying "I bet you could teach me a thing or two" I suppose I could show you how to foot turf correctly.."

See isn't that the thing? All my life I've mentored, tutored, trained, taught & managed others. I've been a big sister. I've raised two reasonably well adjusted teenagers. I've lived a life well lived. And now I've found my groove. That slice of life that's just for us. Our little indulgence. And I'll be damned if I'm going to spend that downtime giving someone instructions. I deserve that.

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By *rish In DubaiMan
over a year ago

Carlow

"Personally , I’ve no desire to be a teacher and find anyone under 40 to be brain dead

Beautiful comment. Call almost half the population brain dead. Incredible!

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By *alvin.Man
over a year ago

Cork/Dublin

"Young Man's Question to older Woman".

YM...How old are ya Doll?

OW...I'm 49.

YM...Oh lovely. Just the same age as me aul wan.

OW...Oh that's nice.

YM...Well do ya fancy a ride. Teach me stuff!!!

OW...I'll teach you some manners after you've cleaned your room. Now fuk off ya little scut.

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By *isnameismargaretMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I tend not to meet anyone under 30. Nearly anytime I did they were nervous, unsure of themselves and what it was they liked, lacking in skill and confidence. That couldn't be all of them if course but it's come up quite a lot.

I love an older person. They know who they are and what they want, tend to be a hoot to chat to and have all the skills a lifetime of being a sexually active adult provides. Nearly all of my best sexual partners have been older.

The best possibly being the oldest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno about all of you but most of the older people I know are as big a fucking mess as the younger ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The old dog for the long road

The pup for the boreeen

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

""Young Man's Question to older Woman".

YM...How old are ya Doll?

OW...I'm 49.

YM...Oh lovely. Just the same age as me aul wan.

OW...Oh that's nice.

YM...Well do ya fancy a ride. Teach me stuff!!!

OW...I'll teach you some manners after you've cleaned your room. Now fuk off ya little scut.

Sounds about right about alot of them but there is the occasional "one" that surprises us!

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West

For me (Mr), I think its more a thing of lived experience and how that ties in with what we want from Fab and the type of people we want to meet.

I was in my early 20s once (

), and early 20s me is not the sort of people we'd be interested in meeting!

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre

OP I really don't think all young people are tarred with same brush.

I think what becomes apparent for me is the person's level of maturity and how you speak to/deal with people. It's all in the attitude! I've met some amazing younger guys recently.

Get to a social they are the best way to meet people with absolutely no pressure. Get chatting to people and just be yourself...the fun will follow!

Best of luck!

B x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Young Man's Question to older Woman".

YM...How old are ya Doll?

OW...I'm 49.

YM...Oh lovely. Just the same age as me aul wan.

OW...Oh that's nice.

YM...Well do ya fancy a ride. Teach me stuff!!!

OW...I'll teach you some manners after you've cleaned your room. Now fuk off ya little scut.

I has a classic opening line recently from a young guy "you want to be my stepmum? And I fuck your ass hard" so I did pretend to be his Mam and sent him off to bed without his dinner for back chat like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve been with quite a few women who were significantly older and all were positive experiences.

I also spoke to many who were understandably strict on preference. There was many factors, some associated age with experience, others had an attraction to older types and some had younger relations. Then there was some who found it a bit taboo. All those points are fair too.

I personally began using the advanced search to find those looking to meet people my age. It works well and I’d recommend it. You’re going to age, so if you want to meet older women just wait a few years and enjoy your time in between. Happy Fabbing

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By *alvin.Man
over a year ago

Cork/Dublin

""Young Man's Question to older Woman".

YM...How old are ya Doll?

OW...I'm 49.

YM...Oh lovely. Just the same age as me aul wan.

OW...Oh that's nice.

YM...Well do ya fancy a ride. Teach me stuff!!!

OW...I'll teach you some manners after you've cleaned your room. Now fuk off ya little scut.

With out his Din din!!!. Ahh the poor lad. Was it pizza night?.

That would be a heartbreak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What has put you off meeting younger guys in the past?

Minimum age requirement seems to be a big thing which automatically filters me out, feeling like we all tarred with the same brush :/

Who/what ruined it for us? "

Well most women have a tendency to go for guys their own age or a little older, but on the other hand, it could be down insecurity. Physically anyway.. we reach our physical prime at 25 and our bodys break down slowly after 30 but statistically women are seen most desirable in there early 20s, It could be harder for a woman to feel confident with a guy in his early 20's knowing that he's used to meeting girls at their most desirable age

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West

These young girls in their 20s are more desiresble to whom, exactly? As its mainly younger guys here looking for older women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's down to each individual on both sides, I've met older who make there mind up based on conversations ect not off the age listed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These young girls in their 20s are more desiresble to whom, exactly? As its mainly younger guys here looking for older women."

Statistically, more desirable then any other age ...

You don't see alot of girls in there early 20s on this compared to other ages, do you?

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West

These young girls in their 20s are more desiresble to whom, exactly? As its mainly younger guys here looking for older women.

Statistically, more desirable then any other age ...

You don't see alot of girls in there early 20s on this compared to other ages, do you?"

From experience of younger women in my earlier life and even observing them now, I'd hazard a guess it's because they're nowhere near comfortable enough in their own skin. Many would not have the confidence and self-esteem required at that stage of their lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These young girls in their 20s are more desiresble to whom, exactly? As its mainly younger guys here looking for older women.

Statistically, more desirable then any other age ...

You don't see alot of girls in there early 20s on this compared to other ages, do you?

I'd have to disagree, all you'd have to have to do is look around for awhile at insta to see how confident they are.

also I know afew girls, one from my hometown, that are seriously considering jumping on the OF bandwagon

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West

These young girls in their 20s are more desiresble to whom, exactly? As its mainly younger guys here looking for older women.

Statistically, more desirable then any other age ...

You don't see alot of girls in there early 20s on this compared to other ages, do you?

I'd have to disagree, all you'd have to have to do is look around for awhile at insta to see how confident they are.

also I know afew girls, one from my hometown, that are seriously considering jumping on the OF bandwagon"

To be fair, Instagram and OF are not even related to Fab and kind of proves my point. They'll use platforms where they can filter the hell out of everything and ensure the lighting is perfect every time, to hide insecurities.

They're not comparable with any woman from Fab who will meet you in the flesh. Those ladies are on a different level.

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over a year ago

These young girls in their 20s are more desiresble to whom, exactly? As its mainly younger guys here looking for older women.

Statistically, more desirable then any other age ...

You don't see alot of girls in there early 20s on this compared to other ages, do you?

I'd have to disagree, all you'd have to have to do is look around for awhile at insta to see how confident they are.

also I know afew girls, one from my hometown, that are seriously considering jumping on the OF bandwagon

They're not comparable with any woman from Fab who will meet you in the flesh. Those ladies are on a different level."

I see plenty of women doing that already in Fab,

If you were to meet both girls on a night out, in the flesh, wouldn't you agree that a girl in her early 20s would be more likely to wear something more revealing then a girl in her 30s? because she's more comfortable and confident showing her skin

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By *alvin.Man
over a year ago

Cork/Dublin

No. Fullstop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. Fullstop."

Are you talking to me?

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"What has put you off meeting younger guys in the past?"

Nothing. In fact young single men are exactly what we are looking for.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

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