FabSwingers.com forum: is it all sex here

By *ATMAN36 OP Man
over a year ago

dublin

just wondering do all people come on here just for sex or do some of you hope to find someone more long term or a companion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Neither tbh

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By *herry...Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I'm here for the dick pics...

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"just wondering do all people come on here just for sex or do some of you hope to find someone more long term or a companion. "

Some are looking for more than sex, some are looking for friendship, or more of a relationship.

It's probably a good idea to put on your profile what you're looking for so there is no confusion

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Initially for the sex but currently just for the forums because nothing else is an option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just wondering do all people come on here just for sex or do some of you hope to find someone more long term or a companion.

Some are looking for more than sex, some are looking for friendship, or more of a relationship.

It's probably a good idea to put on your profile what you're looking for so there is no confusion "

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork

Here for the tpyos...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I joined online sites to shake off a bad marriage and ended up here as other sites weren't suited to my likes and needs.

There's no site for what I'm looking for so this seemed a good compromise.

But whilst I'm kinky, sex-positive and in to a lot of things I'm not a swinger or in to quick and easy or promiscuity or the private party scene, so I'm no longer meeting with the expectation of finding anyone that suits my long-term needs.

I'm looking a non-traditional 1-1 exclusive commitment. It seems there's just too much easy D & V around these days (on and off fab) to find a keeper.

Not one to say 'never' usually but that's where I'm at for now.

I'll stay for a bit more for the social side but not sure how long tbh. The gloss is well faded.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I joined here go get my mojo back, a friend told me about the site I didn't want to join a dating site so I joined here as I felt it was more in line with what I wanted.So I guess yes it was about sex at the start. But I'm a fussy sod so I don't do just random hook ups and I constant sex talk a turn off. I met some lovely people and some not so lovely people. I had fbs over the years and now I have a fwb and that friendship is important to me.

At the moment I pop in and out and use the forums only. I go to the odd mng but life is too hectic at the moment outside of fab for anything else.Plus I don't think I'm a true swinger I just go my own journey when the mood takes me.

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By *rishOak12Man
over a year ago

I enjoy the social side and the banter , if people h it off together then that’s better too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am not a Swinger in its true sense, not will ever be , am just looking for someone on the same wavelength as me regards , Music , movies & sex ..the rest will follow along , don't want to go on dating sites as l think they just so fake , l know not everyone thinks that way but each to their own, I'll just keep my Indiana Jones hat on and keep looking for that Holy Grail, maybe lm just being too defensive but once bitten twice shy...maybe ...maybe.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm with bo and spanks, joined to get my confidence back, have taken a few knocks on here but I have also enjoyed some fun. Definitely don't consider myself a swinger but I love the social side and have made some great friends. Have on my profile what I'm looking for but it's amazing how many people don't read it.

Would love to find a fwb

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I came for the sex....stayed for the friendships.....and the sex

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Dont need anything long term, obviously have a companian. Joined for a little added spice, ended up making some fantastic friends and now loving the (albeit limited) social side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im only here to make sure Sydney university doesnt steal anything from me.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

Im here to meet interesting people, who like sex. Its the countercultural approach to relationships, monogamy, that draws me in. That doesnt mean i want to have sex with them. Chat, coffee, lunch, and I'll give you a massage too. Ive met lots of great people here. I used to think I'll find a fwb, but I've let that go. .

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By *amsevenMan
over a year ago

cork

I came for the sex but I find its easier to get it elsewhere, stayed outta boredom and not using any other apps

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

I love the social side to ot all and the true friendship I've ha e found here and if I get the the ride then bonus and if I get the elusive snack box then my mission is complete..

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"I love the social side to ot all and the true friendship I've ha e found here and if I get the the ride then bonus and if I get the elusive snack box then my mission is complete.."

What happens if someone brings a snack box to the hotel

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

"I love the social side to ot all and the true friendship I've ha e found here and if I get the the ride then bonus and if I get the elusive snack box then my mission is complete..

What happens if someone brings a snack box to the hotel "

Well then it's what it says on the the tin..

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

"I love the social side to ot all and the true friendship I've ha e found here and if I get the the ride then bonus and if I get the elusive snack box then my mission is complete.."

How about a snatch box?

(Asking for a ‘friend’)

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Sex. Casual sex

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By *ome_wild_girlWoman
over a year ago

Antrim Town

Came for the sex, stayed for the companionship. I've found people here I can call friends, some of course I enjoy naked pleasures with, some I don't.

People are here to fulfil whatever needs they cant get sorted elsewhere but it's like a rabbit hole, it keeps drawing you in.

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By *ndqtMan
over a year ago

The Wild West

I took a wrong turn on google maps and ended up here.... stayed for the craic and the odd bit of sexy shenanegans

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By *huCullainMan
over a year ago

Rathowen

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By *huCullainMan
over a year ago

Rathowen

I was on a different site and fab was recommended to me. Been on and off and think I'm having my fair share of adult fun. Forums can be a bit of craic at times too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking for that connection to build on.

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By *heVirginianMan
over a year ago

Dublin

"Im only here to make sure Sydney university doesnt steal anything from me."

Those damned aussie academics ..

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

I'm here for the recipes

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By *tockings199Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Often wonder why I am here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Looking for that connection to build on. "

It's always a slow burn for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We came here together initially to explore a few things that involve more than two people.

It's a pretty shallow world in general so haven't cared to get into it beyond that.

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By *ere70Man
over a year ago

Rovinj Istria

i am here to send dick pics

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

Initially for the sex — although that desire is still extant — but also for the forå.

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By *nribanMan
over a year ago

Sligo

Drawn into here by the prospect of lots and lots of sex!!

Reality soon dawns...in the end, prefer to meet people and get to know. Try form some friendships.

I like that there is an openness about what people like and are into.

Regular dating sites can be a chore.

I got into some fun kinky chat with a woman before after a long dialogue.

It was fun, but when I tried to bring it up again she just shunned me!

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By *ildGroverMan
over a year ago

rathfarnham

Sex (greedy)

Got it

Have had some fuck buddies and some onesies but I don’t tend to fall out with people so some nods go back many years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sex (greedy)

Got it

Have had some fuck buddies and some onesies but I don’t tend to fall out with people so some nods go back many years "

Fair play.

I hate bad feeling, it's just not in my nature, just can't settle with things unresolved. So even if it's hard I'll push past hurt or anger or whatever to get to a better place.

And I'd not want to let bad or sad endings ruin happy memories.

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By *ostmaryWoman
over a year ago

Near you

I actually came onto fab because I got a job at Sydney University

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"I'm here for the recipes

A la carte or table d'hôte?

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"I actually came onto fab because I got a job at Sydney University "

And the cat's out of the bag

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By *astelloWoman
over a year ago

Far far away

I came for a fwb. Then I found friends. Then I drank a lot of coffee. Enjoying the socials. I'm still seeking the special one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't actually come here with any idea in mind, just muddling my way through.

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork

Came for the coffee.

Couldn't get too many to accept so stayed for the sex.

Who needs a FWB when you can have Benefits With Friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may take put shares in coffee

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

I came with an open mind and bagged a decent piece of meat

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

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By *rinibooWoman
over a year ago

clare

Joined as dating sites were boring. I love the social side of fab and having the odd meet . My confidence in my body as got a lot better since joining

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

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By *ednuts101Man
over a year ago

Here

Is this a sex site?? Damn what am I doing here?? Must have taken the wrong junction on the motorway

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

"I love the social side to ot all and the true friendship I've ha e found here and if I get the the ride then bonus and if I get the elusive snack box then my mission is complete..

What happens if someone brings a snack box to the hotel

Well then it's what it says on the the tin.."
what has a woman and a Kentucky fried chicken snack box got in common....well after the tender thigh and the juicy breast there is only the greasy box left to put your bone in.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is this a sex site?? Damn what am I doing here?? Must have taken the wrong junction on the motorway "

Where you looking for junction 15?

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By *ingleStud85Man
over a year ago

Donegal

As Robert California once said.. Everything is sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We already had a fantastic sex life and relationship and after nearly 16 years together we both realised we wanted to explore sex with others and fulfil our fantasies as a couple and here we are.

The added bonus of the social side of the lifestyle and befriending couples similar to ourselves has been a very welcome suprise and an important part of what has kept us here. 2.5 years later and we're still here.

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By *jwexladMan
over a year ago

new ross

Came hoping for fun but it’s impossible to even get a reply here …. 5 months and not one meet yet … I’m either too close or too far

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