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"Have a biz trip in a couple of weeks, with a female married colleague. I sense that she would like to fuck me as much as I would like to fuck her ... tough one, as I don't want to misread the situation and fuck up the work relationship. Easy solution is to not bring it up ... Advice?" It's certainly not worth the bother. Especially if it's work I had this recently with someone I work with. She passed enough hints to make it obvious but the reality is, she's a crazy nutter who would easily shift it the other way - I've enough headaches without adding her to the mix. Your best off to avoid | |||
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"Have a biz trip in a couple of weeks, with a female married colleague. I sense that she would like to fuck me as much as I would like to fuck her ... tough one, as I don't want to misread the situation and fuck up the work relationship. Easy solution is to not bring it up ... Advice?" Keep it that ...a fantasy , tbh the potential fallout could be horrible...the ride might not be worth the fall.. but hey maybe everything you fantasize might be what she's fantasizing as well..  | |||
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"From personal experiences, if she wants to, she’ll make the move. Make sure you don’t. But if she makes the move - do it!" You think it's that easy ? ..if she moves it's ok ? It's a woman were talking about ,she's not gonna make the 1st move simply because of her fear of rejection..she hasn't a clue that the guy isn't into that craic. | |||
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"From personal experiences, if she wants to, she’ll make the move. Make sure you don’t. But if she makes the move - do it! You think it's that easy ? ..if she moves it's ok ? It's a woman were talking about ,she's not gonna make the 1st move simply because of her fear of rejection..she hasn't a clue that the guy isn't into that craic." I’ve always made the first move on business trips. Going on another the end of the week with a married man and I intend on moving in. If he says no, I respect that. I’m a mature woman, although it will be a first! | |||
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"From personal experiences, if she wants to, she’ll make the move. Make sure you don’t. But if she makes the move - do it!" Charming. Encouraging infidelity and home wrecking. What a class act  | |||
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"Steer well clear, I would think. Further, I'd say avoid getting into a situation where you have to say "no, thanks" - don't even let it arise. If she actually does want it, and you turn her down out of caution, the fallout could be bad for you as well. " Wise words | |||
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"From personal experiences, if she wants to, she’ll make the move. Make sure you don’t. But if she makes the move - do it! You think it's that easy ? ..if she moves it's ok ? It's a woman were talking about ,she's not gonna make the 1st move simply because of her fear of rejection..she hasn't a clue that the guy isn't into that craic. I’ve always made the first move on business trips. Going on another the end of the week with a married man and I intend on moving in. If he says no, I respect that. I’m a mature woman, although it will be a first!" Everyone looks at things differently, you're going to make the 1st move , you say if he refuses you'll respect that but will you be disappointed at the same time ? | |||
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"From personal experiences, if she wants to, she’ll make the move. Make sure you don’t. But if she makes the move - do it! You think it's that easy ? ..if she moves it's ok ? It's a woman were talking about ,she's not gonna make the 1st move simply because of her fear of rejection..she hasn't a clue that the guy isn't into that craic. I’ve always made the first move on business trips. Going on another the end of the week with a married man and I intend on moving in. If he says no, I respect that. I’m a mature woman, although it will be a first!" Any jobs going in your place??  | |||
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"From personal experiences, if she wants to, she’ll make the move. Make sure you don’t. But if she makes the move - do it! Charming. Encouraging infidelity and home wrecking. What a class act "Absolutely not. Providing advice, would never support or encourage home wrecking. Your profile mentions Marital status unimportant, you sound like a home wrecker…. Yawn. | |||
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"From personal experiences, if she wants to, she’ll make the move. Make sure you don’t. But if she makes the move - do it! You think it's that easy ? ..if she moves it's ok ? It's a woman were talking about ,she's not gonna make the 1st move simply because of her fear of rejection..she hasn't a clue that the guy isn't into that craic. I’ve always made the first move on business trips. Going on another the end of the week with a married man and I intend on moving in. If he says no, I respect that. I’m a mature woman, although it will be a first! Everyone looks at things differently, you're going to make the 1st move , you say if he refuses you'll respect that but will you be disappointed at the same time ? " No way! I’ll move on to someone else! Haha. | |||
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"From personal experiences, if she wants to, she’ll make the move. Make sure you don’t. But if she makes the move - do it! You think it's that easy ? ..if she moves it's ok ? It's a woman were talking about ,she's not gonna make the 1st move simply because of her fear of rejection..she hasn't a clue that the guy isn't into that craic. I’ve always made the first move on business trips. Going on another the end of the week with a married man and I intend on moving in. If he says no, I respect that. I’m a mature woman, although it will be a first! Everyone looks at things differently, you're going to make the 1st move , you say if he refuses you'll respect that but will you be disappointed at the same time ? No way! I’ll move on to someone else! Haha." I think i am in lust marry me | |||
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"From personal experiences, if she wants to, she’ll make the move. Make sure you don’t. But if she makes the move - do it! You think it's that easy ? ..if she moves it's ok ? It's a woman were talking about ,she's not gonna make the 1st move simply because of her fear of rejection..she hasn't a clue that the guy isn't into that craic. I’ve always made the first move on business trips. Going on another the end of the week with a married man and I intend on moving in. If he says no, I respect that. I’m a mature woman, although it will be a first! Everyone looks at things differently, you're going to make the 1st move , you say if he refuses you'll respect that but will you be disappointed at the same time ? No way! I’ll move on to someone else! Haha. I think i am in lust marry me "Shhh, I’m no home wrecked! Remember that! Haha. | |||
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"From personal experiences, if she wants to, she’ll make the move. Make sure you don’t. But if she makes the move - do it! You think it's that easy ? ..if she moves it's ok ? It's a woman were talking about ,she's not gonna make the 1st move simply because of her fear of rejection..she hasn't a clue that the guy isn't into that craic. I’ve always made the first move on business trips. Going on another the end of the week with a married man and I intend on moving in. If he says no, I respect that. I’m a mature woman, although it will be a first! Everyone looks at things differently, you're going to make the 1st move , you say if he refuses you'll respect that but will you be disappointed at the same time ? No way! I’ll move on to someone else! Haha." Ahh .. you'll shift through the gears so...well you know exactly what you want and how to get it. | |||
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"From personal experiences, if she wants to, she’ll make the move. Make sure you don’t. But if she makes the move - do it! Charming. Encouraging infidelity and home wrecking. What a class act
Absolutely not.
Providing advice, would never support or encourage home wrecking.
Your profile mentions Marital status unimportant, you sound like a home wrecker…. Yawn."Haha burn!!!!! Some women like to flirt and just flirt, learned that the hard way! | |||
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"From personal experiences, if she wants to, she’ll make the move. Make sure you don’t. But if she makes the move - do it! Charming. Encouraging infidelity and home wrecking. What a class act
Absolutely not.
Providing advice, would never support or encourage home wrecking.
Your profile mentions Marital status unimportant, you sound like a home wrecker…. Yawn.
Haha burn!!!!!
Some women like to flirt and just flirt, learned that the hard way! "Needs must.. And I know, I flirt lots too in ‘real life’ and I don’t let it progress any further. But when it’s a safe environment and far away from home - I suss out, I’m not a man eater and I’m tactile. I’ll always ensure that they’re secure (I normally know this before indulging) I would never rock anyones boat, let alone mine. I care about mens feelings as much as my own. If the situation is right, it’s right. | |||
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"This thread is depressing " Why so!? 2023! Live and let live. So long as nobody is getting hurt - life is too short. | |||
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"From personal experiences, if she wants to, she’ll make the move. Make sure you don’t. But if she makes the move - do it! Charming. Encouraging infidelity and home wrecking. What a class act
Absolutely not.
Providing advice, would never support or encourage home wrecking.
Your profile mentions Marital status unimportant, you sound like a home wrecker…. Yawn."Yes it does. Im referring to hotwives ie those playing with permission. So what am i wrecking exactly? | |||
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"From personal experiences, if she wants to, she’ll make the move. Make sure you don’t. But if she makes the move - do it! Charming. Encouraging infidelity and home wrecking. What a class act
Absolutely not.
Providing advice, would never support or encourage home wrecking.
Your profile mentions Marital status unimportant, you sound like a home wrecker…. Yawn.
Haha burn!!!!!
Some women like to flirt and just flirt, learned that the hard way! "You might want to review and reconsider that | |||
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"This thread is depressing " Agreed. Lowest of the low unfortunately | |||
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"From personal experiences, if she wants to, she’ll make the move. Make sure you don’t. But if she makes the move - do it! Charming. Encouraging infidelity and home wrecking. What a class act
Absolutely not.
Providing advice, would never support or encourage home wrecking.
Your profile mentions Marital status unimportant, you sound like a home wrecker…. Yawn.
Yes it does. Im referring to hotwives ie those playing with permission.
So what am i wrecking exactly? "Ditto. | |||
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"From personal experiences, if she wants to, she’ll make the move. Make sure you don’t. But if she makes the move - do it! Charming. Encouraging infidelity and home wrecking. What a class act
Absolutely not.
Providing advice, would never support or encourage home wrecking.
Your profile mentions Marital status unimportant, you sound like a home wrecker…. Yawn.
Haha burn!!!!!
Some women like to flirt and just flirt, learned that the hard way!
You might want to review and reconsider that"Review and reconsider, nah, he’s on point! | |||
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"From personal experiences, if she wants to, she’ll make the move. Make sure you don’t. But if she makes the move - do it! Charming. Encouraging infidelity and home wrecking. What a class act
Absolutely not.
Providing advice, would never support or encourage home wrecking.
Your profile mentions Marital status unimportant, you sound like a home wrecker…. Yawn.
Yes it does. Im referring to hotwives ie those playing with permission.
So what am i wrecking exactly?
Ditto."Ditto what? | |||
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"This thread is depressing Agreed. Lowest of the low unfortunately " If I read a thread on a sex/swinging site of open mindedness and found it depressing, I’d probably jus log off and not rejoin... That is the funniest sh*t I’ve read in a long time. The only things that have even slightly depressed me in life are bereavement; you know, serious stuff. The lowest of the low are usually those that commit crimes. Get a grip guys!! Haha! | |||
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"From personal experiences, if she wants to, she’ll make the move. Make sure you don’t. But if she makes the move - do it! Charming. Encouraging infidelity and home wrecking. What a class act
Absolutely not.
Providing advice, would never support or encourage home wrecking.
Your profile mentions Marital status unimportant, you sound like a home wrecker…. Yawn.
Yes it does. Im referring to hotwives ie those playing with permission.
So what am i wrecking exactly?
Ditto.
Ditto what? "Read again, slowly. | |||
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"This thread is depressing Why so!? 2023! Live and let live. So long as nobody is getting hurt - life is too short." How do you know there's no one getting hurt? You aren't naive. If you are aware that the other person is married? There's a spouse and perhaps children. I'm not looking to debate cheating. This is a sad topic. Swinging between couples where all are on board and in agreement is one thing. And every relationship has it's own particulars to navigate. But there are no good ends for those who get caught up in the fallout and have their lives upended and destroyed. | |||
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"This thread is depressing Why so!? 2023! Live and let live. So long as nobody is getting hurt - life is too short. How do you know there's no one getting hurt? You aren't naive. If you are aware that the other person is married? There's a spouse and perhaps children. I'm not looking to debate cheating. This is a sad topic. Swinging between couples where all are on board and in agreement is one thing. And every relationship has it's own particulars to navigate. But there are no good ends for those who get caught up in the fallout and have their lives upended and destroyed." I asked why is it depressing? Why is it depressing to you? Didn’t ask anything else. | |||
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"From personal experiences, if she wants to, she’ll make the move. Make sure you don’t. But if she makes the move - do it! Charming. Encouraging infidelity and home wrecking. What a class act
Absolutely not.
Providing advice, would never support or encourage home wrecking.
Your profile mentions Marital status unimportant, you sound like a home wrecker…. Yawn.
Yes it does. Im referring to hotwives ie those playing with permission.
So what am i wrecking exactly?
Ditto.
Ditto what?
Read again, slowly. "Or you could clarify what your ditto refers to? Ditto is supposed to mean basically 'the same thing', or for the previous thing said to apply again. I asked the question 'so what am i wrecking exactly?'. You replied 'ditto'. So youre effectively asking, what are you wrecking exactly? So my question is, who said you were wrecking anything? | |||
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"This thread is depressing Why so!? 2023! Live and let live. So long as nobody is getting hurt - life is too short. How do you know there's no one getting hurt? You aren't naive. If you are aware that the other person is married? There's a spouse and perhaps children. I'm not looking to debate cheating. This is a sad topic. Swinging between couples where all are on board and in agreement is one thing. And every relationship has it's own particulars to navigate. But there are no good ends for those who get caught up in the fallout and have their lives upended and destroyed. I asked why is it depressing? Why is it depressing to you? Didn’t ask anything else." And I said, so long as nobody is getting hurt. I articulate in a non naive way. | |||
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"From personal experiences, if she wants to, she’ll make the move. Make sure you don’t. But if she makes the move - do it! Charming. Encouraging infidelity and home wrecking. What a class act
Absolutely not.
Providing advice, would never support or encourage home wrecking.
Your profile mentions Marital status unimportant, you sound like a home wrecker…. Yawn.
Yes it does. Im referring to hotwives ie those playing with permission.
So what am i wrecking exactly?
Ditto.
Ditto what?
Read again, slowly.
Or you could clarify what your ditto refers to?
Ditto is supposed to mean basically 'the same thing', or for the previous thing said to apply again.
I asked the question 'so what am i wrecking exactly?'. You replied 'ditto'.
So youre effectively asking, what are you wrecking exactly?
So my question is, who said you were wrecking anything? "You obviously need a drink; failing that, a wank. | |||
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"From personal experiences, if she wants to, she’ll make the move. Make sure you don’t. But if she makes the move - do it! Charming. Encouraging infidelity and home wrecking. What a class act
Absolutely not.
Providing advice, would never support or encourage home wrecking.
Your profile mentions Marital status unimportant, you sound like a home wrecker…. Yawn.
Yes it does. Im referring to hotwives ie those playing with permission.
So what am i wrecking exactly?
Ditto.
Ditto what?
Read again, slowly.
Or you could clarify what your ditto refers to?
Ditto is supposed to mean basically 'the same thing', or for the previous thing said to apply again.
I asked the question 'so what am i wrecking exactly?'. You replied 'ditto'.
So youre effectively asking, what are you wrecking exactly?
So my question is, who said you were wrecking anything?
You obviously need a drink; failing that, a wank."Youre exposing yourself as a bit unsavoury on this thread im afraid, in a couple of ways | |||
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"From personal experiences, if she wants to, she’ll make the move. Make sure you don’t. But if she makes the move - do it! Charming. Encouraging infidelity and home wrecking. What a class act
Absolutely not.
Providing advice, would never support or encourage home wrecking.
Your profile mentions Marital status unimportant, you sound like a home wrecker…. Yawn.
Yes it does. Im referring to hotwives ie those playing with permission.
So what am i wrecking exactly?
Ditto.
Ditto what?
Read again, slowly.
Or you could clarify what your ditto refers to?
Ditto is supposed to mean basically 'the same thing', or for the previous thing said to apply again.
I asked the question 'so what am i wrecking exactly?'. You replied 'ditto'.
So youre effectively asking, what are you wrecking exactly?
So my question is, who said you were wrecking anything?
You obviously need a drink; failing that, a wank.
Youre exposing yourself as a bit unsavoury on this thread im afraid, in a couple of ways"Really? Cos I’m pretty certain you haven’t, tasted, smelt or seen how good I look.. 
In jest of course.
I don’t need to defend or justify myself. A man asked for advice, I gave, we gave. Some didn’t, some just attacked and judged. This isn’t a judgement forum; if you don’t like - move on.
And don’t be afraid - I’m not.
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"Christ am I the only one that find Irish_vixen refreshing? She clearly states what she is here for and makes no apology for it and rightly so. Don't get things so twisted " | |||
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"Christ am I the only one that find Irish_vixen refreshing? She clearly states what she is here for and makes no apology for it and rightly so. Don't get things so twisted " Support on a thread is so attractive in my eyes! It shows maturity and you’re absolutely right, I think the ability to observe without evaluating is too much of an easy task. Instead, some make it hard for themselves and be malice whilst having stale views!
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"Apologies, I didn't realise being proud of something makes it all okay. Good to know. That'll make life a whole lot simpler going forward
People had best just suck it up and get out of my way so."Look, nobody’s in your way, it’s a forum. It’s also lighthearted. Personal experiences will also form one’s opinion, I get it. Certain words just didn’t sit well with me, especially the wrecker. Not all Germans were Hitler. I’m very proud that I’ve never hurt anyone in such scenario, just enhanced. Happy midweek! Everything’s ok!  | |||
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"Christ am I the only one that find Irish_vixen refreshing? She clearly states what she is here for and makes no apology for it and rightly so. Don't get things so twisted
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"Apologies, I didn't realise being proud of something makes it all okay. Good to know. That'll make life a whole lot simpler going forward
People had best just suck it up and get out of my way so.
Look, nobody’s in your way, it’s a forum. It’s also lighthearted.
Personal experiences will also form one’s opinion, I get it.
Certain words just didn’t sit well with me, especially the wrecker. Not all Germans were Hitler.
I’m very proud that I’ve never hurt anyone in such scenario, just enhanced.
Happy midweek! Everything’s ok! "'not all Germans were Hitler' How is that relevant to the ongoing conversation? | |||
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"Apologies, I didn't realise being proud of something makes it all okay. Good to know. That'll make life a whole lot simpler going forward
People had best just suck it up and get out of my way so.
Look, nobody’s in your way, it’s a forum. It’s also lighthearted.
Personal experiences will also form one’s opinion, I get it.
Certain words just didn’t sit well with me, especially the wrecker. Not all Germans were Hitler.
I’m very proud that I’ve never hurt anyone in such scenario, just enhanced.
Happy midweek! Everything’s ok!
'not all Germans were Hitler'
How is that relevant to the ongoing conversation? "Looks like it's meant as an analogy, just try not to split every word and relax. On a side note, Hitler was Austrian. | |||
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" 'not all Germans were Hitler' How is that relevant to the ongoing conversation? Looks like it's meant as an analogy, just try not to split every word and relax. On a side note, Hitler was Austrian. "Why always Hitler though? The effects of British/US propaganda I suppose. Like, both Stalin and Mao were considerably more evil! | |||
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"Apologies, I didn't realise being proud of something makes it all okay. Good to know. That'll make life a whole lot simpler going forward
People had best just suck it up and get out of my way so.
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Look, nobody’s in your way, it’s a forum. It’s also lighthearted.
Personal experiences will also form one’s opinion, I get it.
Certain words just didn’t sit well with me, especially the wrecker. Not all Germans were Hitler.
I’m very proud that I’ve never hurt anyone in such scenario, just enhanced.
Happy midweek! Everything’s ok! "°°° Ahhh, I get it now, why you kept asking why I found the thread depressing. Are you waiting for a tale of woe of my having been cheated on? Is that so you can have an internal gloat and box me up with the 'sad' wives? That's more and more unpleasant tbh. No, I have never been cheated on. I am however very empathetic to those who have been. I also have children and know how their lives are impacted by divorce. I'm not repulsed by cheating because of personal experience of it. I'm repulsed by cheating due to it being absolutely morally bankrupt and think anyone involved has zero integrity. But you do you, it seems you're more than happy in your lane. But perhaps actually you aren’t, perhaps you're searching or lost or whatever and looking for things in all the wrong places. So this isn't a go at you, I made a closed statement that I found the thread depressing and you pursued a reason from me. This is it. We can absolutely agree to disagree and you can go be your lighthearted self cutting a swathe through attached males at will. | |||
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"Apologies, I didn't realise being proud of something makes it all okay. Good to know. That'll make life a whole lot simpler going forward
People had best just suck it up and get out of my way so.
Look, nobody’s in your way, it’s a forum. It’s also lighthearted.
Personal experiences will also form one’s opinion, I get it.
Certain words just didn’t sit well with me, especially the wrecker. Not all Germans were Hitler.
I’m very proud that I’ve never hurt anyone in such scenario, just enhanced.
Happy midweek! Everything’s ok!
'not all Germans were Hitler'
How is that relevant to the ongoing conversation? "Tarnishing all with the same brush, why does everything need explaining to you!? | |||
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"Apologies, I didn't realise being proud of something makes it all okay. Good to know. That'll make life a whole lot simpler going forward
People had best just suck it up and get out of my way so.
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Look, nobody’s in your way, it’s a forum. It’s also lighthearted.
Personal experiences will also form one’s opinion, I get it.
Certain words just didn’t sit well with me, especially the wrecker. Not all Germans were Hitler.
I’m very proud that I’ve never hurt anyone in such scenario, just enhanced.
Happy midweek! Everything’s ok!
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Ahhh, I get it now, why you kept asking why I found the thread depressing.
Are you waiting for a tale of woe of my having been cheated on? Is that so you can have an internal gloat and box me up with the 'sad' wives?
That's more and more unpleasant tbh.
No, I have never been cheated on.
I am however very empathetic to those who have been.
I also have children and know how their lives are impacted by divorce.
I'm not repulsed by cheating because of personal experience of it.
I'm repulsed by cheating due to it being absolutely morally bankrupt and think anyone involved has zero integrity.
But you do you, it seems you're more than happy in your lane.
But perhaps actually you aren’t, perhaps you're searching or lost or whatever and looking for things in all the wrong places. So this isn't a go at you, I made a closed statement that I found the thread depressing and you pursued a reason from me. This is it.
We can absolutely agree to disagree and you can go be your lighthearted self cutting a swathe through attached males at will."You really have read me all wrong. Gloating? No. That’s a waste of time, but as is regret. As I said, live and let live! Just about to board a plane to the Uk! His heart is already racing! As is mine! What happens in Vegas.. ?? | |||
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"Apologies, I didn't realise being proud of something makes it all okay. Good to know. That'll make life a whole lot simpler going forward
People had best just suck it up and get out of my way so.
Look, nobody’s in your way, it’s a forum. It’s also lighthearted.
Personal experiences will also form one’s opinion, I get it.
Certain words just didn’t sit well with me, especially the wrecker. Not all Germans were Hitler.
I’m very proud that I’ve never hurt anyone in such scenario, just enhanced.
Happy midweek! Everything’s ok!
'not all Germans were Hitler'
How is that relevant to the ongoing conversation?
Tarnishing all with the same brush, why does everything need explaining to you!?"Maybe youre thinking of someone else. I didnt tarnish 'all' of anyone or anything | |||
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"I keep tropical fish in my underpants " Are they married though | |||
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"I keep tropical fish in my underpants " Are they the ones that nibble at your feet to pick off the dead skin | |||
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"I keep tropical fish in my underpants Are they the ones that nibble at your feet to pick off the dead skin "Bye bye foreskin... | |||
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"I keep tropical fish in my underpants Are they the ones that nibble at your feet to pick off the dead skin
Bye bye foreskin..."That's the other thread | |||
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"I keep tropical fish in my underpants Are they the ones that nibble at your feet to pick off the dead skin "Did I say fish? I meant fruit | |||
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"I carried a watermelon ?? "Full circle. | |||
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"Don't do it!!" . Agreed. | |||
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"Not everyone has a perfect happy life so you can't judge anyone here, it's a sex site .. not a dating one, it's just my opinion.. " Just because I'm not looking to date the people I fuck here doesn't mean I don't nor am I not entitled to hold then to a certain standard of behaviour. I try not to voice that judgement on threads because I know it will make zero difference to them, but that whole BS line about it just being a sex site is just self-serving bollox tbh | |||
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"Not everyone has a perfect happy life so you can't judge anyone here, it's a sex site .. not a dating one, it's just my opinion.. Just because I'm not looking to date the people I fuck here doesn't mean I don't nor am I not entitled to hold then to a certain standard of behaviour. I try not to voice that judgement on threads because I know it will make zero difference to them, but that whole BS line about it just being a sex site is just self-serving bollox tbh " | |||
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"Not everyone has a perfect happy life so you can't judge anyone here, it's a sex site .. not a dating one, it's just my opinion.. Just because I'm not looking to date the people I fuck here doesn't mean I don't nor am I not entitled to hold then to a certain standard of behaviour. I try not to voice that judgement on threads because I know it will make zero difference to them, but that whole BS line about it just being a sex site is just self-serving bollox tbh " Can you believe it Corky, I almost entirely agree with you: While we all have varying preferences and standards and rightly so, there's absolutely no point in trying to impose your personal values on other fabbers nor displaying your virtue at any occasion given and based on that judging others publicly on here. And this is where the sex site phrase comes in (yes there's the aspect of it being used as an excuse) you can safely assume nobody on here is looking for high moral ground lectures. | |||
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"I often wonder why grown adults post such questions on here regularly. Op is 51 so he's seen a bit of life and presumably knows that it takes all sorts. As a result, some people will have one answer, more will have an entirely different one. What is going to be learned from this post? I can't imagine op is going to do a head count and go with whatever the majority suggest as he's in his 50s and surely knows the folly of such approaches. Op, you do you. " I always regard those as rethorical questions, in most cases the op respectively the genitals have already made the decision. It's more about finding a way around the remaining bit of reasoning. | |||
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"I often wonder why grown adults post such questions on here regularly. Op is 51 so he's seen a bit of life and presumably knows that it takes all sorts. As a result, some people will have one answer, more will have an entirely different one. What is going to be learned from this post? I can't imagine op is going to do a head count and go with whatever the majority suggest as he's in his 50s and surely knows the folly of such approaches. Op, you do you. I always regard those as rethorical questions, in most cases the op respectively the genitals have already made the decision. It's more about finding a way around the remaining bit of reasoning. "I kinda presume that these questions are causing doubt in the op's mind and they're just looking for someone to tell them it's ok to follow their penis. Personally I'd much rather see people make up their own minds rather than try and involve others in their business. Fuck it, I'm old and cranky | |||
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" Can you believe it Corky, I almost entirely agree with you" An yet it still feels like you want to cyber punch me 
I can't win | |||
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"Have a biz trip in a couple of weeks, with a female married colleague. I sense that she would like to fuck me as much as I would like to fuck her ... tough one, as I don't want to misread the situation and fuck up the work relationship. Easy solution is to not bring it up ... Advice?" Avoid it like the plague...don't entertain the thought...run a 100 miles away if you have to....this is coming from a guy who was in the exact situation that you are describing above and the fallout from it was an absolute devastating disaster... | |||
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"I often wonder why grown adults post such questions on here regularly. Op is 51 so he's seen a bit of life and presumably knows that it takes all sorts. As a result, some people will have one answer, more will have an entirely different one. What is going to be learned from this post? I can't imagine op is going to do a head count and go with whatever the majority suggest as he's in his 50s and surely knows the folly of such approaches. Op, you do you. " It's a bit like "Who wants to be a millionaire?" - ask the audience, 50/50 or phone a friend | |||
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"Not everyone has a perfect happy life so you can't judge anyone here, it's a sex site .. not a dating one, it's just my opinion.. Just because I'm not looking to date the people I fuck here doesn't mean I don't nor am I not entitled to hold then to a certain standard of behaviour. I try not to voice that judgement on threads because I know it will make zero difference to them, but that whole BS line about it just being a sex site is just self-serving bollox tbh " This, this and this again | |||
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"Have a biz trip in a couple of weeks, with a female married colleague. I sense that she would like to fuck me as much as I would like to fuck her ... tough one, as I don't want to misread the situation and fuck up the work relationship. Easy solution is to not bring it up ... Advice? Avoid it like the plague...don't entertain the thought...run a 100 miles away if you have to....this is coming from a guy who was in the exact situation that you are describing above and the fallout from it was an absolute devastating disaster... "A guy talking from experience , all he can do is offer his advice , something he went through himself , it doesn't get any truer than that , to the guy who wrote that piece of advice l hope you're doing ok now | |||
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