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By *ad santa 69 OP   Man
over a year ago

LapLand

Iam wondering, if i was to get into a steady relationship with someone outside of the swinging scene

Do i tell my new partner iam into swinging??.

Do i stay swinging and say nothing??? Do i pack in swinging??

Do i try convince my new partner to try swinging.??

I love to hear what people think, especially anybody that this has happened to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well ideally you want the best of both worlds...so get a partner who likes to swing

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

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"Iam wondering, if i was to get into a steady relationship with someone outside of the swinging scene

Do i tell my new partner iam into swinging??.

Do i stay swinging and say nothing??? Do i pack in swinging??

Do i try convince my new partner to try swinging.??

I love to hear what people think, especially anybody that this has happened to."

Will this be your first 'steady relationship'?

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By *ad santa 69 OP   Man
over a year ago

LapLand


"Iam wondering, if i was to get into a steady relationship with someone outside of the swinging scene

Do i tell my new partner iam into swinging??.

Do i stay swinging and say nothing??? Do i pack in swinging??

Do i try convince my new partner to try swinging.??

I love to hear what people think, especially anybody that this has happened to.

Will this be your first 'steady relationship'? [/quote

"

No ..was in one for more than twenty years. But my next one if it ever happens will be my first since i joined here.[/quote

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say it's always for the best to be upfront about it, at least then it allows the person to make an informed decision, worse if they form an emotional attachment to you then find out about it.

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

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"Iam wondering, if i was to get into a steady relationship with someone outside of the swinging scene

Do i tell my new partner iam into swinging??.

Do i stay swinging and say nothing??? Do i pack in swinging??

Do i try convince my new partner to try swinging.??

I love to hear what people think, especially anybody that this has happened to.

Will this be your first 'steady relationship'? [/quote

No ..was in one for more than twenty years. But my next one if it ever happens will be my first since i joined here.[/quote

"

Is your mom pushing you into this ? my advice would be to get as much ass as you can in the next 20 years and then think about settling down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

honesty is best policy i think good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"honesty is best policy i think good luck "

Add me as a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say it's always for the best to be upfront about it, at least then it allows the person to make an informed decision, worse if they form an emotional attachment to you then find out about it."

Best thing you could do man. And don't carry on swinging unless the other person allows. Wrecks relationships faster then _omcatty can wreck a thread.

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By *ad santa 69 OP   Man
over a year ago

LapLand


"I would say it's always for the best to be upfront about it, at least then it allows the person to make an informed decision, worse if they form an emotional attachment to you then find out about it.

Best thing you could do man. And don't carry on swinging unless the other person allows. Wrecks relationships faster then _omcatty can wreck a thread."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say it's always for the best to be upfront about it, at least then it allows the person to make an informed decision, worse if they form an emotional attachment to you then find out about it.

Best thing you could do man. And don't carry on swinging unless the other person allows. Wrecks relationships faster then _omcatty can wreck a thread."

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By *oxysCouple
over a year ago

c

In school you would of been thought to play nice aswell!!

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

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Not the place i went to,,it was dog eat cat.

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By *oxysCouple
over a year ago

c


"Not the place i went to,,it was dog eat cat. "
we prob went to the same school!

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

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"Not the place i went to,,it was dog eat cat. we prob went to the same school! "

There was nobody at my school like u foxy,,oh shit im being nice,,,

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By *oxysCouple
over a year ago

c


"Not the place i went to,,it was dog eat cat. we prob went to the same school!

There was nobody at my school like u foxy,,oh shit im being nice,,, "
ha ha mind yourself now or you will ruin your reputation!!

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

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"Not the place i went to,,it was dog eat cat. we prob went to the same school!

There was nobody at my school like u foxy,,oh shit im being nice,,, ha ha mind yourself now or you will ruin your reputation!! "

dont worry about that,,,theres bound to be some muck savage on here in a min ill be able top have a go at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See? Thread wrecked

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local

Its just too easy,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See? Thread wrecked"
again such a pain,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Young men in there 20s get a hard time people saying there to young and imature. Doesn't that 46 year old man prove how a older man in his late 40s act a dick and imature more than a younger fella. Grow up and act your age fs. I got a 3 year old that acts more mature than you!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Young men in there 20s get a hard time people saying there to young and imature. Doesn't that 46 year old man prove how a older man in his late 40s act a dick and imature more than a younger fella. Grow up and act your age fs. I got a 3 year old that acts more mature than you!!!!! "

woohoo mizz......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wtf is a mucksavage??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wtf is a mucksavage??"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people should just leave their jealousy at home, this site is not the place for it and if you can't play nice then you shouldn't be playing at all, cop the hell on and grow up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think people should just leave their jealousy at home, this site is not the place for it and if you can't play nice then you shouldn't be playing at all, cop the hell on and grow up. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"wtf is a mucksavage??"

A mucksavage is what some dubliners called people who live outside dublin. Which is funny because he's in galway so could be referred to as one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd drop the swinging all together, switch to an inactive profile saying that you are no longer meeting but can stay on to chat and keep contact with friends on here.

I also don't think you have to announce it up front, if she asks about your sexual history then you can give as much detail as you see fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See? Thread wrecked"

HA!!

Just gotta love this place!

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its not Tom,

It's 'someone else' using a thread to do his usual begging!

Maybe I'm being too harsh here?.....

Pleading!..

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"honesty is best policy i think good luck

Add me as a friend"

Ha!!....

Done already I see!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"honesty is best policy i think good luck

Add me as a friend

Ha!!....

Done already I see!!

"

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Either way Bad boy ,

I think it's best to maybe even drop hints about your interests to her.

You might get some feedback that way without being too upfront (some people might say, hurtful)

Having said that, I hope it works out the way YOU want it mate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"honesty is best policy i think good luck

Add me as a friend

Ha!!....

Done already I see!!

"

You got a problem???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, no problem BUDDY!

But you're making yourself look silly and desperate!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ah now lads, dont start arguing its supposed to be fun, chill out. mr claus says see you in 5 days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ah now lads, dont start arguing its supposed to be fun, chill out. mr claus says see you in 5 days "

Bad Boy Claus, you dirty dawg!!

Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Glad you said it fooey because i'd get in trouble if i did

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local

Dont tell me ppl are still on here whinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

with assholes like you about i wonder why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"with assholes like you about i wonder why "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"with assholes like you about i wonder why "

Oooooh!

Have I missed something!??

LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

jeez oooo lads and i thought us woman were bitchy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saucer of milk,

Table for two,

Miaaaaaaaaaooooooow!

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

Local

Thank god tomorrow is friday,,,all the dolies will be collecting there few quid and gettin a cpl of cans of special brew,,give me some peace and quiet,,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank god tomorrow is friday,,,all the dolies will be collecting there few quid and gettin a cpl of cans of special brew,,give me some peace and quiet,,,, "

stop your talkin i thought it was buckfast these days lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Saucer of milk,

Table for two,

Miaaaaaaaaaooooooow!

"

here its not a scene out of the lady and tramp or is it lol

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By *omcattyMan
over a year ago

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"Thank god tomorrow is friday,,,all the dolies will be collecting there few quid and gettin a cpl of cans of special brew,,give me some peace and quiet,,,,

stop your talkin i thought it was buckfast these days lol "

No I think the special brew works out less !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Saucer of milk,

Table for two,

Miaaaaaaaaaooooooow!

here its not a scene out of the lady and tramp or is it lol "

Lol!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, no problem BUDDY!

But you're making yourself look silly and desperate!!

"

Llf you would certainly know all about that. It wasn't directed to you so keep you pecker out of what don't concern ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Admin needs to shut this thread down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or the whole bloody forum..always ends up in a bollix with some people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or the whole bloody forum..always ends up in a bollix with some people on here"

yes and its usually the boys that are the worst.............ego's or what

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or the whole bloody forum..always ends up in a bollix with some people on here

yes and its usually the boys that are the worst.............ego's or what "

"boys" is def the right word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or the whole bloody forum..always ends up in a bollix with some people on here

yes and its usually the boys that are the worst.............ego's or what

"boys" is def the right word

"

wonder who will be chucking their toys out of the pram next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have an ego prob Hun, read it what was said. Nothing evolved foey but he just couldn't help himself like normal and I was just defending myself. Sorry if its pissed anyone else off, I never intended on annoying anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Ireland forum is shocking these days, bickering constantly, I prefer the main forums, at least the threads are interesting, this question asked on this thread wasn't even discussed just a load of crap being spewed as usual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The Ireland forum is shocking these days, bickering constantly, I prefer the main forums, at least the threads are interesting, this question asked on this thread wasn't even discussed just a load of crap being spewed as usual."

in all fairness does anyone get a straight answer on here before some one or more comes in a spoils it, it was a valid question. and to be honest until that situation arises then and only then will you know what to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The Ireland forum is shocking these days, bickering constantly, I prefer the main forums, at least the threads are interesting, this question asked on this thread wasn't even discussed just a load of crap being spewed as usual.

in all fairness does anyone get a straight answer on here before some one or more comes in a spoils it, it was a valid question. and to be honest until that situation arises then and only then will you know what to do "

It's not just this thread though. However I understand it is a public forum and people can say whatever they like, I'm just giving my opinion , it does get tedious reading the same old rubbish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The Ireland forum is shocking these days, bickering constantly, I prefer the main forums, at least the threads are interesting, this question asked on this thread wasn't even discussed just a load of crap being spewed as usual.

in all fairness does anyone get a straight answer on here before some one or more comes in a spoils it, it was a valid question. and to be honest until that situation arises then and only then will you know what to do

It's not just this thread though. However I understand it is a public forum and people can say whatever they like, I'm just giving my opinion , it does get tedious reading the same old rubbish."

yes even the women get sick of the bitching that goes on lol now theres a first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or the whole bloody forum..always ends up in a bollix with some people on here

yes and its usually the boys that are the worst.............ego's or what

"boys" is def the right word

wonder who will be chucking their toys out of the pram next "

RIGHT!!

That's it!!............

It's MY ball, and I'm going home!!!

Waaaaahh!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or the whole bloody forum..always ends up in a bollix with some people on here

yes and its usually the boys that are the worst.............ego's or what

"boys" is def the right word

wonder who will be chucking their toys out of the pram next

RIGHT!!

That's it!!............

It's MY ball, and I'm going home!!!

Waaaaahh!!

"

yeah thats right go play up your own end lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or the whole bloody forum..always ends up in a bollix with some people on here

yes and its usually the boys that are the worst.............ego's or what

"boys" is def the right word

wonder who will be chucking their toys out of the pram next

RIGHT!!

That's it!!............

It's MY ball, and I'm going home!!!

Waaaaahh!!

yeah thats right go play up your own end lol "

Yep!

This is the FUN end!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or the whole bloody forum..always ends up in a bollix with some people on here

yes and its usually the boys that are the worst.............ego's or what

"boys" is def the right word

wonder who will be chucking their toys out of the pram next

RIGHT!!

That's it!!............

It's MY ball, and I'm going home!!!

Waaaaahh!!

yeah thats right go play up your own end lol

Yep!

This is the FUN end!!

"

i cant think of better places lol

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