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Why Hide Your Verfie?

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By *s Lolly OP   Woman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

For me i don't bother with the one's that are 6,7,8yrs old couldn't be arsed displaying them just the more recent one's...I met someone recently who was struggling to get verified in the year they were here, so i left them a nice verfie and afte a week or two they hid it..So what makes you not show or hid your verfies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because it's nobody's business who we meet, and because people we've met have been messaged by other users asking about us.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I always show new veries and would only think of hiding them if they showed their true colours or did something stupid.

In the past I have hidden veries from people who put mine up for a day and were then told by "friends" they would be better off if people didn't know they met me so they took it down again.

If they are going to act like a child I don't want their veri showing.

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By *s Lolly OP   Woman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"Because it's nobody's business who we meet, and because people we've met have been messaged by other users asking about us."

I find that creepy aswell

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By *exesrangerMan
over a year ago

Jameson main bar

I generally don't give a hoot for veris. If someone leaves one for me I'll show it since they've to the trouble but after that meh . Actually, that reminds me....

See good things do come from snooping around in the forums

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Because it's nobody's business who we meet, and because people we've met have been messaged by other users asking about us."

This too and not just for references. They wanted a name and facepics.

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By *ickheadcuntCouple
over a year ago

Cork Ireland


"Because it's nobody's business who we meet, and because people we've met have been messaged by other users asking about us."

100% this

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By *s Lolly OP   Woman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"Because it's nobody's business who we meet, and because people we've met have been messaged by other users asking about us.

This too and not just for references. They wanted a name and facepics. "

Really?

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

To add an air of mystery

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Because the only purpose of verifications is to show that you are a swinger and that you are mostly what you claim to to be. Once you get beyind a certain number you don't need to prove any more.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I show new ones but since most of mine are socials I hide them all again after a week or so

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

So potential meets know what they are getting themselves into

They want a discreet social coffee ? Himself probably not a good choice so

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By *heBlowinsCouple
over a year ago

West Cork


"Because it's nobody's business who we meet, and because people we've met have been messaged by other users asking about us."

This and what _ilthynights said

The verification summary should be enough, if anything imo.

In real life, do you advertise your sexual history when trying to woo someone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to show mine, but as mentioned above, people were contacting them to find out about me.

Lately, I have been blocked when I have chatted with a guy by his fb, a totally innocent chat, I might add as I don't know him and never will.

I have also recently received messages from a new male profile saying they he knows me and do my family know I am on here, then he immediately blocks me.

So yes, mine will stay hidden.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I've a fair amount of repeat meet veris and I think displaying one per person is enough.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Because it's nobody's business who we meet, and because people we've met have been messaged by other users asking about us.

This too and not just for references. They wanted a name and facepics.

Really?"

Yes and funny enough they were a well known forum user.

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By *huCullainMan
over a year ago

Rathowen

I don't bother if someone has zero or 100 varies if I'm meeting them.

As I've always done in life, I'll judge them by how they present themselves, chat and how we get on.

And I totally agree with not showing varies. In my experience some fabbers judge you on who you have met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone leaves me graphic verify about how I can suck a orange through a hosepipe I ain't displaying it. I actually ask not to be verified anymore. I have enough to proof I'm real and it's actually nobody's business who I meet. I've had a few guys ask to meet as they said a verify off me would really help them get somewhere on Fab. It seemed they were more interested in the actual verify than meeting me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of my veris were posted by people I never met. I reported it but blocking the poster only makes the text disappear, the Veri-counter still includes it.

Others are from people that have left, rejoined, left so the veri text goes with them but again the Counter remembers it.

Others I have met I never veri'd as they and I both aren't here for the veris beyond getting one or two 'on the board', the connection is enough, no ego required for my fab journey.

Some I sent solely for the enjoyment of the recipient so public posting isn't what I sought. They are private for he & I to enjoy flashbacks of hot times.

Tbh I got my first within a very short time and never really knew it was a required or sought after thing until much later on here.

I would use them to see what a fabber genuinely enjoys as opposed to the pc sanitised profile blurb. They often don't match up so it's helpful.

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