FabSwingers.com forum: A Person's height or hair colour does it really matter?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For me a good personality will always come first, I can't help I'm only 5ft and I'm nearly grey thank fuck for hairdye .. you can't please everyone here

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

"For me a good personality will always come first, I can't help I'm only 5ft and I'm nearly grey thank fuck for hairdye .. you can't please everyone here

Height definitely some positions don't work if your tall and they are short

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m short and also grey. I’ve no chance on fab!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m short and also grey. I’ve no chance on fab!! "

We are both fucked so lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height difference where they are the same height or shorter than I am is really the only thing I can't find sexually attractive in a guy. It's not even a conscious thing usually, I just get zero ooomph.

Because I am a redhead myself and my family obv are too I wouldn't be drawn to that usually but some guys have caught my eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How tall are you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Height difference where they are the same height or shorter than I am is really the only thing I can't find sexually attractive in a guy. It's not even a conscious thing usually, I just get zero ooomph.

Because I am a redhead myself and my family obv are too I wouldn't be drawn to that usually but some guys have caught my eye."

Presenting a talk red haired lady with breakfast the next morning is one of the finer things in life

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I thought been petite meant your short n skinny

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

All depends on what youre looking for on here i guess. I prefer men to be a good bit taller than me. Not bothered about hair colour. Im either attracted or im not

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

No, not much difference. But personalty is important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely, personally I'm attracted to shorter girls always have been, anyone over 5'6" on their profile for me just no

Never understood the fascination with cat walk models

We are all wired differently

Some women on here love beards n muscles some clean shaven

Fab caters for the masses

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By *ind PaddyMan
over a year ago

South County Dublin

"For me a good personality will always come first, I can't help I'm only 5ft and I'm nearly grey thank fuck for hairdye .. you can't please everyone here

Personality, there has to be a connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I am a redhead myself and my family obv are too I wouldn't be drawn to that usually but some guys have caught my eye.

Presenting a talk red haired lady with breakfast the next morning is one of the finer things in life

That only happens one day a year

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's my first thread this year lol .. its just I got a message the other day asking did I like been 5ft it's something I never thought of all my family are in the 5f's .. I was just wondering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I am a redhead myself and my family obv are too I wouldn't be drawn to that usually but some guys have caught my eye.

Presenting a talk red haired lady with breakfast the next morning is one of the finer things in life

That only happens one day a year

Looking forward to it

And also to that connection shite they all going on about

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"It's my first thread this year lol .. its just I got a message the other day asking did I like been 5ft it's something I never thought of all my family are in the 5f's .. I was just wondering "

I didn't think you were that short to be honest not that it made a difference

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's my first thread this year lol .. its just I got a message the other day asking did I like been 5ft it's something I never thought of all my family are in the 5f's .. I was just wondering

I didn't think you were that short to be honest not that it made a difference "

Next time no bag of malteers on the table BM .. bring a measuring tape

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By *lue eyesMan
over a year ago

cavan

"For me a good personality will always come first, I can't help I'm only 5ft and I'm nearly grey thank fuck for hairdye .. you can't please everyone here

Sur it would hardly make any difference when your lying in bed lol

And if it did sur you can keep your stilettos on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For me a good personality will always come first, I can't help I'm only 5ft and I'm nearly grey thank fuck for hairdye .. you can't please everyone here

Sur it would hardly make any difference when your lying in bed lol

And if it did sur you can keep your stilettos on

I don't do heels .. I'm common as muck .. not into frills or lace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I am a redhead myself and my family obv are too I wouldn't be drawn to that usually but some guys have caught my eye.

Presenting a talk red haired lady with breakfast the next morning is one of the finer things in life

That only happens one day a year

Looking forward to it

And also to that connection shite they all going on about

You're losing me

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By *lue eyesMan
over a year ago

cavan

"For me a good personality will always come first, I can't help I'm only 5ft and I'm nearly grey thank fuck for hairdye .. you can't please everyone here

Sur it would hardly make any difference when your lying in bed lol

Well take them off to I'll try not to complain to much

And if it did sur you can keep your stilettos on

I don't do heels .. I'm common as muck .. not into frills or lace "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last gf was 6 foot tall and my current gf is 5 foot tall, so for me personally, can definitely say height has no bearing on attraction

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By *lue eyesMan
over a year ago

cavan

"For me a good personality will always come first, I can't help I'm only 5ft and I'm nearly grey thank fuck for hairdye .. you can't please everyone here

Sur it would hardly make any difference when your lying in bed lol

Well take them off to I'll try not to complain to much

And if it did sur you can keep your stilettos on

I don't do heels .. I'm common as muck .. not into frills or lace

Sur take them off then!! I'll not complain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a big girl. If I'm with a man shorter than me I kinda feel like his mammy. So yeah, my preference is for taller men.

That said, there's a few guys that aren't so tall and are still total rides

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By *on Draper2.0Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

"I’m short and also grey. I’ve no chance on fab!!

We are both fucked so lol"

I have a penis, I also have little to no chance on Fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They matter in terms of catching my eye, ultimately other things are more important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can't help what we find visually attractive

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Based on my experience the shorter models normally have the bigger package in the trousers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Based on my experience the shorter models normally have the bigger package in the trousers.

I haven't found that to be true, maybe it's the proportions

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West

Apparently if you measure from their elbow to their forehead and divide by 4 or something, or maybe it's the nose, I forget now!

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

Unfair post lol

A persons height doesn’t matter too much when you’re only 5ft as likely everyone else taller

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

What about us baldies

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By *tillWaters182Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Either or both might or might not matter, it seems to depend on the person and what turns them personally on. That said I get the impression from Tinder that a lot of taller women don't really go for fellas who are too much shorter than they are.

I notice myself that I tend to be drawn more towards brunettes than blondes (so clearly not a gentleman?) but not exclusively so.

Some lucky people (men and women) do manage to rock grey hair too, it has to be said, and fair dues to them for it!

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

I’m decent height and with a greyish badger like mop of hair. I still have a chance

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

"What about us baldies

Bald where ?

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

"I’m decent height and with a greyish badger like mop of hair. I still have a chance

And as of last week I’m also bespectacled, for reading but who reads these days

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

People sometimes aren't sure if I'm ginger or at my age it could be rust.

Either way it hasn't put anyone off that I know of

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"What about us baldies

Bald where ?

Freshy waxed last Thursday

Head shined in the barbers

wedesday

Everything under control

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

Height or hair colour doesn't matter a bit to me.

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By *ister FriskyMan
over a year ago

Dublin 5

Be glad y’all have hair!

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

"I'm a big girl. If I'm with a man shorter than me I kinda feel like his mammy. So yeah, my preference is for taller men.

That said, there's a few guys that aren't so tall and are still total rides

Same for me. The only chance for me to feel small is if the guy is significantly taller than me.

It’s not a deal breaker but I would be more visually attracted to a tall guy.

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

"I’m decent height and with a greyish badger like mop of hair. I still have a chance

And as of last week I’m also bespectacled, for reading but who reads these days"

Snap Ger, got mine in the past year. They're good for reading the bean cans if nothing else. Mrs

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

One of the disadvantages of being small …. You can see my bald spot

Us shorties get it tough

I’ve embraced my shortness and shaved my head so you’ve only one thing you can complain about

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Since hubby is 5ft 7, then obviously height isn't an issue. Hair, I must admit is a bit different, I can't help it

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre

Well I've long legs so obviously prefer taller men but there have been a few surprises a long my Fab journey

Hair is not a game changer at all. Excess body hair is though....

B x

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

"I’m decent height and with a greyish badger like mop of hair. I still have a chance

And as of last week I’m also bespectacled, for reading but who reads these days

Snap Ger, got mine in the past year. They're good for reading the bean cans if nothing else. Mrs

Why do they make the print so small

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

"I’m decent height and with a greyish badger like mop of hair. I still have a chance

And as of last week I’m also bespectacled, for reading but who reads these days

Snap Ger, got mine in the past year. They're good for reading the bean cans if nothing else. Mrs

Why do they make the print so small

It's worse on beauty product packaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is one that always comes down to personal preference, some will have very specific things they look for.

Others, like me, will be a lot more interested in the person's personality and how they hold themselves.

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By *he English OneMan
over a year ago

west

The thought of a woman being taller than me is actually a nice thought although at 5'11 that won't be easy to come by but please do apply within

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By *ome_wild_girlWoman
over a year ago

Antrim Town

I stopped dyeing my hair about 10 years ago now, had been using 2 boxes a month for 20 years to hide the grey, got to the point nothing was covering it. But on plus side my hair is thicker and stronger than before. Embrace the grey!!

Height yes that is an issue for me, I'm tall and big so feel I could break someone smaller if I'm not careful, which means I cant really let go and enjoy things. And as littlekinks said before, some positions dont work if theres a significant height difference.

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By *on Draper2.0Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

Of all the physical attributes that could matter or influence the level of attraction you feel toward someone, I would imagine these two would generally be the least influential.

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork

Height..no

Hair colour....no

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By *amsevenMan
over a year ago

cork

If there were 2 versions of same woman,one 5 foot and one same height as me I'm going for the 5foot every time

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"I’m decent height and with a greyish badger like mop of hair. I still have a chance

And as of last week I’m also bespectacled, for reading but who reads these days

Snap Ger, got mine in the past year. They're good for reading the bean cans if nothing else. Mrs

Why do they make the print so small

It's worse on beauty product packaging

Sure who needs any of that stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *on Draper2.0Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

I think the colour of your dressing gown is far more important!

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

"I’m decent height and with a greyish badger like mop of hair. I still have a chance

And as of last week I’m also bespectacled, for reading but who reads these days

Snap Ger, got mine in the past year. They're good for reading the bean cans if nothing else. Mrs

Why do they make the print so small

It's worse on beauty product packaging

Don’t worry James we’ll eventually reach the point where we don’t need that stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me a good personality will always come first, I can't help I'm only 5ft and I'm nearly grey thank fuck for hairdye .. you can't please everyone here

People's hair colour..both male & Female... as they get older day by day is going to go grey ..there is absolutely nothing can be done about it only dye it if a person wants to , the pigment fades or stops producing that keeps hair with out grey...it's just part and parcel of this thing called life .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Based on my experience the shorter models normally have the bigger package in the trousers.

There ya go ...you're happy out so.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"For me a good personality will always come first, I can't help I'm only 5ft and I'm nearly grey thank fuck for hairdye .. you can't please everyone here

So would a 4'5" bald dude with sideburns do it for you?

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

"Yes definitely, personally I'm attracted to shorter girls always have been, anyone over 5'6" on their profile for me just no

Never understood the fascination with cat walk models

We are all wired differently

Some women on here love beards n muscles some clean shaven

Fab caters for the masses

I concur

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By *ndqtMan
over a year ago

The Wild West

"It's my first thread this year lol .. its just I got a message the other day asking did I like been 5ft it's something I never thought of all my family are in the 5f's .. I was just wondering "

Lou... shur didnt I tell ya a fallen tree is no bother to climb

Anways - I have arms like fork lifts so I'll give ya a little boost up... LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

M is a self confessed heightist unfortunately. She won’t go lower than 5’9 if male or 5’2 if female. Sounds sexist too tbh. C4

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By *DSGCouple
over a year ago

That place in

Always went for tall but actually meet a man 2 inchs taller then me im 5'4 but we clicked right away now we live together and he's hairy that was an added bonus

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's my first thread this year lol .. its just I got a message the other day asking did I like been 5ft it's something I never thought of all my family are in the 5f's .. I was just wondering

Lou... shur didnt I tell ya a fallen tree is no bother to climb

Anways - I have arms like fork lifts so I'll give ya a little boost up... LOL"

You Cork lads

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"I’m decent height and with a greyish badger like mop of hair. I still have a chance

And as of last week I’m also bespectacled, for reading but who reads these days

Snap Ger, got mine in the past year. They're good for reading the bean cans if nothing else. Mrs

I got mine 2 years ago now - too many handsome men passing me in a blur - now I don't miss a thing, they're all sharply in focus

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

When they suggested varifocals I had no idea I would be able to see through veries

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"When they suggested varifocals I had no idea I would be able to see through veries

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

"I’m decent height and with a greyish badger like mop of hair. I still have a chance

And as of last week I’m also bespectacled, for reading but who reads these days

Snap Ger, got mine in the past year. They're good for reading the bean cans if nothing else. Mrs

I got mine 2 years ago now - too many handsome men passing me in a blur - now I don't miss a thing, they're all sharply in focus

Only we’re not as handsome

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"I’m decent height and with a greyish badger like mop of hair. I still have a chance

And as of last week I’m also bespectacled, for reading but who reads these days

Snap Ger, got mine in the past year. They're good for reading the bean cans if nothing else. Mrs

I got mine 2 years ago now - too many handsome men passing me in a blur - now I don't miss a thing, they're all sharply in focus

Only we’re not as handsome"

You said it, not I

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork

"I’m decent height and with a greyish badger like mop of hair. I still have a chance

And as of last week I’m also bespectacled, for reading but who reads these days

Snap Ger, got mine in the past year. They're good for reading the bean cans if nothing else. Mrs

I got mine 2 years ago now - too many handsome men passing me in a blur - now I don't miss a thing, they're all sharply in focus

Only we’re not as handsome

You said it, not I

Buy you didn’t disagree

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"I’m decent height and with a greyish badger like mop of hair. I still have a chance

And as of last week I’m also bespectacled, for reading but who reads these days

Snap Ger, got mine in the past year. They're good for reading the bean cans if nothing else. Mrs

I got mine 2 years ago now - too many handsome men passing me in a blur - now I don't miss a thing, they're all sharply in focus

Only we’re not as handsome

You said it, not I

Buy you didn’t disagree

I didn't agree either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tall or small love em all ....personality is key

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Height is definitely my preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m decent height and with a greyish badger like mop of hair. I still have a chance

And as of last week I’m also bespectacled, for reading but who reads these days

Snap Ger, got mine in the past year. They're good for reading the bean cans if nothing else. Mrs

I got mine 2 years ago now - too many handsome men passing me in a blur - now I don't miss a thing, they're all sharply in focus

Only we’re not as handsome"

I'd disagree there Ger x

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By *DSGCouple
over a year ago

That place in

"Well I've long legs so obviously prefer taller men but there have been a few surprises a long my Fab journey

Hair is not a game changer at all. Excess body hair is though....

B x"

Just as long as we can get our lips to your neck eh???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's personality , good sense of humor and a dirty mind,if those 3 are there, height ,hair colour or body type doesn't really matter, if it's a spark it's gonna be fire, if not it is what it is and we'll keep being amicable

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"Tall or small love em all ....personality is key

This 100%

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