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By *og-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere

Eating with their mouth open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Putting a knife to their mouth

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By *ostmaryWoman
over a year ago

Near you

Having live laugh love quotes up in their house

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Talking with their mouth open.

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By *ostmaryWoman
over a year ago

Near you


"Putting a knife to their mouth"

No exceptions for a knife kink?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Putting a knife to their mouth

No exceptions for a knife kink?"

You got a pass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Silently? I'm sorrybI don't understand the question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Silently? I'm sorrybI don't understand the question "

Not understanding simple questions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Claiming they're non-judgemental

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Catholicism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Catholicism "

We are all Gods creatures

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By *og-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere

People in the queue at the checkout with a full conveyor of food that dont let me skip them when I've only one thing in my basket

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By *cotfreeeMan
over a year ago

Camp

If you silently judge Catholicism do you not judge Protestantism

I think you mean Christianity but then why stop at one religion

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"People in the queue at the checkout with a full conveyor of food that dont let me skip them when I've only one thing in my basket "

That's the signal to start judging them silently on their eating habits studing their shopping items until it's your turn.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"If you silently judge Catholicism do you not judge Protestantism

I think you mean Christianity but then why stop at one religion "

Both my father and my other half were forced by the church to be born in Catholic mother and baby homes, and my father went on afterwards to be abused in a Catholic school. They were both systematically lied to afterwards and allowed to be physically and mentally abused by the systems in the church. I actually feel sick with anger when I see a Catholic priest. How anyone can be proudly part of this particular organisation when these systematic abuses are so well known, and are present in every jurisdiction that they operate, is completely beyond me. Hence judgement on them specifically.

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By *ixie and dixie2022Couple
over a year ago

villiage

People who take up 2 parking spaces

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who take up 2 parking spaces "

Strongly concur

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who aren’t “religious” but are “spiritual”.

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"People who take up 2 parking spaces "

I usually hock up a lugey on their window if I see a car that has deliberately parked in to spots to protect their car fuck em or if there's a space beside their drivers door I park my passenger side door as close as possible to their drivers door.

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By *B 4099Man
over a year ago

North West, Outer Letterkenny area

People that go to mass but are the most judgement sh1ts you will every meet, and people that do lip service on supporting Mental health initiatives but treat people with distain all year round.

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By *og-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere


"People in the queue at the checkout with a full conveyor of food that dont let me skip them when I've only one thing in my basket

That's the signal to start judging them silently on their eating habits studing their shopping items until it's your turn. "

As I stand there with my Tayto and bar of chocolate

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By *og-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere

People with tattoos on their face

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

Ballsbridge, City Centre

Not holding the door open for people behind them

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Not waving to say thank you when I stop to let them pass

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Their choice of friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that collect crystals

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

People that claim to be non judgemental and open minded when the opposite is the reality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Both my father and my other half were forced by the church to be born in Catholic mother and baby homes, and my father went on afterwards to be abused in a Catholic school. They were both systematically lied to afterwards and allowed to be physically and mentally abused by the systems in the church. I actually feel sick with anger when I see a Catholic priest. How anyone can be proudly part of this particular organisation when these systematic abuses are so well known, and are present in every jurisdiction that they operate, is completely beyond me. Hence judgement on them specifically."

This is simply awful but, very sadly, the painful reality for so many... Like you, the various abuses of the Catholic Church within Ireland have had real and lasting impacts on people close to me and, while I am very much respectful of a person's personal religious beliefs, I have had judgement, when it comes to practicing Catholics not taking a more meaningful stand against the abuses of their Church & some of its clergy. Meaningful reparations have not been made, in my view, and I hold the whole church responsible for that, not just the abusers. I will add that I think the Irish government hasn't taken real responsibility for their part in it, either. So, lots of judgement there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those who chronically excuse awful behaviour, so as not to ruffle feathers.(Usually not silently)

Those who have been standing in a queue for an age, but still don't have their choice of payment ready, causing further delays. (Silently)

Drivers who refuse to let another driver cross over to enter somewhere, when they can clearly see traffic ahead, so they, themselves, can't go anywhere anyway. (Mostly silently)

People who seem incapable of lateral thinking and choose the lazy option. (Not so silently and sometimes directly, albeit in a nicer way)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Grown men wearing tracksuits when not training

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By *lue eyesMan
over a year ago

cavan

Just plain simple manners

Please and thank you are two lovely words not used enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who listen to songs without headphones on public transport.

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By *ourney300Man
over a year ago

Saintfield

People suggesting that you have an opposite position without asking especially in work around my social side....

Often people think I'm similar in my social life .... but they just assume!

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By *ourney300Man
over a year ago

Saintfield

People going to shops in their Night Ware..... Well depends on the night ware...

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"People in the queue at the checkout with a full conveyor of food that dont let me skip them when I've only one thing in my basket "

People who use a basket when they're only buying one item!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taking personal phone call in work on loudspeaker or face time

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By *izzleJMan
over a year ago

City

Driving an SUV in a town or city

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Taking personal phone call in work on loudspeaker or face time "

Speakerphone in public..

I was in my local Lidl the other day and was trying to get some eggs but there was a woman talking on the phone blocking me. She had the phone on loudspeaker and was speaking quite loudly herself.

I politely said "excuse me, I just want to get some eggs".. She glared at me and said "do you mind, I'm on the phone".

I said "yes, I know you're on the phone. The entire shop knows your on the phone but I still want the eggs"

She moved reluctantly and I got my eggs. As I was walking away I could hear the two of them talking about how rude people in Lidl are. I could only agree.

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By *ildGroverMan
over a year ago

rathfarnham


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Those who have been standing in a queue for an age, but still don't have their choice of payment ready, causing further delays. (Silently)

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That

It's like... Yes... Just like last time it's not fucking free... Take your €10 off vouchers out while you wait to be served not after you've out your card in the machine ..

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By *ixie and dixie2022Couple
over a year ago

villiage


"Both my father and my other half were forced by the church to be born in Catholic mother and baby homes, and my father went on afterwards to be abused in a Catholic school. They were both systematically lied to afterwards and allowed to be physically and mentally abused by the systems in the church. I actually feel sick with anger when I see a Catholic priest. How anyone can be proudly part of this particular organisation when these systematic abuses are so well known, and are present in every jurisdiction that they operate, is completely beyond me. Hence judgement on them specifically.

This is simply awful but, very sadly, the painful reality for so many... Like you, the various abuses of the Catholic Church within Ireland have had real and lasting impacts on people close to me and, while I am very much respectful of a person's personal religious beliefs, I have had judgement, when it comes to practicing Catholics not taking a more meaningful stand against the abuses of their Church & some of its clergy. Meaningful reparations have not been made, in my view, and I hold the whole church responsible for that, not just the abusers. I will add that I think the Irish government hasn't taken real responsibility for their part in it, either. So, lots of judgement there... "
it wasn’t just the Catholic Church it went on in unfortunately children and adults were abused in most religions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who decide to have a full blown conversation with the till operator when there's a queue forming behind them

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Taking personal phone call in work on loudspeaker or face time

Speakerphone in public..

I was in my local Lidl the other day and was trying to get some eggs but there was a woman talking on the phone blocking me. She had the phone on loudspeaker and was speaking quite loudly herself.

I politely said "excuse me, I just want to get some eggs".. She glared at me and said "do you mind, I'm on the phone".

I said "yes, I know you're on the phone. The entire shop knows your on the phone but I still want the eggs"

She moved reluctantly and I got my eggs. As I was walking away I could hear the two of them talking about how rude people in Lidl are. I could only agree. "

Getting tyres on the car last night and a Scottish guy stood in the waiting area right in front of the TV talking loudly on his phone.

There were half a dozen people trying to watch the TV and one or two asked him to move to no avail.

The depot manager threw me the remote and i turned the volume up so loud he couldn't hear the person he was talking to and had to go outside.

Finished his call and came back in a fighting mood but couldn't work out who had the remote

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By *og-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere


"People who listen to songs without headphones on public transport."

People that use public transport

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who decide to have a full blown conversation with the till operator when there's a queue forming behind them "

This could be the only person that they may speak to during the day so I wouldn't judge

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"People in the queue at the checkout with a full conveyor of food that dont let me skip them when I've only one thing in my basket

People who use a basket when they're only buying one item! "

People who stand and stare behind you with one thing in their basket EXPECTING you to let them skip, while you're efficiently and hurriedly unloading your trolley because you're a busy person

PERSPECTIVE

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By *izzleJMan
over a year ago

City


"People who decide to have a full blown conversation with the till operator when there's a queue forming behind them

This could be the only person that they may speak to during the day so I wouldn't judge "

Agree, I read recently that a Dutch supermarket are introducing "slow lane checkouts" for that very reason

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"People in the queue at the checkout with a full conveyor of food that dont let me skip them when I've only one thing in my basket

People who use a basket when they're only buying one item!

People who stand and stare behind you with one thing in their basket EXPECTING you to let them skip, while you're efficiently and hurriedly unloading your trolley because you're a busy person

PERSPECTIVE "

PS I generally let these people go but never if they're standing there expecting it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People buying the Daily Mail

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

Couples who have just met, and are so unsuited to each other, but will "settle".... For whatever reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People in the queue at the checkout with a full conveyor of food that dont let me skip them when I've only one thing in my basket

People who use a basket when they're only buying one item!

People who stand and stare behind you with one thing in their basket EXPECTING you to let them skip, while you're efficiently and hurriedly unloading your trolley because you're a busy person

PERSPECTIVE

PS I generally let these people go but never if they're standing there expecting it!"

I gave up letting ppl thru, if you want convenience go pay extra at a smaller shop

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over a year ago

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By *ensualnFunCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Taking personal phone call in work on loudspeaker or face time

Speakerphone in public..

I was in my local Lidl the other day and was trying to get some eggs but there was a woman talking on the phone blocking me. She had the phone on loudspeaker and was speaking quite loudly herself.

I politely said "excuse me, I just want to get some eggs".. She glared at me and said "do you mind, I'm on the phone".

I said "yes, I know you're on the phone. The entire shop knows your on the phone but I still want the eggs"

She moved reluctantly and I got my eggs. As I was walking away I could hear the two of them talking about how rude people in Lidl are. I could only agree.

Getting tyres on the car last night and a Scottish guy stood in the waiting area right in front of the TV talking loudly on his phone.

There were half a dozen people trying to watch the TV and one or two asked him to move to no avail.

The depot manager threw me the remote and i turned the volume up so loud he couldn't hear the person he was talking to and had to go outside.

Finished his call and came back in a fighting mood but couldn't work out who had the remote "

Omg love it

Ignorant people (but I’m not always quiet about it)

Courtesy and politeness don’t cost much and make the world a more pleasant place.

On Fab, people bragging how tolerant and drama free they are… above all once you know them and know it’s far far far from true!

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"Grown men wearing tracksuits when not training

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What about runners when not running?

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By *ensualnFunCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Grown men wearing tracksuits when not training

What about runners when not running? "

That’s like almost everyone nowadays lol

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Perfectly well behaved, well balanced and adjusted individuals who haven't got a fucking clue what others are dealing with in their day-to-day not so perfect lives with conditions, disabilities and mental health issues or who have children with the same. While you judge those of us who do their damnest not to be a burden, imposition or hindrance while you're waiting in a queue at the checkout when I have one item in the basket because the other stuff I needed was out of stock or because I've been called to an emergency and that's all I have time for and I'm in a hissy because I'm panicked and don't have the right payment ready. You're at a crossroads where I am so lost in my own world that I didn't have the time to salute you for letting me out or didn't have the kindness to allow you out because again, I'm running late for an important appointment with a needy child. While you have managed to park your car perfectly whereas some of us struggle to organise neuro diverse children for appointments and are running late and the only parking space available is to park across 2 spots because the last person parking had to park awkwardly across 2 spaces for whatever reason .

There's bad behaviour and ill manners and even those can be misconstrued at the best of times when you're dealing with people who have different needs to the "normal" neuro typical person. You can count yourself lucky if that's you and your loved ones!

Whatever happened to showing a little kindness, empathy and compassion for those who you know nothing about or the struggles they live daily. A kind smile, encouraging word or oversight never goes amiss.

That's my rant over for today. Fuck me, I'm worn out

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

People into astrology, faith healing, homeopathy, reiki or anything else of that sort.

Oh and mediums basically any scam artists

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By *og-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere


"People in the queue at the checkout with a full conveyor of food that dont let me skip them when I've only one thing in my basket

People who use a basket when they're only buying one item!

People who stand and stare behind you with one thing in their basket EXPECTING you to let them skip, while you're efficiently and hurriedly unloading your trolley because you're a busy person

PERSPECTIVE

PS I generally let these people go but never if they're standing there expecting it!"

Believe you me if I was standing behind you in the Queue I wouldn't want to skip

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By *og-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere


"Perfectly well behaved, well balanced and adjusted individuals who haven't got a fucking clue what others are dealing with in their day-to-day not so perfect lives with conditions, disabilities and mental health issues or who have children with the same. While you judge those of us who do their damnest not to be a burden, imposition or hindrance while you're waiting in a queue at the checkout when I have one item in the basket because the other stuff I needed was out of stock or because I've been called to an emergency and that's all I have time for and I'm in a hissy because I'm panicked and don't have the right payment ready. You're at a crossroads where I am so lost in my own world that I didn't have the time to salute you for letting me out or didn't have the kindness to allow you out because again, I'm running late for an important appointment with a needy child. While you have managed to park your car perfectly whereas some of us struggle to organise neuro diverse children for appointments and are running late and the only parking space available is to park across 2 spots because the last person parking had to park awkwardly across 2 spaces for whatever reason .

There's bad behaviour and ill manners and even those can be misconstrued at the best of times when you're dealing with people who have different needs to the "normal" neuro typical person. You can count yourself lucky if that's you and your loved ones!

Whatever happened to showing a little kindness, empathy and compassion for those who you know nothing about or the struggles they live daily. A kind smile, encouraging word or oversight never goes amiss.

That's my rant over for today. Fuck me, I'm worn out "

Deep breath .....

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By *og-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere

People that ask you your star sign so they can read out your horoscope

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Perfectly well behaved, well balanced and adjusted individuals who haven't got a fucking clue what others are dealing with in their day-to-day not so perfect lives with conditions, disabilities and mental health issues or who have children with the same. While you judge those of us who do their damnest not to be a burden, imposition or hindrance while you're waiting in a queue at the checkout when I have one item in the basket because the other stuff I needed was out of stock or because I've been called to an emergency and that's all I have time for and I'm in a hissy because I'm panicked and don't have the right payment ready. You're at a crossroads where I am so lost in my own world that I didn't have the time to salute you for letting me out or didn't have the kindness to allow you out because again, I'm running late for an important appointment with a needy child. While you have managed to park your car perfectly whereas some of us struggle to organise neuro diverse children for appointments and are running late and the only parking space available is to park across 2 spots because the last person parking had to park awkwardly across 2 spaces for whatever reason .

There's bad behaviour and ill manners and even those can be misconstrued at the best of times when you're dealing with people who have different needs to the "normal" neuro typical person. You can count yourself lucky if that's you and your loved ones!

Whatever happened to showing a little kindness, empathy and compassion for those who you know nothing about or the struggles they live daily. A kind smile, encouraging word or oversight never goes amiss.

That's my rant over for today. Fuck me, I'm worn out

Deep breath ....."

Sorry, didn't mean to bring the thread down. I know it's just for fun

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork

Waving their Revolut card about in a certain way when they are clearly not swingers.

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By *og-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere


"Perfectly well behaved, well balanced and adjusted individuals who haven't got a fucking clue what others are dealing with in their day-to-day not so perfect lives with conditions, disabilities and mental health issues or who have children with the same. While you judge those of us who do their damnest not to be a burden, imposition or hindrance while you're waiting in a queue at the checkout when I have one item in the basket because the other stuff I needed was out of stock or because I've been called to an emergency and that's all I have time for and I'm in a hissy because I'm panicked and don't have the right payment ready. You're at a crossroads where I am so lost in my own world that I didn't have the time to salute you for letting me out or didn't have the kindness to allow you out because again, I'm running late for an important appointment with a needy child. While you have managed to park your car perfectly whereas some of us struggle to organise neuro diverse children for appointments and are running late and the only parking space available is to park across 2 spots because the last person parking had to park awkwardly across 2 spaces for whatever reason .

There's bad behaviour and ill manners and even those can be misconstrued at the best of times when you're dealing with people who have different needs to the "normal" neuro typical person. You can count yourself lucky if that's you and your loved ones!

Whatever happened to showing a little kindness, empathy and compassion for those who you know nothing about or the struggles they live daily. A kind smile, encouraging word or oversight never goes amiss.

That's my rant over for today. Fuck me, I'm worn out

Deep breath .....

Sorry, didn't mean to bring the thread down. I know it's just for fun "

Sure why would you apologise...

Everyone needs to rant sometimes and ya can't do it in front of the kids

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Perfectly well behaved, well balanced and adjusted individuals who haven't got a fucking clue what others are dealing with in their day-to-day not so perfect lives with conditions, disabilities and mental health issues or who have children with the same. While you judge those of us who do their damnest not to be a burden, imposition or hindrance while you're waiting in a queue at the checkout when I have one item in the basket because the other stuff I needed was out of stock or because I've been called to an emergency and that's all I have time for and I'm in a hissy because I'm panicked and don't have the right payment ready. You're at a crossroads where I am so lost in my own world that I didn't have the time to salute you for letting me out or didn't have the kindness to allow you out because again, I'm running late for an important appointment with a needy child. While you have managed to park your car perfectly whereas some of us struggle to organise neuro diverse children for appointments and are running late and the only parking space available is to park across 2 spots because the last person parking had to park awkwardly across 2 spaces for whatever reason .

There's bad behaviour and ill manners and even those can be misconstrued at the best of times when you're dealing with people who have different needs to the "normal" neuro typical person. You can count yourself lucky if that's you and your loved ones!

Whatever happened to showing a little kindness, empathy and compassion for those who you know nothing about or the struggles they live daily. A kind smile, encouraging word or oversight never goes amiss.

That's my rant over for today. Fuck me, I'm worn out "

Ah sure that's the wimmin for ya!

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Perfectly well behaved, well balanced and adjusted individuals who haven't got a fucking clue what others are dealing with in their day-to-day not so perfect lives with conditions, disabilities and mental health issues or who have children with the same. While you judge those of us who do their damnest not to be a burden, imposition or hindrance while you're waiting in a queue at the checkout when I have one item in the basket because the other stuff I needed was out of stock or because I've been called to an emergency and that's all I have time for and I'm in a hissy because I'm panicked and don't have the right payment ready. You're at a crossroads where I am so lost in my own world that I didn't have the time to salute you for letting me out or didn't have the kindness to allow you out because again, I'm running late for an important appointment with a needy child. While you have managed to park your car perfectly whereas some of us struggle to organise neuro diverse children for appointments and are running late and the only parking space available is to park across 2 spots because the last person parking had to park awkwardly across 2 spaces for whatever reason .

There's bad behaviour and ill manners and even those can be misconstrued at the best of times when you're dealing with people who have different needs to the "normal" neuro typical person. You can count yourself lucky if that's you and your loved ones!

Whatever happened to showing a little kindness, empathy and compassion for those who you know nothing about or the struggles they live daily. A kind smile, encouraging word or oversight never goes amiss.

That's my rant over for today. Fuck me, I'm worn out

Ah sure that's the wimmin for ya! "

I tell ya - I need a strong coffee, a decent night's sleep and a good ol' seeing to

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Perfectly well behaved, well balanced and adjusted individuals who haven't got a fucking clue what others are dealing with in their day-to-day not so perfect lives with conditions, disabilities and mental health issues or who have children with the same. While you judge those of us who do their damnest not to be a burden, imposition or hindrance while you're waiting in a queue at the checkout when I have one item in the basket because the other stuff I needed was out of stock or because I've been called to an emergency and that's all I have time for and I'm in a hissy because I'm panicked and don't have the right payment ready. You're at a crossroads where I am so lost in my own world that I didn't have the time to salute you for letting me out or didn't have the kindness to allow you out because again, I'm running late for an important appointment with a needy child. While you have managed to park your car perfectly whereas some of us struggle to organise neuro diverse children for appointments and are running late and the only parking space available is to park across 2 spots because the last person parking had to park awkwardly across 2 spaces for whatever reason .

There's bad behaviour and ill manners and even those can be misconstrued at the best of times when you're dealing with people who have different needs to the "normal" neuro typical person. You can count yourself lucky if that's you and your loved ones!

Whatever happened to showing a little kindness, empathy and compassion for those who you know nothing about or the struggles they live daily. A kind smile, encouraging word or oversight never goes amiss.

That's my rant over for today. Fuck me, I'm worn out

Deep breath .....

Sorry, didn't mean to bring the thread down. I know it's just for fun

Sure why would you apologise...

Everyone needs to rant sometimes and ya can't do it in front of the kids "

I sure got it off my chest here today

#never-go-online-when-in-a-mood#

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over a year ago

Well, that is all entirely valid and many will identify and empathise with you.

Just have to realise & accept that the person(s) you might think of when listing all of that just might tick a lot of your situational boxes themselves and be in just as highly stressed of a place in life.

Keep on keeping on, being our best selves.

People like to say 'Be kind' these days.

Remember to be kind to yourself first and that will fuel the rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perfectly well behaved, well balanced and adjusted individuals who haven't got a fucking clue what others are dealing with in their day-to-day not so perfect lives with conditions, disabilities and mental health issues or who have children with the same. While you judge those of us who do their damnest not to be a burden, imposition or hindrance while you're waiting in a queue at the checkout when I have one item in the basket because the other stuff I needed was out of stock or because I've been called to an emergency and that's all I have time for and I'm in a hissy because I'm panicked and don't have the right payment ready. You're at a crossroads where I am so lost in my own world that I didn't have the time to salute you for letting me out or didn't have the kindness to allow you out because again, I'm running late for an important appointment with a needy child. While you have managed to park your car perfectly whereas some of us struggle to organise neuro diverse children for appointments and are running late and the only parking space available is to park across 2 spots because the last person parking had to park awkwardly across 2 spaces for whatever reason .

There's bad behaviour and ill manners and even those can be misconstrued at the best of times when you're dealing with people who have different needs to the "normal" neuro typical person. You can count yourself lucky if that's you and your loved ones!

Whatever happened to showing a little kindness, empathy and compassion for those who you know nothing about or the struggles they live daily. A kind smile, encouraging word or oversight never goes amiss.

That's my rant over for today. Fuck me, I'm worn out "

So true noone knows what's going on, I let a lady go ahead of me in the queue the other day, she looked so surprised and kept thanking me.

There are days I might not speak to anyone do if I get a chance to chat to a cashier I will.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"Perfectly well behaved, well balanced and adjusted individuals who haven't got a fucking clue what others are dealing with in their day-to-day not so perfect lives with conditions, disabilities and mental health issues or who have children with the same. While you judge those of us who do their damnest not to be a burden, imposition or hindrance while you're waiting in a queue at the checkout when I have one item in the basket because the other stuff I needed was out of stock or because I've been called to an emergency and that's all I have time for and I'm in a hissy because I'm panicked and don't have the right payment ready. You're at a crossroads where I am so lost in my own world that I didn't have the time to salute you for letting me out or didn't have the kindness to allow you out because again, I'm running late for an important appointment with a needy child. While you have managed to park your car perfectly whereas some of us struggle to organise neuro diverse children for appointments and are running late and the only parking space available is to park across 2 spots because the last person parking had to park awkwardly across 2 spaces for whatever reason .

There's bad behaviour and ill manners and even those can be misconstrued at the best of times when you're dealing with people who have different needs to the "normal" neuro typical person. You can count yourself lucky if that's you and your loved ones!

Whatever happened to showing a little kindness, empathy and compassion for those who you know nothing about or the struggles they live daily. A kind smile, encouraging word or oversight never goes amiss.

That's my rant over for today. Fuck me, I'm worn out

Ah sure that's the wimmin for ya!

I tell ya - I need a strong coffee, a decent night's sleep and a good ol' seeing to "

I can fix you up with one of them. I know a place that has good coffee

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Well, that is all entirely valid and many will identify and empathise with you.

Just have to realise & accept that the person(s) you might think of when listing all of that just might tick a lot of your situational boxes themselves and be in just as highly stressed of a place in life.

Keep on keeping on, being our best selves.

People like to say 'Be kind' these days.

Remember to be kind to yourself first and that will fuel the rest "

Indeed, and they were examples on the thread I used to try and make exactly that point in a roundabout way.

I frequently stop in my tracks and take stock of my thoughts/behaviour towards others for exactly that reason but am also human and not always successful - and I certainly didn't mean to make any personal digs aimed at anyone in particular. . I just wanted to point out that a little kindness can go a long way for more people than you'd think.

Anger, aggression and contempt breeds the same. It's amazing how a different approach in difficult situations can be turned to a positive by a positive attitude and behaviour even when you think it's not called for.

Being kind to yourself is often the hardest part!

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"

Ah sure that's the wimmin for ya!

I tell ya - I need a strong coffee, a decent night's sleep and a good ol' seeing to

I can fix you up with one of them. I know a place that has good coffee "

As long as it's not Costa

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"

That's my rant over for today. Fuck me, I'm worn out

So true noone knows what's going on, I let a lady go ahead of me in the queue the other day, she looked so surprised and kept thanking me.

There are days I might not speak to anyone do if I get a chance to chat to a cashier I will.

"

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

People who stand in the queue at the supermarket ahead of me, play on their phones then fart around looking for shopping bags when it's time to pack and then take another minute to produce cash or a payment card

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By *og-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere

People that have their babies ears pierced

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"

People who stand in the queue at the supermarket ahead of me, play on their phones then fart around looking for shopping bags when it's time to pack and then take another minute to produce cash or a payment card "

Jeez, I'd never be caught farting in public

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By *ixie and dixie2022Couple
over a year ago

villiage

People who don’t know how to use a roundabout

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By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford


"Perfectly well behaved, well balanced and adjusted individuals who haven't got a fucking clue what others are dealing with in their day-to-day not so perfect lives with conditions, disabilities and mental health issues or who have children with the same. While you judge those of us who do their damnest not to be a burden, imposition or hindrance while you're waiting in a queue at the checkout when I have one item in the basket because the other stuff I needed was out of stock or because I've been called to an emergency and that's all I have time for and I'm in a hissy because I'm panicked and don't have the right payment ready. You're at a crossroads where I am so lost in my own world that I didn't have the time to salute you for letting me out or didn't have the kindness to allow you out because again, I'm running late for an important appointment with a needy child. While you have managed to park your car perfectly whereas some of us struggle to organise neuro diverse children for appointments and are running late and the only parking space available is to park across 2 spots because the last person parking had to park awkwardly across 2 spaces for whatever reason .

There's bad behaviour and ill manners and even those can be misconstrued at the best of times when you're dealing with people who have different needs to the "normal" neuro typical person. You can count yourself lucky if that's you and your loved ones!

Whatever happened to showing a little kindness, empathy and compassion for those who you know nothing about or the struggles they live daily. A kind smile, encouraging word or oversight never goes amiss.

That's my rant over for today. Fuck me, I'm worn out "

I hear ya and im with you on that

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"People in the queue at the checkout with a full conveyor of food that dont let me skip them when I've only one thing in my basket

People who use a basket when they're only buying one item!

People who stand and stare behind you with one thing in their basket EXPECTING you to let them skip, while you're efficiently and hurriedly unloading your trolley because you're a busy person

PERSPECTIVE

PS I generally let these people go but never if they're standing there expecting it!

Believe you me if I was standing behind you in the Queue I wouldn't want to skip "

In which case I'd bend over a bit more and maybe wiggle it a bit while taking my stuff out of the trolley really really slowly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, that is all entirely valid and many will identify and empathise with you.

Just have to realise & accept that the person(s) you might think of when listing all of that just might tick a lot of your situational boxes themselves and be in just as highly stressed of a place in life.

Keep on keeping on, being our best selves.

People like to say 'Be kind' these days.

Remember to be kind to yourself first and that will fuel the rest

Indeed, and they were examples on the thread I used to try and make exactly that point in a roundabout way.

I frequently stop in my tracks and take stock of my thoughts/behaviour towards others for exactly that reason but am also human and not always successful - and I certainly didn't mean to make any personal digs aimed at anyone in particular. . I just wanted to point out that a little kindness can go a long way for more people than you'd think.

Anger, aggression and contempt breeds the same. It's amazing how a different approach in difficult situations can be turned to a positive by a positive attitude and behaviour even when you think it's not called for.

Being kind to yourself is often the hardest part!

"

100% agree

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By *ensualnFunCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"Perfectly well behaved, well balanced and adjusted individuals who haven't got a fucking clue what others are dealing with in their day-to-day not so perfect lives with conditions, disabilities and mental health issues or who have children with the same. While you judge those of us who do their damnest not to be a burden, imposition or hindrance while you're waiting in a queue at the checkout when I have one item in the basket because the other stuff I needed was out of stock or because I've been called to an emergency and that's all I have time for and I'm in a hissy because I'm panicked and don't have the right payment ready. You're at a crossroads where I am so lost in my own world that I didn't have the time to salute you for letting me out or didn't have the kindness to allow you out because again, I'm running late for an important appointment with a needy child. While you have managed to park your car perfectly whereas some of us struggle to organise neuro diverse children for appointments and are running late and the only parking space available is to park across 2 spots because the last person parking had to park awkwardly across 2 spaces for whatever reason .

There's bad behaviour and ill manners and even those can be misconstrued at the best of times when you're dealing with people who have different needs to the "normal" neuro typical person. You can count yourself lucky if that's you and your loved ones!

Whatever happened to showing a little kindness, empathy and compassion for those who you know nothing about or the struggles they live daily. A kind smile, encouraging word or oversight never goes amiss.

That's my rant over for today. Fuck me, I'm worn out "

I agree with you mostly.

That’s why most of the time I don’t react to certain bad behaviour (even if they may annoy me silently) because as I say to my kids, you don’t know what that person is dealing with in her/his life.

We all have bad days. But they are limits nonetheless, having a bad day or a bad run in life should not excuse everything. And I’m sure you agree.

I don’t think any of us are perfectly well behaved, well balanced and adjusted individuals. When you pass superficial chitchat, you often realise that we all deal with some problems at some stage, some more serious than others… and while some manage to handle big ones, others get swamped under what the others would call small ones.

I do hope you are ok xxx Ranting is definitely needed from time to time… or a punching bag… that can help too Big hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well this thread got bleek fast ffs ALC.

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By *ensualnFunCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"

Anger, aggression and contempt breeds the same. It's amazing how a different approach in difficult situations can be turned to a positive by a positive attitude and behaviour even when you think it's not called for.

Being kind to yourself is often the hardest part!

"

100% a genuine smile can do wonders.

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Well this thread got bleek fast ffs ALC."

You're welcome - nothing like bringing down the tone occasionally. It sure felt good

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By *ensualnFunCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

On a different note…

People not putting the toilet seat down

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Thanks all to the understanding comments .

Now I'm going back to my usual sarcastic comments

As you were

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By *og-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere


"On a different note…

People not putting the toilet seat down "

Women not putting it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well this thread got bleek fast ffs ALC.

You're welcome - nothing like bringing down the tone occasionally. It sure felt good "

Ya what the fuck am I ment to do so.

Stay in your lane!

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Well this thread got bleek fast ffs ALC.

You're welcome - nothing like bringing down the tone occasionally. It sure felt good

Ya what the fuck am I ment to do so.

Stay in your lane!"

They're all my lanes - you may use them too

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"On a different note…

People not putting the toilet seat down

Women not putting it up "

The amount of times I've nearly fallen in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting people not used to driving in the country in their big flash cars...omg do they not know that BOTH cars need to pull in to pass!!

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By *ildGroverMan
over a year ago

rathfarnham


"Meeting people not used to driving in the country in their big flash cars...omg do they not know that BOTH cars need to pull in to pass!!

"

And the same wankers who think that putting on their hazard lights enables them to park on yellow lines/disabled spots/etc

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By *eralt80Man
over a year ago

cork


"Thanks all to the understanding comments .

Now I'm going back to my usual sarcastic comments

As you were "

You? Sarcastic? Who would have thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Parents who allow their kids to kick the back of your seat on a bus or plane !!!!

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By *onnrodMan
over a year ago

moira

People who arrange their life according to the stars

People who believe in Reiki/auras/spirit healing/crystals

Fuckwits who take out two parking spots to protect their fancy car

People who glorify stupidity

Tbc.....

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By *imdm101Man
over a year ago

Galway


"

Believe you me if I was standing behind you in the Queue I wouldn't want to skip

In which case I'd bend over a bit more and maybe wiggle it a bit while taking my stuff out of the trolley really really slowly "

Can you please let us know when you are doing your next shop

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

Ballsbridge, City Centre


"On a different note…

People not putting the toilet seat down

Women not putting it up

The amount of times I've nearly fallen in "

As the saying goes “look before you leap”

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By *axlecool03Man
over a year ago

Dublin

people who spit a chewing gum in a toilet and then have a pleasure of pissing on it.. lol

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal


"People buying the Daily Mail "

My dad reads it

His car was put of action so he asked me to nip to the shop to pick him up a copy. I was mortified buying it

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

People who are never prepared for the security checks at airports. I will even unashamedly judge the elderly, the infirm and families with young kids. If you don't take time to prepare for security before you join the queue then you deserve judgement.

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By *dinshairyarseMan
over a year ago

city


"Having live laugh love quotes up in their house "

Bought in the sale at woodies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who take the baby/toddler trollies in shops who don't actually need to use them as in don't have kids with them

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'll silently judge those who loudly judge and those who are silently judging but it's written all over their face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perfectly well behaved, well balanced and adjusted individuals who haven't got a fucking clue what others are dealing with in their day-to-day not so perfect lives with conditions, disabilities and mental health issues or who have children with the same. While you judge those of us who do their damnest not to be a burden, imposition or hindrance while you're waiting in a queue at the checkout when I have one item in the basket because the other stuff I needed was out of stock or because I've been called to an emergency and that's all I have time for and I'm in a hissy because I'm panicked and don't have the right payment ready. You're at a crossroads where I am so lost in my own world that I didn't have the time to salute you for letting me out or didn't have the kindness to allow you out because again, I'm running late for an important appointment with a needy child. While you have managed to park your car perfectly whereas some of us struggle to organise neuro diverse children for appointments and are running late and the only parking space available is to park across 2 spots because the last person parking had to park awkwardly across 2 spaces for whatever reason .

There's bad behaviour and ill manners and even those can be misconstrued at the best of times when you're dealing with people who have different needs to the "normal" neuro typical person. You can count yourself lucky if that's you and your loved ones!

Whatever happened to showing a little kindness, empathy and compassion for those who you know nothing about or the struggles they live daily. A kind smile, encouraging word or oversight never goes amiss.

That's my rant over for today. Fuck me, I'm worn out

Deep breath .....

Sorry, didn't mean to bring the thread down. I know it's just for fun

Sure why would you apologise...

Everyone needs to rant sometimes and ya can't do it in front of the kids

I sure got it off my chest here today

#never-go-online-when-in-a-mood# "

Have some smarties and you'll feel better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that eat unhealthy/don't exercise/smoke then wonder why they are sick

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By *oxyvixen99Woman
over a year ago

Newtownabbey

Very little really. I've enough to be getting on with in our own life without caring what others are doing

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By *og-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere

People that don't salute you when you let them out into traffic

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

Ballsbridge, City Centre

Being rude/condescending to waiting staff

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Being rude/condescending to waiting staff"

Or being rude to people working in shops usually just because they think they can't answer them back.

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"On a different note…

People not putting the toilet seat down

Women not putting it up

The amount of times I've nearly fallen in

As the saying goes “look before you leap”"

But it's dark in the middle of the night and lights hurt and would wake me up properly though I suppose the near drownings did that in the end - death by toilet

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"

I sure got it off my chest here today

#never-go-online-when-in-a-mood#

Have some smarties and you'll feel better "

Deep breaths, deep breaths - suck it up, don't say a word...

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By *an I Kiss youMan
over a year ago

Manchester City Centre


"Perfectly well behaved, well balanced and adjusted individuals who haven't got a fucking clue what others are dealing with in their day-to-day not so perfect lives with conditions, disabilities and mental health issues or who have children with the same. While you judge those of us who do their damnest not to be a burden, imposition or hindrance while you're waiting in a queue at the checkout when I have one item in the basket because the other stuff I needed was out of stock or because I've been called to an emergency and that's all I have time for and I'm in a hissy because I'm panicked and don't have the right payment ready. You're at a crossroads where I am so lost in my own world that I didn't have the time to salute you for letting me out or didn't have the kindness to allow you out because again, I'm running late for an important appointment with a needy child. While you have managed to park your car perfectly whereas some of us struggle to organise neuro diverse children for appointments and are running late and the only parking space available is to park across 2 spots because the last person parking had to park awkwardly across 2 spaces for whatever reason .

There's bad behaviour and ill manners and even those can be misconstrued at the best of times when you're dealing with people who have different needs to the "normal" neuro typical person. You can count yourself lucky if that's you and your loved ones!

Whatever happened to showing a little kindness, empathy and compassion for those who you know nothing about or the struggles they live daily. A kind smile, encouraging word or oversight never goes amiss.

That's my rant over for today. Fuck me, I'm worn out "

.

It could not have been put better. Well said

.

Kindness costs nothing and a tiny little bit of tolerance can make the massive difference between "Okay, I might be able keep going" or " Fuck it, this is the straw breaking the camel back".

.

Remember, what goes around comes back around.

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By *an I Kiss youMan
over a year ago

Manchester City Centre

Making a judgment or reaching a conclusion before or without putting in some efforts to establish the complete set of facts in the background, could and does lead to unfair damage and possible major consequences.

.

So in a world where misinformation is becoming the norm and where there is very little time given to establish facts, it might be wise to Hold your judgment or conclusion so that you don't unfairly or inadvertently cause harm.

.

Again, what goes around comes back around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I sure got it off my chest here today

#never-go-online-when-in-a-mood#

Have some smarties and you'll feel better

Deep breaths, deep breaths - suck it up, don't say a word... "

Suck what now

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Thanks all to the understanding comments .

Now I'm going back to my usual sarcastic comments

As you were

You? Sarcastic? Who would have thought "

Nobody - obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having live laugh love quotes up in their house "

Hahahahahahha yes ….or some silly quote about Prosecco

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"

I sure got it off my chest here today

#never-go-online-when-in-a-mood#

Have some smarties and you'll feel better

Deep breaths, deep breaths - suck it up, don't say a word...

Suck what now "

"It" - did you miss that bit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Etiquette

Respect

General rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I silently judge myself for my attempts at parallel parking..

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"I silently judge myself for my attempts at parallel parking.."

I avoid at all costs - rather take up 2 spaces

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By *B 4099Man
over a year ago

North West, Outer Letterkenny area


"Grown men wearing tracksuits when not training

"
judge away , I won't wear jeans at home. The cat doesn't care what I wear

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By *r_Insatiable666Man
over a year ago

Cork

Their originality, its mostly an online thing where you just people use the exact same line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shop assistant's wearing head set's chatting to other assistant's when serving. I'm often talking bollocks to myself!!!

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By *mmmm300Woman
over a year ago

cork


"Perfectly well behaved, well balanced and adjusted individuals who haven't got a fucking clue what others are dealing with in their day-to-day not so perfect lives with conditions, disabilities and mental health issues or who have children with the same. While you judge those of us who do their damnest not to be a burden, imposition or hindrance while you're waiting in a queue at the checkout when I have one item in the basket because the other stuff I needed was out of stock or because I've been called to an emergency and that's all I have time for and I'm in a hissy because I'm panicked and don't have the right payment ready. You're at a crossroads where I am so lost in my own world that I didn't have the time to salute you for letting me out or didn't have the kindness to allow you out because again, I'm running late for an important appointment with a needy child. While you have managed to park your car perfectly whereas some of us struggle to organise neuro diverse children for appointments and are running late and the only parking space available is to park across 2 spots because the last person parking had to park awkwardly across 2 spaces for whatever reason .

There's bad behaviour and ill manners and even those can be misconstrued at the best of times when you're dealing with people who have different needs to the "normal" neuro typical person. You can count yourself lucky if that's you and your loved ones!

Whatever happened to showing a little kindness, empathy and compassion for those who you know nothing about or the struggles they live daily. A kind smile, encouraging word or oversight never goes amiss.

That's my rant over for today. Fuck me, I'm worn out "

That's a great and very true rant.

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By *ornywife20Couple
over a year ago

North Cork

People who waste time doing stupid things at work that make no sense. Drives me nuts .

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

People who use homeopathy

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By *og-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere

In work....d*unk people

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By *ensualnFunCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"On a different note…

People not putting the toilet seat down

Women not putting it up

The amount of times I've nearly fallen in

As the saying goes “look before you leap”

But it's dark in the middle of the night and lights hurt and would wake me up properly though I suppose the near drownings did that in the end - death by toilet "

Pmsl but unfortunately because it’s a shared experience

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By *astelloWoman
over a year ago

Far far away

Those who queue because there is a line of people..does that mean we love to queue.. Why are we obsessed with queuing.

Failing that.. Ryanair queues.. People queuing to get off when the pilot hasn't even landed.

I've a lot of queuing questions..

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Those who queue because there is a line of people..does that mean we love to queue.. Why are we obsessed with queuing.

Failing that.. Ryanair queues.. People queuing to get off when the pilot hasn't even landed.

I've a lot of queuing questions.. "

Shops that always have long queues are a disaster, like Zara in Limerick. Don't they realise that they're losing sales and p*ssing people off? Penneys have it down to a tee with loads of staff at counters and at Xmas they have a girl at the end of the queue with a sign so you can go straight there. They have it all figured out.

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By *ot neuteredMan
over a year ago

Kildare

Spitting

Telling people to be kind, their usually the nastiest *hits going.

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By *og-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere

People that clap when the plane lands

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"People that clap when the plane lands "

Oh Jesus yeah

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By *ot neuteredMan
over a year ago

Kildare

A few minutes ago in Super Valu, I had judgemental thoughts about a Milf I saw, pushing a trolley with two large Courgettes in it

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"People that clap when the plane lands "

They're the ones who knows what goes on when crew is on tour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People that clap when the plane lands "

Sometimes with Ryanair it is people delighted to be alive!

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By *LIVEANDKICKING100Man
over a year ago

DUBLIN

Bad table manners, incorrect use and holding of fork and especially the knife-like a pencil.

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By *ot neuteredMan
over a year ago

Kildare

The type of dog they have

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

Life now presents a very varied tapestry, that my long experience counsels me never to judge nor denigrate in any fashion; I may not like certain behaviours that I see such as aggression, prejudice or overt violence, but who am I to judge anyone; I live my life as I choose as most others do too.

Judge not and you shall not be judged; live and let live, as best you can!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A snot rocket .. its disgusting .. get a tissue and blow your nose

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By *antas_number_one_elfWoman
over a year ago

dublin

How loudly they eat and if they don’t hold the door for my diva ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Life now presents a very varied tapestry, that my long experience counsels me never to judge nor denigrate in any fashion; I may not like certain behaviours that I see such as aggression, prejudice or overt violence, but who am I to judge anyone; I live my life as I choose as most others do too.

Judge not and you shall not be judged; live and let live, as best you can!"

Excellent it’s a pity only a few will do this

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok , there are so many , a person is only answering the question asked but here's a few ...

When driving a person who leaves the roundabout at the exit BEFORE you and never indicates that they are about to do so and then it's too late to enter because the car behind them is already in the roundabout and you have to wait ,

People who DONT acknowledge that you have left them out in a heavy traffic time .

People who don't acknowledge when you keep a door open for them etc etc

..yes there are loads of everyday things that can irritate a person , does that make a " non judgemental " person " judgemental ".. course it does..BUT only in situations that deserve them , because , believe it or not , doing the simple things does make others life easier, never said easy ... easier...have a nice day .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How they dress, I know, so judgmental

How clean the inside of Their car is

Sometimes what they drink, ha oh god, I’m

An awful person

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"How they dress, I know, so judgmental

How clean the inside of Their car is

Sometimes what they drink, ha oh god, I’m

An awful person "

Lol what drink would get someone judged out of interest

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West


"

Lol what drink would get someone judged out of interest "

Rockshore, surely?

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Don't come at me lol but I judge people but first impressions if they are rude I don't bother my barny trying to even talk to them after that...rudeness sticks

Ohhh and elderly drivers like 70/ 80+....and people who drive like they are driving a tank when it's a tiny car...and people who don't wave to say thanks or sorry

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By *og-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere


"

Lol what drink would get someone judged out of interest

Rockshore, surely?"

Men drinking cocktails

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"If you silently judge Catholicism do you not judge Protestantism

I think you mean Christianity but then why stop at one religion

Both my father and my other half were forced by the church to be born in Catholic mother and baby homes, and my father went on afterwards to be abused in a Catholic school. They were both systematically lied to afterwards and allowed to be physically and mentally abused by the systems in the church. I actually feel sick with anger when I see a Catholic priest. How anyone can be proudly part of this particular organisation when these systematic abuses are so well known, and are present in every jurisdiction that they operate, is completely beyond me. Hence judgement on them specifically."

If tour going to judge people let it be individuals who do wrong... not those who try do right ... let it be those who do wrong by hiding stuff .. not those who dont...

Those pei3sts and such who did your family wrong and those who covered it up are wrong or at the very least weak and shameful. Not all priests are .... not to trivialize your situation.

Imo its like not all Russians are wrong .

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"People who take up 2 parking spaces

I usually hock up a lugey on their window if I see a car that has deliberately parked in to spots to protect their car fuck em or if there's a space beside their drivers door I park my passenger side door as close as possible to their drivers door. "

You

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"People that collect crystals "

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"People who decide to have a full blown conversation with the till operator when there's a queue forming behind them

This could be the only person that they may speak to during the day so I wouldn't judge

Them cunts

Agree, I read recently that a Dutch supermarket are introducing "slow lane checkouts" for that very reason "

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Couples who have just met, and are so unsuited to each other, but will "settle".... For whatever reason. "

Holy judgment call batman

Your powers of assumption are outstanding . Pow ..wam...

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Perfectly well behaved, well balanced and adjusted individuals who haven't got a fucking clue what others are dealing with in their day-to-day not so perfect lives with conditions, disabilities and mental health issues or who have children with the same. While you judge those of us who do their damnest not to be a burden, imposition or hindrance while you're waiting in a queue at the checkout when I have one item in the basket because the other stuff I needed was out of stock or because I've been called to an emergency and that's all I have time for and I'm in a hissy because I'm panicked and don't have the right payment ready. You're at a crossroads where I am so lost in my own world that I didn't have the time to salute you for letting me out or didn't have the kindness to allow you out because again, I'm running late for an important appointment with a needy child. While you have managed to park your car perfectly whereas some of us struggle to organise neuro diverse children for appointments and are running late and the only parking space available is to park across 2 spots because the last person parking had to park awkwardly across 2 spaces for whatever reason .

There's bad behaviour and ill manners and even those can be misconstrued at the best of times when you're dealing with people who have different needs to the "normal" neuro typical person. You can count yourself lucky if that's you and your loved ones!

Whatever happened to showing a little kindness, empathy and compassion for those who you know nothing about or the struggles they live daily. A kind smile, encouraging word or oversight never goes amiss.

That's my rant over for today. Fuck me, I'm worn out "

Holy fuck batwoman.... what we goina do with you ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Lol what drink would get someone judged out of interest

Rockshore, surely?"
don't knock rockshore lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having the “fab is now a publicly traded company..” in their bio

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By *og-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere


"

Lol what drink would get someone judged out of interest

Rockshore, surely?don't knock rockshore lol"

Glad you said it....I like the stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Lol what drink would get someone judged out of interest

Rockshore, surely?don't knock rockshore lol

Glad you said it....I like the stuff "
cider or larger

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"

People who stand in the queue at the supermarket ahead of me, play on their phones then fart around looking for shopping bags when it's time to pack and then take another minute to produce cash or a payment card "

People fart around you in fhe shop?

For the love of God man, shop somewhere else

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By *og-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere


"

Lol what drink would get someone judged out of interest

Rockshore, surely?don't knock rockshore lol

Glad you said it....I like the stuff cider or larger "

Never had the cider.....puts on list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

People who stand in the queue at the supermarket ahead of me, play on their phones then fart around looking for shopping bags when it's time to pack and then take another minute to produce cash or a payment card

People fart around you in fhe shop?

For the love of God man, shop somewhere else "
what goes in must come out lol

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Life now presents a very varied tapestry, that my long experience counsels me never to judge nor denigrate in any fashion; I may not like certain behaviours that I see such as aggression, prejudice or overt violence, but who am I to judge anyone; I live my life as I choose as most others do too.

Judge not and you shall not be judged; live and let live, as best you can!"

Ah jeasus ... you of all people should know ... living life how ya choose always ,,, is the fasted way to end up judged and sentenced

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"If you silently judge Catholicism do you not judge Protestantism

I think you mean Christianity but then why stop at one religion

Both my father and my other half were forced by the church to be born in Catholic mother and baby homes, and my father went on afterwards to be abused in a Catholic school. They were both systematically lied to afterwards and allowed to be physically and mentally abused by the systems in the church. I actually feel sick with anger when I see a Catholic priest. How anyone can be proudly part of this particular organisation when these systematic abuses are so well known, and are present in every jurisdiction that they operate, is completely beyond me. Hence judgement on them specifically.

If tour going to judge people let it be individuals who do wrong... not those who try do right ... let it be those who do wrong by hiding stuff .. not those who dont...

Those pei3sts and such who did your family wrong and those who covered it up are wrong or at the very least weak and shameful. Not all priests are .... not to trivialize your situation.

Imo its like not all Russians are wrong . "

No thank you... I will continue to silently judge those who stand up and be counted with the abusers, those who hide and move around the abusers, and those who to this day fail to pay (court ordered) abuse reparations to survivors, and those who believe that babies can be "born of sin", and those who preach in hiv hotspots that condoms cause aids, and those who falsified babies death records in Bessbourough to cover up the brutality, and those who put these sinful babies in mass unmarked graves in Tuam, and those who forced mothers to give their babies away and to work to atone for their sins. The supporters of these people are trying to do right you say? Give me a break. They have their head firmly buried in the sand and can't see the horror that they are financually supporting and enabling each Sunday.

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By *lue eyesMan
over a year ago

cavan

Bad driving

Not knowing how to use a roundabout

Not using indicators

Pulling in to the left whilst holding the middle of the road when their's even a hard shoulder

Pulling out in front of you and doing 20 mph

And the worst offenders letting people go or out infront of you and them not even giving a flash or solute to say thanks

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By *on Draper2.0Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

The Kardashians and all the damage they have done to women.

If nobody watched them.....

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

So many notes to take

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By *oo32Man
over a year ago

tipperary

Mouth open chewing...

No indicators..

Duckface...

Know alls..

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"If you silently judge Catholicism do you not judge Protestantism

I think you mean Christianity but then why stop at one religion

Both my father and my other half were forced by the church to be born in Catholic mother and baby homes, and my father went on afterwards to be abused in a Catholic school. They were both systematically lied to afterwards and allowed to be physically and mentally abused by the systems in the church. I actually feel sick with anger when I see a Catholic priest. How anyone can be proudly part of this particular organisation when these systematic abuses are so well known, and are present in every jurisdiction that they operate, is completely beyond me. Hence judgement on them specifically.

If tour going to judge people let it be individuals who do wrong... not those who try do right ... let it be those who do wrong by hiding stuff .. not those who dont...

Those pei3sts and such who did your family wrong and those who covered it up are wrong or at the very least weak and shameful. Not all priests are .... not to trivialize your situation.

Imo its like not all Russians are wrong .

No thank you... I will continue to silently judge those who stand up and be counted with the abusers, those who hide and move around the abusers, and those who to this day fail to pay (court ordered) abuse reparations to survivors, and those who believe that babies can be "born of sin", and those who preach in hiv hotspots that condoms cause aids, and those who falsified babies death records in Bessbourough to cover up the brutality, and those who put these sinful babies in mass unmarked graves in Tuam, and those who forced mothers to give their babies away and to work to atone for their sins. The supporters of these people are trying to do right you say? Give me a break. They have their head firmly buried in the sand and can't see the horror that they are financually supporting and enabling each Sunday. "

No the point I'm making is most of those people are dead!

All I'm suggesting is to tar all with one brush, dosnt strike me as true justice.

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Honestly, I feel the silent judgement I give to most of them that I come across is showing a lot of restraint.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Honestly, I feel the silent judgement I give to most of them that I come across is showing a lot of restraint. "

I get its a raw subject and I also get the pashion and desire to protect your family . I do .

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Honestly, I feel the silent judgement I give to most of them that I come across is showing a lot of restraint. "

30+ years ago I would have sympathised but probably have been an apologist for the church.

I've done the whole altarboy, Christian brothers school etc and never been a victim or known anyone who was but even before all the publicity and pulling back of the curtain I was starting to feel uneasy about individuals.

I now can't differentiate between the church as a whole and those in positions of responsibility within it.

I've walked away with regret that I didn't sooner.

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By *ndqtMan
over a year ago

The Wild West

Guys who walk around with a sweater draped over their shoulders and the back of their neck..... you know the type... propper knobs... I usually stare at them with a pure boulde head on me and shake my head in disgust

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By *atonMan
over a year ago

barnet

Using "like" indiscriminately 20 times in a sentence. So f.....g annoying. The demise of the English language.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Guys who walk around with a sweater draped over their shoulders and the back of their neck..... you know the type... propper knobs... I usually stare at them with a pure boulde head on me and shake my head in disgust "

Hahahaha . I see me in this reaction

And guys wearing shorts and ankle socks in winter when they aren't even required to. It chills me.

But look we all judge each other all the time especially on appearance. Just need to cop on to it and realise a/ we could be wrong b/ 90% of the time it's none of our business and c/ unless it's illegal, being silent is probably best.

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By *ndqtMan
over a year ago

The Wild West


"Guys who walk around with a sweater draped over their shoulders and the back of their neck..... you know the type... propper knobs... I usually stare at them with a pure boulde head on me and shake my head in disgust

Hahahaha . I see me in this reaction

And guys wearing shorts and ankle socks in winter when they aren't even required to. It chills me.

But look we all judge each other all the time especially on appearance. Just need to cop on to it and realise a/ we could be wrong b/ 90% of the time it's none of our business and c/ unless it's illegal, being silent is probably best."

Nah.... I prefer to let them know they're leaving the side down .... being subtle is difficult for me a lot of the time, especially in moments like the one decribed

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Ye are a bunch of judgemental feckers!

I never judge

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By *og-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere

Yes you do

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By *og-Man OP   Man
over a year ago

somewhere

People that wear false tan.....especially for you K

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Never shoulda told you my secret Bog

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