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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

From the Lounge...

We first joined Fab over 6 years ago and in that time we've taken breaks from the site, it has worked for us

So, if you've left and rejoined, what were your reasons firstly why you left, and also what made you come back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Left: boredom

Returned: boobs

Left: committed to boobs off fab

Returned: no longer committed to boobs off fab. Fab still had other boobs

Left: overwhelming sense of meh

Returened: you know why

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin


"Left: boredom

Returned: boobs

Left: committed to boobs off fab

Returned: no longer committed to boobs off fab. Fab still had other boobs

Left: overwhelming sense of meh

Returened: you know why

"

I get a sense of what you're looking for

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

This is my 4th profile in 6 years.

First lasted a few months and I left after an extremely bad first meet that crossed all sorts of boundaries so I assumed everyone here was like that.

Made a second attempt and lasted 6 months or so until I decided I wasn't in the right frame of mind.

Third was successful with about 30 veries through various events but didn't log in for almost a year because of a stalker and getting dragged into someone else's drama. Came back long enough to delete that profile and start again which is where I am now.

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By *elfastSteamWhistleMan
over a year ago

bangor

Left: some c-unit was trying to blackmale me for being on here

Came back: resolved the issue found out who they were and made it not an issue anymore.

Have to say though I definitely had more fun the first time I was on compared to this profile. Maybe I'm just too old now... or lazy cause I haven't bothered to change up the profile pics for some time.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

Left on and off maybe 12 plus years I think

Usually left from ick with the same shit on here or more enjoyably left while in relationship

Comeback looking for nsa at times im wanting to remain single ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sounds like a lot of drama causes people to leave

Then get drawn back to the site again...

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

A lot of people leave and rejoin so they can adjust their age to how they feel rather than their actual age

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Left 1st couples profile and a group event organising account when I separated with my ex.

Rejoined as a horny single guy.

Removed my single profile when I was coupled up again and created this couples profile. Have hidden several times having babies etc.

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

Have never left

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Have never joined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5th profile in 10 years.

I was on for 3 years or so

Left as I had a long term fb

Returned when we split

Left as got bored

Returned as I thought I was missing something

Left as I bored

Returned as I thought I was missing something

Left as I unknowingly got involved in a drama half real-life half fab.

Returned, and here I am! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Left whenever I was starting a relationship.

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Left when I was in a relationship. Don't think I'd ever feel the need to leave otherwise. But fab takes up little to no space in my thoughts. Forums are good fun and there's some very pretty ladies who take great photos do why deny myself of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time joined last a few days put myself in a bad situation deleted my account

2nd time deleted as a guy threatened to share my pics with work colleagues and family.

3rd time was so fed up been stood up and messed about deleted.

Rejoined and I've accepted that I'm not swinging material but I enjoy the forums and the socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have joined and left a few times, but can never really seem to crack the code on this site/community.

Perhaps I am too passive or just can't get my personality to be conveyed through text on a page but just haven't really gotten much response from messages.

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By *orkGuyFunGuyMan
over a year ago

Cork

I’m on and off here all the time

For a few reasons, sometimes you might messaged a few people and they may not even open the message never mind say respond

And the fact that there’s probably a million guys to every couple or single female

Generally have more luck on all other sites

Then there’s times where there’s offers people actually messaging me first,

I come back generally out of curiosity, or to see the new couples or single females

But fab is just a boredom killer for me, have had meets, but as I said pretty much every other site is better

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I only left once and that was after a couple of hours on here and being over whelmed with messages even though I had a blank profile.

I joined again a few days later found the message filters pretty quickly that time and have been on here since.

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

We've never left, but have taken extend breaks from meeting for various, non-dramamtic reasons. We've never encountered any real drama on here so on our breaks we continued to chat and use the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Boredom pretty much covers it all really,I don't take anything serious , wether it's here or in the real world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ticked every box i wanted to, parties, events, socials. Ended up wanting a relationship for a bit…missed the craic here, fwbs i had & being who i am. So i joined back up recently & looking to have more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think of leaving many of times .. but I can't remb my password to log back in .. that's the god honest truth,those who know me knows I'm an air head but I'm a nice wan lol

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Here just going on 8yrs at this stage, ive never left but have logging out for weeks and months at a time when the place looses it's appeal or im just bored off my tits with it

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman
over a year ago

My town

I sctually don't know been here so long I really don't remember

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Left: boredom

Returned: boobs

Left: committed to boobs off fab

Returned: no longer committed to boobs off fab. Fab still had other boobs

Left: overwhelming sense of meh

Returened: you know why

"

Was it boobs ?

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By *unsigntwoCouple
over a year ago

athlone

We have Not left yet!! we have just taken breaks from here the odd time..

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By *nightrider777Man
over a year ago

Dublin

The site gets very boring from time to time, sometimes a break is like something new

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Sure we're only getting started, no intention of going anywhere yet

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By *allyWally19Woman
over a year ago

The Road to Nowhere

This is my 2nd profile. Left due to being in a relationship or 'committed to non fab cock'

Came back when the non fab cock was no longer available...I didn't want a relationship but missed intimacy etc. Realise I possibly could have found it on tinder etc but find fab to be more honest.

2nd time round, have made really great friends abd discovered socials etc.

I take breaks from time to time when life gets busy/overwhelming and what not. But for now at least, will not be deleting

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By *B 4099Man
over a year ago

North West, Outer Letterkenny area


"This is my 2nd profile. Left due to being in a relationship or 'committed to non fab cock'

Came back when the non fab cock was no longer available...I didn't want a relationship but missed intimacy etc. Realise I possibly could have found it on tinder etc but find fab to be more honest.

2nd time round, have made really great friends abd discovered socials etc.

I take breaks from time to time when life gets busy/overwhelming and what not. But for now at least, will not be deleting "

Same, bar the cock . 3rd profile, left after a heap of drama, rejoined but forgot my password and made a balls of it as it had a few nice verification s and photos I liked , not that either matter. And had this one for a while now. I do in and out. But as K said I find it more honest than anywhere else.

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

I'm here since 2012. I've never actually left but I've taken breaks and hidden my profile when I wasn't loving it. Some breaks lasted a year and some lasted days. It all depends on my own head space.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

Might you pm me your opinion on better sites please?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Nicely played op

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By *huCullainMan
over a year ago

Rathowen


"Sounds like a lot of drama causes people to leave

Then get drawn back to the site again..."

Aaaaaaaaaaaand....gone

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

So cool - made my day

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