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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why some guys say they straight when play with same sex , they either lieing to thems or at least put bi curious down ,I like potential meets be at least honest about sexuality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why some guys say they straight when play with same sex , they either lieing to thems or at least put bi curious down ,I like potential meets be at least honest about sexuality "

cos they dont want ppl to know their bi,i dont get when men meet tvs and say their straight when a tv is a guy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're all on here for the same thing and if ure not honest in ure profile then what's the point in being on here as its all about honesty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The lack of women willing to meet leaves little option? haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

True lol , found that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man being doesn't bother me in the slightest as when they're with me I assume they're looking for pussy not cock.

There are however those that really need to wake up to themselves and just enjoy being who they are rather than hiding it.

The site offers people choices they usually wouldn't get a chance to explore so i can see how someone could set up a profile with "straight" then meet people of the same sex...that goes for male and female...i know i've had my moments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think of it this way .

A girl telling her guy that she would like to explore her bi side will get a very enthusiastic smile from 9 out of 10 of the men .

A guy saying the same thing to their girl . Would it be as high as 1 out of 10.

Fact is lots of females on here froth at the mouth in fury at the idea of a bi guy . No bi guys is a very frequent statement .

As is said above by others why it should matter to a girl on a one on one meet if the guy is straight or not is a mystery .

But there are sound sensible reasons why guys say they are straight .

But I must admit "straight " with ringing endorsements from tv's is a bit daft

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By *heekygeordieguyMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Why some guys say they straight when play with same sex , they either lieing to thems or at least put bi curious down ,I like potential meets be at least honest about sexuality

cos they dont want ppl to know their bi,i dont get when men meet tvs and say their straight when a tv is a guy!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think preconceptions have a part in it too. If you were asked to picture a gay man in your mind you would think of someone like Alan Carr or Julian Carey or yer fella from Corrie. Think of lesbians and it's porn stars, Katy Perry and Anna Friel having THAT kiss..no competition really!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet again we're having this 'debate' over a guy's 'posted' sexuality. In my OPINION, a Bi guy will have sex with a woman or a man. The other man in question will be, in appearance & behaviour, exactly as any other man. No frills, no dressing up - all man.

NOW, a man who has endorsements from TV's/TS's is a man who has probably had sex, received / given oral (whatever, you know the scenarios) with another man who appears and acts like a woman (with varying degrees of accuracy etc., So in his mind he was having sex with someone who looked & behaved like a woman. Does it in some way mean that there is a greater chance of some kind of disease etc...? A straight man who has had sex with lots of female partners on here is just as likely to increase the risk of an STI as a man who has been intimate with another man.

It's telling that all of these threads have been started by women. I have yet to see a similar thread started by a gay / Bi / TV bemoaning similar declarations of peoples perceived sexuality.

Maybe SOME women aren't just as open minded as they declare. I mean, what does it matter to a woman / couple on Fab if a man they are chatting / interested in has been intimate with a TV or TS?

Don't we all practice safe sex? And, why the fuck does anyone give a damn? Everyone is on here to enjoy themselves. Instead of worrying about who someone has had fun with, then just put it on your profile that you're not going to consider playing with guys who have been with TV's etc.

What should anyone care about whether a man states he is straight or bi? Why would a woman care about that? You're here to have fun in your sex life, not marry someone and in my humble opinion, a bi male or female will be a bit broader minded and possibly more engaging than a straight person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yet again we're having this 'debate' over a guy's 'posted' sexuality. In my OPINION, a Bi guy will have sex with a woman or a man. The other man in question will be, in appearance & behaviour, exactly as any other man. No frills, no dressing up - all man.

NOW, a man who has endorsements from TV's/TS's is a man who has probably had sex, received / given oral (whatever, you know the scenarios) with another man who appears and acts like a woman (with varying degrees of accuracy etc., So in his mind he was having sex with someone who looked & behaved like a woman. Does it in some way mean that there is a greater chance of some kind of disease etc...? A straight man who has had sex with lots of female partners on here is just as likely to increase the risk of an STI as a man who has been intimate with another man.

It's telling that all of these threads have been started by women. I have yet to see a similar thread started by a gay / Bi / TV bemoaning similar declarations of peoples perceived sexuality.

Maybe SOME women aren't just as open minded as they declare. I mean, what does it matter to a woman / couple on Fab if a man they are chatting / interested in has been intimate with a TV or TS?

Don't we all practice safe sex? And, why the fuck does anyone give a damn? Everyone is on here to enjoy themselves. Instead of worrying about who someone has had fun with, then just put it on your profile that you're not going to consider playing with guys who have been with TV's etc.

What should anyone care about whether a man states he is straight or bi? Why would a woman care about that? You're here to have fun in your sex life, not marry someone and in my humble opinion, a bi male or female will be a bit broader minded and possibly more engaging than a straight person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I am bi and really enjoy playing both sides of the fence. But I think everyone's sexuality is unique and doesn't fit completely into any specific category definitively and is always evolving in thought if not in deed.

From experience there is certainly more of a taboo in m2m sex than any other kind. So that will make it more difficult for a guy to identify as bi readily. That's a societal thing that no one here will really make much of a dent in.

Guys will have various reasons for not identifying as bi to either themselves or others.

One question is though at what point is someone bi? Playing with a guy once, twice or five times?

There is no black and white fixed point were you stop being straight and become bi. The term bi-curious is vague and misleading because there are a lot of things about sex and sexuality I am still curious about whether with men or women.

I get hit on bi straight guys on here a lot it doesn't bother me. We all had to have our first lash at it to see if it was worth persuing. For me it was something that evolved over a good few meets as I got more courage and experience, I was going to say balls but I don't want to be punny . I didn't wake up straight one day and go to bed bi that night.

Anyway that's my two cents worth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I am bi and really enjoy playing both sides of the fence. But I think everyone's sexuality is unique and doesn't fit completely into any specific category definitively and is always evolving in thought if not in deed.

From experience there is certainly more of a taboo in m2m sex than any other kind. So that will make it more difficult for a guy to identify as bi readily. That's a societal thing that no one here will really make much of a dent in.

Guys will have various reasons for not identifying as bi to either themselves or others.

One question is though at what point is someone bi? Playing with a guy once, twice or five times?

There is no black and white fixed point were you stop being straight and become bi. The term bi-curious is vague and misleading because there are a lot of things about sex and sexuality I am still curious about whether with men or women.

I get hit on bi straight guys on here a lot it doesn't bother me. We all had to have our first lash at it to see if it was worth persuing. For me it was something that evolved over a good few meets as I got more courage and experience, I was going to say balls but I don't want to be punny . I didn't wake up straight one day and go to bed bi that night.

Anyway that's my two cents worth. "

I think a lot of people have problems with bi guys because they make certain assumptions about the type of man who is attracted to other men. Says more about them really!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yet again we're having this 'debate' over a guy's 'posted' sexuality. In my OPINION, a Bi guy will have sex with a woman or a man. The other man in question will be, in appearance & behaviour, exactly as any other man. No frills, no dressing up - all man.

NOW, a man who has endorsements from TV's/TS's is a man who has probably had sex, received / given oral (whatever, you know the scenarios) with another man who appears and acts like a woman (with varying degrees of accuracy etc., So in his mind he was having sex with someone who looked & behaved like a woman. Does it in some way mean that there is a greater chance of some kind of disease etc...? A straight man who has had sex with lots of female partners on here is just as likely to increase the risk of an STI as a man who has been intimate with another man.

It's telling that all of these threads have been started by women. I have yet to see a similar thread started by a gay / Bi / TV bemoaning similar declarations of peoples perceived sexuality.

Maybe SOME women aren't just as open minded as they declare. I mean, what does it matter to a woman / couple on Fab if a man they are chatting / interested in has been intimate with a TV or TS?

Don't we all practice safe sex? And, why the fuck does anyone give a damn? Everyone is on here to enjoy themselves. Instead of worrying about who someone has had fun with, then just put it on your profile that you're not going to consider playing with guys who have been with TV's etc.

What should anyone care about whether a man states he is straight or bi? Why would a woman care about that? You're here to have fun in your sex life, not marry someone and in my humble opinion, a bi male or female will be a bit broader minded and possibly more engaging than a straight person.

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Well said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just think people are just too judgemental on here at times. So what if a guy is bi? No one forcing you to meet them like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well - I'm bi, but I don't advertise it on my profile as such because I still prefer women - if that makes any sense? Posting as bi will get inundated with mail from bi/gay guys.

Also there isn't a name for a wee bit bi, as in only bi when horned up to the eyeballs etc.

Well maybe 2013 is the year to come clean lol

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By *ndymanchester1Man
over a year ago

salford

I've had bi curious on my profile for a year or so and although past the curious stage, not changed it to bi. Having read all threads above, does seem that a lot of cpls, even with a bi females, are homophobic about bi guys, as if he is going to jump the hubbies / parntners cock lol just a thought though, is it the female part of the cpl who is worried that he may have bi thoughts? (How many women say their fella is 110% str8, why the need to state that's? Or is it the guy who is uncomfortable with his own sexuality? Does pee me off that bi ladies are almost an expectation on here, although placing bi or bi curious as a male on here gets regular knock backs specifically cause it says bi. I think it's called being small minded, but I'm all for everyone's freedom of speech, do think that if all the bi curious guys out their stated it truthfully on their profiles, there would be far less discrimination

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just think people are just too judgemental on here at times. So what if a guy is bi? No one forcing you to meet them like."
...... That's fine when they are honest about it ! But when you read a so called straight mans profile and see he has been shagging a cock in a frock but still calls himself straight well that's something else ! Would you kiss a woman if her tongue was buried up a hairy mans arse ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a hard 1, if u put ur bi etc them some women get put off.

im bi but love women more and do like the odd cock

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By *ndymanchester1Man
over a year ago

salford


"I just think people are just too judgemental on here at times. So what if a guy is bi? No one forcing you to meet them like....... That's fine when they are honest about it ! But when you read a so called straight mans profile and see he has been shagging a cock in a frock but still calls himself straight well that's something else ! Would you kiss a woman if her tongue was buried up a hairy mans arse ??? "

But if the guy is placing fact on his profile feedback that he has met tv he surely is being honest he could of left it off. No different from the masses of guys who have str8 on profile and then message you as bi

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By *abybellWoman
over a year ago

mid-ulster


"I just think people are just too judgemental on here at times. So what if a guy is bi? No one forcing you to meet them like."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just think people are just too judgemental on here at times. So what if a guy is bi? No one forcing you to meet them like....... That's fine when they are honest about it ! But when you read a so called straight mans profile and see he has been shagging a cock in a frock but still calls himself straight well that's something else ! Would you kiss a woman if her tongue was buried up a hairy mans arse ??? "

So Natasha's logic is that she won't shag a bi guy because she is worried he previously had his tongue up a hairy guys ass .

I have to say I don't find that image exciting myself but perhaps if you thought about other things when you at it with a guy you don't know that well you might enjoy it more . after all he is by being on this a guy who sleeps around and you don't exactly know what he did to who the night or indeed hour before .

Or maybe folk need to stop deluding themselves about others and remember this is a swing site where people who don't know each other that well meet and have shock horror SEX

And remember sex is only messy if its really good .

For those of you who are worried where his tongue has been, try the "together forever us alone " room third website on the left .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have seen some fellas getting freaked out by other fellas watching them on cam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really think that people are Bi...

just greedy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But you are not in the straight comunity Natasha,you are in the bi going by your profile so you are at risk whether male or female.

In fact all who play in here are at high risk and that includes me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't really think that people are Bi...

just greedy... "

Pmsl thats a good one dave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a sex site

If your not up for it try fishing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I ! Would you kiss a woman if her tongue was buried up a hairy mans arse ??? "

Errrrrrr Natasha what the hell has a women rimming a man got to do with being bi? But to answer your question yes I think it would be very rude not to kiss a women if she has rimmed me and I always do.

Anyway sexual preference is so diverse and society has put such taboos and constraints on what is 'proper and right' that we are either unable to agree on definitions that accurately categorize ourselves or we are shamed into appearing to be something we are not.

Plus we should not judge others preferences or desires as long as they dont harm others.

Another 2 cents.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had sexual encounters with women but I'm not bi. I don't seek women as sexual partners but am not disgusted by the thought and in certain situations it has happened. So far as I'm concerned, I'm straight.

What's the difference? Why do we need to define our sexuality? It is always evolving, as we do, with age and experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sexuality is a bit more complicated than a few predefined myopic labels.

better to accept it rather than persecute .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Would you kiss a woman if her tongue was buried up a hairy mans arse ??? "

No different to kissing a woman who has had her mouth stuffed with a man's cock!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes I am bi very proud of it at least straight up and honest about it ,nothing hidden about my sexuality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I am bi very proud of it at least straight up and honest about it ,nothing hidden about my sexuality "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok before all the Bi ladies give each other high fives....

The entire threat without contradiction acknowledges that it is rarely a problem for women to declare themselves bi because frankly, Like Red, people dont give a damn.

Its also acknowledged through the messages that its an entirely different kettle of fish for men to declare themselves bi.

So less of the backslapping perhaps?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok before all the Bi ladies give each other high fives....

The entire threat without contradiction acknowledges that it is rarely a problem for women to declare themselves bi because frankly, Like Red, people dont give a damn.

Its also acknowledged through the messages that its an entirely different kettle of fish for men to declare themselves bi.

So less of the backslapping perhaps?"

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