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By *igMartyRebel OP   Man
over a year ago

East Cork

Evening all you Fab people.

I’m fairly new to this site and I’m finding it hard to get a reply to most messages never mind trying to organize a meet. I see most people won’t meet or chat to anyone that has no verifications. How am I ever meant to get a verification if no one will talk to me never mind agree to meet???

I’m on the verge of giving up but hoping for some advice here first. Thanks all.

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By *ol_ieMan
over a year ago

Dublin west

You only here a few weeks and yeah its difficult to get to meet people.

Have a look at the help a fabber thread which will get you meeting people and keep an eye out for the coffee socials which pop up now and again.

It takes time and patience and if you dont have that you wont get anywhere really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Check out help a fabber thread on here

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By *igMartyRebel OP   Man
over a year ago

East Cork

Thanks for the advice. I’ve posted on that Help a Fabber thread already so I’ll keep my fingers crossed.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hi op

I'd suggest searching the forums profile help/advice it a great tool with loads of helpful advice among the pile of threads from previous folk whom asked similar as yourself. With help left by fellow users

Good luck

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

Two socials for unverified people in Dublin this month. Maybe try to get to one of those? Thread is here:

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/ireland/1405318

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By *igMartyRebel OP   Man
over a year ago

East Cork


"Two socials for unverified people in Dublin this month. Maybe try to get to one of those? Thread is here:

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/ireland/1405318"

Thanks for the advice guys but unfortunately Dublin is a bit far for a social meet up for me x.

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By *mperiumMan
over a year ago

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Post a bit around the forums. Get your personality out there.

Worked for me and I have no public pics or bio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Post a bit around the forums. Get your personality out there.

Worked for me and I have no public pics or bio "

But you have 11 apartments there’s bound too be one with a veri

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick


"Two socials for unverified people in Dublin this month. Maybe try to get to one of those? Thread is here:

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/ireland/1405318

Thanks for the advice guys but unfortunately Dublin is a bit far for a social meet up for me x. "

If you're not willing to leave Cork then you have an uphill battle i'm afraid. Good luck

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By *orndog272Man
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

In the same boat unfortunately, I don't even get replies to messages never mind meets, how the hell can you get verifications when you can't even get a social meet, frustrated.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Two socials for unverified people in Dublin this month. Maybe try to get to one of those? Thread is here:

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/ireland/1405318

Thanks for the advice guys but unfortunately Dublin is a bit far for a social meet up for me x.

If you're not willing to leave Cork then you have an uphill battle i'm afraid. Good luck "

Like a lot of people I travel all over for socials or events. Buses trains or even hitching a lift from the sexy couple I'm replying to. Things aren't going to land into your lap on Fab unfortunately. I once has guy make round trip from Cork to Kildare to get a social coffee which he said was totally worth the spin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lads it’s frowned upon on here it’s like poor old me

As for us we were verified by the site as a face picture couple with all the site asked for

He enjoys the forums probably annoys some people

As for me I’m not too hopeful

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

It's trivially easy for a couple to get meet verified. If you aren't then you either aren't a couple or you aren't trying at all.

Not the same for men.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"In the same boat unfortunately, I don't even get replies to messages never mind meets, how the hell can you get verifications when you can't even get a social meet, frustrated.com"

Hiya

Try getting on cam and mingle with others

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Two socials for unverified people in Dublin this month. Maybe try to get to one of those? Thread is here:

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/ireland/1405318

Thanks for the advice guys but unfortunately Dublin is a bit far for a social meet up for me x.

If you're not willing to leave Cork then you have an uphill battle i'm afraid. Good luck

Like a lot of people I travel all over for socials or events. Buses trains or even hitching a lift from the sexy couple I'm replying to. Things aren't going to land into your lap on Fab unfortunately. I once has guy make round trip from Cork to Kildare to get a social coffee which he said was totally worth the spin "

I'd swim across if I knew it was worth it but knowing me I'd drown as can't

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By *igMartyRebel OP   Man
over a year ago

East Cork


"Lads it’s frowned upon on here it’s like poor old me

As for us we were verified by the site as a face picture couple with all the site asked for

He enjoys the forums probably annoys some people

As for me I’m not too hopeful "

I’m photo verified by the site, just not verified by any actual users!

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By *mperiumMan
over a year ago

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"Post a bit around the forums. Get your personality out there.

Worked for me and I have no public pics or bio

But you have 11 apartments there’s bound too be one with a veri "

10 now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The country ain't that bloody big, I've driven to kildare for lunch eith favvers, gone to athlone twice to meet with fabbers.

There's a social this Sunday afternoon in Galway.

I mentioned having one in kildare this Sunday but was told by 2 guys that messaged that kildare village be too busy to be seen having a coffee with another adult lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's trivially easy for a couple to get meet verified. If you aren't then you either aren't a couple or you aren't trying at all.

Not the same for men."

Trying what??too prove we are a couple ask the MOD you’ve asked them enough of times to intervene on specific thread’s

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over a year ago

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By *mperiumMan
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's trivially easy for a couple to get meet verified. If you aren't then you either aren't a couple or you aren't trying at all.

Not the same for men."

Probably want to change your age range aswell seems most of yer veri’s

Are outside what ye or you are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's trivially easy for a couple to get meet verified. If you aren't then you either aren't a couple or you aren't trying at all.

Not the same for men.

Probably want to change your age range aswell seems most of yer veri’s

Are outside what ye or you are looking for "

Never mind asking people too buy tickets to certain events and if ye buy then we or you will veri

Mmm night

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"It's trivially easy for a couple to get meet verified. If you aren't then you either aren't a couple or you aren't trying at all.

Not the same for men.

Trying what??too prove we are a couple ask the MOD you’ve asked them enough of times to intervene on specific thread’s "

You know what I mean. I stand by my comment. A real couple can very very easily get verified from an inperson meet. We get offers daily and I'm sure you do too. Even just for a coffee. In a year? Makes me hmmmmmmmm.

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By *mperiumMan
over a year ago

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"It's trivially easy for a couple to get meet verified. If you aren't then you either aren't a couple or you aren't trying at all.

Not the same for men.

Probably want to change your age range aswell seems most of yer veri’s

Are outside what ye or you are looking for

Never mind asking people too buy tickets to certain events and if ye buy then we or you will veri

Mmm night "

Want pepper with that salt Ste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What? Really?? I would have travelled anywhere if that means I will be in good company and verified at the end of it.

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