FabSwingers.com forum: When is it time to call an End to Fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Here as part of a couple our Fab life is non existent not out of choice we message try to meet. Outside 2 party nights we have never meet any body or been invited to we are very polite... To other messages seen on trends yes we understand we are not everyone's cup of tea. You would like to think surely there's fun here for everyone..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the fun stops stop.

I think I'll trademark that

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By *traight sligoguy67Man
over a year ago

sligo

I wasn't expecting that I thought a couple would get plenty of attention

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Didn't you click w8th any of the people who you met socially, or who verified you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think only you can decide when fab is done for you.

What were your expectations from the site?

I am friends with a good few couples on here and they said it can be hard to meet because as such there are 4 people involved and getting that attraction can be difficult and noone should just take one for the team.

I have taken a step completely from meeting and I'm just enjoying the social side for now.

Maybe take a break for a while or get to a social or two and see what happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 party nights?

….. That’s just showing off

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We did but never heard nothing after

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By *traight sligoguy67Man
over a year ago

sligo

"2 party nights?

….. That’s just showing off

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

My opinion never, because the experience and adventures continue people leave people join which adds to further enjoyable moments I say from length of time I've been here, everything has its ups and downs at times but are many ways to use the time here socials can be extremely good fun meeting like minded people on a regular basis

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Did ye enjoy the party nights you've been to.....did ye intend to play before ye went ...did ye stay in the same hotel as most others

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

Our first rule - we have no expectations.

No expectations, no disappointments.

If the socials, exchange of messages and forum interactions haven't given you what you are looking for, then it's either time to revisit your expectations, change how you use Fab (change up profile, interact on Forum, set up your own socials and/or parties, attend parties further afield/closer to home etc as examples) or take a break/end your Fab journey.

Wishing you all the best in your decision and endeavours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We did but never heard nothing after "

Have you taken the initiative and followed up some of the connections you've made yourselves? Sometimes you need to take the lead and make things happen rather than waiting for them to happen.

Perhaps try and get to a few socials in your area which could help make connections

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By *ornywife20Couple
over a year ago

North Cork

We chatted on fab. Taught you were a,lovely couple but you guys live around 3 hours from us . I work 6 days most weeks so the taught of a 3 hour drive at 5 pm Saturday. Doesn't do much .

We always insist on a no pressure no expectations coffee meet first then if everyone gets along we arrange a play date after . We have made a lot of good friends on here probably won't play with a lot of them but we are still friends and look forward to meeting the

at socials. It took us a,while to get of first few plays too it happens when you meet the right couple . It's early days yet guys hang in there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You know when you know to give anything up , when things become more hassle than what they're worth , not just here but in every day real life too.

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By *artinaAndrewCouple
over a year ago

mountmellick

Always expect the unexpected but that's life in general. No point rushing it and Always go with your gut. We've been so lucky here and met amazing people. Take a step back if you need to, when your not looking thats when you'll find it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With anything you reap what you sow.

Do you expect people to approach ye for invitations? If your not interactive on the site usually you'll be in the shadows and forgotten.

I have taken time away from site and on return you usually find your more enthusiastic.

All the best in your decision

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