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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do the ladies on here even get a chance to browse male profiles due to the amount of messages they receive! Just saw one status on a female profile! 1000 messages in 12 hours!! Crazy!!! Any thoughts on this ladies or ideas so how fab can deal with this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab already does provide the tools...filters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People and profiles come and go,for various reasons.

Men message women for meets,more than women will message for a meet.

Men (some of them) tend to send rather crude messages.

Some females join up here,already with an attitude.

Its swings and roundabouts on Fab.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Fab already does provide the tools...filters. "

Yep pretty much this. Using your filters can completely lessen the amount of messages you get if you don't want loads. You can even stop all incoming messaging as well .So no there is nothing else that needs to be done.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

If you don't want to get loads of messages use filters and filter the fuck out of your profile simples really anyone who gets a 1000 messages obviously doesn't mind and enjoys the attention otherwise you'd have filters on

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork

Redress the balance

Spread the word.....

I'm sure there are lots of females out there who would love to play but they have never hard of Fab.

For instance the many Eastern European, (not displaced Ukrainian), ladies who have been living here for years are an untapped Fab demographic. If you will pardon the pun. They are very active on dating sites but not too many on here I would think.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

They're just letting you know they are a fab celeb and how popular they are so I wouldn't worry too much about it.

It's kinda like a woman in a dick measuring contest without the sky remote

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By *ancy38Woman
over a year ago

galway

Even though I want to meet men, I have them filterd out. It was relentless from them on here. I even had one send me the same msg twice a day for weeks before I eventually blocked him.

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By *rtful dodgerMan
over a year ago

Dublin Galway Belfast


"If you don't want to get loads of messages use filters and filter the fuck out of your profile simples really anyone who gets a 1000 messages obviously doesn't mind and enjoys the attention otherwise you'd have filters on"

Right Lolly I need to know how you made this emoji lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message filters and profile filters like all the other ladies here said . No one needs to deal with all that it would ruin your fab experience

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Great response The sky remote!!! Hilarious! Thank you !

Thanks to everyone for responding so far

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By *on Draper2.0Man
over a year ago

Maynooth


"Redress the balance

Spread the word.....

I'm sure there are lots of females out there who would love to play but they have never hard of Fab.

For instance the many Eastern European, (not displaced Ukrainian), ladies who have been living here for years are an untapped Fab demographic. If you will pardon the pun. They are very active on dating sites but not too many on here I would think.

"

Most are quite reserved and this isn't for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is also an issue in that 1 or 2 females (who shall remain nameless) will put up a meet status,saying they "want a meet now",or "to be fucked right now by 2 lads/message me for address".

But then 30 minutes later they are whinging and publicly naming members for being rude or crude.

Theres 2 particular female members here on Fab,who I have noticed do this alot.

Whether drink,drugs or mental heath issues are to play too,I dont know.

But I tend to avoid people like that,as its just silly childish carry on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm gonna say receiving no messages in months is a bigger hardship than getting 1000

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even though I want to meet men, I have them filterd out. It was relentless from them on here. I even had one send me the same msg twice a day for weeks before I eventually blocked him. "

Hard to know if you'd admire his persistence or stupidity??

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"If you don't want to get loads of messages use filters and filter the fuck out of your profile simples really anyone who gets a 1000 messages obviously doesn't mind and enjoys the attention otherwise you'd have filters on

Right Lolly I need to know how you made this emoji lol"

You just did it ....

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By *rtful dodgerMan
over a year ago

Dublin Galway Belfast


"If you don't want to get loads of messages use filters and filter the fuck out of your profile simples really anyone who gets a 1000 messages obviously doesn't mind and enjoys the attention otherwise you'd have filters on

Right Lolly I need to know how you made this emoji lol

That was a quote but I know now thanks Lolly

You just did it ...."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't matter how many messages ladies get the well written ones will stand out in the cesspool of spam messages saying nice tits wanna bang messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't matter how many messages ladies get the well written ones will stand out in the cesspool of spam messages saying nice tits wanna bang messages. "

Thats true,but to a certain extent only.

Other factors can apply too.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Funnily enough, a status about getting a shit load of mail is just going to result in more mail…it’s attention seeking imo.

I have sympathy for newbies getting flooded with mail before finding their filters but no sympathy for people who have been here for a while and still whinge about their boxes being full.

It’s fairly easy to keep a handle on your inbox tbh.

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast


"Fab already does provide the tools...filters.

Yep pretty much this. Using your filters can completely lessen the amount of messages you get if you don't want loads. You can even stop all incoming messaging as well .So no there is nothing else that needs to be done."

What? There’s women on here who don’t want loads? What am I going to do with this loaded gun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't matter how many messages ladies get the well written ones will stand out in the cesspool of spam messages saying nice tits wanna bang messages. "

Never sent a message saying nice tits wanna bang!!!

I'm guessing it doesn't work??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn't matter how many messages ladies get the well written ones will stand out in the cesspool of spam messages saying nice tits wanna bang messages.

Never sent a message saying nice tits wanna bang!!!

I'm guessing it doesn't work??

"

It only works if you add a dick pic

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...


"If you don't want to get loads of messages use filters and filter the fuck out of your profile simples really anyone who gets a 1000 messages obviously doesn't mind and enjoys the attention otherwise you'd have filters on

Right Lolly I need to know how you made this emoji lol

That was a quote but I know now thanks Lolly

You just did it ...."

We got there in the end

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork


"Redress the balance

Spread the word.....

I'm sure there are lots of females out there who would love to play but they have never hard of Fab.

For instance the many Eastern European, (not displaced Ukrainian), ladies who have been living here for years are an untapped Fab demographic. If you will pardon the pun. They are very active on dating sites but not too many on here I would think.

Most are quite reserved and this isn't for them. "

In my experience quite the opposite.

I find them to be much more outgoing than a lot of Irish women and they really like to dress nicely and party.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tbf the lack of responses I’ve been getting makes total sense now, did not realise it was that bad for some profiles on here. Haven’t been mailing that many women (just the ones that caught my eye or seemed a bit intriguing) but most of the time they go unread. Can only imagine how overwhelming it must be getting swamped like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dated a lady from Lithunia for 3 months before.

Wanted to be driven everywhere,couldnt walk,or use a Dublin Bus.She expected me to pay for everything,never once did she buy a drink or meal,or go halves with me on anything.

She freaked out when I said I would get the bus into town,and meet her in there.

I was told,"where I come from,man drive woman everyehere and pay for everything".

My reply,after having enough of her,was,"Maybe you should go back to where you came from".

Blocked her number,and went to the pub for a well deserved cold pint.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dated a lady from Lithunia for 3 months before.

Wanted to be driven everywhere,couldnt walk,or use a Dublin Bus.She expected me to pay for everything,never once did she buy a drink or meal,or go halves with me on anything.

She freaked out when I said I would get the bus into town,and meet her in there.

I was told,"where I come from,man drive woman everyehere and pay for everything".

My reply,after having enough of her,was,"Maybe you should go back to where you came from".

Blocked her number,and went to the pub for a well deserved cold pint.

"

Ouch!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dated a lady from Lithunia for 3 months before.

Wanted to be driven everywhere,couldnt walk,or use a Dublin Bus.She expected me to pay for everything,never once did she buy a drink or meal,or go halves with me on anything.

She freaked out when I said I would get the bus into town,and meet her in there.

I was told,"where I come from,man drive woman everyehere and pay for everything".

My reply,after having enough of her,was,"Maybe you should go back to where you came from".

Blocked her number,and went to the pub for a well deserved cold pint.

Ouch!!! "

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

God bless filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never get any message from ladies on here ,as I'am real and looking

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork


"Dated a lady from Lithunia for 3 months before.

Wanted to be driven everywhere,couldnt walk,or use a Dublin Bus.She expected me to pay for everything,never once did she buy a drink or meal,or go halves with me on anything.

She freaked out when I said I would get the bus into town,and meet her in there.

I was told,"where I come from,man drive woman everyehere and pay for everything".

My reply,after having enough of her,was,"Maybe you should go back to where you came from".

Blocked her number,and went to the pub for a well deserved cold pint.

"

Liked to be driven

...opportunity for car fun.

Not liked walking

...probably liked wearing heels.

Not paying for things

...... hopefully paid you back in other ways

Sounds like a very classy discerning lady.

Pint of bitter by the sound of your reply.....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Message filters and profile filters like all the other ladies here said . No one needs to deal with all that it would ruin your fab experience "

Absolutely.

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By *rtful dodgerMan
over a year ago

Dublin Galway Belfast

Some fascinating opinions

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford


"Do the ladies on here even get a chance to browse male profiles due to the amount of messages they receive! Just saw one status on a female profile! 1000 messages in 12 hours!! Crazy!!! Any thoughts on this ladies or ideas so how fab can deal with this? "

I'm sure they do .... considering the amount of women who post on here saying they don't read them cause there's sooooooo many

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork


"Do the ladies on here even get a chance to browse male profiles due to the amount of messages they receive! Just saw one status on a female profile! 1000 messages in 12 hours!! Crazy!!! Any thoughts on this ladies or ideas so how fab can deal with this? "

Laura deals with this by mostly ignoring her inbox completely unless there is someone is particular she's chatting to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funnily enough, a status about getting a shit load of mail is just going to result in more mail…it’s attention seeking imo.

I have sympathy for newbies getting flooded with mail before finding their filters but no sympathy for people who have been here for a while and still whinge about their boxes being full.

It’s fairly easy to keep a handle on your inbox tbh. "

Yup

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do the ladies on here even get a chance to browse male profiles due to the amount of messages they receive! Just saw one status on a female profile! 1000 messages in 12 hours!! Crazy!!! Any thoughts on this ladies or ideas so how fab can deal with this?

Laura deals with this by mostly ignoring her inbox completely unless there is someone is particular she's chatting to."

That for me is the easiest way to deal with it here. It seems to get on some people's nerves about the volume of messages that some get here. Like who cares enjoy your journey here. look after your own inbox and focus on that. We all are here long enough to know that no matter what we do here there will always be someone who will criticise how others do things. There's no filter that will protect against that as it doesn't fit into a category or an age group. So for me the best filter for not just messages is ignore ignore ignore.

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By *adhatter and coCouple
over a year ago

Middle of mayo n peaceful tranquility

Keep the filters off . Read the messages then mark as unread . Let the messages build up so you can screenshot pics of your profile for kik groups with the huge number of messages showing

Look at me I’m sooooooo popular , I can’t cope with all the messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dated a lady from Lithunia for 3 months before.

Wanted to be driven everywhere,couldnt walk,or use a Dublin Bus.She expected me to pay for everything,never once did she buy a drink or meal,or go halves with me on anything.

She freaked out when I said I would get the bus into town,and meet her in there.

I was told,"where I come from,man drive woman everyehere and pay for everything".

My reply,after having enough of her,was,"Maybe you should go back to where you came from".

Blocked her number,and went to the pub for a well deserved cold pint.

"

Some man you are lol

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"Doesn't matter how many messages ladies get the well written ones will stand out in the cesspool of spam messages saying nice tits wanna bang messages. "

But they are

And yes I do

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