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By *olves at bay OP   Couple
over a year ago

cork

Myself and Mr wolf drove from cork to the middle of roscommon for a meet. In fairness we where a tad late. But she was well informed hours before hand. However. Our messages did not deliver till 4:30. And was told still got go ahead. As we pulled in to the place at 6. She said she would only 5 min. 10 to 7 now. And messages are not going through any more. So wondering should give another half hour cut our losses and leave? Or give her a bit more time?

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Time to leave and try and enjoy the rest of the evening

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I'd leave. If she said that long ago she was going to be 5 mins and still isn't there you have waited long enough.As BM said leave and enjoy the rest of your evening together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh that's so unfair!

A drive back to Cork on New Year's is no fun. Wish I could offer an alternative. Perhaps book into a hotel at short notice. If they have availability they'll probably be cheap and there'll be some craic. The Abbey Hotel looks nice from the website - never been.

Hope you have some fun for new years!

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By *phrodite72Woman
over a year ago

dublin/galway

I think you have given her enough time

Shitty thing to do to anyone but especially new years eve

Hopefully ye can salvage the evening and have a good time

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"Myself and Mr wolf drove from cork to the middle of roscommon for a meet. In fairness we where a tad late. But she was well informed hours before hand. However. Our messages did not deliver till 4:30. And was told still got go ahead. As we pulled in to the place at 6. She said she would only 5 min. 10 to 7 now. And messages are not going through any more. So wondering should give another half hour cut our losses and leave? Or give her a bit more time?"

Report and move on,try to enjoy yourselves on way back.

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By *olves at bay OP   Couple
over a year ago

cork


"Oh that's so unfair!

A drive back to Cork on New Year's is no fun. Wish I could offer an alternative. Perhaps book into a hotel at short notice. If they have availability they'll probably be cheap and there'll be some craic. The Abbey Hotel looks nice from the website - never been.

Hope you have some fun for new years!"

Luckily Mr wolf does not drink. So drive back is not to much an issue. He's furious on my behalf. as the whole point of my being on here is so I can get to play with other women.

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

You drove from cork to Roscommon on New Year’s Eve for what looks like your first face to face meet with someone you haven’t met before ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad form . Report and block and enjoy your evening

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By *olves at bay OP   Couple
over a year ago

cork


"You drove from cork to Roscommon on New Year’s Eve for what looks like your first face to face meet with someone you haven’t met before ? "

Tbh Mr wolfs fuckery radar was going off in the days leading up to. I and the woman where in contact a lot on phone etc. So for me he hoped against hope. As I was soooo excited. He made contingent'ish plans for just the two of us. So there's that. Just have to drive back to cork

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By *arper8000Man
over a year ago

cork

Head back, call to me when your passing,for tea... break the journey

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

What a shitty thing to do ive never stood up anyone always showed up even if others didnt but that only happened once . Safe journey home and happy new year to ye both

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"You drove from cork to Roscommon on New Year’s Eve for what looks like your first face to face meet with someone you haven’t met before ?

Tbh Mr wolfs fuckery radar was going off in the days leading up to. I and the woman where in contact a lot on phone etc. So for me he hoped against hope. As I was soooo excited. He made contingent'ish plans for just the two of us. So there's that. Just have to drive back to cork "

Trust your / his instinct more and learn from it is all you can do now ......hopefully you find what you're looking for eventually

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By *urfdudeMan
over a year ago

WEXFORD

Maybe she got cold feet, bad form though

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By *olves at bay OP   Couple
over a year ago

cork


"Maybe she got cold feet, bad form though"

Can understand cold fert. But don't leave us sitting here like saps lol

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By *oeDolansBrotherMan
over a year ago

South county

To be honest, it happens. You just got to say fuck it and move on.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

Have you messaged her since?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a nice situation to be in on New Year's Eve. Is there anyone you know between Roscommon and Cork that would put you up ? Or give you a pit stop..its a long disappointing drive home

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By *overs65Couple
over a year ago

mullingar

Out the gap guys,bit of seductive chat on way home ,find a quiet spot if things heat up,only saying!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh God OP, that is so disrespectful, we've had our fair share of these also, we planned to meet couples previously only for the male to msg and say she was staying out with friends or late at work and to carry on and enjoy ourselves with him. So disheartening seeing these kinda posts.

We left fabswingers a few months back and only just rejoined and are much more careful now.

We'd gladly arrange to meet up with you both sometime.

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By *s979Man
over a year ago

same

Hopefully some good will come out from that disappointing trip.at least you have each other.

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By *olves at bay OP   Couple
over a year ago

cork

Home and thanks guys for support.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's some driving OP Happy New year to you both.

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By *olves at bay OP   Couple
over a year ago

cork


"That's some driving OP Happy New year to you both. "

Lol.. I did not have e to do it. My owner did. Luckily it rained for most of the time back so it calmed him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's some driving OP Happy New year to you both.

Lol.. I did not have e to do it. My owner did. Luckily it rained for most of the time back so it calmed him. "

HAPPY NEW YEAR FOLKS.

Glad to hear your home safely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm curious did the person eventually reply to your messages. It's a shitty thing to happen but don't take it personally people are flaky af here. I hope you have plenty of adventures in 2023 to make up for it

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By *tanonieMan
over a year ago

killorglin

Oh my thats bad form now . Been there done that and bought the t-shirt. Grrr. Heres wishing you both better luck in 2023 plus a happy new year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately this place is full of Timewasters and ghosters, glad ye're home safe & sound .

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By *olves at bay OP   Couple
over a year ago

cork


"I'm curious did the person eventually reply to your messages. It's a shitty thing to happen but don't take it personally people are flaky af here. I hope you have plenty of adventures in 2023 to make up for it"

No. Messages still not even delivered. So assuming I'm blocked lol. Oh I don't. Lesson learned. And that's dont beleive even if veri'd and gold site supporters. Which the person is. Will deffo make it harder for genuine women. To even get a coffee meet.

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"I'm curious did the person eventually reply to your messages. It's a shitty thing to happen but don't take it personally people are flaky af here. I hope you have plenty of adventures in 2023 to make up for it

No. Messages still not even delivered. So assuming I'm blocked lol. Oh I don't. Lesson learned. And that's dont beleive even if veri'd and gold site supporters. Which the person is. Will deffo make it harder for genuine women. To even get a coffee meet. "

Im a nosy fooker

You said earlier you had lots of phone contact, was that actually talking or text? Like did you actually hear a female voice?

And well verified? Perhaps life got in the way - scorned hubby found out or something?

Ps you can't message if you are blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Will deffo make it harder for genuine women"

I lol'd

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