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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are you happy to go to another person's house for a meet or are hotels preferred?

And is it wise to bring meets to your home?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer hotels. We never accommodate. Depending on the person and how comfortable we all are with each other, we may go to someone else's house.

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By *itemeagainMan
over a year ago

Wexford

Depends on who

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I prefer hotel meets for a first time sex meet.

I can accommodate I choose not to unless I know the person really well only then will I invite them to my home.

I will never ever go to someone's house for a meet until I know them well also. I made that mistake once on here when I agreed to go to a guys house for a coffee and chat as his car was in the garage. Turns out he didn't actually have a car and he expected a lot more than a coffee and chat as well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I suppose we are all adults and can make our own decisions, I'd bring someone to my place no bother just not as first meet though, price of hotels is too much imo

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've turned down offers from women who insisted on only meeting in their own homes.

If they had so little concern for their own personal safety by inviting me as a complete stranger into their home they weren't people I had any interest in engaging with any further.

I much prefer hotel meets but that will only ever happen after at least one social.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We prefer hotels. My home is my refuge from the world.

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By *mmmm300Woman
over a year ago

cork

I would never accommodate unless I knew someone well. I also find something very bold and fun about hotel bars, lifts and rooms. Lol

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By *ubal1Man
over a year ago

Newry Down

It depends, but I am very much more cautious than I used to be; some people can misinterpret signals and others are simply out for themselves, and will do whatever is required to get whatever they want!

I think we have all been burned at some time, and thankfully lived to tell the tale; in one instance I had to beat a hasty exit for the front door after things took a nasty turn.

My home is now my refuge, my sanctuary and offlimits to all but a select few.

The watchword is to tread very cautiously, VERY.

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast


"I would never accommodate unless I knew someone well. I also find something very bold and fun about hotel bars, lifts and rooms. Lol"

Exactly, it’s very horny flirting and imagining what it’s going to be like when you go upstairs

Then when you can’t resist in the lift

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By *ild WomanWoman
over a year ago

Carlow

First meet is always public place and if that not their cup of tea then I'm not for them either.

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By *LIVEANDKICKING100Man
over a year ago

DUBLIN

Only after a few meetings when a bit of trust has been established.

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By *ymbunny2016Man
over a year ago

Bangor

Few not great experiences accommodating for people has put me off a bit! Depends on the situation.

Neutral ground sometimes makes for more relaxed meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would never accommodate unless I knew someone well. I also find something very bold and fun about hotel bars, lifts and rooms. Lol

Exactly, it’s very horny flirting and imagining what it’s going to be like when you go upstairs

Then when you can’t resist in the lift "

Exactly! I personally love hotels

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast


"I would never accommodate unless I knew someone well. I also find something very bold and fun about hotel bars, lifts and rooms. Lol

Exactly, it’s very horny flirting and imagining what it’s going to be like when you go upstairs

Then when you can’t resist in the lift

Exactly! I personally love hotels "

There’s a few of us “romantics” still on here

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By *amien88Man
over a year ago

wicklow

Hotel work best I find

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By *s979Man
over a year ago

same

I prefer to meet at a hotel,wouldn't be comfortable meeting at someone's house unless we had met a few times

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By *otass and scorpioCouple
over a year ago

limerick cork tipperary clare waterford

Both work fine … we’ve been to others homes and we’ve had them at ours too .. and we’ve met at hotels …all of them are good

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By *astelloWoman
over a year ago

Far far away

As a female I take my safety very seriously. I won't go to a person's home unless I know them. Initially I was naive but I've learned. I prefer to meet socially first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a hotel you can relax more , if it's a person's own place you or them, if it's at their place, are always open to an unexpected or uninvited person just dropping by .

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By *ind PaddyMan
over a year ago

South County Dublin

I've been unfortunate not to have any play for ages , which does not bother me now.

A social met first, you have to build up trust and feel you are comfortable with the other person.

I could never host anyway but would prefer, dinner and hotel met, if I was lucky and did not say the wrong thing

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By *huCullainMan
over a year ago

Rathowen

I've no problem accommodating after a meet or 2 if I get the right vibe off her/them.

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By *exbombABCMan
over a year ago

BLANCHARDSTOWN

Me personally I’d prefer to go to a hotel spend the night there. If it was someone I could trust and knew I would take them to mine save money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First meet is social, next depends on how well u get on with the guy, love hotel meets,the anticipation, enjoying the flirting and teasing. Going to get dinner and drinks and flirting.

Need to feel comfortable with a guy to stay at his or have a guy t stay at mine.

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By *urfdudeMan
over a year ago

WEXFORD

It depends on the person, I have done in the past, but a hotel is neutral territory

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I don't accommodate myself for various reasons but I've had quite a few private accommodation encounters at theirs. Love them, especially when they cook dinner for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't accommodate myself for various reasons but I've had quite a few private accommodation encounters at theirs. Love them, especially when they cook dinner for me. "

I'll phone us a Chinese for next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are you happy to go to another person's house for a meet or are hotels preferred?

And is it wise to bring meets to your home? "

Whats this thing you call a hotel?

Are they like some sort of reception centre?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotels, I’ve been invited into some disgusting houses

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Hotel meets perfered but ive gone to one or two peoples home's that ive known really well i don't have anyone to my home as it's my private space

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere


"Hotels, I’ve been invited into some disgusting houses "

You should see some of the hotels I've been in

Joking

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By *ebelRoadMan
over a year ago

Cork / Wexford

Hotel meet as my home isn't for Fab use.

There has to be some safety in this Fab life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree! Going to someone’s house that you’ve never met beforehand is a big no no ! I know a guy who got beaten up by the husband and had money extracted from him or else wife was going g to shout r**e . Be careful out there Fabbers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A tent from Tesco or Aldi would be nicer and cleaner than some fab members houses.

Walking into a dirty,filthy house,with dirty smelly clothes and empty beer cans all over the floor,is not my idea of fun.

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