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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get a lot of messages off men who have never bothered to say hello, ask my name or find out anything about me, asking would I like to meet, fuck or suck them off.

I was just wondering if this approuch has ever actually been successful? Are there any women on this site that appreciate that approuch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, but then I don't meet men, women are far more respectful. Guess its a guy thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah works for me all the time sexy chicken errrr not!!!!!! Like a guy would use this approach in a pub /club walk up to ya drop there pants and say hey u wanna a piece of this or c'mon lets go and fuck !!! Nothing more off putting than a first message c'mon lets fuck with a cock picture wtf.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

doesnt work for me either, if they cant at least be polite and chat then i dont entertain them at all. you wouldnt walk up to a girl in a club and say half the things we hear on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey girls!!.....

You wanna fuck!??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey girls!!.....

You wanna fuck!??

"
ahhhh never heard that one before ohhhh wait I have !!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got that a lot that why a lot guys get know where because plain rude , if course a guy wudnt do it in a pub

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey girls!!.....

You wanna fuck!??

"

Uh YEAH!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooooooh

Everyone's snappy tonight!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey girls!!.....

You wanna fuck!??

"
yes drop em blossom your father did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got that a lot that why a lot guys get know where because plain rude , if course a guy wudnt do it in a pub "

Ehh??.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ooooooh

Everyone's snappy tonight!!!!

"

I'm not being snappy. I love your bad boy attitude and I meant yeah, I wanna! I love the fooey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time...but I did take one up on his offer and it was fantastic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And they wonder why we don't bother to reply then!!!!!

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By *ad santa 69Man
over a year ago

LapLand


"And they wonder why we don't bother to reply then!!!!! "

I suppose a ride is ouda the question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And they wonder why we don't bother to reply then!!!!!

I suppose a ride is ouda the question"

Your a funny bloke ain't ya!!!!

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By *ad santa 69Man
over a year ago

LapLand

yea iam hilarious. get ur coat youv pulled

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By *illbillMan
over a year ago

dublin

being polite and saying hi , how are u doent work either...go figure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very true _illbill!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True _illbill very true indeed

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By *quarius tvTV/TS
over a year ago

ballymena

I think a lot of guys on here need to visit specsavers friend invites emails asking where i live etc etc like im going to give u them details jez i dnt come down the himmney lads no guys mean no guys read profile get glasses cleaed. rant over

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast


"I get a lot of messages off men who have never bothered to say hello, ask my name or find out anything about me, asking would I like to meet, fuck or suck them off.

I was just wondering if this approuch has ever actually been successful? Are there any women on this site that appreciate that approuch?"
block.Button....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean to say...

RUHORNY

dosent work?

Well feck it anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You mean to say...

RUHORNY

dosent work?

Well feck it anyway "

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By *cotsman76Man
over a year ago

EDINBURGH

although in fairness this is a swinging site and females with proile pics of their tits and calling themselves 'gagging4it' etc shouldnt really expect guys to message them to discuss the political situation in afghanistan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there lots off male profiles with there cocks hanging out. but females dont mail them i wanna bounce on it etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there lots off male profiles with there cocks hanging out. but females dont mail them i wanna bounce on it etc."

If they did though....what a wonderful world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah the best one is what are u into jaysus guys read the profile pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair Sue, it's very hard to make that far down on your profile, I got stuck around the middle there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there lots off male profiles with there cocks hanging out. but females dont mail them i wanna bounce on it etc."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"although in fairness this is a swinging site and females with proile pics of their tits and calling themselves 'gagging4it' etc shouldnt really expect guys to message them to discuss the political situation in afghanistan"

Yes this is a swing site and nobody said anything about discussing politics. Just don't speak to me like I'm a whore.

How difficult is it to say, "Hi, liked your profile. Wanna chat?"

When ya don't even bother reading a profile and send a message like wanna fuck, you can't expect much in fairness. Strings or no strings, no woman wants to be treated like a hole.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"although in fairness this is a swinging site and females with proile pics of their tits and calling themselves 'gagging4it' etc shouldnt really expect guys to message them to discuss the political situation in afghanistan

Yes this is a swing site and nobody said anything about discussing politics. Just don't speak to me like I'm a whore.

How difficult is it to say, "Hi, liked your profile. Wanna chat?"

When ya don't even bother reading a profile and send a message like wanna fuck, you can't expect much in fairness. Strings or no strings, no woman wants to be treated like a hole."

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By *cotsman76Man
over a year ago

EDINBURGH


"although in fairness this is a swinging site and females with proile pics of their tits and calling themselves 'gagging4it' etc shouldnt really expect guys to message them to discuss the political situation in afghanistan

Yes this is a swing site and nobody said anything about discussing politics. Just don't speak to me like I'm a whore.

How difficult is it to say, "Hi, liked your profile. Wanna chat?"

When ya don't even bother reading a profile and send a message like wanna fuck, you can't expect much in fairness. Strings or no strings, no woman wants to be treated like a hole."
true.being rude and disrespectful is a different matter.but if some guys think the best way forward is to just come straight out with it so to speak then it seems pretty harmless and hardly worth complaining about.just have a chuckle;ignore and move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well, I actually started this thread asking a question, not complaining.

It's easy to say move on, have a chuckle when it's not you getting bombarded. My friend and I have been called prostitutes, c@nts, shallow bitches. Why? Cause we were not interested in meeting. I can't chuckle at that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time I want to be disrespected is when I specifically ask for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, I actually started this thread asking a question, not complaining.

It's easy to say move on, have a chuckle when it's not you getting bombarded. My friend and I have been called prostitutes, c@nts, shallow bitches. Why? Cause we were not interested in meeting. I can't chuckle at that.

"

I agree, I got called a fat slut by some guy on here the other week, and that was in his first message!

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By *cotsman76Man
over a year ago

EDINBURGH


"Well, I actually started this thread asking a question, not complaining.

It's easy to say move on, have a chuckle when it's not you getting bombarded. My friend and I have been called prostitutes, c@nts, shallow bitches. Why? Cause we were not interested in meeting. I can't chuckle at that.

"
sorry didnt realise that.should deffo have them reported

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By *itreMan
over a year ago

killarney

It never ceases to amaze me how guys would actually believe they have a chance by sending stupid immature mails like you said. It confirms what I have always believed that there are so many immature guys on here, it gives the sincere ones a bad name. No wonder ladies and couples block single guys! Wish they would just go play with their Nintendo and leave sites like this to people who know what its about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have reported somebody several times, last night I got a message and was asked to become a prostitute and they would be my pimp. I took offence, and was told to lighten up its funny.... I don't think that it is funny and I am the first to have a laugh or a chuckle, but I think that was totally uncalled for....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have reported somebody several times, last night I got a message and was asked to become a prostitute and they would be my pimp. I took offence, and was told to lighten up its funny.... I don't think that it is funny and I am the first to have a laugh or a chuckle, but I think that was totally uncalled for.... "

Tell them to go f*** themselves! Astounds me the downright disgusting way some men speak to women on here. I have reported several profiles for offensive and frankly quite sinister behaviour and nothing has ever been done about any of them apart from one guy who sent me a message naming people on the site who had HIV and then proceeded to describe his scat fantasy to me in minute detail. I am assuming the only reason admin took action was that it was obviously a cut and paste job so others must have reported him too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have reported somebody several times, last night I got a message and was asked to become a prostitute and they would be my pimp. I took offence, and was told to lighten up its funny.... I don't think that it is funny and I am the first to have a laugh or a chuckle, but I think that was totally uncalled for.... "
. Omg that is so uncalled for. I was on cam on chat 1 nite. A fella asked to meet I said no. He said he would pay me. I was really insulted just cos women are on a sex site don't mean there ere to sell there bodys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have reported somebody several times, last night I got a message and was asked to become a prostitute and they would be my pimp. I took offence, and was told to lighten up its funny.... I don't think that it is funny and I am the first to have a laugh or a chuckle, but I think that was totally uncalled for.... "

you should have told him you could,nt afford me luv lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still think this site should be appoached like a pub i.e. manners respect etc think people don't let the convo flow naturally and try and force it too soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still think this site should be appoached like a pub i.e. manners respect etc think people don't let the convo flow naturally and try and force it too soon."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have reported somebody several times, last night I got a message and was asked to become a prostitute and they would be my pimp. I took offence, and was told to lighten up its funny.... I don't think that it is funny and I am the first to have a laugh or a chuckle, but I think that was totally uncalled for....

you should have told him you could,nt afford me luv lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Still think this site should be appoached like a pub i.e. manners respect etc think people don't let the convo flow naturally and try and force it too soon."
too true obviously that approach like the shit you get on here in a pub would get a kick to the balls or a drink poured over the head actually would not waste my drink just a kick to the balls !!!!

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By *cotsman76Man
over a year ago

EDINBURGH

a kick to the balls tends to sort most things out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"a kick to the balls tends to sort most things out"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"being polite and saying hi , how are u doent work either...go figure"

And you think hi how are you is going to catch their attention? How many of these do you think a woman would get every day? I know women who will delete these with even reading them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some lads need to go back to charm school and know how to talk to a woman ... Granted its a swingers site but we ain't going to lie on our backs for all the guys out there!!! Throwing insults cause u ain't getting the reaction you want....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair Sue, it's very hard to make that far down on your profile, I got stuck around the middle there "
. Hmmm u trying to flatter me by any chance

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