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By *plfeb18 OP   Couple
over a year ago

city center

Hi! Are there people in here looking for regular partners, or everyone just looking for fun with different people every time.

With regular partners we mean, people that are looking for other couples or people to be more than just the occasional fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone for regular meets is what I would prefer to be honest. It can be tricky though.

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By *mmmm300Woman
over a year ago

cork

Regular meets, I don't get much from once off meets.

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By *on Draper2.0Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

I'm looking for just one person who I can see regularly. I don't ask for exclusivity, that's just what would work for me.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

I dont really get pleasure from jumping from one cock to another... but we are all different,which is great.

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By *plfeb18 OP   Couple
over a year ago

city center

Yeah, this is exactly what we feel. We would like to find people for regular meets, actually people to build a real friendship or even a relationship.

But it seems so hard. Although people say that this also what they want, most end up just wanting to get laid and move on to the next bed. This somehow throw us a bit off of meeting people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find regular meets give you all a chance to get to know how the other person reacts and what they need. Makes every session better than the one before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people enjoy meeting different people and that's perfect, that's their choice.

Personally there's nothing as nice as having a regular exclusive lady to meet up with and have some fun.

You actually get to know them personally and intimately.

That's what a friend with benefits should be, not a fuck buddy!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely here for regular preferably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer regular, sex better when you get to know each other and what each other likes, can explore things together

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

We prefer to meet up with regulars, not interested in meeting loads of different people

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By *iggtommy2000Man
over a year ago

Gorey

Would love to meet someone who's into swinging! Like a normal emotional relationship with a woman who's open to trying things - from the start, instead of going out with someone and trying to bring it up down the line

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By *ifeisforliving2016Man
over a year ago

waterford

I personally would prefer to have one exclusive lover ,who you can get to know & trust & then explore each other's likes ,which should & would increase the enjoyment mutualy.

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By *ublad500Man
over a year ago

dublin

Regular meets is always a good thing. U get to know them better inside and outside the bedroom

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By *erry12330Man
over a year ago

oranmore


"Yeah, this is exactly what we feel. We would like to find people for regular meets, actually people to build a real friendship or even a relationship.

But it seems so hard. Although people say that this also what they want, most end up just wanting to get laid and move on to the next bed. This somehow throw us a bit off of meeting people."

Hi having read the above and not wanting to sound judgmental that perhaps you as a couple are looking for more than swinging but an open relationship with other couple or single that you’re moving into different territory . I know personally I like repeat meets and explore more with ppl but the foundation of what we do on this site is sex , it can get emotional messy if it goes beyond that . But I get what your looking for as does most here and wish you well on finding it

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By *plfeb18 OP   Couple
over a year ago

city center


"Yeah, this is exactly what we feel. We would like to find people for regular meets, actually people to build a real friendship or even a relationship.

But it seems so hard. Although people say that this also what they want, most end up just wanting to get laid and move on to the next bed. This somehow throw us a bit off of meeting people.

Hi having read the above and not wanting to sound judgmental that perhaps you as a couple are looking for more than swinging but an open relationship with other couple or single that you’re moving into different territory . I know personally I like repeat meets and explore more with ppl but the foundation of what we do on this site is sex , it can get emotional messy if it goes beyond that . But I get what your looking for as does most here and wish you well on finding it "

OK, so you are saying that in this whole site only swigging is allowed and everyone on this site is either a swinger or cheating "single straight" males looking for sex?

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By *otownkid1967Man
over a year ago

Portlaoise

I would prefer to have one regular person/couple to meet up with on a regular basis. Doesn't have to be exclusive. But I do think having a connection does make for better sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mix for us. There are people we've met several times and absolutely would meet again. Others have been one offs. As a couple, both have their merits for us.

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By *eturn of Sir PumpsMan
over a year ago

outside banbridge

I personally would sway towards seeing people more than once build up chemistry etc but totally respect people just wanting a one and done

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By *erry12330Man
over a year ago

oranmore


"Yeah, this is exactly what we feel. We would like to find people for regular meets, actually people to build a real friendship or even a relationship.

But it seems so hard. Although people say that this also what they want, most end up just wanting to get laid and move on to the next bed. This somehow throw us a bit off of meeting people.

Hi having read the above and not wanting to sound judgmental that perhaps you as a couple are looking for more than swinging but an open relationship with other couple or single that you’re moving into different territory . I know personally I like repeat meets and explore more with ppl but the foundation of what we do on this site is sex , it can get emotional messy if it goes beyond that . But I get what your looking for as does most here and wish you well on finding it

OK, so you are saying that in this whole site only swigging is allowed and everyone on this site is either a swinger or cheating "single straight" males looking for sex?

"

I didn’t say what was not allowed or disallowed or that everyone on this site is a swinger or a cheating straight male , I only made reference to your situation and what you were looking for , your reply is rather aggressive considering the tone of which your opening post I was only trying to be supportive of what appear to genuine feeling . I wish you all the best on your quest .

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By *egsyWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Lets be honest the majority of single men on here arent single lol.

Tried a fab relationship and he was still going outside the rules at every opportunity so whats the point

Few good friends i can call on when needed will do nicely from now on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a fuck site to get yer hole no matter how it's dressed up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lets be honest the majority of single men on here arent single lol.

Tried a fab relationship and he was still going outside the rules at every opportunity so whats the point

Few good friends i can call on when needed will do nicely from now on "

Just looked at your photos, wasn't he a fucking eejit!!!!

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"It's a fuck site to get yer hole no matter how it's dressed up "

Bend over so...I'll take your hole

Should I go slow ?or you will take it as a big boy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a fuck site to get yer hole no matter how it's dressed up

Bend over so...I'll take your hole

Should I go slow ?or you will take it as a big boy? "

Your Sunday best please

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By *egsyWoman
over a year ago

Meath


"Lets be honest the majority of single men on here arent single lol.

Tried a fab relationship and he was still going outside the rules at every opportunity so whats the point

Few good friends i can call on when needed will do nicely from now on

Just looked at your photos, wasn't he a fucking eejit!!!! "

I like to think so

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"It's a fuck site to get yer hole no matter how it's dressed up

Bend over so...I'll take your hole

Should I go slow ?or you will take it as a big boy?

Your Sunday best please "

You will be talking when I will allow you... on your knees

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a fuck site to get yer hole no matter how it's dressed up

Bend over so...I'll take your hole

Should I go slow ?or you will take it as a big boy?

Your Sunday best please

You will be talking when I will allow you... on your knees "

Popcorn time,

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"It's a fuck site to get yer hole no matter how it's dressed up

Bend over so...I'll take your hole

Should I go slow ?or you will take it as a big boy?

Your Sunday best please

You will be talking when I will allow you... on your knees

Popcorn time, "

You still eating move over...and where was my 7up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a fuck site to get yer hole no matter how it's dressed up

Bend over so...I'll take your hole

Should I go slow ?or you will take it as a big boy?

Your Sunday best please

You will be talking when I will allow you... on your knees

Popcorn time,

You still eating move over...and where was my 7up? "

One straw or two?

Ice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a fuck site to get yer hole no matter how it's dressed up

Bend over so...I'll take your hole

Should I go slow ?or you will take it as a big boy?

Your Sunday best please

You will be talking when I will allow you... on your knees "

Occasionally or regularly

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"It's a fuck site to get yer hole no matter how it's dressed up

Bend over so...I'll take your hole

Should I go slow ?or you will take it as a big boy?

Your Sunday best please

You will be talking when I will allow you... on your knees

Popcorn time,

You still eating move over...and where was my 7up?

One straw or two?

Ice? "

Two please... thank you very much I appreciate your effort

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"It's a fuck site to get yer hole no matter how it's dressed up

Bend over so...I'll take your hole

Should I go slow ?or you will take it as a big boy?

Your Sunday best please

You will be talking when I will allow you... on your knees

Occasionally or regularly "

I thought you liked regularly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's a fuck site to get yer hole no matter how it's dressed up

Bend over so...I'll take your hole

Should I go slow ?or you will take it as a big boy?

Your Sunday best please

You will be talking when I will allow you... on your knees

Popcorn time,

You still eating move over...and where was my 7up?

One straw or two?

Ice?

Two please... thank you very much I appreciate your effort "

Oh, I'd make a good waiter or concierge

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By *he MickMan
over a year ago

southside

Someone regular preferred

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find regular meets give you all a chance to get to know how the other person reacts and what they need. Makes every session better than the one before."

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"It's a fuck site to get yer hole no matter how it's dressed up

Bend over so...I'll take your hole

Should I go slow ?or you will take it as a big boy?

Your Sunday best please

You will be talking when I will allow you... on your knees

Popcorn time,

You still eating move over...and where was my 7up?

One straw or two?

Ice?

Two please... thank you very much I appreciate your effort

Oh, I'd make a good waiter or concierge "

I noticed. Lol

At least I get popcorn and drink now and again

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By *edknobsMan
over a year ago

mullingar

Absolutely....my own opinion, so not judging or looking to be judged... the idea of a "hit and run" I feel is cold and not what i look for, and for me the idea of building tension, excitement and new experiences with someone, and knowing what excites that person is what I enjoy.....

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By *nwrap4funMan
over a year ago

Ireland

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By *ilderMan
over a year ago

dublin

The term regular sounds a bit vanilla to me but repeat meets are definitely to be encouraged with the right person / people. Helps on many levels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me personally, I couldn't be doing with another relationship beyond my existing ones, I really don't have that much love to give

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By *rOralMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Someday if possible, Like minded friendSSSSS is what I would like to achieve.

Once off is nice too of course, but making real connections with kinksters, speak out loud what you like, making plans with those like minded, etc; being able to be your naughty-self in front of friends is the best (been there done that a few years ago and I loved it!)

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By *otownkid1967Man
over a year ago

Portlaoise


"Yeah, this is exactly what we feel. We would like to find people for regular meets, actually people to build a real friendship or even a relationship.

But it seems so hard. Although people say that this also what they want, most end up just wanting to get laid and move on to the next bed. This somehow throw us a bit off of meeting people."

I'm Free

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By *rOralMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Me personally, I couldn't be doing with another relationship beyond my existing ones, I really don't have that much love to give "

But labeling it as “relationship” is another league such as polyamorous.

This is more like have regular fun with well known people…something like extra 'spicy friendship'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me personally, I couldn't be doing with another relationship beyond my existing ones, I really don't have that much love to give

But labeling it as “relationship” is another league such as polyamorous.

This is more like have regular fun with well known people…something like extra 'spicy friendship' "

That's a relationship. There may be no long term promises but there will almost inevitably be attachment, and with it, expectations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep it simple...every holes a goal

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By *eturn of Sir PumpsMan
over a year ago

outside banbridge


"Lets be honest the majority of single men on here arent single lol.

Tried a fab relationship and he was still going outside the rules at every opportunity so whats the point

Few good friends i can call on when needed will do nicely from now on "

Still looking as good as ever me dear!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep it simple...every holes a goal "

Your getting a bag of coal!!!

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane


"Keep it simple...every holes a goal "

You definitely asking for a trouble today

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By *ursecretmischiefCouple
over a year ago

The West


"Me personally, I couldn't be doing with another relationship beyond my existing ones, I really don't have that much love to give "

I don't think many are looking for love. But lust, on the other hand, that's a different story!

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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago

Cork

Balancing act for us, we like repeating our good experiences but also like meeting new couples and occasional singles. We’d certainly like to meet our friends more regularly AND meet new couples more frequently but alas our life doesn’t permit our desired level of swinging activity.

Always open to developing friendships through swinging and have done so. Repeat meets based on sex only is cool by us. One off meets have an allure also. Nice mix is ideal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me personally, I couldn't be doing with another relationship beyond my existing ones, I really don't have that much love to give

I don't think many are looking for love. But lust, on the other hand, that's a different story! "

I was being facetious, see my comment above about attachment and expectations.

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By *hemaskedladyCouple
over a year ago

clonmel

We took a break and will be getting back onto the scene in 2023. We would prefer to find 1 or 2 regulars for nsa fun. Condoms at the start but if all comfortable and trust built up, it would be good to ditch the rubbers. But finding the right "straight" guy can be hard. One off meets are good but takes time while regular(s) we'd know what to expect and trust is key and discretion.

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By *tagandVixen30sCouple
over a year ago

Carrick

This would be our preferred arrangement also, rubbers ruin feeling but if found trustworthy regular then enjoy skin on skin

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

I prefer repeat meets, as we get to know each other over time. At the same time , I like to meet new people, who hopefully become repeat meets. And local enough too , so, even a coffee meet is easy to organise .

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By *otfun100Man
over a year ago

coleraine

Regular please. If I could find that. Not easy found at the min

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By *astelloWoman
over a year ago

Far far away

Personally looking for fwb. It's hard to locate.

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By *adger BrocMan
over a year ago

Co. Cork


"Personally looking for fwb. It's hard to locate. "

You can't say I haven't offered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regular fwb is really hard to find they are either the local weirdo or the jealous type, some don't understand the term NSA .. just looking for a friend just for sex

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Just over a year ago I met someone on here at a social ....it took a few months but now we go away together for weekends or nights away and to socials

Its fantastic to be honest,delighted it happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I regular fwb is really hard to find they are either the local weirdo or the jealous type, some don't understand the term NSA .. just looking for a friend just for sex "

Sign me up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I'd love to find someone who'll meet regularly... had one before but she moved away for work..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I regular fwb is really hard to find they are either the local weirdo or the jealous type, some don't understand the term NSA .. just looking for a friend just for sex

Sign me up "

Your to far away

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By *ub23Man
over a year ago

wandering


"Lets be honest the majority of single men on here arent single lol.

Tried a fab relationship and he was still going outside the rules at every opportunity so whats the point

Few good friends i can call on when needed will do nicely from now on "

Some of us men are single!! Definitely looking for regular someone I feel comfortable with, ideally older and more experienced that will teach me a thing or two;)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, I'd love to find someone who'll meet regularly... had one before but she moved away for work..

"

I have to work .. only joking it wasn't me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I regular fwb is really hard to find they are either the local weirdo or the jealous type, some don't understand the term NSA .. just looking for a friend just for sex

Sign me up

Your to far away "

I always hated geography

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The one area of FAB guaranteed to cause friction of the not-fun variety

The people who want guilt-free & shame-free sex, lots and lots of disposable sex, a 'fuck&go', a high turn over of new partners, every hole's a goal, the party starters, happy to swap, hop, use and be used, loving the life of liberated human sex toys....

Versus

The people who want sex with a deeper emotional connection, who enjoy frequent repeats, who want the perks of a relationship without the ties, a bf/gf in all but name....

Versus

The people who use fab as a dating site to be sure they connect with people who have a libido or kinks or appetite to match theirs....

All say 'you do you' or 'do fab your way' but then the bickering and posturing and hypocrisy starts ping-ponging about.

I've been told I don't belong here in various different ways by various different folk like they have that right or insight. People who forget that the definition of a discussion requires opposing opinions and views.

Say it, mean it, own it.

Walk your own path and keep your opinions honest and fair.

Life really is too short for bs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I regular fwb is really hard to find they are either the local weirdo or the jealous type, some don't understand the term NSA .. just looking for a friend just for sex

Sign me up

Your to far away

I always hated geography "

History was my favourite .. bring bk the past lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The one area of FAB guaranteed to cause friction of the not-fun variety

The people who want guilt-free & shame-free sex, lots and lots of disposable sex, a 'fuck&go', a high turn over of new partners, every hole's a goal, the party starters, happy to swap, hop, use and be used, loving the life of liberated human sex toys....

Versus

The people who want sex with a deeper emotional connection, who enjoy frequent repeats, who want the perks of a relationship without the ties, a bf/gf in all but name....

Versus

The people who use fab as a dating site to be sure they connect with people who have a libido or kinks or appetite to match theirs....

All say 'you do you' or 'do fab your way' but then the bickering and posturing and hypocrisy starts ping-ponging about.

I've been told I don't belong here in various different ways by various different folk like they have that right or insight. People who forget that the definition of a discussion requires opposing opinions and views.

Say it, mean it, own it.

Walk your own path and keep your opinions honest and fair.

Life really is too short for bs."

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By *im tim timMan
over a year ago

c

yes i would really like to find someone for regular fun..

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By *olouWoman
over a year ago

Swords

I've met a lovely man here on Fab and we meet together regularly and it's amazing. We would also love to meet other couples, get to know them and see if there is potential for some fun.Our profile is Rushin Reality our main aim is fun good banter and whatever naturally follows on

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By *ikerbeanMan
over a year ago

Dublin 8

Last time I had regular meets, the woman fell for me.

Ideally I want someone on the same page as me knowing exactly what's on the table.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lets be honest the majority of single men on here arent single lol.

Tried a fab relationship and he was still going outside the rules at every opportunity so whats the point

Few good friends i can call on when needed will do nicely from now on

Just looked at your photos, wasn't he a fucking eejit!!!!

total idiot.

photos unreal

I like to think so "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Last time I had regular meets, the woman fell for me.

Ideally I want someone on the same page as me knowing exactly what's on the table. "

There is very definitely a personality trait, a mindset, that enables you to remain distant through deepening physical and emotional intimacy and repeated meets.

It's either who you are or it isn't.

That's not to say there's no element of choice at all, it just means that you'll be fighting against your instincts / nature every step of the way and eventually.... nature always wins imho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Last time I had regular meets, the woman fell for me.

Ideally I want someone on the same page as me knowing exactly what's on the table.

There is very definitely a personality trait, a mindset, that enables you to remain distant through deepening physical and emotional intimacy and repeated meets.

It's either who you are or it isn't.

That's not to say there's no element of choice at all, it just means that you'll be fighting against your instincts / nature every step of the way and eventually.... nature always wins imho"

So true. I thought I could switch off and enjoy fwb with girl but must admit I fell for her and she wanted nothing more.

nature always wins eventually

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By *anandJCouple
over a year ago

Citywest


"Hi! Are there people in here looking for regular partners, or everyone just looking for fun with different people every time.

With regular partners we mean, people that are looking for other couples or people to be more than just the occasional fuck. "

Exactly what we are looking for.. not an easy thing to find here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is always going to be an imbalance between the needs of an established couple and the needs of any 'third' if they are a singleton.

That's the reality.

It might suit all of the individuals at a given point in time but lives evolve and needs follow suit so a long-term arrangement is likely not realistically possible outside of a very small number of cases.

But then again 'long-term' might mean something different to different people

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

I think ideally that's what most want here. I am lucky enough now to have a couple of friends with benefits. It's much better to get to know what a person is into and exploring things with someone you are comfortable with. But it is nice to meet someone new from time to time too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really like the regular situation

Not jump jump…

But sometimes you see someone and

You have to Act…

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By *dfabMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne


"Last time I had regular meets, the woman fell for me.

Ideally I want someone on the same page as me knowing exactly what's on the table.

There is very definitely a personality trait, a mindset, that enables you to remain distant through deepening physical and emotional intimacy and repeated meets.

It's either who you are or it isn't.

That's not to say there's no element of choice at all, it just means that you'll be fighting against your instincts / nature every step of the way and eventually.... nature always wins imho"

I understand what you are saying but there are some folks who can completely separate sex from emotional ties.

Having lived foreign for quite some time, along with boarding school upbringing, separating physical from emotional comes easily to me and, I'm sure, quite a few others like me.

I have a very clear distinction between sex for fun and making love. Well, in my mind at least.

I do understand that the people I am with may not always be of the same mindset all the time but, from experience, clear communication is key to any ongoing fun.

I am still friends with some previous regular FB's and chat to them occasionally and have reconnected physically a few times, without any emotional ties developing.

It can happen and can work. Just be clear of your intentions and continue to maintain them.

Happy Fabbing in your best way

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By *ub23Man
over a year ago

wandering

Ideally for me is somebody you can just meet while the two of you are horny,have some fun and just go home

I know this probably sounds heartless but that's nsa to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi! Are there people in here looking for regular partners, or everyone just looking for fun with different people every time.

With regular partners we mean, people that are looking for other couples or people to be more than just the occasional fuck. "

I know it might sound obvious but l just want to meet a person who is on the same wavelength sexually, it's a lot more difficult that a person would think tbh , if that ever happens then it's Adiós simply because ,unlike the song , l will have found what lm looking for .

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By *ickwoodMan
over a year ago

Naas

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By *asual777Man
over a year ago

i travel all over

Repeat meets plus occasional new ones is heaven

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By *wing guyMan
over a year ago

Greystones

The unicorn Im seeking is regular partner / cple.

We live in hope

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By *atience178Couple
over a year ago

Dublin

Definitely looking to move towards having a few regulars

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Last time I had regular meets, the woman fell for me.

Ideally I want someone on the same page as me knowing exactly what's on the table.

There is very definitely a personality trait, a mindset, that enables you to remain distant through deepening physical and emotional intimacy and repeated meets.

It's either who you are or it isn't.

That's not to say there's no element of choice at all, it just means that you'll be fighting against your instincts / nature every step of the way and eventually.... nature always wins imho

I understand what you are saying but there are some folks who can completely separate sex from emotional ties.

Having lived foreign for quite some time, along with boarding school upbringing, separating physical from emotional comes easily to me and, I'm sure, quite a few others like me.

I have a very clear distinction between sex for fun and making love. Well, in my mind at least.

I do understand that the people I am with may not always be of the same mindset all the time but, from experience, clear communication is key to any ongoing fun.

I am still friends with some previous regular FB's and chat to them occasionally and have reconnected physically a few times, without any emotional ties developing.

It can happen and can work. Just be clear of your intentions and continue to maintain them.

Happy Fabbing in your best way "

I agree it can definitely happen,there's one or 2 guys I've been with and if they were closer would definitely meet up regularly for fun but that would be it.

What's left of my heart is in behind a wall that I can't get over lol

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By *B 4099Man
over a year ago

North West, Outer Letterkenny area

I would ideally be looking for more regular meets than a number of different people. If it's good and both or more are happy. Keep going.

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By *hett and scarlettCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

One lad, regular, reliable, and without a complicated situation. Sounds simple to find, but it certainly isn’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own ....most are unreliable and full of shite and waist people's time ...it has definitely gotten worse on here...

Regular with banter and connection is always more satisfying...getting harder and harder to find here

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By *asterH69Man
over a year ago

Mullingar

I always prefer regular meets than once off. too much effort

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By *tockings199Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

Regular dependable partner for me anytime, male or female

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've always preferred regular meets off here. There have been a few one offs but for a few different reasons they never went beyond that.

I have been very lucky to find an amazing fwb who is not just in it for the benefits but is a real friend as well.

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By *ere70Man
over a year ago

Rovinj Istria

regular is great, but in my expirience someone fells in love, and then scares away other side, or me or her. thats why i prefer playing with married couple, they love each other so wont be falling in love with you, if you get along well, can be regular fun and there is no expectations of something deeper.

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