FabSwingers.com forum: Going down on a lady

By *anillabellini OP Couple
over a year ago

limerick

One for the guys firstly, do you enjoy going down on a lady for more your pleasure than hers? Personally I could spend hours and hours giving oral if she’s reacting to it. I find it such a turn on to go down and taste her and make her cum using my mouth and tongue.

For the ladies, do you enjoy receiving oral if the guy or girl knows what they’re doing? I know from reading past forums that some ladies don’t particularly like receiving oral and are a little self conscious about it.

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By *isnameismargaretMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Not entirely sure. I know I adore it and if she's having half as good a time as I am then she's having a very good time.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I enjoy it and haven't met a woman yet who didn't like receiving but it's measured in minutes not hours.

Anything more and it gets boring and repetitive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely gets me hard, i get hard just thinking about it actually....

Anyone free at the moment?

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By *ineapple_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

in the waves

I love it, but as already said it shouldn't take hours.

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By *anillabellini OP Couple
over a year ago

limerick

"I love it, but as already said it shouldn't take hours. "

Hours was speaking metaphorically

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By *ingerornotMan
over a year ago

Malahide

Absolutely love it... making her cum multiple times in one sitting is the best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your doing it for hours then your doing something wring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love oral and whilst hours would be a little excessive even for me, I do enjoy extended sessions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First port of call

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By *anillabellini OP Couple
over a year ago

limerick

"If your doing it for hours then your doing something wring."

Metaphorically not literally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always happy to do it, especially if you doing it right. More practice is always welcome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy it otherwise I wouldn't do it.

Hours is a little excessive though.

And I'd always prefer to receive than give tbh

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By *ay_Gatsby_D4Man
over a year ago

City Centre, Dublin

I love giving oral, reminds me of bobbing for apples at Halloween, just getting in there and trying to get your gob around something, like a dog eating it’s dinner

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By *astelloWoman
over a year ago

Far far away

Yes, absolutely adore.

But each women is different so some so called oral masters need to listen more..not perform.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your doing it for hours, your missing the spot!!!

Anywhere from 4 to 7 minutes is long enough to make her orgasam orally. But of course is she wants you to continue , thats her choice

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"First port of call

What?! Not even a hello first

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By *3nsesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I enjoy it if she is. It's not important if she doesn't enjoy it though. About 10 minutes is the max I'd spend. If she hasn't come by then it's a waste of both of our time.

And let's be honest here, I'd rather she spent her time sucking my cock anyway.

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"If your doing it for hours, your missing the spot!!!

Anywhere from 4 to 7 minutes is long enough to make her orgasam orally. But of course is she wants you to continue , thats her choice

You got the timer going?

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

I must say that I love going down on a woman. I'm not a clock watcher and as long as she's really enjoying it I'm happy. I'm not in favour of any time limit whether short or long. The main thing is my partner enjoys it.

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

"I enjoy it and haven't met a woman yet who didn't like receiving but it's measured in minutes not hours.

Anything more and it gets boring and repetitive. "

Exactly!

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

There doesn't have to be a time limit. It should be instinctual and depending on the woman doesn't always have to have an end goal.

Not all women cum from oral stimulation so even the navy seals among us eventually concede defeat.

From reading the forums and pm's over the years most women prefer variety rather than a one trick pony so if it's your USP it's maybe time to diversify.

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By *ig A300Man
over a year ago

North. love to chat please.

One of my favourites. But surely you and the woman know when it's time to stop. No time limit. Best part of it is when she squeezes her legs around your head just as she is about to explode on my face.

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By *on Draper2.0Man
over a year ago

Maynooth

The only limiting factor for me is the amount of hair down there. The size of the Bush is inversely proportional to the tongue time for me.

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By *atherjackhackettMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I love it. Love to pleasure and it gets me well on too so win win.

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By *ilthy_young96Man
over a year ago

waterford

I absolutely love going down on a woman! It gives me so much satisfaction hearing her moan and desperately crave that cock. Remember guys, look after the woman she’ll look after you

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By *oriumTergoMan
over a year ago

City Centre

Absolutely love giving oral to a woman. Have yet to go down on _ vagina that isn't unique and beautiful.

After reading a few articles about 'the orgasm gap' it made me more conscious of satisfying the needs of whomever I'm with just the same, if not more, as my own needs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If your doing it for hours, your missing the spot!!!

Anywhere from 4 to 7 minutes is long enough to make her orgasam orally. But of course is she wants you to continue , thats her choice

You got the timer going?

Just timed it off the video

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By *aitingstillMan
over a year ago

East of Cork

Love giving oral and get great pleasure from it, nice and slow at first more like teasing her and when she grabs your head as she cum’s then pushes it away. Job complete

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

The timing of it is crucial. I'm not sure it's the 'first thing' the ladies would want. Where's the kissing, the touching and general exploration? Seems cold to me to have it done first. The more mature guys know the timing better than the younger guys in my experience. Mrs

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By * VaWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Love it, love it, love it. And if I'm not loving it you'll know it.

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By *onny1969Man
over a year ago

local

I enjoy it, especially if she’s on top and I can get a good mouthful , sometime alternate between holes to get the juices flowing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"First port of call

What?! Not even a hello first

Shtraight in, no kissin’

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By *oltaire234Man
over a year ago

sligo leitrim mayo.

I love going down there.

The art cunnilingus should be perform, with passion and treat the women as if she is princess, don’t be in hurry to get down and start licking like a dog, the stroke with the tongue shud be gentle and with the wet tip of the tongue, with each stroke the warmth of breath should be there. Stroke should always be made down to up.

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By *amsevenMan
over a year ago

cork

Quiet enjoy it but its more so for her pleasure, and if shes a squirter a heads up would be nice, pardon the pun

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By *ickvanwinkleMan
over a year ago

belfast

Love it to the point of nearly being addicted to it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love going down there.

Surely the stroke should always be how she likes it to be?

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By *errardNo8Man
over a year ago

Galway/Mayo

"I love giving oral, reminds me of bobbing for apples at Halloween, just getting in there and trying to get your gob around something, like a dog eating it’s dinner"

pmsl

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By *errardNo8Man
over a year ago

Galway/Mayo

It's my favorite pastime

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

I can live without it if im honest...

very rare you get what you want anyway

some guys claimed they are unreal when it comes to oral...let me tell you,they were shit

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

These threads always go the same way ... the guys claim to be great at it and love it and the ladies say either that they can take it or leave it, or that the guys are shit at it!

The only way to be 'good at it' is to communicate, listen and respond accordingly.

Tbh its often more to do with our mood at the time, how relaxed we are and what filthy fantasies are going on in our little heads than what you are actually doing down there ... so less of the self-praise please

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"I can live without it if im honest...

very rare you get what you want anyway

some guys claimed they are unreal when it comes to oral...let me tell you,they were shit

Oooooh absofuckingloutly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can live without it if im honest...

very rare you get what you want anyway

some guys claimed they are unreal when it comes to oral...let me tell you,they were shit

Love it ...

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Im not one of those that say they can go down for hours because I'm usually pulled up for the most erotic bit of oral....the full on kiss afterwards letting her taste herself off my mouth and lips.

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

"Im not one of those that say they can go down for hours because I'm usually pulled up for the most erotic bit of oral....the full on kiss afterwards letting her taste herself off my mouth and lips. "

That's the sexiest part of oral sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The hottest fucking thing I’ve ever had done to me was an ex who insisted for the first six weeks or two months of our relationship that she preferred face to face fucking and fingering and that oral was a little disconnecting for her… in general I actually agree with this somewhat… but it went on and on, the sex was amazing but I was literally aching to eat her out… every time she got soaking wet I’d be begging her for a taste

When she finally let me… well neither of us lasted very long is all I can say… she had me wrapped around her fingers that woman

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"Im not one of those that say they can go down for hours because I'm usually pulled up for the most erotic bit of oral....the full on kiss afterwards letting her taste herself off my mouth and lips.

That's the sexiest part of oral sex

As you normally say...absolfuckinlutly

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By *oltaire234Man
over a year ago

sligo leitrim mayo.

"I love going down there.

Agreed , i am just saying generally

Surely the stroke should always be how she likes it to be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can live without it if im honest...

very rare you get what you want anyway

some guys claimed they are unreal when it comes to oral...let me tell you,they were shit

I so agree with you,nail on the head there

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By *oungcurious9Man
over a year ago

clonmel, Waterford

Always wanted to try this

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By *amesy6918Man
over a year ago

newry

Yes same I love going down on a woman and if she is enjoying it then why stop!

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By *eepixieWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

What’s the point in sex without oral? I absolutely love it, giving & receiving. For me foreplay is a huge part of having fun. It’s also the only way I can cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love oral. it's so intimate. it's very satisfying when /if I can get a new woman to climax.

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By *ordjeffMan
over a year ago

around and about ,as travel.

If she's enjoying it

Then I adore it more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is mind blowing fun with the right people.

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By *oingMan
over a year ago

co. antrim

It’s quite a turn on kissing a lady and then slowly heading south.

My bits get in the way if I’m laying on my stomach

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"Hours" is an exaggeration, not a metaphor.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Metaphor

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

"I can live without it if im honest...

very rare you get what you want anyway

some guys claimed they are unreal when it comes to oral...let me tell you,they were shit

Same goes for blowjobs unfortunately... and it tends to be those who brag who are the worst.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"I can live without it if im honest...

very rare you get what you want anyway

some guys claimed they are unreal when it comes to oral...let me tell you,they were shit

Same goes for blowjobs unfortunately... and it tends to be those who brag who are the worst."

I'm shit at everything I do

but as long as I enjoy myself,I'm happy...

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By *anillabellini OP Couple
over a year ago

limerick

""Hours" is an exaggeration, not a metaphor.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Metaphor"

Thank you teacher, apologies if English isn’t my first language

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By *oguish1Man
over a year ago

Carrigrohane

Yes love it such a turn on .... nothing like making a woman loose tot control

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By *unster FunsterMan
over a year ago

Croydon

Love it. One of my favourite sexual activities. And the ladies don't complain about my skills either if I'm totally honest.

one memorable time while eating out a pussy I changed it up a bit and I got "oh my god what are you doing? Don't stop!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what if she doesnt shower everyday same for a woman giving a bj .. plenty of unwashed out there

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By *hoknows82Man
over a year ago

Nenagh / South Dublin

I'm obsessed with giving.

I literally do it indefinitely, until I need food or water.

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By *og-ManMan
over a year ago

somewhere

"what if she doesnt shower everyday same for a woman giving a bj .. plenty of unwashed out there "

So you hit the hotel room and both of ye into the shower to start with

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

I love going down on a woman. But it can take a while to get there. Start with a kiss and take your time moving your mouth down her body. When you eventually reach the gates of heaven, start your soft, gentle, wet exploration with soft tongue and lips, unhurried, no goal,... Listen to her body, her sounds, her breathing and follow those cues. Be patient and forget about your own desires for the moment. Never waste a hand, caress her whole body as you taste her, its not just about her clitoris, its a whole body experience.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

AI'm fine with it being a small part of foreplay but in general not a big fan of oral. So 'The-hours-of-oral' are no go territory for me but it's the you-haven't-experienced-yet-good-oral that leave me stunned by arrogance - I'm not a 20 something greenhorn anymore...

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By *ickyAthleticMan
over a year ago

Galway

I absolutely love it and its about the feedback from the woman for me. When you get that leg squeeze, its a sign your doing something right

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