FabSwingers.com forum: Dick pick or no dick pic

By *errardNo8 OP Man
over a year ago

Galway/Mayo

When it comes down to single men, would I might be wrong in saying that there is a very fine line between being hot or not especially when it comes down to our profiles or sending a message.

Obviously we want to stand out. Some of us like to think that displaying our cocks on our profile pics is hot, some of you wonderful females out there might think it's hot, and it gets you squeezing your thighs together.

Then there is the rest

Of the wonderful folk that think it's not, and delete and want nothing to do with the said exhibitionist.

So getting to the point.....

Ladies:Dick pics. Visible on profile pics or public pics. Hot or Not?

Fellas: What gets a better response?

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I don't send messages so responses aren't a concern.

I have full body dick pics that get equally as many fabs from women as any other pic and I've never had any complaints so I'll continue to post them.

My experience on here is that most people respond more positively to a male profile that owns what it displays through pics or bio rather than chopping and changing to suit the audience.

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By *1CorkCouple
over a year ago

Cork

Agree with above, full body with dick preferable. Goes for males in couples as much as single males. Close ups, select angles, can be misleading on all body parts, male and female.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I personally like a variety of pics on a profile I don't mind a dick pic either. I'm not a fan of a profile full of just dick pics though or just close ups of ones. But I've never seen a dick pic that would make me decide to reply to anyone or send them a first message.

Do what you want with your profile though. Put what you want on it because no matter what you will never please everyone on here.

And the forums are only a tiny percentage of fab as well and is not a true representation of the whole site. There are a hell of a lot more people on here who never even look at the forums than use it. And a lot of them are too busy having sex to bother with it so don't take what you read on here as the golden rules to fab and how to get meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally like a variety of pics on a profile I don't mind a dick pic either. I'm not a fan of a profile full of just dick pics though or just close ups of ones. But I've never seen a dick pic that would make me decide to reply to anyone or send them a first message.

Do what you want with your profile though. Put what you want on it because no matter what you will never please everyone on here.

Exactly, you do you, OP, if people don't like it, then look at it as time not wasted on them

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

There are those who will be attracted to your profile or not no matter what pics you post ,so just do what you feel works for you OP.

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By *sMinxWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Quite like a decent dick pic if it’s full body pic especially. But not as a profile pic!

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By *astelloWoman
over a year ago

Far far away

For me it's a no. I've gotten to the stage.. That I'm dick pic blind.. And I look at how clean their bathroom is for said dick pic.

It's an appendage attached to a person. If that person is a cretin, I don't care how nice or vwh it is or looks great in pics.

I always revert to their profile description. Each person has their own preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can be the biggest dick in town,but still be a total knobhead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some like dick pics,and others dont.

Just dont be a dick about it.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

To me a good cock pic or full nudity body shot is essential. I want to know what I'm getting.

I wouldn't recommend a cock pic as a profile avatar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me it's a no. I've gotten to the stage.. That I'm dick pic blind.. And I look at how clean their bathroom is for said dick pic.

It's an appendage attached to a person. If that person is a cretin, I don't care how nice or vwh it is or looks great in pics.

I always revert to their profile description. Each person has their own preference. "

Well the 'you do you' is a given really but the OP has asked for feedback so I'll throw in my observations from my year on fab.

Partly this response above ^^

But also, a little mystery in the early stages can be very erotic and a fantastic tease. I prefer to save the more intimate pics for when things hot up

I love whole body nudes or semi-nudes. I don't get enthusiastic if all a guy has posted are close-up pics of their dick. Partly because it gives me the impression it's the only part of him he's looking attention for and so perhaps only looking a fuck&go regardless of whatever they say in chat or their bio.

It's good to see it before you meet on the off-chance it's unattractive but it's a small part of the whole person I'd be meeting so, unless their dick is actually worryingly abnormal, I'd not be basing my attraction off of it alone.

Perhaps the difference lies in what a person is on fab for. If you're only here to get dicked out or for a ONS, all you might care about is finding a glorious dick to ride just so long as the guy it's attached to is passable and bearable. If you are looking to make a longer, genuine connection you'll maybe be equally interested in an attraction to the whole person and the dick is smaller a fraction of the appeal so pics less of a factor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are those who will be attracted to your profile or not no matter what pics you post ,so just do what you feel works for you OP."

Hear hear

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By *ildGroverMan
over a year ago

rathfarnham

It’s a difficult question for a guy to answer as we’ve all only got the one Willy and have to make our own calls on it.

I thought I had a dick pic in public but I don’t. I get the sense that it helps that I’m well endowed but it’s not the be all and end all of me

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By *ouple 0073Couple
over a year ago

donegal

Its HARD to know really

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By *eijaWoman
over a year ago

City Centre

"Quite like a decent dick pic if it’s full body pic especially. But not as a profile pic! "

I'd tend to agree here. Either that or leave the dick pic in private.

A profile full of close up dick pics is such a turn off. If your profile pic is a dick pic even worse.

At least put some effort into your pics and always good to leave something to the imagination.

That's my opinion...not everyone's

B x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a good cock shot in amongst a variety of other good photos. The emphasis being on good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the saying goes less is more .. keep some things to the imagination

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By *iggtommy2000Man
over a year ago

Gorey

Girls I've chatted to seem to be mixed, really depends on what you/they are looking for. I like to have normal pics on public, a few sexy pics for friends only and a couple nice dick pics for DMs. Don't want to play all your cards on the first hand

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By *ofusplusCouple
over a year ago

Limerick

All close-up cock pics suggests that it's all they have to offer and also that they have no understanding if women in general, so its a 'no' from us

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By *utchlady67Woman
over a year ago

Kinnitty in county Offaly

Now this is only my opinion. A dick pic as your profile is a no no for me. I don’t really like to see unsolicited dicks. Give me a sexy picture that leaves something for the imagination and wants me to look at your profile and see what you have to tell me about yourself. Then when I go and look at your pictures I don’t mind seeing one there but I like a profile to be sexy. And if you see dick pics on every profile they start to look all the same so make them look interesting and with a bit humour.

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Yeah less is definitely more I'd leave the dick pics for when your asked for them but then again your profile your way to advertise yourself as such but dont go over the top though most people are put of with 101 different angle dick pics....

if you won't show your best feature which is your face I wouldn't show your appendage....it'll not be your best selling point as such

But that's just my opinion x

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By *on655Man
over a year ago

east suburbs

I have my dick pics on friends only, the reason being dick pics are a dime a dozen on here. 9 times out of 10 when speaking to whoever your interest lays with on here dick size doesn’t really come into play unless it’s abnormal on either side of the scale. A message relating to the profile you’re talking to instead of a copy and paste can make you stand out or a variety of photos and some creativity can make you stand out which is what I have tried and has worked well so far in my case.

That being said there are people who do enjoy seeing what you have so unless it’s asked for I don’t send one

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By *hris 1000200Man
over a year ago

kells

Personally,I do have dick pics,but they are in my friend's photos. But like the general consensus,,its your profile your choice. As stated above if someone is interested or intrigued by your profile, it doesn't matter,what your profile pic is

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By *errardNo8 OP Man
over a year ago

Galway/Mayo

Sorry guys I went MIA since posting this.

I was along the same lines as the guys that like to leave a bit to the imagination.

I did only post this for more of a talking point lol. But some great responses.

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By *errardNo8 OP Man
over a year ago

Galway/Mayo

I might just slightly alter my pics though

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By *utchlady67Woman
over a year ago

Kinnitty in county Offaly

Exactly have them in your friends then when they ask you can always show them. But the amount of dick pics is overwhelming. And a lot of them are not even manskaped and i see that I immediately think of all the hair I will be spitting out and trying to get out from in between my teeth.

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By *hris 1000200Man
over a year ago

kells

"Exactly have them in your friends then when they ask you can always show them. But the amount of dick pics is overwhelming. And a lot of them are not even manskaped and i see that I immediately think of all the hair I will be spitting out and trying to get out from in between my teeth. "

Hahahaha,,can't beat a bit of manscaping

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

If I had my cock on my profile I’d never get any sex

I’m going with the “laugh them into bed” theory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I had my cock on my profile I’d never get any sex

I’m going with the “laugh them into bed” theory

As long as they dont laugh at you when you get them into bed!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly couldn't give a fuck what other people think of my profile and what I have and don't have visible.

I don't show dick pics because I find the dick pics I do take look terrible. But that's my own judgement and choice.

What people show on their profile is their own business. Sending them unsolicited in dms is a different story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never posted a picture of my dick on here and most likely never will. That is just how I set my stall out and doing so never felt right to me. My profile is made to represent me and who I am and I have not made it to please anybody else. If somebody likes or dislikes what they see or read then so be it. It is a personal decision for us all as to what we publish and why we do so. There is no right or wrong way. As said above, some people love a dick pic and others don't. Each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excellent answer ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A dick pic is like Christmas morning

With no wrapping on and no excitement

Knobs u lads…

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By *oriumTergoMan
over a year ago

City Centre

Was gonna say to not post dick pics and to only ever send them when asked.

.....but then remembered I do have a dick pic on my gallery

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I've been disappointed too many times to not see a dick pic before a meet!! I prefer them on a profile, not as a profile pic, or attached to the message. I'll go looking if your message is decent! A bad dick pic is worse than no pics at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just like some women are offended by dick pics on a profile,some men can be put off by a big fat hairy fanny or a brown stained arsehole,that is off putting to them.

To me,that comes across as a female who doesnt think of hygiene very much.

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