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"Who would you pick and why? Play nice, just some fun, friendly banter " She doesn't know that shes is the one yet. So in case she sees this post I had better not say. | |||
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"Who would you pick and why? Play nice, just some fun, friendly banter " There are two Hotties I would love to be on closer terms with. Both intelligent, witty, attractive and great style. One has me block well I'll way out of her league anyway, but no harm in trying. The other lady not interested in attached male, ie married. If they were to be my fuck buddies that would be brilliant  | |||
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"There’s a few on this thread but I won’t name them  "Yeah the 2 ladies on the thread won't have a clue | |||
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"There’s a few on this thread but I won’t name them
Yeah the 2 ladies on the thread won't have a clue " | |||
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"There’s a few on this thread but I won’t name them
Yeah the 2 ladies on the thread won't have a clue "I’m being subtle Bog  | |||
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"Who would you pick and why? Play nice, just some fun, friendly banter " Lady50020 Lives near me , but cant even message her ,, frustrating lol | |||
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"Who would you pick and why? Play nice, just some fun, friendly banter Lady50020 Lives near me , but cant even message her ,, frustrating lol" Lucky her | |||
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Keeping my powder dry tho... powder dry | |||
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"Ms lolly  "Im flattered x | |||
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"Who would you pick and why? Play nice, just some fun, friendly banter " I'd pick you. | |||
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Im flattered x "Christmas has cum early  | |||
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"Who would you pick and why? Play nice, just some fun, friendly banter " I’d pick you OP your just to damn delicious | |||
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"Ive my eye on two incredible people "....Lucky duckers....  | |||
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"I would love a fwb. Hard to find one who I have chemistry with and isn't too far away but not too close either. lol" Someone that's maybe 2 street away from you, perhaps | |||
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"I would love a fwb. Hard to find one who I have chemistry with and isn't too far away but not too close either. lol Someone that's maybe 2 street away from you, perhaps "No thank you. I was thinking maybe 20 or 30 miles lol | |||
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"I would love a fwb. Hard to find one who I have chemistry with and isn't too far away but not too close either. lol Someone that's maybe 2 street away from you, perhaps
No thank you. I was thinking maybe 20 or 30 miles lol "20 mile radius would be fine ,but how come it's just not that easy to find a willing lady ? | |||
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"I would love a fwb. Hard to find one who I have chemistry with and isn't too far away but not too close either. lol Someone that's maybe 2 street away from you, perhaps
No thank you. I was thinking maybe 20 or 30 miles lol "Think of the carbon footprint... we all need to do our bit now.... | |||
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"I must be one of the lucky ones. Bono will have to write a new song because I've found what I'm looking for "Yes, you are lucky to have found your perfect fwb.
I found my perfect FWB before, so maybe I will be as lucky again!
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"I must be one of the lucky ones. Bono will have to write a new song because I've found what I'm looking for "Me too someone is bound to suggest a kik group for people with FWB | |||
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"I must be one of the lucky ones. Bono will have to write a new song because I've found what I'm looking for
Me too someone is bound to suggest a kik group for people with FWB"They can suggest all they want. I won't be joining it | |||
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if so I’m available tonight lol | |||
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"Only interested in fwb so probably rule out a lot. Quality over quantity. There is a few whose witty repartee definitely appeal... " Ah thank you.... Witty meets pretty ...lol | |||
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"I’ve found one now I have to try keep him " Has he a brother for me lol ? | |||
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"We’ve always loved the idea of regular play mates, I think it would be great to have another likeminded couple or maybe a single that we get on with for semi regular fun. We’d love to know if many people have this set up "In theory, this is great. In reality, I get bored pretty quickly with people. Especially if they start to get clingy. | |||
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"I'd like two so can alternate them "Great minds... | |||
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"I'd like two so can alternate them "The more the merrier | |||
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"We’ve always loved the idea of regular play mates, I think it would be great to have another likeminded couple or maybe a single that we get on with for semi regular fun. We’d love to know if many people have this set up
In theory, this is great. In reality, I get bored pretty quickly with people. Especially if they start to get clingy."I think that’s exactly what the outcome would be, that’s why we never gave it a real go. In an ideal world though, maybe | |||
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"We’ve found each other and occasionally let others dip their toe into our naughty world .. " Good answer  | |||
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"I got to meet my fab hero on Wednesday bogman and he helped me on my first coffee meet .. he's such a gent and hottt "lucky bogman, I'd love to meet you sometime. | |||
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"I got to meet my fab hero on Wednesday bogman and he helped me on my first coffee meet .. he's such a gent and hottt "You didnt look as if you needed glasses in fairness  | |||
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"I might need to audition for one "I can vouch for you | |||
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"There are a few I'd choose hard to pick just one " For us we’d be delighted L | |||
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"I might need to audition for one
I can vouch for you " | |||
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"Ive my eye on two incredible people
....Lucky duckers.... "There's always room for one or two more | |||
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"Ive my eye on two incredible people
....Lucky duckers....
There's always room for one or two more "How many eyes have you got | |||
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"I suppose I really should start meeting again for more than the odd coffee to find a fwb! Lol "Or if you should need some help doing up those buttons Phoenix. | |||
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"I suppose I really should start meeting again for more than the odd coffee to find a fwb! Lol
Or if you should need some help doing up those buttons Phoenix."If only you were closer... | |||
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"It’s amazing when you find a good one but they are hard to come by. Also, I need someone who can make me laugh my knickers off…. " Couldn't agree more! | |||
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"I’m still taking applications I can’t appoint before all the interviews Submit your applications before the closing date "Lol... send your rejects to me | |||
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"I’m still taking applications I can’t appoint before all the interviews Submit your applications before the closing date
Lol... send your rejects to me "Rejects?!?
There may be more positions than applications | |||
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"I suppose I really should start meeting again for more than the odd coffee to find a fwb! Lol
Or if you should need some help doing up those buttons Phoenix.
If only you were closer..."I am. Not actually based in Dundalk. Much closer. | |||
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"Hard to find a localish, quality guy that can meet regularly " Is that so? | |||
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"I suppose I really should start meeting again for more than the odd coffee to find a fwb! Lol
Or if you should need some help doing up those buttons Phoenix.
If only you were closer..."I’m literally only few streets down (or so fab tells me.) Am I to young ? I’m extremely interested and a coffee would be lovely, obviously welcomed, potentially fun. N.B. Flattered that I am too young (a first.). If your not interested I was only jokeing everyone. Your really really hot btw Jay | |||
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"I suppose I really should start meeting again for more than the odd coffee to find a fwb! Lol
Or if you should need some help doing up those buttons Phoenix.
If only you were closer...
I’m literally only few streets down (or so fab tells me.)
Am I to young ? I’m extremely interested and a coffee would be lovely, obviously welcomed, potentially fun.
N.B. Flattered that I am too young (a first.).
If your not interested I was only jokeing everyone.
Your really really hot btw Jay "I'm 30 odd miles from Belfast. Sadly, you are too young for me to have fun with but very flattered by your comments
I should be in Belfast on Friday afternoon though if you want a coffee to get verified | |||
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"I suppose I really should start meeting again for more than the odd coffee to find a fwb! Lol
Or if you should need some help doing up those buttons Phoenix.
If only you were closer...
I’m literally only few streets down (or so fab tells me.)
Am I to young ? I’m extremely interested and a coffee would be lovely, obviously welcomed, potentially fun.
N.B. Flattered that I am too young (a first.).
If your not interested I was only jokeing everyone.
Your really really hot btw Jay
I'm 30 odd miles from Belfast.
Sadly, you are too young for me to have fun with but very flattered by your comments
I should be in Belfast on Friday afternoon though if you want a coffee to get verified "I'm also in Belfast this Friday | |||
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"We’ve always loved the idea of regular play mates, I think it would be great to have another likeminded couple or maybe a single that we get on with for semi regular fun. We’d love to know if many people have this set up
In theory, this is great. In reality, I get bored pretty quickly with people. Especially if they start to get clingy."i dont have site support and cannot contact ye.but i would be interested | |||
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"Its great to have a fwb, but theres the downside of possibly letting feelings get the better of you!!! You better be prepared fir that!! So be careful of what you wish for......!!" I had a fwb of nearly 3 !/2 years. First 3 years were amazing, last few months were a nightmare. Feelings can get involved so easily. | |||
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"Id have no hassle travelling to meet someone regularly if the connection was there "Why hello there. | |||
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"I had one but she lived 3 hours away. And I did all the travelling. " Wish I lived near ya lol .. yummy pics | |||
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"I had one but she lived 3 hours away. And I did all the travelling. Wish I lived near ya lol .. yummy pics "Why thank you . I have perved your sexy pics I must admit . I'm sure il be up the country again some time in the future
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"I don’t know. It seems so many guys don’t want one regular here. Quite hard to find, as I’m not into meeting loads of guys I just want one "Yep, I started a thread about it recently. People (of both sexes) seem to have so much choice these days that they are slow to commit to relationships and even to FWB arrangements. Maybe the potential for emotional attachment puts them off? | |||
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"I don’t know. It seems so many guys don’t want one regular here. Quite hard to find, as I’m not into meeting loads of guys I just want one
Yep, I started a thread about it recently. People (of both sexes) seem to have so much choice these days that they are slow to commit to relationships and even to FWB arrangements.
Maybe the potential for emotional attachment puts them off?"I think it's more of a jealous thing that people don't want to commit to just one person,they might be just happy to meet that one person but they expect the same which dosent suit the other, just look at the bios of one or two on here and you can see that, they just want your 100% attention and don't want you to chat or interact with anyone else only them... | |||
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"I don’t know. It seems so many guys don’t want one regular here. Quite hard to find, as I’m not into meeting loads of guys I just want one
Yep, I started a thread about it recently. People (of both sexes) seem to have so much choice these days that they are slow to commit to relationships and even to FWB arrangements.
Maybe the potential for emotional attachment puts them off?"Hey guys, great thread!! I suppose this is a swing site, I would say I am definitely polyamorous, trying to find the elusive fwb on here is next near to impossible as like has been pointed out the choice is too great and people are afraid of making emotional connections. But it doesnt mean it can't and hasn't happened. When people say regular, like how regular? does everything need a label? | |||
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"I don’t know. It seems so many guys don’t want one regular here. Quite hard to find, as I’m not into meeting loads of guys I just want one
Yep, I started a thread about it recently. People (of both sexes) seem to have so much choice these days that they are slow to commit to relationships and even to FWB arrangements.
Maybe the potential for emotional attachment puts them off?
I think it's more of a jealous thing that people don't want to commit to just one person,they might be just happy to meet that one person but they expect the same which dosent suit the other, just look at the bios of one or two on here and you can see that, they just want your 100% attention and don't want you to chat or interact with anyone else only them... "Yeah, that wouldn't be a healthy FWB situation at all, at all. The terms and conditions would need to be clarified before entering into such an arrangement | |||
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"I don’t know. It seems so many guys don’t want one regular here. Quite hard to find, as I’m not into meeting loads of guys I just want one
Yep, I started a thread about it recently. People (of both sexes) seem to have so much choice these days that they are slow to commit to relationships and even to FWB arrangements.
Maybe the potential for emotional attachment puts them off?
Hey guys, great thread!! I suppose this is a swing site, I would say I am definitely polyamorous, trying to find the elusive fwb on here is next near to impossible as like has been pointed out the choice is too great and people are afraid of making emotional connections. But it doesnt mean it can't and hasn't happened. When people say regular, like how regular? does everything need a label?"At least with relationships, the arrangement is more clear cut and the 'rules' more obvious. Definitely need lots of communication at the start of an FWB arrangement. It doesn't sound that attractive the more I think about it tbh. Mrs  | |||
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"I don’t know. It seems so many guys don’t want one regular here. Quite hard to find, as I’m not into meeting loads of guys I just want one
Yep, I started a thread about it recently. People (of both sexes) seem to have so much choice these days that they are slow to commit to relationships and even to FWB arrangements.
Maybe the potential for emotional attachment puts them off?
I think it's more of a jealous thing that people don't want to commit to just one person,they might be just happy to meet that one person but they expect the same which dosent suit the other, just look at the bios of one or two on here and you can see that, they just want your 100% attention and don't want you to chat or interact with anyone else only them... "I’d expect you to delete your account immediately if we entered a FWB relationship Lolly, sure tis only fair | |||
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"I don’t know. It seems so many guys don’t want one regular here. Quite hard to find, as I’m not into meeting loads of guys I just want one
Yep, I started a thread about it recently. People (of both sexes) seem to have so much choice these days that they are slow to commit to relationships and even to FWB arrangements.
Maybe the potential for emotional attachment puts them off?
Hey guys, great thread!! I suppose this is a swing site, I would say I am definitely polyamorous, trying to find the elusive fwb on here is next near to impossible as like has been pointed out the choice is too great and people are afraid of making emotional connections. But it doesnt mean it can't and hasn't happened. When people say regular, like how regular? does everything need a label?
At least with relationships, the arrangement is more clear cut and the 'rules' more obvious. Definitely need lots of communication at the start of an FWB arrangement.
It doesn't sound that attractive the more I think about it tbh. Mrs "Agreed relationships are much more black and white, whereas fwb arrangements can often have alot of grey areas unless discussed to death, then throw a swing site in the mix Plenty of healthy relationships with trusted people works best for me, keep the circle small x | |||
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"I don’t know. It seems so many guys don’t want one regular here. Quite hard to find, as I’m not into meeting loads of guys I just want one
Yep, I started a thread about it recently. People (of both sexes) seem to have so much choice these days that they are slow to commit to relationships and even to FWB arrangements.
Maybe the potential for emotional attachment puts them off?"When I first joined 6 years ago I had zero interest in a fwb or more specifically an exclusive fwb. I didn't want what I perceived as restrictions on my desire to explore. One woman proposed a one sided arrangement where I was exclusive to her while she continued to see all her other fbs and fwbs. The drama she created when I didn't agree drove me off the site for over a year. I'm lucky this time around to have found a fwb who is not only on the same page but on the same paragraph but that took patience and almost 3 years of knowing each other before we knew it would work. Not everyone has that level of patience and some take the suckitandsee approach without doing any of the groundwork beforehand. | |||
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"I don’t know. It seems so many guys don’t want one regular here. Quite hard to find, as I’m not into meeting loads of guys I just want one
Yep, I started a thread about it recently. People (of both sexes) seem to have so much choice these days that they are slow to commit to relationships and even to FWB arrangements.
Maybe the potential for emotional attachment puts them off?
When I first joined 6 years ago I had zero interest in a fwb or more specifically an exclusive fwb.
I didn't want what I perceived as restrictions on my desire to explore.
One woman proposed a one sided arrangement where I was exclusive to her while she continued to see all her other fbs and fwbs.
The drama she created when I didn't agree drove me off the site for over a year.
I'm lucky this time around to have found a fwb who is not only on the same page but on the same paragraph but that took patience and almost 3 years of knowing each other before we knew it would work.
Not everyone has that level of patience and some take the suckitandsee approach without doing any of the groundwork beforehand."Delighted to hear a success story from here, and may it continue into the future for ye both | |||
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"I don’t know. It seems so many guys don’t want one regular here. Quite hard to find, as I’m not into meeting loads of guys I just want one
Yep, I started a thread about it recently. People (of both sexes) seem to have so much choice these days that they are slow to commit to relationships and even to FWB arrangements.
Maybe the potential for emotional attachment puts them off?
When I first joined 6 years ago I had zero interest in a fwb or more specifically an exclusive fwb.
I didn't want what I perceived as restrictions on my desire to explore.
One woman proposed a one sided arrangement where I was exclusive to her while she continued to see all her other fbs and fwbs.
The drama she created when I didn't agree drove me off the site for over a year.
I'm lucky this time around to have found a fwb who is not only on the same page but on the same paragraph but that took patience and almost 3 years of knowing each other before we knew it would work.
Not everyone has that level of patience and some take the suckitandsee approach without doing any of the groundwork beforehand."And this is exactly why I state exactly what I’m Looking for when I start to meet someone. No beating around the bush. Yes I do like my potential FWB to be about me as I would be with them. Each to their own. They don’t like it then that’s fine, I wave goodbye. | |||
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"I don’t know. It seems so many guys don’t want one regular here. Quite hard to find, as I’m not into meeting loads of guys I just want one
Yep, I started a thread about it recently. People (of both sexes) seem to have so much choice these days that they are slow to commit to relationships and even to FWB arrangements.
Maybe the potential for emotional attachment puts them off?
When I first joined 6 years ago I had zero interest in a fwb or more specifically an exclusive fwb.
I didn't want what I perceived as restrictions on my desire to explore.
One woman proposed a one sided arrangement where I was exclusive to her while she continued to see all her other fbs and fwbs.
The drama she created when I didn't agree drove me off the site for over a year.
I'm lucky this time around to have found a fwb who is not only on the same page but on the same paragraph but that took patience and almost 3 years of knowing each other before we knew it would work.
Not everyone has that level of patience and some take the suckitandsee approach without doing any of the groundwork beforehand.
And this is exactly why I state exactly what I’m
Looking for when I start to meet someone. No beating around the bush. Yes I do like my potential FWB to be about me as I would be with them. Each to their own. They don’t like it then that’s fine, I wave goodbye."Little bit confused about what your saying ?? Are you saying most guys only want what they can get out of you for themselves and not concentrate or consider your needs? | |||
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"I don’t know. It seems so many guys don’t want one regular here. Quite hard to find, as I’m not into meeting loads of guys I just want one
Yep, I started a thread about it recently. People (of both sexes) seem to have so much choice these days that they are slow to commit to relationships and even to FWB arrangements.
Maybe the potential for emotional attachment puts them off?
When I first joined 6 years ago I had zero interest in a fwb or more specifically an exclusive fwb.
I didn't want what I perceived as restrictions on my desire to explore.
One woman proposed a one sided arrangement where I was exclusive to her while she continued to see all her other fbs and fwbs.
The drama she created when I didn't agree drove me off the site for over a year.
I'm lucky this time around to have found a fwb who is not only on the same page but on the same paragraph but that took patience and almost 3 years of knowing each other before we knew it would work.
Not everyone has that level of patience and some take the suckitandsee approach without doing any of the groundwork beforehand.
And this is exactly why I state exactly what I’m
Looking for when I start to meet someone. No beating around the bush. Yes I do like my potential FWB to be about me as I would be with them. Each to their own. They don’t like it then that’s fine, I wave goodbye.
Little bit confused about what your saying ??
Are you saying most guys only want what they can get out of you for themselves and not concentrate or consider your needs?"I’m sorry, I’m so bad at trying to explain my point online lol. From my own personal Experience, most guys agree and state they are looking for what I am after a lot of time and effort back and fourth just to get what they want so to speak. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t expect my potential FWB to close everyone else off because of me but respect and honesty go along way. I’m fully aware this is a swing site but don’t tell me one thing and do the other I suppose. The guidelines certainly need to be laid out at the start and that’s what I always speak about first. Like I said If it’s not for them then I’ll say goodbye. | |||
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"I don’t know. It seems so many guys don’t want one regular here. Quite hard to find, as I’m not into meeting loads of guys I just want one
Yep, I started a thread about it recently. People (of both sexes) seem to have so much choice these days that they are slow to commit to relationships and even to FWB arrangements.
Maybe the potential for emotional attachment puts them off?
When I first joined 6 years ago I had zero interest in a fwb or more specifically an exclusive fwb.
I didn't want what I perceived as restrictions on my desire to explore.
One woman proposed a one sided arrangement where I was exclusive to her while she continued to see all her other fbs and fwbs.
The drama she created when I didn't agree drove me off the site for over a year.
I'm lucky this time around to have found a fwb who is not only on the same page but on the same paragraph but that took patience and almost 3 years of knowing each other before we knew it would work.
Not everyone has that level of patience and some take the suckitandsee approach without doing any of the groundwork beforehand.
And this is exactly why I state exactly what I’m
Looking for when I start to meet someone. No beating around the bush. Yes I do like my potential FWB to be about me as I would be with them. Each to their own. They don’t like it then that’s fine, I wave goodbye.
Little bit confused about what your saying ??
Are you saying most guys only want what they can get out of you for themselves and not concentrate or consider your needs?
I’m sorry, I’m so bad at trying to explain my point online lol. From my own personal
Experience, most guys agree and state they are looking for what I am after a lot of time and effort back and fourth just to get what they want so to speak. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t expect my potential FWB to close everyone else off because of me but respect and honesty go along way. I’m fully aware this is a swing site but don’t tell me one thing and do the other I suppose. The guidelines certainly need to be laid out at the start and that’s what I always speak about first. Like I said If it’s not for them then I’ll say goodbye. "So a bit of negotiations with both parties ?? Give and take ?? Nearly sounds like a marriage contract in a sense | |||
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"I don’t know. It seems so many guys don’t want one regular here. Quite hard to find, as I’m not into meeting loads of guys I just want one
Yep, I started a thread about it recently. People (of both sexes) seem to have so much choice these days that they are slow to commit to relationships and even to FWB arrangements.
Maybe the potential for emotional attachment puts them off?
When I first joined 6 years ago I had zero interest in a fwb or more specifically an exclusive fwb.
I didn't want what I perceived as restrictions on my desire to explore.
One woman proposed a one sided arrangement where I was exclusive to her while she continued to see all her other fbs and fwbs.
The drama she created when I didn't agree drove me off the site for over a year.
I'm lucky this time around to have found a fwb who is not only on the same page but on the same paragraph but that took patience and almost 3 years of knowing each other before we knew it would work.
Not everyone has that level of patience and some take the suckitandsee approach without doing any of the groundwork beforehand.
And this is exactly why I state exactly what I’m
Looking for when I start to meet someone. No beating around the bush. Yes I do like my potential FWB to be about me as I would be with them. Each to their own. They don’t like it then that’s fine, I wave goodbye.
Little bit confused about what your saying ??
Are you saying most guys only want what they can get out of you for themselves and not concentrate or consider your needs?
I’m sorry, I’m so bad at trying to explain my point online lol. From my own personal
Experience, most guys agree and state they are looking for what I am after a lot of time and effort back and fourth just to get what they want so to speak. Don’t get me wrong, I don’t expect my potential FWB to close everyone else off because of me but respect and honesty go along way. I’m fully aware this is a swing site but don’t tell me one thing and do the other I suppose. The guidelines certainly need to be laid out at the start and that’s what I always speak about first. Like I said If it’s not for them then I’ll say goodbye.
So a bit of negotiations with both parties ??
Give and take ??
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